The e-mails just didn’t stop today, we had several people write us and ask to be invited to our next event which is really cool.

But 3 e-mails stood out above all the rest. Here are some excerpts and my thoughts after reading them.

Hey you two, it was great meeting you both Sat night. We had a blast dancing and flirting and will defiantly be coming to your next party. Even though you weren’t the hosts for last Sat, you played the hosts much better than the “real” hosts did, we watched you all night, man you two can work a room. I don’t think that there was one couple or single that you didn’t talk to. We have been to several events with this group and have found it to be somewhat clicky at times, and you two are now the “CLICK BUSTERS”!! Thanks again for making this one of the best parties we have ever been too. See you in May!

Talk about and ego boost, after reading this I was sky high (as if my ego needs any boosting). This is just the way we are, we like to meet new people and if we have to “break” into a group to meet them we will. Both of us hate to see “clicks” form at any type of event and swingers events can be the worst. It’s up to the hosts to keep clicks from forming or at least to make sure that everyone is having fun.

K&L, sorry that we haven’t written sooner but life has been real busy. We just had to say thanks for making our first event one that will make us smile for ages to come. We try and make the next one. We just have to line up a overnight sitter, and Go shopping for new clothes…..lol

Once again this is the kind of thing that makes us want to throw parties.

Hey guys, We just wanted to let you k now that we were somewhat offended at your last event. It seemed to us that you ignored some of us, in favor of the new people. We have been to many of your parties as you know and from our view point you two are fresh meat hunters! Please in the future Let some of the other people there have a chance to get to know the new people too!!

OK this one really irks me!! Here is my response

Hey thanks for pointing out that we were doing our jobs as hosts. It may seem that we spend more time talking to new people than to those that we already know, because we do spend more time with them. As new people we know that they may be somewhat uncomfortable, they do not know anyone or very few. We “ARE” their contact, we are the ones that they feel most comfortable talking to. In most cases, they come to us and start chatting. If you want to be more involved with the newer couples I can suggest that you start posting to the boards that we list the parties on, and please join in chat and help welcome the new people, get to know them a little like we do.

K&L