Sex with the Boss

[Rock n Tits 188]

my beautiful wife Tits has had over the years sex with many coworkers and Bosses. It was usually for a raise, promotions or because they had a big cock. Like I said she is beautiful and very flirty or at least would respond to being flirted with and she is very horney with men and women. She has had sex at work at lunch or after work. The one that confused me was her Boss Dave they went to lunch every day they would go thru a drive thru and then go back to worksite then park in back corner eat thier lunch then she would open her blouse so he could play with and suck her tits while she jacked him off. I asked her if he had a big cock she said no it was small but he have hers good hours and his wife. Had been sick for a long time and she felt sorry for him.

[Baconheads 437]

I had a lovely assistant where we would fuck each other twice as much as we would with our respective spouses.  Four times together and twice a week with our spouses. Our "continuing education" weekends were off the charts!  We would swing together too.

 

Yes I kept score.

[PeterJ 959]

It’s remarkable how attitudes about (and potential consequences of) sex between people in business and other formal organizations have changed over the past few decades. And I would say for the better. I’ve come to understand that the power differentials in work relationships make for inherently unequal sexual/romantic relationships. 
 

When I was in college and grad school in the ‘60 & ‘70s sex between professors and students was commonplace. That was particularly the case for male faculty and female students, though in my case I dated a female senior faculty member. (It was interesting how gender affected perceptions. No one seemed to object much when the professor was male, my female professor took some stick from her colleagues and some of my classmates were a bit perturbed.)

 

It wasn’t until the late ‘80s and early ‘90s that in my professional life I had subordinates. I didn’t play with colleagues generally, but one assistant and I experienced some unspoken but ongoing mutual sexual attraction. One afternoon, some time after she’d announced officially her intention to leave her job to back to school, she solicited sex with me. It was a very hot affair. Once or twice a week we would get a motel room and have sex after work before returning to our respective partners. Then we would meet again in the morning for sex before going to the office.

 

I only had one other work-related affair, in the late ‘90s, with a woman who was temporarily assigned to the group I managed. It was a two-night stand on a work trip, facilitated by a business dinner with a lot of wine. She did note that if we were found out Inwould likely lose my job. (My then elderly assistant, who fraternallynl9ved me, clearly suspected something was going on. She was death on my colleague.)  More than three decades after our brief business relationship we are still close.

 

A few years later, after I’d left that company but was still close with many of my former colleagues, one (very cute but kinda obnoxious) female manager made the mistake of keeping  on her computer desktop a folder of herself having sex with the woman who was then her secretary. An IT guy servicing her computer tried to blackmail her into servicing him. She turned the guy in to HR and he got fired. And then she got fired for having a sexual relationship with her subordinate,

 

 

[couplers 4,705]

18 hours ago, Baconheads said:

we would fuck each other twice as much as we would with our respective spouses.

That's not surprising, new toy and all that.

 

18 hours ago, Baconheads said:

We would swing together too.

That's interesting.  Tell us more, about the relationship too.  Was it love, or just sex?

 

18 hours ago, Baconheads said:

Four times together and twice a week with our spouses.

Were your spouses playing around as well?  I don't believe that they were only getting it twice a week. 

[couplers 4,705]

16 hours ago, PeterJ said:

Once or twice a week we would get a motel room and have sex after work before returning to our respective partners. Then we would meet again in the morning for sex before going to the office.

If you had negotiated a late checkout, you could have gone back at lunch for a third round within one twenty-four hour room rental.

 

16 hours ago, PeterJ said:

and have sex after work before returning to our respective partners.

Did your partners know?  Was this part of an ENM arrangement? 

 

In our early days of just David, Red, and me, when I first got over my reluctance of letting them play, I set David up with my female friends and acquaintances.  I wanted to watch, but most didn't want me to.  The anticipation between the time David left and returned was wonderfully and beautifully agonizing. 

Edited September 19 by couplers

[Anon321 523]

My GF used to fool around with her boss all the time.  At the time I didn't think much about it.  I just thought it was hot and she would come back with some really hot stories.  But it was incredibly risky.  Obviously it was always more risky for him because she was his subordinate.

 

It's obvious my GF loves that power dynamic.  She used to always phrase it like "he made me."  So, if I asked about what happened today, she would say "my boss made me blow him twice today."  Or if I asked why she's late, she would say "my boss got hard and made me stay late so he could fuck me."  I think they both really got off on the power dynamics as she liked being the submissive subordinate and he liked being the dominate supervisor.

 

The weird part is, people knew and didn't care.  Originally they were very quiet about it.  But as time went on it become almost impossible to hide.  There were extreme close encounters during actual work hours when she was in the office with him.  Even after hours a guy came back to the office to pick something up and they were able to hide but she said he definitely heard noises and were able to identify them because of their cars outside.  But my GF also loved that kind of risky play too where they could get caught (and they were flat out caught on a couple of occasions).  This was a really fun experience for her.

[PeterJ 959]

4 hours ago, couplers said:

If you had negotiated a late checkout, you could have gone back at lunch for a third round within one twenty-four hour room rental.

 

Did your partners know?  Was this part of an ENM arrangement? 

 

Petra, I’m a bit ashamed to admit that neither of our partners knew. We were cheating on them. I had to deal with guilt and I assume she did as well. My wife and I then had an informal ENM relationship, but the lack of openness troubled me.

 

As I’ve noted in other posts my wife and I have had an explicitly ENM relationship for about 20 years now. It makes sex with others exciting, fulfilling and guilt free. 😊

[couplers 4,705]

21 hours ago, Anon321 said:

 

The weird part is, people knew and didn't care.

There's always the initial buzz about whether two people are in a sexual relationship, but after it's confirmed no one talks about it anymore. 

[Anon321 523]

On 9/20/2024 at 7:33 AM, couplers said:

There's always the initial buzz about whether two people are in a sexual relationship, but after it's confirmed no one talks about it anymore. 

I would say that's true.  And I don't know if I should have said people "didn't care."  I meant that they didn't care in the sense of it being a problem at work or anything.  Some still gossiped about it and when one of her male workers found out he teased her about it and started texting her dick pics.  That led to some sexting and fucking.

 

But when I said nobody cared, I meant nobody was shaken by it or anything.  Some people might see a boss fucking a subordinate as a major problem.  And if corporate found out maybe they would have too but no one cared enough to go to corporate.

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,419]

The closest we've come to this was when we stumbled into one of my wife's 'superiors' (I hate that term) and his wife at Gunnison (nude beach) twice - a couple years apart.

 

They were as friendly and pleasant as could be although my wife was secretly mortified.  The four of us chatted together - completely nude - for maybe 15-20 minutes.

 

Things remained professional at work, and only remarks like "beach plans this weekend?" ever came of it.

[Baconheads 437]

On 9/19/2024 at 5:47 AM, couplers said:

That's not surprising, new toy and all that.

 

That's interesting.  Tell us more, about the relationship too.  Was it love, or just sex?

 

Were your spouses playing around as well?  I don't believe that they were only getting it twice a week. 

 

She and I started out as friends.  She worked for me in the 2000's and they (her husband and her) moved back to their home city in Oregon for about 5 years, then moved back.  No  hanky-panky the first time around, although I thought she was the greatest health care assistant that I ever had, and what a wonderful friend to boot!  I was attracted to her but never suggested anything between us as it might have ruined a very beneficial work relationship.  It really affected me the first time she left.  We kept in touch infrequently on Facebook, but still no romantic involvement.

 

That was 2007 when she left the first time, they moved back at the end of 2012, and I was delighted to have her back.  She interviewed at a number of places but chose to stick with me even though I couldn't pay as much but it was much closer to where they lived so money was a wash.  We both noticed that things has changed between us, and we became involved sexually within two months after she got back.  I came to find out that she was also attracted to me as well.  I had never "macked" on an employee before and I didn't this time either, but I knew it was only a matter of time before we would be lovers.

 

We proved that theory at a work convention very early in 2013.  The others from the business were with us for a work dinner and one by one they drifted off that night leaving us alone in Downtown Denver, with no one stopping us from indulging in the hanky-panky referenced above.  Before long were dancing and sure enough a slow song came on and we were making out shamelessly on the dance floor.  It was a very long six blocks back to the hotel, with me praying to God to strike me down where I stood because I was not going to turn this girl down!  Now this was about eight o'clock and night and I had a bout fourteen drinks since noon of that day.  My little friend was not responding when we got back to her room but I found ways to please her without his help.  In fact, later on I found out that she hadn't noticed my predicament at all.

 

So that was a lovely weekend, My roomie ducked out early, leaving us free for the rest of the time.  We played with each other countless times that weekend and skied at Breckenridge on the way home to the mountains.  What followed was an affair/relationship that lasted nearly four years before her husband figured it out and made her quit my employ.  Was it love?  Yes, I loved her more than anything, I would have given up everything I had to be with her, but ultimately she chose to stay with her husband.  I did make it work with my wife as well, even though we kept it alive for a few years after that, sometimes a few times a week even though we had no legitimate reason to see each other.

 

She and her husband liked to do MMF's with other guys, and I suggested that we include him in our shenanigans, but she vetoed that idea as she thought he would be able to tell that we were already involved.  My wife and I had never swung together although I had proposed the idea to her many times over the years.  She told me about their threesomes and I asked if she wanted to do that with me, as I had the group sex bug in my shorts for a long time. So we went to swinger clubs together, house parties, 2 on 2 couple meet-ups and the like, but we never went full swap.  Her hubby I considered a friend and I always felt compelled to bring her home safe and sound, with no untoward germs in tow.  I didn't want to bring anything home either, lol!  

 

As I said, they had played with others, only other men I think.  He was bisexual and a bit of a cuckold.  He had a hair trigger, would always go off within minutes or seconds of insertion, so he found other guys to keep her satisfied.  She was a firecracker!  I wish we had played our cards differently back then, but obviously it's too late now.  He made some dates with other guys while we were together and she told me about them.  My wife has never played with anyone but me, which is fine with her.  And twice a week was fine with her, but it wasn't nearly enough for me, not by a long shot, so to speak...

 

I realize a lot of you would call this cheating, not swinging (lecture away!)  I say we were cheating with each other on our spouses but swinging with other people.  We had the time of our lives.

[couplers 4,705]

What a story!  I need to read this more carefully later to untangle it all.  Thanks for the post.  

[TnA83 314]

2 hours ago, couplers said:

 

 

Edited September 24 by TnA83

[couplers 4,705]

22 hours ago, TnA83 said:

 

Don't be shy, say what you mean.

[TnA83 314]

On 9/25/2024 at 6:14 AM, couplers said:

Don't be shy, say what you mean.

Sorry, I responded to the wrong post, nvrmnd

[couplers 4,705]

2 minutes ago, TnA83 said:

Sorry, I responded to the wrong post, nvrmnd

Oh, I was hoping for something so sharp, so contentious, insulting even, that you retracted what you had said.  My imagination was running wild.

[TnA83 314]

2 minutes ago, couplers said:

Oh, I was hoping for something so sharp, so contentious, insulting even, that you retracted what you had said.  My imagination was running wild.

I'm sure I could cum up with something...

[couplers 4,705]

23 hours ago, TnA83 said:

I'm sure I could cum up with something...

When you read something I've written and have a stinging riposte for me, be sure it's a good one.  (Moderators, back off.)  I patiently await.

[TnA83 314]

4 hours ago, couplers said:

When you read something I've written and have a stinging riposte for me, be sure it's a good one.  (Moderators, back off.)  I patiently await.

no, seriously nothing like that

[couplers 4,705]

I've told the story before of a girl in our high school who was selected to attend college classes in an accelerated academic program for intellectually advanced high school students. She did very well, including aggressively pursuing a professor and having an affair that continued for two years through high school.  She thought boys her age were immature and uninteresting. She knew what she was doing.

She did what she did with him on her terms and ended it when she went off to college, because she was ready to move on. Now years later she looks back on the whole thing as the most exhilarating experience of her life. BTW, she now has a Ph.D., is married with three children, and yes, her husband knows.

 

BTW, only one other girl in my school and I knew what Kathy was doing. We were proudly nerdy girls who supported each other, in this case by covering for her as needed. (Because of this, we, as Kathy’s confederates, got to attend events we otherwise wouldn’t have.)  My parents liked Kathy because she was extremely respectful to them. Kathy’s parents were the kind who allowed her to venture out and explore.  They checked a lot on her wellbeing and her grades (more generally her academic performance, which was stellar), but otherwise trusted her. Her mom was the kind who took her to her gyno when she was fifteen so she could get on The Pill, although I don’t believe her parents expected that she would have an affair with an older guy.  They were the chill parents every high schooler wishes they had, but they did have high expectations (K was an athlete too.)

 

Relationships of this type can be, and likely usually are, exploitative but with many years hindsight and subsequent discussions with her, it seems Kathy had most of the power in the relationship.  "Men can be so needy."

 

 

 

 

Edited October 5 by couplers

[Anon321 523]

On 10/5/2024 at 8:05 AM, couplers said:

I've told the story before of a girl in our high school who was selected to attend college classes in an accelerated academic program for intellectually advanced high school students. She did very well, including aggressively pursuing a professor and having an affair that continued for two years through high school.  She thought boys her age were immature and uninteresting. She knew what she was doing.

She did what she did with him on her terms and ended it when she went off to college, because she was ready to move on. Now years later she looks back on the whole thing as the most exhilarating experience of her life. BTW, she now has a Ph.D., is married with three children, and yes, her husband knows.

 

BTW, only one other girl in my school and I knew what Kathy was doing. We were proudly nerdy girls who supported each other, in this case by covering for her as needed. (Because of this, we, as Kathy’s confederates, got to attend events we otherwise wouldn’t have.)  My parents liked Kathy because she was extremely respectful to them. Kathy’s parents were the kind who allowed her to venture out and explore.  They checked a lot on her wellbeing and her grades (more generally her academic performance, which was stellar), but otherwise trusted her. Her mom was the kind who took her to her gyno when she was fifteen so she could get on The Pill, although I don’t believe her parents expected that she would have an affair with an older guy.  They were the chill parents every high schooler wishes they had, but they did have high expectations (K was an athlete too.)

 

Relationships of this type can be, and likely usually are, exploitative but with many years hindsight and subsequent discussions with her, it seems Kathy had most of the power in the relationship.  "Men can be so needy."

 

 

 

 

It's funny how the power dynamics work.  My GF always liked to pretend that her boss had all the power.  So she would submit to all of his requests, even a few things that made her a little uncomfortable (which is rare) because he had the "power" over her and she "had to do it."  In reality, this was just her playing into her submissive fantasy.  He was the superior and she was the subordinate and he would have gotten into a lot more trouble than she would have if she ever decided to come forward about the relationship (which she never would have done anyway).  So, in a way, she really held most of the power in that respect, even though she didn't want to think of it that way.