In a battle of nerves vs nerves, we had our first play date with a couple that we only knew from SLS. We're only about six weeks into swinging, have visited on-premise clubs and swapped with some friends of ours... but this was new territory.

If you followed the Three Dates in Four Nights entries, this would be Couple #1. They had flown out of town the day after we had our meet & greet. Mrs. and I were definitely hot for them. The ladies shared text messages while the couple was away, so we knew the feeling was mutual. When they arrived back home on Saturday, they were only home 20 minutes when they decided to call us to see what we were doing that night. I was bummed because we had NO plans... but know here we were.

We picked them up at 9:30 and heading to the club... a bit further away than I'd realized. It turned out we were not very impressed with the place, but we were out to have a good time regardless. After the tour of the place was complete we made our way into the hot tub.

While Mrs and our male friend were getting along nicely, achieving that same level of comfort between I and the female was more trying. I went subtle, just stroking her leg and knee under the water. It was 15 minutes later that I finally got any feedback from her when she grabbed my hand rubbed her leg harder with it. Finally she stopped and just squeezed my hand. It was a small step, but a step indeed. I'm not the pushy type and perhaps I needed to be a bit more aggressive here since they DID call us up (which indicated they are willing), but that's not usually me.

I spoke to the male after we go out of the hot tub and he said to me "Man, I wish she would relax and warm up a bit." I told him that she was just starting to but it would take some work obviously. He acknowledged that this is usually the way things go with her. That bit of info was very helpful.

We walked around some more, had a couple drinks and finally Mrs. suggested we get a private room. Our friends both said yes, but I could tell she still wasn't quite there. But we got a room and I had to step out for a second before we got started. When I came back she was already naked (to my wife's protests "He really likes to unwrap his presents"). My immediate thought was she was too nervous go to through with the undressing ritual. At this point I'm getting nervous myself as I am envisioning a train wreck.

Mrs and the male were getting into things nicely when I kissed the female. She was still pretty rigid. She undressed me (always wear a button-down when playing... it's just too sexy not to). I started to kiss her breasts which she did respond to. I stood up again and she started to play with my cock (not touching my balls at all). That didn't arouse me a bit.

So I took a deep breath, kissed her on the neck and whispered, "Try to relax. If it doesn't feel right let me know. If you want me to stop altogether, just say so."

I laid her down on the mattress kissing and caressing her until she finally relented and gave access to her private area. I went with very slow and deliberate oral. After some time she started to respond favorably.

Later I found out that she has trouble reaching cumming unless it's her husband (or she's doing herself). Apparently the relaxation bit helped, as she clearly climaxed with me. Now THAT'S a good time.