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He's jealous, she's not. I'm confused.

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dumbasarock10

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I'll try to express this as simply as possible. I was at one of my usual dives by myself. I'd started seeing a couple there that I'd gotten from them what I like to call "The Vibe". You can just kinda tell those who play and those who don't. I don't know how else to explain it. Well, turns out the Vibe was right. But nothing happened that night. After seeing them regularly at the bar over the next 2 weeks, I see them with a 3rd, and introductions are made. Max is married to Kandy and their new friend is Katy. Well, after some more conversation, we make our way out to the "Conversation area" with a bucket of beers. Then Max and Katy start getting flirtations and pay little to no attention to Kandy and myself. So we begin paying attention to one another. At some point, Katy and Max are at the far end of the room already having sex. Not much explaining or talking has gone into this so I just go with it and Kandy and I are already having sex. Katy and Max finish, start back for the bar, and when he see's Kandy and myself, he stops, scowl's, and huffs off. Kandy gets up to follow him. Even Katy is confused. Later, at the bar, Kandy explains that he just got jealous. He wouldn't look at me or talk to me, even after I attempted to calm the waters by sending him a drink. I since have not spoken with them. Although Katy, their new friend, took my number, I've decided to keep myself away from the whole situation. Max may get jealous over the friend as well. *scratches head*.....:wtf:

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I feel I need to clarify something; this "dive" isn't exactly a swinger's dive. It's a night club at the resort I attend. And it is frequented by people in the lifestyle, but it's not FOR the lifestyle. Maybe I assumed too much. But when husband has a girlfriend and starts fucking her, I think that's a good indicator of the intentions...

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This just in, some men want to fuck other women but want to keep their gf/wives from having sex with other men, news at 11.

 

Nothing surprising here at all really.

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It sucks that this happened, but here's where I saw some red flags:

 

1) It was not specifically a lifestyle venue (not that it would necessarily have prevented the drama, but reduced the likelihood).

 

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Not much explaining or talking has gone into this
Without knowing the dynamics or "rules" Max, Kandy, and Katy have, you set yourself up for potential drama.

 

3) Max paid little or no attention to his wife or to you. If he was factoring in your participation at all, he would have.

 

Just my $0.02. I do agree that steering clear of those three is a good idea.

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