Best Clubs/Parties in Tampa area for bi guy and voyeur wife?

[DietBiAndHisSugar 1]

I am a newly out bisexual who has been married 20+ years to a newly out voyeur. We are looking for the best places to find a guy for me to play with and her to watch. I'm wanting more of a soft swing with no anal or kissing. My wife is very clear that she will be sexily dressed, but never nude and is off limits for anyone but me. We've been searching, but it seems like most events are geared more to the wife being bi and banged, but not the husband. Are there any places that welcome what we're looking for?

[Yourfunfriends 45]

My wife and I were somewhat in the same boat years ago. But we haven't found a lot of guys and wives open to it. Despite the provocative nature of the lifestyle, many tend to be pretty conservative in their sexuality. Nothing wrong with that, people like what they like.

[couplers 4,717]

On 5/28/2024 at 11:23 PM, Yourfunfriends said:

Despite the provocative nature of the lifestyle, many tend to be pretty conservative in their sexuality.

And in the "Nothing wrong with that" category, the OP says 

 

On 5/28/2024 at 10:00 PM, DietBiAndHisSugar said:

My wife is very clear that she will be sexily dressed, but never nude and is off limits for anyone but me.

So as a couple, they are a mix of provocative and conservative.  Nothing wrong with that, but I would think that they would have more success looking in the gay world for oral only encounters where the wife could watch.

 

I question, however, how she will be "off limits for anyone but me," potentially engaging in sex with her husband, yet "but never nude."