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Wrong Couple

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kellyandtopher

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So.. we have known this couple for like 4 months or so have gotten together with them 4 times.. everytime has been amazing for me... on the other hand not so much for hubby... the first time we met up he couldnt get an erection... the second and third time they focused most of thier attention toward me... left him out... I mean he did get to have some fun but not much... the 4th meeting we didnt even get to play... I have to say that the sex was incrediable... just the way I like it... but hubby wasnt happy... The way we had sex together was more orgy type... this was great for me... since I was center of attention... but hubby likes more of the full swap swinger type... taking another woman full on...

 

ok so we set up a "date" for this Saturday night and I get a text asking if we would like to have another guy visit... This to my hubby was a slap in the face... he already was feeling like he was out of the loop with this couple and now they wanted to bring in another guy... this didnt go over very well... so I told them this... she didnt understand... I tried to get her to understand that hubby wanted "her" all to himself... a bit selfish... she still didnt understand...

 

Now you have to understand this couple is a Dom/Sub relationship... She is very submissive... and he basically owns her... he directs and she does... hubby isnt use to this type of relationship... but was interested in the beginning... even tried a bit ourselves in it... but just couldnt get to thier level... didnt want to be at thier level...

 

So hubby and I talked about it and came up with a conclusion... this is the wrong couple for us... damn... we are not socially compatable... sexually for me we are great... but sexually for him it just didnt work... so this morning he texted them and said... "our sexual goals are just not the same.. and we feel that this is just not gonna work.. we are going to venture off and find others that will work for us"... thier response was "sounds good... good luck on your search"...

 

Just not the right couple for us... this was a bit disappointing for me... I really liked them both... the female was so sexy and the male would make me feel sexy... Im going to miss them...

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You did the right thing. Better to let one go than expect your spouse to continue to take one for the team. It would just create resentment, and probably drive him (and consequently you) away from swinging.

 

There may be a couple down the road where the exact opposite takes place; he has the time of his life, you, not so much. Your willingness to move on this time will pay off if that does happen.

 

I'm also glad for both of you that the other couple was gracious in their response.

 

Best of luck the next time around!

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It sucks when that happens, and believe me, we've been there. Finding a four-way attraction isn't easy, but it is SO worth it when you do find it. And you will. Just hang in there, be patient, and remember that this is a team sport.

 

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