Had a first last weekend. We went to a hotel takeover. Had fun dancing and mingling, but wasn't able to find a couple where the interest was mutual. We eventually retired to our room and had great sex, dozed off and woke up to some more. We both had a great time.

While getting ready for this party we'd found a couple on Swing Lifestyle that we were trying to negotiate some time with. We finally came up with a Wednesday of all days, breaking our self-imposed rule that we only play on Saturdays (Sunday is the only morning we can sleep in together).

Mrs. DontStop and the female host had been swapping texts and phone calls for a couple days before Wednesday was upon us. It seems to work best to work together on which couples to contact, and once done leave it up to the ladies to decide when and where. It didn't take long for me to figure out that the women drive the LS, and us guys are along for the ride.

We'd met three couples one-on-one thru Swing Lifestyle and had playtime with two of them. Tonight was a bit different because we were meeting at their house, and it was pretty clear that they would be willing to play. The ladies were comfortable and it is a weeknight, so if we're gonna play we'll have to decide pretty early on if chemistry is there... and it generally doesn't take long to do that.

What can I say? I'm an IT guy, and she's an IT chick. Instant win. We decided we were both geeky with a side of freaky. She's quite attractive, more so than her profile picture would suggest. As for the other two... well, it turns out they are the same age and actually knew each other from middle and high school.

If we had hit it off any quicker we would have had to show up naked.

They both proved to be skilled at pleasuring their mates, and they seemed satisfied with our efforts as well. The text from them this morning: "Let's do it again!"

This weekend: A house party. Our friends from last night are planning their own party next month and we are invited.

Slowly but surely, we're making our way in this lifestyle. Just when we think we've found "fun", we find there is so much more to enjoy.

If nothing else, I started the night with an erection but could not maintain it. It's an improvement and I'll take it. And I wasn't the only guy in the place with the same issue. The bottom line is we had a LOT OF FUN. And that's what it's all about.