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[Dieingtomakeastart 0]

I've been trying to sample the swinging world after my ex left me after I stayed with her through her cancer then left me for someone else. It was a mentally abusive relationship but I survived and am a new man who wa to to explore, I'm in the north east and getting nowhere tried fabswingers and get nothing. Really struggling with it all now as she got me into the idea of swinging and trying new stuff and I want to try as much as possible. I'm very horny most the time but after a drink and others I literally go mad and just wanna do anything.  Should i give up?

[lcmim 1,086]

 

 

It may take a while for you to heal from your experience.

 

I am not sure that swinging, which for the most part is a couples sport is where I would go if suddenly single.

 

There are many places to meet potential partners from church to dating services and bars.

If you are looking for a target rich environment only, you may find the hot wife subset of this community OK, but I think you may do better in the bar/service area.

[Dieingtomakeastart 0]

Just now, lcmim said:

 

 

It may take a while for you to heal from your experience.

 

I am not sure that swinging, which for the most part is a couples sport is where I would go if suddenly single.

 

There are many places to meet potential partners from church to dating services and bars.

If you are looking for a target rich environment only you may find the hot wife subset of this community OK, but I think you may do better in the bar/service area.

Hey

 

The relationship was dead for a long time she just used me but we talked about swinging and exploring but we never did. I dont think I cam do another relationship especially when I want to explore and experiment 

[bbarnsworth 2,652]

There are several swinger dating sites. Get paid and on ones that seem to be popular in your area. You can try free trials or signup for free at first to see how many couples are in your area looking for single males. If you don't get a paid account, people won't take you seriously.

 

Next, understand that single males in the lifestyle are a dime a dozen. There are a LOT more single males looking for couples than there are couples looking for single males. You have to make yourself stand out. You don't do that by putting dick pics on your profile and being sleezy. You do that by being a gentleman, understanding your role as a third, respecting both partners in the couple, and focusing on her pleasure. There's more to it, but that's a good start.