Some insight please- mmmmm I’m craving

[Lynnishungry 0]

My husband and I have been in the lifestyle somewhat for awhile but we have been more reserved as we don’t know how to find others. We enjoyed our time at a club last night, being naked, playing with each other, so amazing. However, I was reserved because I haven’t been with a woman in awhile, and I want to be fondled,

played with by men and women alike but I wasn’t sure if I could just go up to someone and ask them if o can touch them or if when I was being pleased by my husband if I could just join in with someone else. 
 

Any advice welcome- looking to meet more like me!!

[njbm 2,901]

At a club, spot a couple that you like in the playroom. Play with your spouse next to them. Ask them if they want to play. 

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,421]

Show up a little early next time.  Folks generally mingle a little early in the evening and sometimes you can make connections before things begin to heat up later.  Just don't be shy!

 

Otherwise, as @njbm says, it's perfectly fine to cozy up next to a couple in an open playroom and politely ask to join.  I promise you won't offend any one.