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Puppy Dog

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kellyandtopher

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So I have had this male emailing me from Swing Lifestyle... he is young... almost 10 yrs younger than me... which I dont mind... but he is in his 20's and I feel not very mature... not that all 20 yr old are not mature... but he seems very immature... well his first few emails were a few months ago and it was just him... we informed him we were not interested in a single male at that time... then he said he had a girlfriend... well we still informed him that we were not really interested cause we wanted a couple that was more secure in their relationship... he still didnt get it... he still emails me... and that is why I titled this puppy dog...

 

So now he emailed me again stating that someone in a town near me there was going to be a party put on by someone from Swing Lifestyle... so I asked who was putting on the party maybe we know them... sure enough they are friends of ours... we contacted them and they informed us that this male was a "manipulitive weasel"... that he mass emailed everyone in our towns stating that there was a party at their house... when there wasnt going to be... he has been thrown out of their house... and that I shouldnt even talk to him... :eek:OMG... so I havent emailed this kid back... I do have a letter ready for when he emails me... and it goes something like this...

 

Ok so I am only allowed to send 5 emails a day on this website... so that is why I havent responded to you... I contacted Interested2Meet... they are not having a party this weekend... they are actually friends of ours and they informed me that you mass emailed everyone on here and informed them that they were having a party... this was not true... He also informed me that you were thrown out of his house the last time you went over there... I will not be manipulated... We were close to allowing you into our life but with what he had to say we are now cautious... we dont like drama...

 

You know I am in my early 30's and some would say that I am still a kid... but I would never do this to someone... I am glad that I got ahold of our friends and found out about this kid before we let him in our lives... I do not need drama... I do not need a puppy dog... and I feel really sorry for people that have responded to him and fallen for his manipultive weasleness...

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I'd skip the reply, and just go ahead and use the Block function.

Here's hoping you have better success the next time around. :)

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Puppies are cute and cuddly. This guy doesn't sound like that at all. Don't get sucked into his drama by giving this weasel the courtesy of a reply. He doesn't deserve it. If he does email you, BLOCK him.

 

Best of luck to ya'll,

 

=)

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Well thank goodness I havent heard from him... I will take your advise... I will ignore him... I dont need or want the drama...

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If you tell someone you're not interested and they continue, block immediately and move on. The golden rule of The Lifestyle is "No means no". I've had to block two people for this, and I suspect they are single males hiding behind couples profiles. The LS is such a fun place, no need stressing or expending negative energy in it.

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I concur with the unanimous votes above. Block. A response just extends the relationship, and gives him a reason to keep e-mailing. Move on to the next, more honest 20 year old. : )

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So I didnt block him but I have been ignoring him... So he took his profile off of the site and I received a new email from a new couple... so I looked at the email... and then looked at the profile... and omg it was him with another girl... Im just so frustrated with this guy... I will keep ignoring him and hopefully he will just go away... I want to see if there is a way I can red flag him or something... so that others dont get trapped by him...

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