...that you are probably a size queen and have been in denial for years about it...

I tend to joke with folks that not everything is bigger in Texas...some people obviously didn't get that memo. Partially I think it was my general luck of finding partners when I lived in Ohio that were at least average sized (5-6 inches) and more than a few that tipped over the 8 inch mark. Who knew there were either so many decent sized guys there or maybe I had a better radar for it back then?

I guess some of the frustration here has been that I haven't particularly cared for the guys that do not have much girth, length, or stamina. Perhaps it has been the lack of enjoyment in other areas of their performance (like the ones that say they love oral and then treat it like a tootsie pop...3 licks and they think you should be screaming Os) and perhaps I would be less critical of the size thing? I don't know for sure as I have yet to meet a partner (besides my guy) that rocks my socks off.

At times I wonder if the guys have the mentality that b/c I'm a big girl that I should be happy/thankful with whatever comes my way...but those are in my more maudlin moments and when my guy is across the playroom banging some chick in the mattress and she's screaming the walls down.

Now the frustration comes in actively looking for single males that might meet the criteria...but between SLS and SZC there is a surprising dearth of potential candidates to choose from...once I filtered by 'show profiles with pictures'...it chopped my choices way down. *sigh

Anyway...hopefully someone gets a laugh out of this posting