NWAtlSwing 522 Posted May 5 Linda and I just got back from an all day and overnight with great friends. We just have to say that swinging with friends is simply the best. 4 Quote Share this post Link to post
Fundamental Law 2,885 Posted May 6 LS friends are the best friends. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
cplnluv1 872 Posted May 6 We made friends that were originally new swingers. We now say playing with friends is the best. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
Billygoat 443 Posted May 6 We both agree. We have been blessed with many very close friends in the lifestyle; women, men. Couples and a number of female couples. We never really met many male couples. Bi men yes, but the only male couples we met over the years in the lifestyle was at LS social events not at any clubs, parties etc. we have a number of them going back to when we first started out in the lifestyle and we are still strong today. sharing sex play is still an option but not the reason we are still tight. 2 Quote Share this post Link to post
oldswinger64 111 Posted May 6 Having great friends is great. Having swinging partners is great. Having great swinging partners who become great friends is greater than the sum of its parts. 3 Quote Share this post Link to post
GoldCoCouple 4,065 Posted May 6 Instead of trying to make swingers out of friends, we also make friends out of swingers. Nothing like having friends that you can talk about anything to...and clothing is always optional! 4 Quote Share this post Link to post
kittyswinger 260 Posted May 7 It can be problematic if the friend is hard wired mono, but just occassionally did swinging due to curiosity....or is attracted to one of the couple. 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
TricianMike 772 Posted May 8 The statement should be true, I wish we adhered to that. We had an idea to pick up random partners and it got out of hand. Playing with the same friends became every time left the pleasure of the unknown missing. Random partners wasn’t better it is just different. What we lost was connections, getting to know and mesh, I just didn’t care. We had years of opportunities lost, friends we could have made. Quote Share this post Link to post
hunterdonNJcpl 1,389 Posted May 8 We have always done swing partners -> friends in that order - until very recently when we did friends -> swing partners for the first time ever and I have to say it went smoothly. I feared it could have been a disaster but it was a total success. 3 1 Quote Share this post Link to post
NWAtlSwing 522 Posted May 10 this throuple were swingers first at a party then friend for sure Quote Share this post Link to post