For the first time this past weekend, we were in a situation where Mrs was off playing with someone and I wasn't.

I only realized this the day after. Fortunately I wasn't overly concerned (or even a bit concerned) about what was going on.

We'd hoped he and his wife would just us for a foursome. His wife went off with someone else leaving the three of us standing around. I was holding the key to the locker hoping our "party bag". We headed off to get the bag and I said to Mrs "Are you okay being alone with him?" She said yeah, so off they went.

I didn't think about it for another second. Mrs. granted me a hall pass months ago and I spent the night with a friend. She told me she never thought about what was going on either.

I thought I'd struggle with this, at least the first time. But I didn't. I had other friends to talk to and keep my mind occupied. And when Mrs came back, I almost blurted out "That was quick!" Her friend had performance issues. That wouldn't have been very nice to say.