Reading another blog I had an inspiration!

How and when do you make that first move? Sometimes it can be real difficult to decide when and how to make it known that you want to get things moving towards the naked fun.

A lot depends on where you are and what has transpired already.

Say you are out on a "date" with a couple or single, everyone seems to be clicking and you know that you are ready to take it to the next level. Now is when preplanning comes in, (assuming that you are not tied into not playing by a first date rule) do you know of a hotel that is sure to have rooms, or are you willing to invite them back to your home. I have the numbers of several area hotels in my phone so I can make a quick call to make sure that rooms are available, I will make the calls to find a room before we ask if they want to go play. There are also times when we already have a room. Sometimes the Mrs. and I will get a room for the night just to get away from the kids.

So now how do you ask if they want to go play?

For us it's usually the Mrs. that broaches the question. She will ask something like, "Hey, we are really having fun with you, would you like to go to a more private place?" This leaves it up to your potential play mate(s). to decide if they are ready to take it up a notch or not, no pressure!

There have been many times that we didn't ask the question and the night just went on and we didn't get to play because it got to late. So now we open ourselves up to rejection but at least we know that we made the effort.