Can You Tell?

[Half MT 239]

We made really good friends in our search that started not that long ago. Those friends are much more experienced yet they have guided us with no pressure. 
For me the sight of a naked person is new, exciting and almost as important as the sex we have. 
On this group I read about all the experiences others had, some are unimaginable to me. My whole life I heard stories concerning size, something we just joked about without me not having much knowledge how sex would be better or worse with a larger man. Now in swinging I figured I would see all different shapes and sizes. Still pretty new swinging for me is not just a sex act, I’m interested in the people and it’s interesting how they differ. Normally my eyes focus on the man’s package something I now feel is okay. I enjoy my exploration of a man, women to a lesser way. I enjoy others exploring me and I get excited by the physical contact leading up to the act. 
I now had sex with 7 men, all were different in different ways. Shape  or size was different just not by much. The men feel different and do things differently. I am lucky that all the men satisfied me and hopefully I satisfied them. 
My post, Can You Tell? is asking once you are having sex do others feel a difference in size? Maybe I’m not sensitive to that aspect of the act. Does it make a difference to others or is it psychological? My husband Timmy said he feels a difference when in different women even if he couldn’t tell me how they are different. 
I feel foolish asking yet I know I will get honest answers here. 

[AdamGunn2 414]

1 hour ago, Half MT said:

I now had sex with 7 men, all were different in different ways. Shape  or size was different just not by much. The men feel different and do things differently. I am lucky that all the men satisfied me and hopefully I satisfied them. 
My post, Can You Tell? is asking once you are having sex do others feel a difference in size? 

Okay, the ever popular size question.  Scientific studies have shown that most men are around 5.4 inches. 95% of all men are near this! Very few (if any) 9 or 10 inch monsters.  Most men are about the same size.

      * A summary of this can be found at https://www.healthline.com/health/mens-health/average-penis-size#building-confidence

 

So, if most men are close to the same size, what differentiates them? Well, the curvature for sure, whether they are circumcised or not (although the use of condoms negates that. )

 

Where a man can excel is the way he uses not only his organ during the act, but doing many other things to excite their partner. You already referred to that when you said, "The men feel different and do things differently."

 

Enjoy!

[Half MT 239]

10 minutes ago, AdamGunn2 said:

Okay, the ever popular size question.  Scientific studies have shown that most men are around 5.4 inches. 95% of all men are near this! Very few (if any) 9 or 10 inch monsters.  Most men are about the same size.

      * A summary of this can be found at https://www.healthline.com/health/mens-health/average-penis-size#building-confidence

 

So, if most men are close to the same size, what differentiates them? Well, the curvature for sure, whether they are circumcised or not (although the use of condoms negates that. )

 

Where a man can excel is the way he uses not only his organ during the act, but doing many other things to excite their partner. You already referred to that when you said, "The men feel different and do things differently."

 

Enjoy!

If you read all the posts you would think all swingers were bigger. Makes me think what other things are exaggerated. No two are alike, yes curves, veins, thickness and the package. It’s more doing different things and less the size I feel. I didn’t find I felt anything different from the guy who used a condom except his ejaculation 
Maybe luck, we are both having fun with the people we are meeting mostly through our new friends. 

[AdamGunn2 414]

Oh, my goodness, men exaggerating the size of their dick!  What will happen next . . .

[Half MT 239]

4 hours ago, AdamGunn2 said:

Oh, my goodness, men exaggerating the size of their dick!  What will happen next . . .

Do women care? I know my hand is about 3 1/2”, no ruler needed. I also know the size of a toy I have. 

[bbarnsworth 2,652]

Half MT, it's not a foolish question at all!

 

Things are different, quite different sometimes, from person to person. Being a hetero guy, I can't comment on how other men's penises feel. But, from a guy's perspective... each person is different in size, shape, firmness, behavior, sounds, even taste and smell. I remember one long term girlfriend I had who had small breasts. I loved her breasts, how they felt, how they responded to stimulus. I always enjoyed playing with her breasts. The next woman I dated was substantially more well endowed. I remember thinking how amazing larger breasts felt, after so long being with a woman with small breasts. Yet, I would happily go back to small. It's all enjoyable, nothing better and nothing worse.

 

I'm also reminded of a friend of mine who married is high school sweetheart. He's never been with any other woman. He knows I've been with quite a few women. He asked me one day if it was different. I didn't have the heart to tell him. I didn't want him to feel sad on what he missed out on.

[Half MT 239]

3 hours ago, bbarnsworth said:

each person is different in size, shape, firmness, behavior, sounds, even taste and smell.

I’m dealing with swinging etiquette, where to look, how to react and what to expect. I asked T, my husband what he looks at first with a new woman and if he looks at the men too. He had to think the same as I do. Looking at a person clothed I see a person, if he is fit, his face, smile, eyes. Not knowing how man think do they look at breasts? Guys always make remarks about big boobs, T says he looks at big boobs but prefers “pert”. When undressed my eyes almost immediately scan down, some men are already hard, how can I not notice? Scanning down men can’t see a similar reaction. I pushed Timmy to be honest and think what he looks at first. Boobs, butt, hips and puss at a glance. 
I read articles about size last night, averages are most likely accurate, I don’t have enough experience to say anything else. In the articles the conversation was more about thickness, they call girth, I agree I notice that during beginning play and oral, a thing I noticed years ago. What I found interesting and should know, we stretch to accommodate, I do have children. 
We agree we are all different which is the reason we are meeting others. Sex is physical, visual and psychological, our bodies were made to react to all. 

[AdamGunn2 414]

When meeting a new prospective partner, I always start by looking her in the eye.  Then, I'll make a quick survey at the rest - and I assume she's doing the same to me.  

 

Just out on the street, I tend to quickly look at the entire package, then focus in on one attribute, whatever I think is attractive.  Could be breasts, legs, hair, waist, just about anything. 

[Half MT 239]

On 9/27/2024 at 10:54 AM, AdamGunn2 said:

When meeting a new prospective partner, I always start by looking her in the eye.  Then, I'll make a quick survey at the rest - and I assume she's doing the same to me.  

I try not to be obvious, the newness of the nudity takes over. 

[oldswinger64 112]

I used to work in a hardware store for a part time job.  If I was wearing a True Value shirt with a pocket, I would clip my name tag to my shirt and women would come up to me and say, "Do you work here?"  If there was no pocket, I would clip my nametag to my belt near my belt buckle.  EVERY woman would know my name!