Does having Sex with a Trans Woman make you Bi, or are you still Straight??

[Jamison 61]

I was at a swingers party for New Years and I saw an incredibly Beautiful woman walk in.  She had Jet Black Hair, Lots of tattoos, she was Petite with Small Perky Breasts and nice hips and Booty.  But the ting that caught my attention was how pretty she was.  We chatted for a bit, she was funny and very flirtatious.  She had a light pretty voice.  As the evening progressed I kissed her and asked her if she wanted to go back to my hotel room.  She flashed me a bright smile and said she absolutely did, but first she wanted me to know she was a Trans Woman.  I was floored cause nothing, and I mean nothing said Trans woman to me.  Voice was incredibly feminine, she was so petite, no adams apple, and looked like a woman thru and thru.  Part of me thought she was fucking with me.  I decided she presents as a woman, she's chosen female as her assignment, and she was sooooo God damn pretty, and we really did click.  So I said I was fine with it and we left.  We had a fantastic night, and I mean super fantastic.  She was a wild cat in the sack, and I enjoyed everything we did.  She said she'd love to see me again the next morning, and I felt the same.  I told my wife about it and she thought it was super hot, and we've had two 3 sums with my wife and her since that night.  All fantastic, and her and I have hooked up 2 more times.  When we are together I do not see a Trans Woman I see a woman.  And she considers herself a woman.  My wife considers her a woman.  So my question is, if a guy has sex with a Trans Woman does that make him Bi or is it still straight sex between a man and a woman?  What do you guys think?

[hunterdonNJcpl 1,481]

Well, why even put a label on it?  If you're all enjoying yourself and nobody is getting hurt forget about calling it this or that.

 

These days there are plenty of LS couples that engage in bi mmf, and if you ask those hubbies if they're straight or bi most will say straight.

[Baconheads 455]

I agree, no labels.  BTW, how far had she gone in the transition to being a women? Breast augmentation? Did she still have a penis and stones?

 

I have a trans girl neighbor across the street, but she doesn't really pull it off.  She's had the full transitional surgery, but I think I would be more turned on by a trans girl that still had a nice cock.

[J&Wu 425]

I consider myself Bi based on what I would do with penises, like fondle, suck and take it anally. If a trans woman has not had bottom surgery we could do the same penis play and penetrate each other's anus as pictured by almost all the photo posters on the NewTransNude.com site. I've seen some with top surgery on the site, none with bottom surgery.

I have had the pleasure of sex with a fully transitioned statuesque Lady. She's also worked on her voice and femininity. She does not have the parts to do anything sexually to me than any other person born a girl. She does have a prostate around her pee tube which works like a g-spot. Her vagina is too small for bigger guys but she can take small cocks. I did oral with her and then she finished me oral. Her breasts are ever so nice. To me it's a hetero-sexual relationship no Bi needed even if she wanted to be anal penetrated!

[couplers 4,817]

I too do not believe in labels or restrictions among consenting adults, but since you are soliciting opinions, a man having sex with a trans woman is gay.

 

I say this as a woman who doesn't like to describe myself as "bi" - I have a full-on Lesbian side (including deep emotional attachments) and a hetero side, which is also physical and emotional.  It comes down to the XX and XY thing.

[WesternSwing 524]

On 1/9/2025 at 11:50 AM, Jamison said:

When we are together I do not see a Trans Woman I see a woman.  And she considers herself a woman.  My wife considers her a woman.  So my question is, if a guy has sex with a Trans Woman does that make him Bi or is it still straight sex between a man and a woman?  What do you guys think?

Good question. I would say that I'm a solid 2 on the Kinsey Scale: I like sex with (some) men, but I have no interest in having a relationship with a man and I'm not going to go out of my way to have sex with a man, whereas a 3 on the scale would be both sexually and romantically attracted to someone of the same sex and would pursue both equally. We could get into the finer nuances of the bisexuality scale that dives deeper into the range of 2 to 4 on the Kinsey Scale, but that's another thread. 

 

I am not physically attracted to men in general, but I do like cock. I don't seek to meet up with men on dating or swingers sites. I don't look at their pics and think: "Wow, I want to fuck him." like a gay man does or someone who is more bi than I. I've had bi friends invite me to have threesomes with them and one of their playmates and it just doesn't appeal to me. I have played solo with bi friends and if the opportunity presents itself with someone I click with, well then I might go there. I like having MFM threesomes with my wife or another woman and a man who considers themselves bisexual or bi-curious because I like the atmosphere of whatever feels good is okay and I don't want to freak anyone out.

 

All that said, I don't consider myself "bi" so much as just "sexual", and maybe that's where the bisexuality scale comes into play.

 

So there you have it. You can identify however you want to identify. You may just be a straight dude who has a girlfriend with a cock.