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You should be on Swinglifestyle. Plenty of swingers active in your area. AdamGunn2 made a very good answer, this a place to discuss not hookup.
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How long can a man last before ejaculating?
Half MT replied to midnightplayer's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
you are correct about the swimmers, they live 3-5 days in me, I checked Google. Now I don’t feel anything moving in me but I see you enjoy knowing there is. I wonder if my husbands fishies are playing well with our friend’s. -
I screwed up! I don't know how to fix it.
lovefest04 replied to Gigasangel's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
That paragraph is so full of manipulation I don't know where to start. A little barter, I'll give you waht you want, even though I am the one that needs to apologize IF you give me what I want, and then you fucked up again... If you want your husband you have to give up the swinging and threesomes. Period. If I was your husband I'd be talking to a divorce attorney and do everything I could to get you out of my life. It feels like you need to sow a few wild oats and you're not going to do that inside your marriage. Admit what you need and move on. Have the courage to fend for yourself, financially, and go play. Stop hurting your husband. S- 1 reply
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Are you camera shy when it comes to swinging ?
Bob E replied to sweetcadcouple's topic in Swingers Talk
No problem with videos of photos, as long as they do show faces. crop or blur. -
Are you camera shy when it comes to swinging ?
robkat57 replied to sweetcadcouple's topic in Swingers Talk
I'm not really camera shy when it comes to swinging. In fact, I find that having a camera around can actually add a bit of excitement to the experience, even though I'm a very private person in general. There's just something about knowing that the intimate moments are being captured on film that heightens the thrill. Of course, I only feel this way with someone I deeply trust, like my husband. With him, I have no problem getting wild and crazy while the camera rolls. Some of my favorite swinging memories are the ones we've captured with the camera, watching them back afterwards is so hot and reliving those wild nights. I love seeing how uninhibited and passionate I look on camera, it's not an image I show the world often. There's just something so naughty about it, knowing that we've got this private collection of our freakiest moments together. Just thinking about it is getting me warmed up! I'm not sure I'd ever want to share those with anyone though. But having them for our eyes only feels as special as it does naughty. Having a camera involved definitely takes things to a whole new level. A good erotic adult webcam site is https://webcamerotic.com/ that can be a great choice for anyone looking for a more personalized and engaging form of adult entertainment. By choosing a reputable site with a wide variety of performers and high-quality video and audio feeds, you can enjoy an experience that is both safe and satisfying. -
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Gigasangel started following I screwed up! I don't know how to fix it.
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I am using my husbands account because I cannot access mine. I need some advice because I don't know if I can fix this. My husband was open to allow me to experience a threesome because when I was younger I never got the opportunity to explore much. He has posted about the issue and about the fact that I had broken some boundaries. the issue was is that I was well aware what I was doing and I did it anyways. I was really upset that our sex life had taken a turn and I just wanted to experience everything I could but I didn't realize what I was doing. The reason our sex life was bad is because he was working so many hours so I could be a stay at home mom and he was suffering through an illness he never told me about and was not taking care of to not spend any money. I know what I did was wrong but I was having too much fun and I just didn't care. I promised him it would never happen again and I gave him all these rules I would follow if he would give me another threesome...I made sure that I respected our boundaries and because I disrespected him last time by being subservient to the other man I would make sure that I made the impression that he was king of the bedroom. Well I got what I wanted and I fucked up bad. The guy was fucking me to oblivion and he was dominating me in the bedroom and he grabbed my face and hair. He then told me to thank my husband for allowing me to experience his dick. He fucked me so hard that I was done and I came hard. I was too sensitive and couldnt do anything with my husband. because of this, because I was so wrapped up in my own pleasure I really really hurt him. He has began to spiral into a deep depression. He told me how hurt he was that I allowed another man to dominate me in the bedroom. I broke so many boundaries cause I was so wrapped up in the fucking. What can I do? He thinks if he can't fuck me like the other guy did and make me cum like that, that I will hurt him again. How can I fix this? How can I show him that he is the man of the bedroom without inviting the other person over again? I am scared he is gonna hurt himself because he is so obsessed with the fact if he can't fuck me like that, that I am gonna hurt him. I know its my fault for throwing the issue with our sexlife in his face when he was killing himself to give me everything I wanted and I know I am a monster for not caring about his feeling for the sex. I just don't know what to do right now? please any advice. Marriage counseling failed because I was manipulating it. What can I do to start the healing process so I can save my marriage but also save him from the pain I caused.
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Bob, This is a forum for discussing LifeStyle topics - NOT a pickup place. Have you tried SLS, Kasadie or SDC - those are the places you'll find other swingers. Yes, you'll have to pay.
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How long can a man last before ejaculating?
couplers replied to midnightplayer's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
When I was lactating, something similar would happen if a feeding was delayed. -
Strip night at club.
hunterdonNJcpl replied to oldbutable's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
Most swing clubs have stripper poles and every night at a swing club is amateur night. -
Strip night at club.
BurcLen replied to oldbutable's topic in Swinger Clubs, Parties, Resorts, and Cruises
Have you looked into any specific clubs yet, or are you just starting to explore? -
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For me it's usually the same... Fucklicking! In as many different positions and permutations as possible!
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For me, without a doubt it would be several men, maybe 5-6 or so. All finishing either in or on me. Of course, that scenario won't ever play out, although I regularly have 2 men, and that is pretty incredible. Hubby says, "watching me," but I know he's just being sweet. I'm sure it involves me and a gf, and he's fortunate to have that on a regular as well.
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I agree with what you said above in this post, but with one minor quibble: In my experience, the men in my life weren't looking for a "woman like me" who likes to have multiple partners and be in non-monogamous relationships, and/or have partners as well who they play with. They loved me so much that they took joy in my happiness of not having to choose between the two men in my life. Neither David nor Red had engaged in this type of relationship before, so it wasn't like it was a kink of theirs. It took me two years to get over my shortcoming of not being able to find the same joy in their potential sexual pleasure outside of me. Once I as well understood and found that aspect of love for them, it was also better for me. A long way around of saying that you don't need to find someone who is into the lifestyle, find someone first who loves you so much that he is happy for you to find pleasure being in the lifestyle.
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Male bisexual swingers: what do they do?
lovefest04 replied to njbm's topic in Adventures in Swinging
They do both.... I happen to find both the male penis and the female clit/labia extremely attractive. I guess I like the penis partly because i have one and have enjoyed it for many many years. I love to suck a cock to completion as it's kind of a challenge. And I can't suck my own. If I could I seldom leave the house. I love to suck a woman as well. Love the scent, the folds and the juices that flow. Nothing better that giving another person, male or female pleasure. -
Bob E - gotta say, that's pretty fucking hot.
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I consider myself, and list myself in my profiles as bisexual, not bi curious. I tried it, I liked it. I want to do it again! I don't do well with anal bottoming, I wish I did. Guys seem to really like it. With my wife at home, (we don't swing much or at all these days) I love it when she does my ass with a smallish dildo, just enough for the friction and a little prostate contact. She's a little squeamish about that, she's afraid she'll hurt me. I guess we just need a little more practice. Conversely, I love to suck cocks! It's kind of a challenge to see how far I can get one in my mouth and whether I can make the guy cum. So many guys these days want to hold back when I want them to cum, it's frustrating. Of course I love mine sucked too. I love giving my cum to my wife, but I love it taken from me too. Do you know what I mean? I love to lay back and have her (or him) lubricate my penis with coconut oil and rub it up and down and take as much as they can into their mouth and slowly work me up to a lovely orgasm and either swallow, let it drool out of their mouth, or rub it and make it gush all over! So I guess when I engage in bisexual activities, I like the same things as when I'm with a woman, less the PIV aspect.
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AG2 I just can't believe, that in a population of about 400,000, (just metro area), There Are NO Swingers !? I got into swinging in Tenn, in a town of about 20,000, and there were about 45 swingers in town. Was just hoping to meet swingers local --- I ain't driving to Chicago.
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As Perry Mason would say, "Asked and Answered" . . .
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How long can a man last before ejaculating?
lov2party replied to midnightplayer's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
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How long can a man last before ejaculating?
couplers replied to midnightplayer's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
Yank it out? I would think at that point it would leaking out, blowing out, or backing up into your sack. -
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To have a 3 some with a Bi couple. She takes turns sucking each us guys, the we take turns eating her pussy and tits. Then when she is ready, she mounts her husband, facing his feet. I watch as she guides his cock into her wet pussy and squats to get every inch in. the she look at me and says, any time you are ready. I take a deep breath, and put my hand on her, then slowly slide it down to her pussy. I rub her clit a little then move to her lips and his cock, feeling his cock going in and out, all covered in her cum. Soon I'm using both hands, one rubbing her clit, the other on his cock. Soon I'm fondling his balls firmly, their pace quickens, as the both tell me to do it harder. She begins squirting, and I feel his groin tighten, and feel cum rushing through his throbbing cock, as they both cry out. I keep up using my hands on them both, and feel their aftershocks. Then they relax, she asks if I was going finish. I get between their legs and begin licking her cum from his balls, and cock, then move to her pussy. As his cock slides out, I begin sucking it and squeeze the last few drops of cum out, then I put his whole sack in my mouth, rolling his balls around. When I stop, She squats over me and tell me to suck her clean. I see his cum oozing out and pull her to my mouth lick it, and then suck his load out. I finish by licking her crack, lips, her inner legs, and up to her clit. They ask how I liked my first Bi encounter. I reply, I Loved It !
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njbm, I don’t think that’s generally the case. Another member of this board and I each (we figured out later) sometimes attended a regularly-scheduled hotel-suite party in central Florida. At the end of the pre-party social hour everyone took a seat and the hostess went around the room asking people to introduce themselves (first name only) and describe what they wanted to do that evening. I can only recall one man who described himself as bi. But there were a fair number who described themselves as bi-curious or heteroflexible. I don’t think it was a differentiator as to whether they engaged in anal, top or bottom. In my opinion the choice of bin or bi-curious was more an indicator of how comfortable they were with their sexuality.
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I am guessing that the bi-curious give and receive oral sex. The bisexual perform oral and anal. Am I correct?
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Looking for swingers in the Rock Island Ill, Davenport Iowa area To get together for adult fun. Couples, singles, Bi/Bi Curious Lets talk.