What would make you block someone?

[njbm 2,901]

If someone keeps bugging us after we say no, I would consider blocking them. Or if someone declined to meet us in a very insulting way, block. But we are blocked by people we have viewed and maybe communicated with briefly. Wonder why? Seems harsh. Too bad for them. 
 

When and why do you block? This is more applicable to SLS, SDC, etc., not so much here. 

 

Edited July 19 by njbm
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[let's do it again 416]

I block people if they are narcissistic and if they don't give a rip about me and just about themselves. Liers , cheats, and dirty dogs, I have no time for !

[AdamGunn2 418]

2 hours ago, njbm said:

But we are blocked by people we have viewed and maybe communicated with briefly. Wonder why? Seems harsh. Too bad for them. 

 

We've been blocked by people that we've reached out to, even when they haven't replied to a message on SLS.  My assumption is that we were simply not what they were looking for. I refuse to take that kind of thing personally.

[njbm 2,901]

I do take it personally. I usually don’t take it personally if a couple declines to play with us. I find it odd that people that never met us or communicated with us would block us, but it is what it is. It isn’t a frequent event. We’ve met a lot of nuts, too. 

[couplers 4,717]

10 hours ago, let's do it again said:

and dirty dogs

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[let's do it again 416]

3 hours ago, njbm said:

I do take it personally. I usually don’t take it personally if a couple declines to play with us. I find it odd that people that never met us or communicated with us would block us, but it is what it is. It isn’t a frequent event. We’ve met a lot of nuts, too. 

Look at it this way, they're missing out on you, not you missing out on them. If you have treated them with respect, then it's on them !

[njbm 2,901]

Apart from blocking, a couple today said we are not their type. Not sure how you can tell without meeting someone. We do have 39 certs over ten years, which may look slutty, but we have slowed down. Their loss, as Let’s Do it Again said. More fish in sea. 

[KatrinaandDriverX 121]

Katrina here

 

Well, there's what you know and what you don't know about another couple. Especially if you haven't met. They may be complete frauds or wannabes . Or, they could tell you were onto whatever game they were playing. You can even say,"Thirty-nine out of thirty-nine certs agree...."

 

If I'm actually chatting with someone, I tend to be more open to them. Two examples from house parties:

 

House Party One:  This man I'm chatting with says that I'm out of his 'league'. I replied,"I thought that was for me to decide ".

 

House Part Two: Most everyone is naked at this point. We're chatting, about physics, of all things. He explains he realizes he's on the small side. I say," I think your cock is just as hard as any cock that's been inside me making me cum like a freight train." And that turned out to be some very good sex. Great kisser, too.

 

 

 

Edited Saturday at 04:58 AM by KatrinaandDriverX

[24fun4u 10]

We're getting a little tired of people not responding to our messages. A "no thank you" will not break us, or bother us. We're not for everybody. We also know that the topic of "Why don't people respond to messages" has been beaten to death. However, even though we're contacting online, we try to image we're at a party (swinger or vanilla) and if we walked up to some couple and introduced ourselves, and they just walked away, we would consider that rude. It take zero effort to do some light chit chat, and then excuse yourselves politely. We've done it, we've had it done to us, and its no big deal. Again, not everybody is going to be interested in everybody else.

So, if we message you, and we always include a little something about ourselves in the message (not just a "what's up"), and you don't respond, we just block you. It saves us time on future searches and contacts, it saves the other couple aggravation and we guess, disappointment, and we will just consider you "unsociable" and move on. We know that everyone is not going to agree with us on this, but Que Sera, Sera!