Appreciating the lifestyle

[Starting late 121]

I just wanted to take a moment and appreciate the amazing, good fortune I have, being married to a beautiful, caring, intelligent, and adventurous woman, and how much this lifestyle has changed our lives for the better.

Our tight 4some group recently added a single woman, and while us guys were all in favor, the women took a little time to make sure it was right. Only 2 encounters with her so far, but they've been mind blowing for all.  I'm amazed at how different we all can be. My wife is thin, attractive, has big boobs...the other two women have completely different shapes, and are very attractive in their own way. My wife is a squirter, the newest addition has creamy orgasms. The other man in the equation is a gentleman, classy, caring and handsome. We're both straight, but neither one is afraid of, or makes it awkward when there's touching between us, and I have been a recent convert to cum play and "sloppy seconds" - A few years ago, most of these were fantasies for me, jerking off, watching porn when my wife wasn't home. Now it's a reality and I feel so blessed.

My wife's horizons have been expanded to not only being bi, but leaning into the fantasies of our women partners. One has a panty fetish, wanting other women to wear her panties out to dinner or parties. The other has to receive oral in order to orgasm. My wife, who used to be closed off whenever the topic of conversation got too hot, is now openly talking about all sorts of fantasies and new experiences with me, and goes shopping and to drinks with her 2 new friends.

I don't know what my point is with this post, except only to show appreciation. Feel free to share what makes you happy about your S/O and the lifestyle, or just appreciate the post for what it is.

Peace

[Jersey Shore Couple 126]

Absolute perfection.....the stuff dreams are made of!  Congrats on living the good life!!

[couplers 4,447]

You have expanded your horizons and found your collective not only sexual, but also human potential. 

9 hours ago, Starting late said:

I don't know what my point is with this post,

I believe the point is that humans are not monogamous and that a marriage is happiest when it includes other sex partners. 

 

9 hours ago, Starting late said:

I feel so blessed.

Amen.  Finding your place in the lifestyle with the one(s) you a religious experience. 

 

 

Edited September 5 by couplers

[zonaboy801 38]

“My wife is thin, attractive, has big boobs...”

I’m sure the other gentleman is feeling blessed also. 👌

[Starting late 121]

In our younger days, I was always so surprised at her lack of confidence. She really has a body to die for, and it was a real baffler why she didn't simply ooze confidence. 

 

She's got it now though!

[Starting late 121]

23 hours ago, Jersey Shore Couple said:

Absolute perfection.....the stuff dreams are made of!  Congrats on living the good life!!

Thank you!

 

And I miss Ol' Barney. Haven't seen her in a few years!

[Brooklynbibull 22]

On 9/4/2024 at 9:18 PM, Starting late said:

I just wanted to take a moment and appreciate the amazing, good fortune I have, being married to a beautiful, caring, intelligent, and adventurous woman, and how much this lifestyle has changed our lives for the better.

Our tight 4some group recently added a single woman, and while us guys were all in favor, the women took a little time to make sure it was right. Only 2 encounters with her so far, but they've been mind blowing for all.  I'm amazed at how different we all can be. My wife is thin, attractive, has big boobs...the other two women have completely different shapes, and are very attractive in their own way. My wife is a squirter, the newest addition has creamy orgasms. The other man in the equation is a gentleman, classy, caring and handsome. We're both straight, but neither one is afraid of, or makes it awkward when there's touching between us, and I have been a recent convert to cum play and "sloppy seconds" - A few years ago, most of these were fantasies for me, jerking off, watching porn when my wife wasn't home. Now it's a reality and I feel so blessed.

My wife's horizons have been expanded to not only being bi, but leaning into the fantasies of our women partners. One has a panty fetish, wanting other women to wear her panties out to dinner or parties. The other has to receive oral in order to orgasm. My wife, who used to be closed off whenever the topic of conversation got too hot, is now openly talking about all sorts of fantasies and new experiences with me, and goes shopping and to drinks with her 2 new friends.

I don't know what my point is with this post, except only to show appreciation. Feel free to share what makes you happy about your S/O and the lifestyle, or just appreciate the post for what it is.

Peace

There really is no greater feeling than being in a tight pod or group.

 

you can even say I was “monogamous” with a group of 3 guys and their wives.  Once you’ve developed enough comfort and trust to join for sloppy seconds (or thirds or fourths) you know you have made friends for life. I miss that

[zonaboy801 38]

On 9/5/2024 at 9:00 PM, Starting late said:

In our younger days, I was always so surprised at her lack of confidence. She really has a body to die for, and it was a real baffler why she didn't simply ooze confidence. 

 

She's got it now though!

it might be time to post a few pix!

[couplers 4,447]

On 9/5/2024 at 7:00 PM, Starting late said:

In our younger days, I was always so surprised at her lack of confidence. She really has a body to die for, and it was a real baffler why she didn't simply ooze confidence. 

 

She's got it now though!

It may not have been a lack of confidence, rather social and religious indoctrination about her body.

[Starting late 121]

1 hour ago, couplers said:

It may not have been a lack of confidence, rather social and religious indoctrination about her body.

That's very true. She had experiences when she was younger where she was teased about certain aspects of her body, and even after we were married she was very shy and embarrassed about it - which ironically led to exhibitionism, which then led to swinging. Crazy journey when I think about it.

[couplers 4,447]

20 hours ago, Starting late said:

she was teased about certain aspects of her body, and ... she was very shy and embarrassed about it - which ironically led to exhibitionism

The aspects of my body that I was teased and embarrassed about are now the characteristics my sex partners find most fascinating (athletic body with small tits, big clit, prominent labia).

 

I enjoy being nude with strangers in nonsexual situations, but can't say that I'm an exhibitionist.  I just don't mind that people look at me.  I like studying other women. 

[Brooklynbibull 22]

On 9/9/2024 at 5:55 AM, couplers said:

The aspects of my body that I was teased and embarrassed about are now the characteristics my sex partners find most fascinating (athletic body with small tits, big clit, prominent labia).

 

I enjoy being nude with strangers in nonsexual situations, but can't say that I'm an exhibitionist.  I just don't mind that people look at me.  I like studying other women. 

your body sounds absolutely hot. 
 

As someone who dwells in two sexual worlds, I can say without a doubt the female body is truly a work of art.  It’s one of the reasons of our very existence.

Thin, tall, curvy, short, athletic, etc. are just variations of the same inherent beauty.

 

God bless women in all shapes and sizes.

[Starting late 121]

On 9/9/2024 at 2:55 AM, couplers said:

The aspects of my body that I was teased and embarrassed about are now the characteristics my sex partners find most fascinating (athletic body with small tits, big clit, prominent labia).

 

I enjoy being nude with strangers in nonsexual situations, but can't say that I'm an exhibitionist.  I just don't mind that people look at me.  I like studying other women. 

 

She would say she's an exhibitionist because of the teasing and embarrassment - but she's not full into it. Pretty much only from afar, usually a hotel room window, or something that feels safe.

[couplers 4,447]

22 hours ago, Brooklynbibull said:

your body sounds absolutely hot.

Probably a few men and women find my version of femininity their type, but mostly they like the difference that I represent.  Especially being slender (prominent hip bones, ab muscles show, tight bum) in an obese world.  What surprises me most is the interest in my tits.  There's plenty of curiosity about what's under my (braless) shirt.

 

22 hours ago, Brooklynbibull said:

As someone who dwells in two sexual worlds, I can say without a doubt the female body is truly a work of art.

I am bi as well and want to ask a bi guy: do you have anal sex with both men and women?  Is there a difference?

 

I find a woman's bum hole much more attractive than a guy's.  Actually, Clair’s and Lora's are beautiful.  I'll finger a guy's bum hole if he wants, but it doesn't turn me on.

[couplers 4,447]

10 hours ago, Starting late said:

she's not full into it. Pretty much only from afar,

In a sexual as opposed to just a nude setting, I don't mind if the others (not strangers) watch me having sex.  Just don't distract me when I'm trying to cum.  David likes to watch me, Red doesn't, at least straight sex.

 

As for being in a nonsexual nude situation, I like to watch, especially women, and be watched.  If someone is staring, I'll turn over, part my legs, etc.

[Brooklynbibull 22]

5 minutes ago, couplers said:

Probably a few men and women find my version of femininity their type, but mostly they like the difference that I represent.  Especially being slender (prominent hip bones, ab muscles show, tight bum) in an obese world.  What surprises me most is the interest in my tits.  There's plenty of curiosity about what's under my (braless) shirt.

 

I am bi as well and want to ask a bi guy: do you have anal sex with both men and women?  Is there a difference?

 

I find a woman's bum hole much more attractive than a guy's.  Actually, Clair’s and Lora's are beautiful.  I'll finger a guy's bum hole if he wants, but it doesn't turn me on.

I love that question.

first of all, and doubling down on my previous post, you are absolutely right, a woman’s bum hole (and every thing else) is a thing of beauty.

I am more of a situational bi male, I am not physically or emotionally attracted to men, but topping a husband/ boyfriend or letting him give me oral in front of his wife is a request that I got a lot.  I get off on the sexual energy of the situation and the sense of erotic domination I have over a couple.  And they get off on the sense of erotic submission (most of my couples are subs). I am also a lot into “sissification” which some men openly request.

A common fantasy in men in the cuckold lifestyle is crossdressing.  So this adds to the sense of domination.  
When it comes to the feeling itself, physical penetration, I don’t find much difference. And I have orgasmed inside of a man before.
But would I date or desire a single guy? Absolutely not.  
some husbands have asked me on dates separately and this is where I politely decline.
 

[couplers 4,447]

49 minutes ago, Brooklynbibull said:

I am not physically or emotionally attracted to men,

I am exactly the opposite, both physically and emotionally attracted to women.  The emotional bond among Lora, Clair, and me in our family is as strong as that to our men.  Interestingly, however, I came to my Lesbian side through sharing my husband with other women and wanting to watch, then participate, then get his cum back out of her pussy.  A few let me, and one of them was Clair, who came to her bisexuality from the other side.  She started out as a Gold Star Lesbian, but then decided that she wanted dick, and men generally, as well.

Edited Wednesday at 01:02 PM by couplers

[Brooklynbibull 22]

2 hours ago, couplers said:

I am exactly the opposite, both physically and emotionally attracted to women.  The emotional bond among Lora, Clair, and me in our family is as strong as that to our men.  Interestingly, however, I came to my Lesbian side through sharing my husband with other women and wanting to watch, then participate, then get his cum back out of her pussy.  A few let me, and one of them was Clair, who came to her bisexuality from the other side.  She started out as a Gold Star Lesbian, but then decided that she wanted dick, and men generally, as well.

I can totally understand that.  I find the neuroscience and emotional intricacies of attraction between bisexual/pansexual women super fascinating.  Female sexuality is so beautifully complex, which is what makes it so attractive.

 

I am not saying men dont have that. But most of the time it’s “How and where can I bust a nut and enjoy it”. 

[couplers 4,447]

19 hours ago, Brooklynbibull said:

I find the neuroscience and emotional intricacies of attraction between bisexual/pansexual women super fascinating.

My opinion is that it arises from the bonding necessary to raise children; the maternal instinct.  That, and if you're openly sharing a man.  I wonder if Lesbian activities were common in Harems, multiple wives situations? 

[couplers 4,447]

19 hours ago, Brooklynbibull said:

I am not saying men dont have that. But most of the time it’s “How and where can I bust a nut and enjoy it”. 

It's also interesting that although most of the sex between either Red or David and one of us women is true lovemaking, occasionally they will just want to ejaculate in one of us women.  You would think that I would feel that I'm being "used" in such a situation, but I find it thrilling, enjoy it, and feel honored to be the one chosen, disappointed if I'm not.  When both, one after the other... well, what's a pussy for?

[PeterJ 904]

55 minutes ago, couplers said:

"I wonder if Lesbian activities were common in Harems, multiple wives situations?’"

That’s an interesting question, Petra. I’m guessing the answer is yes. 
 

[Brooklynbibull 22]

1 hour ago, couplers said:

My opinion is that it arises from the bonding necessary to raise children; the maternal instinct.  That, and if you're openly sharing a man.  I wonder if Lesbian activities were common in Harems, multiple wives situations? 

You are spot on! Some evolutionary biologists say that female bisexuality developed waaaay back when we were living in caves, where multiple women stayed behind to care for children communally.  It was much easier to be involved sexually with other women to develop a sense of connection and community for better chances of survival and child rearing.  
 

I like this theory (which has a lot of backing) also because it makes me imagine a hot, sweaty lesbian orgy I’m a cave. 🥵 

 

In the movie 300, in the Harem scene when the hunchback betrays the Spartans and begs Xerxes to take him in. You see all these women kissing and touching each other. That’s not just fantasy. These women were expected to be horny and ready at all times, so they have to resort to stimulate each other constantly. Of course they were going to develop bonds and affection.

[couplers 4,447]

22 hours ago, Brooklynbibull said:

In the movie 300, ... You see all these women kissing and touching each other. That’s not just fantasy. These women were expected to be horny and ready at all times,

Where did the director find all these women?  It does sound like a fantasy.

[couplers 4,447]

The other thing that I find fascinating is that several times over the years straight, seemingly vanilla young women were overly interested in what it would be like to be one of multiple wives.  In conversations about harems, Mormon, Islamic marriages, one woman would ask numerous questions and keep on the topic.

 

Lesbianism aside, it seems some women enjoy being one of several wives.  (In our poly family, I enjoy both sides of the poly equation.)  But there's also cuckoldresses and women like Numec's wife who partnered primarily with married men. 

[Brooklynbibull 22]

9 hours ago, couplers said:

Where did the director find all these women?  It does sound like a fantasy.

Not entirely sure. But it was one of my favorite scenes.  I would too bow to Xerxes if I was presented with such...temptation.  "I will find, the he is kind"