Sex vs Swinging

[TricianMike 772]

I recently answered a post stating my #1 sexual thought was a 25 year old. Let me clear up that thought. 
If I am just looking for sex I want someone younger, good looking and quickly hard. 
If I am looking to have a fun night I enjoy a few friends who I can relate to who also enjoys us. 
Swinging is as much social as sexual. Sex for sex is Sex. 

[Shore2Please 610]

I separate swinging and swapping. Swinging is sex for sex without attachment of enjoying being with a partner. Swinging is detached sex. 
Swapping is much more intimate sex. There are those who will take exception when I say swapping is making love with your partner. I’ve been told love is not a healthy function of the lifestyle, I disagree. I enjoy making love which is not the same as being in love. Alone with a partner is not rushed sex, it is touching and kissing and even talking without any outside pressure. 

[ROCKlandCpl 451]

On 10/19/2024 at 11:41 AM, TricianMike said:

I recently answered a post stating my #1 sexual thought was a 25 year old. Let me clear up that thought. 
If I am just looking for sex I want someone younger, good looking and quickly hard. 
If I am looking to have a fun night I enjoy a few friends who I can relate to who also enjoys us. 
Swinging is as much social as sexual. Sex for sex is Sex. 

Younger is not always better, something I experienced at a party. I won’t say he was 25 he was attractive enough just not that great sexually. 

[Numex 2,409]

With the couples who we swing with some we started as sex partners and became friends, some started as friends and became play partners and with a few we have developed romantic feelings and become lovers. So many in the lifestyle avoid that final step but my wife and I have reveled in it. We both have joyously return home, or been returned to, after a deeply intimate, loving time with another. It takes marriage to a whole other level.