What would make you block someone?

[njbm 2,897]

If someone keeps bugging us after we say no, I would consider blocking them. Or if someone declined to meet us in a very insulting way, block. But we are blocked by people we have viewed and maybe communicated with briefly. Wonder why? Seems harsh. Too bad for them. 
 

When and why do you block? This is more applicable to SLS, SDC, etc., not so much here. 

 

Edited July 19 by njbm
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[let's do it again 416]

I block people if they are narcissistic and if they don't give a rip about me and just about themselves. Liers , cheats, and dirty dogs, I have no time for !

[AdamGunn2 416]

2 hours ago, njbm said:

But we are blocked by people we have viewed and maybe communicated with briefly. Wonder why? Seems harsh. Too bad for them. 

 

We've been blocked by people that we've reached out to, even when they haven't replied to a message on SLS.  My assumption is that we were simply not what they were looking for. I refuse to take that kind of thing personally.

[njbm 2,897]

I do take it personally. I usually don’t take it personally if a couple declines to play with us. I find it odd that people that never met us or communicated with us would block us, but it is what it is. It isn’t a frequent event. We’ve met a lot of nuts, too. 

[couplers 4,706]

10 hours ago, let's do it again said:

and dirty dogs

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[let's do it again 416]

3 hours ago, njbm said:

I do take it personally. I usually don’t take it personally if a couple declines to play with us. I find it odd that people that never met us or communicated with us would block us, but it is what it is. It isn’t a frequent event. We’ve met a lot of nuts, too. 

Look at it this way, they're missing out on you, not you missing out on them. If you have treated them with respect, then it's on them !

[njbm 2,897]

Apart from blocking, a couple today said we are not their type. Not sure how you can tell without meeting someone. We do have 39 certs over ten years, which may look slutty, but we have slowed down. Their loss, as Let’s Do it Again said. More fish in sea. 

[KatrinaandDriverX 118]

Katrina here

 

Well, there's what you know and what you don't know about another couple. Especially if you haven't met. They may be complete frauds or wannabes . Or, they could tell you were onto whatever game they were playing. You can even say,"Thirty-nine out of thirty-nine certs agree...."

 

If I'm actually chatting with someone, I tend to be more open to them. Two examples from house parties:

 

House Party One:  This man I'm chatting with says that I'm out of his 'league'. I replied,"I thought that was for me to decide ".

 

House Part Two: Most everyone is naked at this point. We're chatting, about physics, of all things. He explains he realizes he's on the small side. I say," I think your cock is just as hard as any cock that's been inside me making me cum like a freight train." And that turned out to be some very good sex. Great kisser, too.

 

 

 

Edited 11 hours ago by KatrinaandDriverX