So a bit disappointed... nothing happened... just talking... was hoping... but nothing... so is it us... are we too young for them... hubby is really attracted to her... I mean we didnt put any moves on them... maybe they are a bit shy... and so are we... we usually dont make the first move... we didnt feel uncomfortable with them... just the opportunity never arrose... hmmm... well this is where communication comes in... we are gonna have to talk with them and find out why nothing happened... If they like to take things slow... if they are not attracted to us... if they... something... just so we know... I mean we like them... and we wouldnt mind them just being friends but we want benifits too... o well... maybe next time...

Even been to a party where no one dances?

Sounds like everyone was waiting for someone else to be the first on the dance floor. If we met a couple and an invitation was extended and subsequently accepted (especially if it was to their home), we'd definitely would have brought along our party bag and been ready to get naked.

When everyone is nervous, a woman can easily break the ice by putting her arms around the other gentleman and getting cozy. Mrs. DontStop has done this a number of times to get the ball rolling. She is more forward than I am, and while she gives me the opportunity to initiate with the other woman, if she senses I've stalled out she will start things herself, with the male or perhaps the female.

Once things get hot and heavy it won't matter who started, just as long at it got started. Take a deep breath, decide that you want to have a good time, and take a step to make it happen. You already had the invite-- every else will follow.

Thank you for the comment Dont Stop... I appreciate your words... I do feel that everyone was waiting for someone else to start... I am shy in those regards... I did feel comfortable but maybe not "that" comfortable... I dont know... I have never been so confused about a couple before... Deep Breath time... Time to make a move... need to communicate my thoughts to them... and see what happens...

That is often what happens to us. We miss opportunities because everyone is waiting for someone else to make the first move. If you haven't already, send 'em a quick note to let 'em know you had a great time and hope to see them again. If they reply in a positive manner, you have at least a partial answer.

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I have talked to them since... and felt like they had a good time... havent heard from them since.... but we have been busy... We will get a hold of them this week and hopefully get together with them again... We did like them... just hope they liked us...