We've often played when one of the ladies is in the middle of her period. This can be fun as well. She does what she is comfortable with, and knows the favor will be returned down the road.

Is this not an option for the four of you?

Welcome to the blogsphere.

I guess its not an option for us.. but that is ok... it wasnt our decision... it was theirs... but if she was anything like I was when I had mine... I didnt even want to think about sex...

Fair point. Like everything else, the libido during this time can vary from woman to woman.

As for the second couple. How long has it been since you last communicated with them? At this point, I wouldn't read too much into their lack of response. Sometimes people get busy. Others just don't get online as much, and many couples prefer that both read the message before replying.

Good luck in the next day or so. Maybe something fun will end up happening!

Thanks for the comments... I did finally get a response from the second couple and have a third couple too... busy lives.. I understand... me being an at home mom sometimes forget... o well... with it being fathers day this weekend I am thinking nothing is going to happen this weekend... but that is ok... cause there is a carnival happening and I think that is what we are going to do with our kids...

Welcome to the blog side of the board! Sorry things didn't work out for you. Trying to time things around our cycles is one of the more challenging aspects. I'm not always comfy doing it myself, depending on how well I know the other couple.

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