You know it’s trouble when…

[njbm 2,897]

We recently played with another couple. We played with them a month ago with reasonable success, we thought.

 

This time the husband brought a couple of new tricks to the bed. While my wife was trying to achieve an orgasm with a toy, he decided to countdown (10, 9, etc.) and advised her to orgasm at the end of his countdown. No pressure. He also asked her later if she realized he was trying to hypnotize her into an orgasm. She told him she was concentrating and she blocked him out. 

 

I was in the same bed playing with his wife. I did not hear him specifically say the above things, but I did notice that he did not shut up the entire play session. It occurred to me to flee to another bedroom, but I did not want to abandon my wife. 
 

There is a chance the other couple or one spouse may read this post. If so, I am sure he will know he did this. His parlor tricks were poorly received and showed an unsympathetic understanding of female wiring and concerns. 
 

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,419]

1 hour ago, njbm said:

While my wife was trying to achieve an orgasm with a toy, he decided to countdown (10, 9, etc.) and advised her to orgasm at the end of his countdown. No pressure. He also asked her later if she realized he was trying to hypnotize her into an orgasm. She told him she was concentrating and she blocked him out. 

 

It's amazing how often people open their mouths and fuck everything up.  It reminds me of that old saying "it's better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt".

[njbm 2,897]

We went out to dinner with this couple after the hypnosis session. We split the bill 50-50. The hypnotist said “ You do realize that you two ordered two drinks and we had none.” I had to exert every ounce of self-control not to mention that we had them over our house for a pre-game champagne, cheese, grapes, nuts, etc. set up at our expense. And hosted the session at which he asked me if I had any condoms.  I think you see where this relationship is going (went). 

[bbarnsworth 2,652]

Yeah, past tense. Definitely past tense.

[KatrinaandDriverX 118]

DriverX here.  I grew up on the poor side of the poor side of the tracks. I vowed if I succeeded financially I'd never be the person watching every nickel. To be a gracious host  and be generous.  These days I'm in a very good situation and fortunate that doing a little extra is easy enough. So a fifty-fifty split was a bit unequal. So what ? Not only would I have been grateful for the Champagne earlier, I get to have sex with your wife. That's worth being seen, especially by her, as  generous, even in a small way.

 

I have found, when it comes to being petty about money, people will rise to the occasion like a Phoenix from the ashes.  Also, when a person is desperate for control, as this guy was, they're the type that always tries to take control with money all under the guise of being 'fair'.  Now, this guy has certainly been in this situation before. If keeping things to the penny mattered, he simply asks the waitress to have separate checks at the start of the meal.  No fuss, no muss. They do it all the time.

 

One time we met a couple at a Club. We decided to get a hotel and he suggested something of a low end quality. Nothing wrong with that.   Economically, it made sense for them. Yet, I didn't want to harm his ego by saying,"Let me get this". I simply said I have a kajillion hotel points, I can get us a suite at the Hilton and it won't cost either of us a thing. The next few hours were great. A happy play couple really puts out and they were very, very happy. Even Katrina said she could tell the other husband made an extra effort with her that night. Happy (well fucked) wife, happy life.