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To Swallow or Not to Swallow When Swinging
herpob replied to a topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
I agree wholeheartedly, oral for us is best after piv without a doubt for those vary reasons and it is so much fun. I love the messiness of it, the blending of us (or others - yummm), and the challenge of getting that darn guy to get hard again. -
My wife and I agree that sex is the thing that most makes us realize that we're animals and under the appropriate circumstances, can act that way.
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Thanks. The girls really enjoyed the show and that's enough for us guys.
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I'm glad we did it, although I don't plan to do it again. You have to try new thing and it doesn't work out, just move on, no blame or recriminations.
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Swinging with a Christian couple
KatrinaandDriverX replied to Mikey477's topic in Adventures in Swinging
Okay,any way you slice it, these people have issues resolving their sex drive with their faith. When this happens you get what is called a maladaptive response. In short, they're a little nuts. Yet, if the sex is so good that the neighbors need a cigarette, alrighteee then. Regardless, if you're trying to make an invisible man in the sky happy, you're going to have to sort through some conflicts and hypocrisy. People can rationalize anything and I'm glad they achieved it by having sex with you. -
It seems to me to be one of those things that seems fun and playful, until some puts an 'eye' out. It strikes me as an odd bit of role playing taking rings off. Yet, if oyu want to feel 'single' again, know yourself out. If everyone agrees and is on on the joke, to each their own. For us, we'll stay for breakfast of our free will. Morning sex, can be, literally and figuratively, on the table. Which I have done (just once) complete with the 'powdered sugar' treatment. Katrina
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We're getting a little tired of people not responding to our messages. A "no thank you" will not break us, or bother us. We're not for everybody. We also know that the topic of "Why don't people respond to messages" has been beaten to death. However, even though we're contacting online, we try to image we're at a party (swinger or vanilla) and if we walked up to some couple and introduced ourselves, and they just walked away, we would consider that rude. It take zero effort to do some light chit chat, and then excuse yourselves politely. We've done it, we've had it done to us, and its no big deal. Again, not everybody is going to be interested in everybody else. So, if we message you, and we always include a little something about ourselves in the message (not just a "what's up"), and you don't respond, we just block you. It saves us time on future searches and contacts, it saves the other couple aggravation and we guess, disappointment, and we will just consider you "unsociable" and move on. We know that everyone is not going to agree with us on this, but Que Sera, Sera!
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I’ve done vaginal/anal DP quite a few times when playing with M/F couples. I think I’ve only done DVP once, and it wasn’t to completion. A few months ago with a couple I play with now and then, the man and I had discussed doing DP with his partner. In bed with her another time, I approached the subject. She just laughed and said there was no way that she could fit both of our erect cocks in her pussy.
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To Swallow or Not to Swallow When Swinging
couplers replied to a topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
That is the number one reason that for us oral is mostly a post-play rather than a foreplay thing. Oral on a guy is great for getting him to a second, or sometimes third, erection after p-in-v sex. Just cumming in my mouth and swallowing seems like a waste. The other reason why oral is usually done after fucking is that we women like being eaten and eating pussy, sloppy pussy. It's part of my reclaiming ritual. (I consider myself a rational person, scientific even. But I love how sex and my sexual expression is so irrational, driven by instinct, but perverted instinct. There's nothing to explain or justify, only doing things that I feel driven to do.)- 108 replies
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Double vaginal penetration - tried it?
couplers replied to sevenplus's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
In addition to what it does for a woman, DP (none of us has done DVP) is a physical and psychological treat for the participating men because they can feel one another through the woman's vaginal wall and rectum. Of course when told this long ago, I felt compelled to verify it for myself by inserting two fingers in Clair's pussy and later one in her bum hole while she had a dick working the other. Confirmed! -
OK, so I’m back to straight! 😄 I got to try it a couple of months ago and while I didn’t find it disgusting or any such thing, it didn’t rock my world like it has for *some* men. I wouldn’t absolutely refuse to do it again — never say “never” — but it’s not something that I’m gonna be seeking out. I can stick to just eating pussy and be perfectly happy! - Last week
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Lately my number sexual thought has been eating out my very good friend's pussy after my husband and her husband pack it full of their cum. As the men recover, her husband taking his gigantically oversized cock and fucking my husband in his ass cumming in him as my husband eats my pussy or ass while I bury my face in her cum flowing pussy, possibly tonguing her anally towards the end. She had such a hot tiny little body, ummmmmmm. Her husband can cum fill, stay hard 6-10 times, and fuck all the more and cum fill again and again so he can fuck my husband cum filling his ass many times over while the eating is going on. Receiving oral from a man getting ass fucked and cummed in is incredible!
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On 11/18/2003 at 4:01 PM, saywhenillwait said: I'm curious as to how many men that started the lifestyle stating that they were straight but have since changed to bi-curious or or bi? Is this something that happens often? If you have changed from straight to bi, what caused the change? How long were you swinging when you decided to change? I can't speak for every man out there, but many that I know have a desire to watch their wife with another woman. Do woman ever think of their husband with another man? I posted that my husbands did (I did as well). I have no idea how often it happens but in our circle it has. Wives, we ladies continued encouraging it, putting us all in that type of situation, nature took its course. I think full on it took a couple of years. And yes I love seeing my husband with men, sucking and getting fucked. I love helping, of course encouraging!
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I agree! Synergyyyyyyyyyyyy.
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To Swallow or Not to Swallow When Swinging
herpob replied to a topic in Polls & Never-Ending Threads
Love love love sharing cum, straight from the cock, either me or my husband sucking, or when my husband eats it from me. Kissing is AMAZING! -
Questions about husband having orgasms from anal sex...
herpob replied to herpob's topic in Let's Talk About Sex
Yes he takes it anally and his orgasms are as massive and multi as my own vaginal. I love that he can experience something similar to mine. We see enormous the difference between that and merely ejaculating. He is much more satisfied as I am when having the big long ones. Everyone hears as well as sees it. He can do likewise with fingers and toys, occasionally orally, but the real deal after a lot of foreplay is the best when done by guys who know what they are doing. The main difference for us both is that a real one cums and feels so much better than even a fake cock that cums. We both do love the realistics toys, they feel amazing but alas, are unable to cum. -
I absolutely love my husband taking cock, both orally and anally. I fantasized about it since my college days. Eventually it happened as we opened our marriage, one step at a time and then one day OH MY W........!!! One of the hottest 5 things EVER! Yes we both play anally with toys, fingers, and orally (super duper clean). Orally is how we both get available to do more, much much more. We do it ourselves for each other and do it top each other, often. He has had a couple dozen guys orally as well as anally. Now we have 14 guys we do it with on a regular basis and 10 ladies - all couples. As NerdsAreFun stated, my husband and I both love it when he is eating me out after a few of the guys have cum in me and he is taking one anally. He can eat me for hours taking cock after cock one he gets to this point and I can let him!
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Like NWAtl, we would stay home to take care of our spouse. Even though both would say, go, have fun. On the other hand, we had a foursome planned with a regular couple once and the wife had to go out of town - a sudden family thing. We invited the husband over for an MFM and had a great amount of fun. Bottom line, you do you, just make sure there's no hurt feelings.
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I wish that professional résumé sounded this good.
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When we play outside our poly family, which is infrequent other than with one couple, we have no rules about being alone or who needs to be there, for us or them. Every couple has their own approach, however. Part of it for us, I think, is that with all our damn kids someone, usually more than one, has to stay behind. For me personally, in our early days of our strictly MFM relationship and when it came to me wanting David to play as well, many of my female friends were eager to fuck my good-looking, safe, polite husband, but few wanted me there to watch. Not being there is a different kind of thrill.
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Well, Nicole Kidman is 57 and her next film is essentially softcore porn in the vein of Unfaithful and 91/2 weeks. Your wife should feel great about herself.
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What would make you block someone?
KatrinaandDriverX replied to njbm's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
Katrina here Well, there's what you know and what you don't know about another couple. Especially if you haven't met. They may be complete frauds or wannabes . Or, they could tell you were onto whatever game they were playing. You can even say,"Thirty-nine out of thirty-nine certs agree...." If I'm actually chatting with someone, I tend to be more open to them. Two examples from house parties: House Party One: This man I'm chatting with says that I'm out of his 'league'. I replied,"I thought that was for me to decide ". House Part Two: Most everyone is naked at this point. We're chatting, about physics, of all things. He explains he realizes he's on the small side. I say," I think your cock is just as hard as any cock that's been inside me making me cum like a freight train." And that turned out to be some very good sex. Great kisser, too. -
Moving forward yes or no?
KatrinaandDriverX replied to Dutchie's topic in Swinging Situational HELP!
It's rarely the infidelity that bothers someone as much as the lying. Then, whatever truth you find, know the reality is ten times more extensive. Irrational behavior takes many forms. you have to remember, because it's irrational, it never makes sense. Once a woman approached me saying, we could just have a one time affair. I replied that I was pretty sure she had at least two affairs going on right now. Never spoke to me again. I was good with that. As far as you being 'fine' with everything. You already are. All the questions you posed are ones you already know the answers to . Now, you have to understand it. -
DriverX here. I grew up on the poor side of the poor side of the tracks. I vowed if I succeeded financially I'd never be the person watching every nickel. To be a gracious host and be generous. These days I'm in a very good situation and fortunate that doing a little extra is easy enough. So a fifty-fifty split was a bit unequal. So what ? Not only would I have been grateful for the Champagne earlier, I get to have sex with your wife. That's worth being seen, especially by her, as generous, even in a small way. I have found, when it comes to being petty about money, people will rise to the occasion like a Phoenix from the ashes. Also, when a person is desperate for control, as this guy was, they're the type that always tries to take control with money all under the guise of being 'fair'. Now, this guy has certainly been in this situation before. If keeping things to the penny mattered, he simply asks the waitress to have separate checks at the start of the meal. No fuss, no muss. They do it all the time. One time we met a couple at a Club. We decided to get a hotel and he suggested something of a low end quality. Nothing wrong with that. Economically, it made sense for them. Yet, I didn't want to harm his ego by saying,"Let me get this". I simply said I have a kajillion hotel points, I can get us a suite at the Hilton and it won't cost either of us a thing. The next few hours were great. A happy play couple really puts out and they were very, very happy. Even Katrina said she could tell the other husband made an extra effort with her that night. Happy (well fucked) wife, happy life.
