Sick spouse

[Mikey477 46]

Damn, wife and I were going to play with one of our regular couples this weekend, but she caught a bad cold. Wish she could come along to play, but ya know, feeling unwell is feeling unwell. Of course, she and I already established that we can play alone with other couples if one of us got sick. Still, it would have been more fun.

 

I've gotten sick myself, and couldn't go with my wife to play with other couples. At least my wife promised to sent pictures to me after the fun, which I still enjoyed.

 

How would y'all feel if your spouse couldn't come with you to have some fun, due to being sick?

[NWAtlSwing 526]

Neither of us would go play without the other even though we would both be like "Go play"

[njbm 2,898]

We have not played separately. Also, if one spouse has a cold, the other spouse is probably a day behind.   
On a related note, we have friends whose profile says “same room, separate room, front seat, back seat, same state, separate state.”

[couplers 4,711]

When we play outside our poly family, which is infrequent other than with one couple, we have no rules about being alone or who needs to be there, for us or them.

 

Every couple has their own approach, however.  Part of it for us, I think, is that with all our damn kids someone, usually more than one, has to stay behind.

 

For me personally, in our early days of our strictly MFM relationship and when it came to me wanting David to play as well, many of my female friends were eager to fuck my good-looking, safe, polite husband, but few wanted me there to watch.  Not being there is a different kind of thrill.

Edited 13 hours ago by couplers

[AdamGunn2 417]

Like NWAtl, we would stay home to take care of our spouse. Even though both would say, go, have fun. 

 

On the other hand, we had a foursome planned with a regular couple once and the wife had to go out of town - a sudden family thing. We invited the husband over for an MFM and had a great amount of fun.

 

Bottom line, you do you, just make sure there's no hurt feelings.