gokuandchichi 8 Posted Monday at 03:36 AM Hi Everyone. I am a bit curious if this is the norm in swinging or maybe even just in Australia. We have been in the lifestyle for just over 18 months. We are seperate swingers in the same venue. We meet plenty of people as we are friendly and resonably good looking. After meeting people we usually get details for messaging. What I am finding is that if I (the make) don't message then there is no conversation. I am not talking about the initial 1st message. I am talking about weeks of messages later, it still is only me that messages first. Even women who approach me first in the club. Just to clarify, I don't message everyday. I get a constant barrage of messages and emails from work so sometimes I don't feel like messaging. That being said I will always answer a message within the hour. This leads me to a few questions. 1. Does this only happen in Australia? 2. If this is so, perhaps a reason from the Ladies. Would love to have some insight 3. Am I doing something wrong? Any help would be appreciated Quote Share this post Link to post
