Older single male

[flytoyassoc 15]

Older single male that desires to get involved in the swinger scene. In an open marriage where we both independently do things solo.  We both do as we please no questions asked, it's a sexless marriage.  That said. new to the swinging scene and would desire to be involved, however being is single hard to participate with the swing life.  An older male that desires to enjoy sharing and having fun with like minded people with no pressure or drama. Can travel, flexible and just desire to enjoy fun times.

[enhancer 1,586]

If it is a sexless marriage where you both do what you want independently why not fix it before looking for another outlet?  If it is not worth fixing then why be there?  There is nothing easy about being a male playing alone in this lifestyle.  Even harder being an attached male playing alone.  

[lcmim 1,086]

You certainly will get sympathy here. I doubt you will get much action. 

 

Meet ups are not the Focus of this community.

For that perhaps looking into the sites of our sponsors at the top of this page will serve you well.

 

If you are looking for some suggestions on dealing with that, or just an opportunity to vent, then The Board may be of service.

 

At any rate welcome aboard and Good Luck.

[shy_couple 460]

Older? 50 or 75?

 

that may not be as big an issue as married but playing solo. 
 

welcome to the board. Good luck in your search. 

[Billygoat 445]

This is not new or exceptional.

 

We have met, known and played with a number of solo males and a few solo women over the years that are legitimately in this type of relationship.  Usually due to a medical issue and or age related.  Most are over 45 and older.  Makes for safe and personable experiences even long term without relationship/emotional developments other than a close shared friendship.

 

When the issue is medical the relationship can and usually is there and quite strong, just the physical aspect…sex….is not an option.  So some resort….with permission to have that need met/satisfied elsewhere with agreeable others.  For us and others we have known or currently know the situation is real/verified and in many cases are social with the spouse that can’t participate including social (vanilla) events.  For us we also shared family events/celebrations with both as a couple.

 

So as long as special situational issues/concerns can be met….no worries.