Are bisexual women in the lifestyle really bisexual?

[njbm 2,868]

When we meet a new couple, in person or online, a big question is whether my wife is bisexual. If I were to ask her, she would say no. But for lifestyle purposes, she will play bi. It doesn’t bother her, but it is not her inclination or preference and she could live without it. 
 

But here is my gripe. My wife will and has performed oral on other women. I never remember anyone reciprocating! The odd thing is that my wife has a funny secret. She is devastatingly effective at cunnilingus. I asked her what her secret is, I wish that I were as effective. She says you have to put the work into it. I have seen her results and it is noteworthy. But she is not inclined to perform oral in that literally no one reciprocates. Maybe we have met a lot of half hearted bi women. 

[couplers 4,614]

In my limited experience, I would say that around a quarter of women are to some degree bisexual, and half of them are full-on pussy eaters.  That comes from the time when I was setting up my husband David with my female friends and acquaintances.  That's how we met Clair and Lora.

 

In our family, Clair started her sex life as exclusively Lesbian, until she decided that she liked men and dick shortly before playing with David.

 

Lora was more straight, but had sex with girls in college. 

 

Both of these women were part of the one-quarter who let me watch them with David, which turned me on to wanting to eat and reclaim his cum out of her.  I liked it. 

[cplnluv1 871]

I thought bisexual meant being romantically attracted to both sexes, I was corrected, it is sexually attracted too. When Alan asked me to have sex with another woman so he could watch I said no, I’m not gay. He knew I had sex with females before we met and just wanted to watch. Many women we met claimed they were straight and curious, some very emphatic they weren’t bi. I always assured them I wasn’t bi either. 
If you need to label me in the strict sense go ahead. I hate labels. The first woman Alan and I met is attractive young woman that we both enjoyed sexually. The ultimate act two women do sexually is oral sex. She was very willing with her overbearing boyfriend urging her. 
I need to be attracted to a person before being sexually attracted to them, romance is not part of the attraction. 

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,383]

5 hours ago, njbm said:

for lifestyle purposes, she will play bi. It doesn’t bother her, but it is not her inclination or preference and she could live without it. 

Same. My wife is recreationally bi.

 

5 hours ago, njbm said:

But here is my gripe. My wife will and has performed oral on other women. I never remember anyone reciprocating!

Maybe we have met a lot of half hearted bi women. 

Now that's not right!  I think maybe you've met a lot of selfish women. Ugh!

[njbm 2,868]

7 hours ago, hunterdonNJcpl said:

Same. My wife is recreationally bi.

 

Now that's not right!  I think maybe you've met a lot of selfish women. Ugh!

Pillow princesses. 

[Numex 2,409]

One woman in our group is mostly a pillow princess, but the other wives love going down on her, to prove a point I guess.

 

Daniela is both sexually and romantically attracted to women. For some reason especially to women whose husbands she plays with. She likes to be the intermediary between the two. That was one of her, many, motivations for before we got serious having relationships with married men whose wives didn't know, she felt like she was dating and having a relationship with the wife as well, buying gifts for him to give to her, suggesting romantic gestures, etc.