Bi Couples

[Bob E 46]

I have several questions for both about male/male anal sex.

Do women fantasies about your guy getting anal sex/giving anal sex ?

Do they like you fingering/using toy in their ass ? (or anyone else doing it)

How many guys like anal with fingers or toys ?

How many guys have had, or want to have anal sex with a guy ?  Give or receive.

 

Reason I ask:  Is because I like being fingered or a toy.  Would like to have the real thing !  (Cum and all)

 

[couplers 4,817]

The men in our poly family and the other men we've played with have no interest in gay sex.  They do, however, enjoy from a woman light finger play around their bum holes and sometimes into it, circling around, especially when getting a blow job from a woman.

 

 

Edited December 13, 2024 by couplers

[njbm 2,932]

I think a lot of heterosexual men would try receiving or giving oral sex to a man. The problem is that if they list as bi or bi-curious, they will turn off vigorously straight men.

So you have to sort it out in person. I think gay anal sex is a higher level of commitment. Probably less participants.

[Numex 2,494]

On 12/14/2024 at 2:15 PM, njbm said:

I think a lot of heterosexual men would try receiving or giving oral sex to a man.

I tried it twice, with two different men on several occasions, both oral and anal, both receiving and giving to orgasm/ejaculation. Not because I wanted to, I wasn't interested at all, but because my wife and the other guys' wives pushed it and we wanted to make them happy. They did enjoy it in a non-sexual way, smirking and laughing at us. Never again.

[couplers 4,817]

On 12/15/2024 at 6:08 PM, Numex said:

I tried it twice, .. Not because I wanted to, I wasn't interested at all, but because my wife and the other guys' wives pushed it

Talk about taking one for the team...

[ConfusedHubby 131]

On 12/15/2024 at 8:08 PM, Numex said:

They did enjoy it in a non-sexual way, smirking and laughing at us.

I certainly don't judge you on M/M contact (bi-oral myself) but this statement is confusing to me...   You are not sexually interested in men, but took turns fucking one another in the ass so that your wives could laugh and make fun of you???    What am I missing?

[njbm 2,932]

On 12/15/2024 at 8:08 PM, Numex said:

I tried it twice, with two different men on several occasions, both oral and anal, both receiving and giving to orgasm/ejaculation. Not because I wanted to, I wasn't interested at all, but because my wife and the other guys' wives pushed it and we wanted to make them happy. They did enjoy it in a non-sexual way, smirking and laughing at us. Never again.

Sounds like the wives were trying to humiliate you guys. No bueno. Boo!

[couplers 4,817]

On 12/17/2024 at 5:46 AM, couplers said:

Talk about taking one for the team...

... and from the same team at that.

 

 

Edited December 18, 2024 by couplers

[Numex 2,494]

On 12/17/2024 at 9:41 AM, ConfusedHubby said:

I certainly don't judge you on M/M contact (bi-oral myself) but this statement is confusing to me...   You are not sexually interested in men, but took turns fucking one another in the ass so that your wives could laugh and make fun of you???    What am I missing?

 

On 12/17/2024 at 9:45 PM, njbm said:

Sounds like the wives were trying to humiliate you guys. No bueno. Boo!

First, I have no problem with your comments or being "judged." We're all here for an honest exchange.

The wives weren't trying to humiliate or make fun of us. It started as a discussion with another couple about women sucking dick and doing anal, whether they enjoyed it, and whether it was physically good or just the sense of pleasing a man. The way men do anal different than pussy, whether swallowing is fun for the woman or just done to please the guy, etc. So as the four of us talked back and forth, the wives said, "well, you do it," and we agreed, sort of reluctantly, but also with the understanding of what they do for us. Admittedly, our attempts by us men, were awkward, inexperienced and funny in a way. We knew this couple, and the other one I did the gay stuff with, very well so it was about as comfortable as I could have expected. Not enjoyable, but not so bad. For me, anal was the worst both ways, getting oral done on me the least objectionable. One of the other guys thought it the other way around. It depended on what was easier to ignore. Between a man and a woman you might think that a mouth is a mouth and an ass hole is an ass hole, but not so.

Talking about sucking dick, I told the women that we men eat pussy so they're not doing anything special. My wife said, but so do we, that's much nicer.

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,479]

@Numex good for you and the ladies for having an open-minded experimental mindset.  Very often, the best swinging experiences are when boundaries are being pushed.  As long as feelings don't get hurt it's all good!

[njbm 2,932]

Thank you for your expanded comments, Numex. Like texting, sometimes it is hard to get the full context from the brief comments that everyone writes here. Kudos to you for breaking new ground. You qualify as a “try-sexual.” It actually reads as a hot scene. 

Edited December 20, 2024 by njbm

[NerdsAreFun 230]

We're a both bi couple and find it hot if the same cock has been inside both of us.  It's a relatively rare event but has happened including both top and bottom.  Love eating out my wife while being fucked.  She loves to watch/encourage and suck me while it happens too.

[herpob 578]

On 12/12/2024 at 9:15 PM, Bob E said:

I have several questions for both about male/male anal sex.

Do women fantasies about your guy getting anal sex/giving anal sex ?

Do they like you fingering/using toy in their ass ? (or anyone else doing it)

How many guys like anal with fingers or toys ?

How many guys have had, or want to have anal sex with a guy ?  Give or receive.

 

Reason I ask:  Is because I like being fingered or a toy.  Would like to have the real thing !  (Cum and all)

 

I absolutely love my husband taking cock, both orally and anally.  I fantasized about it since my college days. Eventually it happened as we opened our marriage, one step at a time and then one day OH MY W........!!!  One of the hottest 5 things EVER!

 

Yes we both play anally with toys, fingers, and orally (super duper clean). Orally is how we both get available to do more, much much more. We do it ourselves for each other and do it top each other, often.

 

He has had a couple dozen guys orally as well as anally. Now we have 14 guys we do it with on a regular basis and 10 ladies - all couples. 

 

As NerdsAreFun stated, my husband and I both love it when he is eating me out after a few of the guys have cum in me and he is taking one anally. He can eat me for hours taking cock after cock one he gets to this point and I can let him!     

 

 

 

 

Edited December 21, 2024 by herpob

[Numex 2,494]

On 12/20/2024 at 6:38 AM, hunterdonNJcpl said:

Very often, the best swinging experiences are when boundaries are being pushed.

I'm glad we did it, although I don't plan to do it again. You have to try new thing and it doesn't work out, just move on, no blame or recriminations.

[Numex 2,494]

On 12/20/2024 at 6:54 AM, njbm said:

You qualify as a “try-sexual.” It actually reads as a hot scene. 

Thanks. The girls really enjoyed the show and that's enough for us guys.

[WesternSwing 522]

Do women fantasies about your guy getting anal sex/giving anal sex ?

I am not a woman, and I can't answer for  all women, but my wife doesn't necessarily fantasize about seeing me playing with another man, but it does turn her on to see it when we are all playing together. It was her that encouraged me to wade further into exploring my "bi" side. She kept telling me that getting fucked by a real cock feel completely different than even the most realistic dildos. 

 

Do they like you fingering/using toy in their ass ? (or anyone else doing it)

My wife does like me fingering, toying, plugging, and fucking her ass. My wife also likes fingering mine and fucking me with a strap-on. 

 

How many guys like anal with fingers or toys ?

I do. I am very anal-centric though. I always have been. I have always like my ass being played with by my partner/wife, and I love playing with my partner/wife's ass. The prostate is an incredible orgasm enhancer at the very least, and a huge, draining, all-body orgasm when the person penetrating you with fingers, toys or dick knows what they are doing. 

 

How many guys have had, or want to have anal sex with a guy ?  Give or receive.

I've give and receive actual anal sex from a man, and I personally love it. As my wife said, it is different, and in some ways better than just a dildo in a strap-on, 

 

Again, the orgasms are way different than just cock stimulation, and can make a even an excellent cock stimulated orgasm into an out of body experience.

 

That all said, I don't consider myself truly bisexual, but rather just sexual. I'm a solid 2 on the Kinsey Scale: I like sex with men and women, but am not romantically interested in men and sexually lean far more towards women. In fact, I really don't even find men particularly attractive, but I do think dick is awesome and I like playing with them, and like women, I like making them cum. There's a lot of control in that, and at heart I am through and through a Pleasure Dom. 

[lovefest04 707]

On 12/27/2024 at 7:17 PM, WesternSwing said:

I'm a solid 2 on the Kinsey Scale: I like sex with men and women, but am not romantically interested in men and sexually lean far more towards women. In fact, I really don't even find men particularly attractive, but I do think dick is awesome and I like playing with them, and like women, I like making them cum.

Well said. My situation is almost identical.

 

Happy New Year

[TnA83 328]

Likewise.  I'm not interested in a relationship with a guy, but I love cocks.  I have not ventured much into the back door, giving or receiving, but I love sucking them and making them cum.  I wish I could do more, but I don't get out much these days.  I really wish my wife would dig such things and we could share a hot cock together!

[Numex 2,494]

On 12/20/2024 at 6:38 AM, hunterdonNJcpl said:

Very often, the best swinging experiences are when boundaries are being pushed. 

The best consequence for me is that it improved the sex I have with the guys' wives.