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Other Couple Geniality
Any "seasoned" swinger will tell you that they come across these types of scenerios:
-An attractive couple isn't so attractive after speaking with them.
-A couple who you are on the fence about becomes more attractive after talking with them.
-A couple you aren't at all attracted to but you have great conversation with still remains in the we-can't-swap-with camp because you just have no attraction with them at all.
We know how it feels to play with a couple that we aren't attracted to but had engaging conversation with and we just can't do it again. Call it learning from past mistakes. But I still feel guilty when we have to decline their offer...they were really nice and friendly and perhaps that's why I feel like such a huge jerk. It's just that intangible chemistry/attraction/whatever-you-call-it that can't be explained or figured out. My hope is that these couples do not take our rebuff to heart.
In contrast, we've met attractive couples but it was tortuous having a conversation with them. They didn't seem very interested in conversing with us so there were long pauses before we had to think of something else to try to talk to them about. We don't possess the gift of a silver tongue or being particularly chatty so perhaps we have some part in this problem. However, we have also met couples where the conversation flows smoothly and freely without any trouble or thought, either due to their natural ability to be articulate or their way of making us feel at ease. Is this part of that chemistry factor or an indicator of the type of personality these couples are that bring others to ease? All I know is that we really prefer the type that we can easily talk to and who want to talk to us!
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