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No, they don't. For a fascinating history, Rachel Maines published a scholarly work on vibrators 25 years ago. https://www.press.jhu.edu/books/title/2867/technology-orgasm
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I'd let lead in that situation. We could slow down, he could pull out, or he could cum in her and I'd keep on fucking until I did or we switched positions again. I guess I am more go with the flow at the moment than putting this much thought into it.
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My wife and I don't meet people from the swingers sites, as we are what I call "opportunistic swingers", these days. But my ex-wife and I were very active on one site that started in our state back in the early 2000's. I would usually do all the messaging only because she wasn't interested checking the site everyday and doing that part of it. But, we would read and craft responses together. I found that most of the couples we played with were similar in their arrangement of who checks the site for messages and upcoming parties or makes the initial contact with someone we were interested in.
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WesternSwing replied to cplnluv1's topic in Swingers and Sex Positivity in the News
Great choices, and we own two Magic Wands (an original Hitachi and the new Original Magic Wand company) and my wife has loved those for years as she gets stimulated and wants to fuck and fuck and fuck until I hit her "off switch" by making her clit to sensitive to touch. That's good for about15 minutes or so, just long enough to get out of bed and get about our day. 🤣 However, in the past two years her favorites have become the Satisfyer Pro and Lelo Sona 2 clitoral vibrators. Those are two she asks for me to use on her. Combine that with the Magic Wand in her pussy against her upper G-spot and you can see her soul leave her body as she cums. It looks like the Dame Aer on their list is similar to the Satisfyer Pro and Lelo Sona 2, also. -
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lcmim replied to cplnluv1's topic in Swingers and Sex Positivity in the News
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On my Facebook feed . A NY Times article
lcmim replied to cplnluv1's topic in Swingers and Sex Positivity in the News
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Good question. I would say that I'm a solid 2 on the Kinsey Scale: I like sex with (some) men, but I have no interest in having a relationship with a man and I'm not going to go out of my way to have sex with a man, whereas a 3 on the scale would be both sexually and romantically attracted to someone of the same sex and would pursue both equally. We could get into the finer nuances of the bisexuality scale that dives deeper into the range of 2 to 4 on the Kinsey Scale, but that's another thread. I am not physically attracted to men in general, but I do like cock. I don't seek to meet up with men on dating or swingers sites. I don't look at their pics and think: "Wow, I want to fuck him." like a gay man does or someone who is more bi than I. I've had bi friends invite me to have threesomes with them and one of their playmates and it just doesn't appeal to me. I have played solo with bi friends and if the opportunity presents itself with someone I click with, well then I might go there. I like having MFM threesomes with my wife or another woman and a man who considers themselves bisexual or bi-curious because I like the atmosphere of whatever feels good is okay and I don't want to freak anyone out. All that said, I don't consider myself "bi" so much as just "sexual", and maybe that's where the bisexuality scale comes into play. So there you have it. You can identify however you want to identify. You may just be a straight dude who has a girlfriend with a cock.
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We can only agree. Three from our collection, including the long out of production double header HVT-350; the cordless full size, and the cordless mini.
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We echo this pattern. As the extrovert in the couple, I am the one online/corresponding/filtering etc. I'm the one that arranges the first meet or two. Ultimately, the ladies have to decide whether they like and trust each other: it is a 'true truism' that ladies run the LS. Once they decide that time spent with each other is enjoyable/fun/well-spent, I tend to back off and let them run things. And yes, pretty soon I'll hear that couple X is coming for dinner, or we are going over to their place, or whatever. The core issue is that most couples have a (relative) extrovert, without whom nothing would ever happen, There is also a (relative) introvert who has to decide that the "stress"--and it is a stress for introverts to be around other people--is worth the experience. What's interesting is that the introvert who eventually drops the extrovert mask and really engages often becomes the strength of the foursome.
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With us, I usually coordinate the first couple meets and do all the messaging, although it does flow both ways. After one or two successful meets my wife gets involved and, in most instances, takes over correspondence and scheduling. So sometimes I come home from work and she'll tell me we're seeing so-and-so this werk. Sometimes I come home from work and so-and-so is already there.
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Guess it is just me then
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Swingers clubs in Denver?
Enzo replied to MixnMingle's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
The Ranch is great. We really like their vibe. Upscale and classy and super sexy. We always have fun when we go. This couple did a great Scarlet Ranch review of our local club. There's also Mon Chalet which is a cheaper version, not classy, but sleazy and sexy. They also did a Mon Chalet review. We haven't been there yet but it sounds like a sleazy sexy hotel you gotta try once!- 1 reply
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I've heard of Scarlet Ranch... anyone been? What's it like? Anywhere else?
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This relationship is still new, primarily we are “dating” without much contact with my friends, many know my past. Once he gets to socialize with my friends he might catch on to how well we know each other. You say most guys would be excited to join in the LS, I don’t want our relationship, wherever it leads to be based on this, I want to make sure the attraction is us not the other things Thank you Kelli Our relationship is still new, more than just friends. He met my roommate, I don’t think he has any idea we are “close” roommates. I tend to agree sooner is better because my life will give question to someone close to me. Thank you. Smiling through wounds that will take more time if ever to heal. I am trying to be more cautious in my choices.
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Living in Utah I can attest that there are many active Mormon couples in the Lifestyle, and I've swung with them and Catholics that would play until 3:00 AM or so and then go to church in the morning with rug-burned knees.
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Has anyone swapped spouses…for awhile?
WesternSwing replied to njbm's topic in Adventures in Swinging
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Ummm. Yeah... No. Those rules are HUGE red flags for me. Creepy, controlling, and borders on kidnapping. To each their own, but I would have ended the night right there and blocked them on the swinger's site.
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I've always though the opposite -- kind of. I've done and watched quite a few gangbangs and have noticed that it can be kind of awkward for the men. You usually have two or three guys who are occupied with the girl at one time and the rest are just hanging around, trying to stay hard and hoping their turn comes soon. You can tell they want to tap in but some aren't sure about the etiquette and it can get a little weird. There are some groups of guys out there who do gangbangs pretty routinely, so they all know each other and kind of have the script down. I have found that I enjoy those gangbang groups because everything goes pretty smoothly and you don't have the awkwardness that you would have with a group of random guys who don't know each other. I've never seen a girl get gangbanged who didn't really want to be gangbanged. That includes myself.
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I user to think that, but in our 27 years of LS experience we have seen a few women who love it. One night at one of our fave clubs (that allows single males) we saw a woman take on what appeared to be a dozen guys. It was quite a spectacle. Later that evening we bumped into her and I asked how many men she had. Her only answer was "Not enough. Never enough".
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Not often, but a few times we couldn’t wait to get the hell out of there after sex.
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Hi Lioness. It's nice to see you posting again. I won't pretend to know the exact nature of your relationship, so I really can't tell you when the right time to tell him is. I do think sooner, rather than later is better though. He is likely to find out anyway. It's always a little uncomfortable the hear the question, "So, when were you planning to tell me?" Make sure you tell him before he asks that question.
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Do other women want to be gangbanged? I read gangbangs are man fantasy not anything most women want. I was exhausted after having sex with 2 men without a rest. Even with a break I was sore the next day with five actual sex. Sex with several men is quite different from having multiple sex with my husband in a night.
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The biggest Gangbang we have held was 30 Guys + 1 woman. She used to meet us once every 3 weeks. Her and her husband were staying in Perth. They are from overseas but hubby had to come here for work for 8 months. Her first Gangbang she asked for 10 guys she rapidly increased the numbers of men in her gangbangs and the last 3 gangbangs were with 30 men. One of the most cum hungry women we have ever met
