Be careful what you say online.

[njbm 2,868]

We said hello and opened our pictures for another couple. The other male wrote back that he was interested in my wife (duh, everyone is), but his wife said she thinks that I look too old. I am 3 years older than her husband if their profile is truthful and I guarantee you that her husband looks older than me. A workplace colleague once told me I have a baby face and I would never look old. 
 

I was going to be mean and say your husband looks older than me. But my wife said be nice, it’s a small community. So I said “ok, that’s fine, enjoy your adventures.” 
 

Lo and behold, literally the next day it turned out that both couples registered for a vanilla restaurant event for swingers. The husband sheepishly wrote to me that maybe he can convince his wife to be interested in me. I wrote back “ We are looking forward to the event and meeting new people.”

 

My takeaway: Say you’re not a match and leave it at that. No need to hurt people’s feelings. We have played with many couples who we would not picked by their pictures or profile. And we had a great time. 

[AdamGunn2 392]

Not only good advice for the LifeStyle, but for Life as well . . .

[lcmim 1,081]

That is a good story. Funny even.

The take away is spot on.