Hey everybody - this is my first try with the blogging stuff so excuse me if I don't follow any unspoken conventions.

I felt like jotting down my notes from last night's visit to Club Temptations in Dayton. Although I am not an avid club hopper, I love the pool area of this club and moreover I had plans to visit some friends there for the first time. Don't know what happened to them but I never caught up with them. However, I had quite a relaxing time at the big heated jacuzzi.

I noticed a few interesting things though. The last time I had been to the club I had a playmate along so essentially I was a couple - we received quite a warm welcome. This time around I was a swinging single and if it wasn't for the hot water, I would have frozen in there. Even some of my old friends out there were not quite interested in idle conversations. It pinched me a little but I still had quite a relaxing time. It wasn't exactly a surprise but it was interesting to see how the lack of a female partner affects socializing in the club. So to kill the boredom I tried to chat up some of the other single guys. For starters, only one other guys was completely sober ..lol... but hey it's a Saturday night. But even that did not work out. So all in all it was an okay night.

So the lesson I learned - if you are a single male ... only go to clubs when you have definite plans to meet other people or you know for sure that your friends will be there.