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To cum or not to cum

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Dont.Stop

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Visited Eyz Wide Shut in Tampa recently (sidebar: If you're ever in the area, go there). Took up a room with a partner I've been with before. She's definitely a lot of fun, which is why I was with her again.

 

But boy, is she a lot of work. Before we first got together months ago she warned me. "I'll only cum once. And it's hard to make me cum." And while she certainly enjoys play, it's a long, long way to the peak.

 

So while we played that night, she simply wore me out physically. I'm probably TOO goal oriented here, but yes, she finally did orgasm.

 

Wearing a condom like I always do, I did not climax. (sidebar #2: Just like anyone else I don't like them, but hell I sure do last longer with one one) But at this point I was physically worn out. We took a break and talked a bit. She told me her husband often will choose NOT to climax so that he can play with many women in the same night.

 

That had me thinking maybe I should just stop here and dance with another partner.

 

We went ahead and finished up. About an hour later Mrs and I took a room and finished up the night together. And yeah, I was able to cum again. That's not unusual actually. But my partner's story has been lingering in my mind.

 

To cum or not to cum? Hmmm....

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One playmate of mine will typically try to not have the guy come if it's early in the evening at a party. She likes to leave him (or me) better functioning for the rest of the evening. We typically play later so I try to make it all the way :)

 

Regarding condoms, I have been having issues coming with them as well, not all of the time though.

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My wife and I are sometimes disappointed by guys that don't cum in a timely manner. For some guys, (present company excluded,) the effort required to hold back creates a resistance to the entire experience. It becomes more about control than mutual fun. Sometimes the timing can be awkward, but that's what tongues are for.

 

As for women not cumming-- if it's okay with her, I don't have a problem with it, as long as she's enjoying herself.

 

Can I just say, I love this message board? I feel like everyone is so real. Thanks for contributing!

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It's not that I DON'T want to cum with the condom on... it just doesn't happen. My preference would be on her breasts on in her mouth than in the bag. For the one couple we play bare with, I certainly like to cum inside.

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That is a good question, and I suppose the answer is that as long as everyone is having a good time, it's all good.

 

That said, I'm rather goal oriented myself, and prefer to get the guy to cum. I've not encountered anyone that deliberately held off in order to keep playing (with others).

 

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