Cumming inside or outside

[Lvscreampies 7]

I love it when hubby goes balls deep and pushes as hard as he can and I feel his cock pump deep in my vagina. When I ride him, I love feeling his cock pump like that deep in me. Then I lift up and sit on his face and mouth so he can swallow everything I push out and then lick me clean of his cum mess. 

[bbarnsworth 2,665]

On 12/26/2022 at 1:48 PM, Numex said:

It is my belief that women having multiple partners and them cumming inside her vagina is the normal and natural thing.  And guys want a woman who has already been recently fucked and creampied, especially his wife or partner.  It is quite noticeable in our group where the second round of fucking is much more intense than the first.  A third round, when possible, can be crazy.  I think that's why you hear so much form men about cuckolding/ hot wifeing, MFMs/gangbangs, sperm competition, etc.

^^^ This. I've had the good fortune to have sex with my wife many times after one of her (long term; only they get to go bareback) boyfriends has just cum inside of her. I absolutely leave penetrating her feeling her so sloppy with another man's cum and completely open, receptive, and very warm. It's quite intense! I've never been able to do that after two (or more) men have cum in her, but I'd love to try.

[couplers 4,799]

On 10/12/2004 at 1:02 PM, dave110256 said:

The reason I ask this is I have heard many prefer to see the orgasm rather than hear it.

As a woman I prefer to feel his orgasm and ejaculation.  The pulsing of his prostate, the pumping of his semen.  In my vagina (where God intended it), in my mouth, in my bum (where He doesn't).  If I haven't cum yet (or even if I have) it puts me over the top.

[kittyswinger 264]

During swing play, he can cum inside me but with a condom. Or he can cum outside, anywhere on me. For my SO and bf, they can cum inside on safe days. And of course, in mouth or bum.

[couplers 4,799]

4 hours ago, kittyswinger said:

safe days

Are you referring to the rhythm method of birth control? 

[NerdsAreFun 230]

On 12/26/2022 at 1:48 PM, Numex said:

It is my belief that women having multiple partners and them cumming inside her vagina is the normal and natural thing.  And guys want a woman who has already been recently fucked and creampied, especially his wife or partner.  It is quite noticeable in our group where the second round of fucking is much more intense than the first.  A third round, when possible, can be crazy.  I think that's why you hear so much form men about cuckolding/ hot wifeing, MFMs/gangbangs, sperm competition, etc.

Evolutionarily, that is why penises have ridged heads.  To scoop out the competition and replace with your own.

Edited January 26, 2023 by NerdsAreFun

[kittyswinger 264]

15 hours ago, couplers said:

Are you referring to the rhythm method of birth control? 

Not really. If one is not on bc pill, there are new ways to predict fertility (kit, apps, etc) and avoid those days as an extra layer of protection.

[TnA83 327]

On 12/17/2022 at 8:10 PM, let's do it again said:

I never understood why either the guy or gal would want to cum on the women's face, must be a porn thing. Call me old fashioned, but I prefer to cum in her pussy, bareback!  And as far as using condoms, I think women don't want to use condoms as much as the men, I have had women tell me that either they are allergic to latex or it rubbs their pussy raw.

I think it is degrading to cum on a woman's face.  My wife agrees.  Now she can dominate my face with her pussy all day if she wants, even drowning me with her juices!  Of course I love to cum in her pussy as deeply as possible, but sometimes I cum shallow or on the outside of n her pussy and lick it up.  The only thing hotter would be to lick up another guy's cum...

[Tomy Nikki 72]

I only let my husband and my long time bf cum inside me and for others we use condoms. If you ask cuming inside or outside which you would prefer I would say inside. 

[AndyPlays 33]

I understand why people use condoms but I really try to play only bareback these days, creampies give me the greatest o's.

 

I'm only looking for friends that want that special connection bareback sex offers.

 

Just my opinion, I know some will strongly disagree on here.

[NerdsAreFun 230]

On 1/28/2023 at 12:12 PM, AndyPlays said:

I understand why people use condoms but I really try to play only bareback these days, creampies give me the greatest o's.

 

I'm only looking for friends that want that special connection bareback sex offers.

 

Just my opinion, I know some will strongly disagree on here.

Yeah we've also reached the point that if we don't trust someone enough for bareback, we're not interested in hooking up with them at all.  Which does make the hunt for playmates a much longer mission.

[David Lovell 166]

Amy and I were discussing. She her first cream pie was a big risk that she took   but  ontinuedfor 5 more  years with condoms. She said that birth control  changed the dimesion of love making. She has just two playmates that she wants to finish inside her. Once her lover cum on her belly and she didn't like it.

[GoNatural 107]

On 12/17/2022 at 9:10 PM, let's do it again said:

I never understood why either the guy or gal would want to cum on the women's face, must be a porn thing. Call me old fashioned, but I prefer to cum in her pussy, bareback!  And as far as using condoms, I think women don't want to use condoms as much as the men, I have had women tell me that either they are allergic to latex or it rubbs their pussy raw.

I feel the same way about cumming on a woman's face.  I've never found that interesting, and think it's learned from porn too.   I also never had an urge to pull out and cum on her body.   Other than with my first girlfriend back in the day, if we're going bare that means I can cum in her pussy.  That's my favorite way to cum.

 

When it comes to swinging, to me one of the most exciting things has been to meet up with a new couple that prefers it bareback from the very first play date.  I remember my early days feeling almost surreal to be invited to their house, then to their bed in the master bedroom, and then to enter her bare.   It can't be beat.

[couplers 4,799]

On 1/24/2023 at 1:08 PM, Lvscreampies said:

I love it when hubby goes balls deep and pushes as hard as he can and I feel his cock pump deep in my vagina.

 

21 hours ago, GoNatural said:

I also never had an urge to pull out and cum on her body.

It seems to me that when a guy is ejaculating, his instinct or urge is to push in and not pull out.  Despite the porn, guys want to cum inside where they are, that's one of the reasons that the pull-out method isn't reliable birth control. 

[Anon321 524]

On 2/20/2023 at 10:40 AM, GoNatural said:

I feel the same way about cumming on a woman's face.  I've never found that interesting, and think it's learned from porn too.   I also never had an urge to pull out and cum on her body.   Other than with my first girlfriend back in the day, if we're going bare that means I can cum in her pussy.  That's my favorite way to cum.

I agree that it probably came from porn but lots of other things came from porn too.  Facials, facefucking, choking, cuckolding, etc have been made pretty popular by porn in my opinion.  If you look at the porn today there seems to be a huge thing around incest.  Clearly a lot of people find it hot to watch or fantasize about but they clearly aren't actually acting it out in real life.  Same goes with all the cheating/ cuckolding porn.  A lot seem to find it hot to watch but very few actually want to do it in real life.  But cumming on a woman's face has been pretty popular in porn but clearly an enjoyable experience in private life for many as well.  Same goes with facefucking.  Obviously they aren't for everyone but just because porn may have made it more popular doesn't mean people don't naturally enjoy those things.  On the other hand, stuff like cuckolding and incest is very popular in porn right now but hasn't translated to it happening in reap life like the other activities.

[let's do it again 417]

On 2/21/2023 at 6:55 AM, couplers said:

 

It seems to me that when a guy is ejaculating, his instinct or urge is to push in and not pull out.  Despite the porn, guys want to cum inside where they are, that's one of the reasons that the pull-out method isn't reliable birth control. 

I always want to cum inside, I never understood the cum on her face craze. When I feel I am going to cum, I push in deeper and harder, my DNA is telling me to get this woman pregnant!

[couplers 4,799]

18 hours ago, let's do it again said:

my DNA is telling me to get this woman pregnant!

Yeah, and mine is telling me that I want his sperm swimming up into me, even if I don’t want, and couldn’t, get pregnant.  And it's not just for the moment.  Psychologically, I take pleasure and comfort in the knowledge that even after I've cleaned up, there is a living part of men who care for me living deep inside me.

[Vixxen69 4]

I love cum inside my pussy. I’m an all out confessed cum whore and I couldn’t be able to even say that 5 years ago before we got in the lifestyle. We go to great lengths to make our parties bareback (clean, complete STD reports done no more than a week prior, HPV vaccine records, etc). 
 

The feeling of walking around with the cum of four different guys inside of me (my hubby gets sloppy fourths of course!) is just delicious.

[couplers 4,799]

4 minutes ago, Vixxen69 said:

 

The feeling of walking around with the cum of four different guys inside of me (my hubby gets sloppy fourths of course!) is just delicious.

Exactly.  For me, however, it's not the cum generally, although I definitely enjoy the feel and thought of that mess inside me.  It is the living sperm, swimming around looking to continue the act, going ever deeper into me looking for the egg that I find alternately exciting and comforting.  That's why I am a woman having sex.

 

The most I've had is the sperm of four different men from one play session on several occasions.  It was, however, my loving boyfriend Red who went last.

[let's do it again 417]

On 5/14/2023 at 7:44 AM, couplers said:

Exactly.  For me, however, it's not the cum generally, although I definitely enjoy the feel and thought of that mess inside me.  It is the living sperm, swimming around looking to continue the act, going ever deeper into me looking for the egg that I find alternately exciting and comforting.  That's why I am a woman having sex.

 

The most I've had is the sperm of four different men from one play session on several occasions.  It was, however, my loving boyfriend Red who went last.

I appreciate that a woman would want to carry my seed in her. Red is a lucky man to plant his seed last and feel the leftovers of the men before him.

[couplers 4,799]

12 hours ago, let's do it again said:

Red is a lucky man to plant his seed last

They were all lucky men.

[branden2388 27]

For me, I'll cum almost every time inside the vagina. Sometimes I will withdraw my penis and cum on the woman's labia and then reinsert it back again for a few more strokes. I do this as I get very turned on seeing my cum spread over the woman's labia. Cumming on the rest of the body feels unnatural to me so I simply avoid doing it.

[Bob E 45]

On 10/12/2004 at 3:02 PM, dave110256 said:

Here's a question for the guys and gals. Which way do you prefer...a man cumming in his partner's mouth, vagina, or ass OR cumming on a body part?

 

The reason I ask this is I have heard many prefer to see the orgasm rather than hear it.

"INSIDE" ALWAYS !!

Love eating pussy with a load of cum in it !

Kissing with a mouth full is hot !

Now anal ----  NOT !  But do love anal sex -- both ways  🙂

 

[Bob E 45]

On 10/12/2004 at 3:02 PM, dave110256 said:

Here's a question for the guys and gals. Which way do you prefer...a man cumming in his partner's mouth, vagina, or ass OR cumming on a body part?

 

The reason I ask this is I have heard many prefer to see the orgasm rather than hear it.

As I stated "INSIDE" !

However: my former wife, (and several lady partners) had never seen a mans cum or seen it gush from his cock.

Simple:  I would lay back, spread my legs and jack off for them.

They all were surprised, but turned on, watching cum squirt from my cock.

All ask me do to it several times over.

So ladies:  if you want to see cum --- just ask the guy to jack off for you !

BTW -- did it for a group of 5 girls when I was 14  🙂

 

[Half MT 273]

I don’t like to complain about any of the men we met and played with so I will try to explain my preference. Every man takes a different amount of time to cum as do us women. Heck even I sometimes need more time while other times I can orgasm fast. If we are having sex and I let you in me I want to please you as much as I want to be pleased. Why why why would you stop to cum on my body before I would be ready. I’m learning not every man can hold back, please don’t pull out unless you are sure I was pleased. The worst thing is just stopping when I am seconds away myself. Men should think of their partner, we don’t get thrills of cum on our bellies or backs. Your orgasm in me can trigger my own orgasm while you pulling out just stops everything for me. 

[Anon321 524]

Seems like everyone wants the cum inside of them.  I guess we're the odd couple out on this one.

[PeterJ 977]

42 minutes ago, Half MT said:

The worst thing is just stopping when I am seconds away myself. Men should think of their partner, we don’t get thrills of cum on our bellies or backs. Your orgasm in me can trigger my own orgasm while you pulling out just stops everything for me. 

All very well said, H MT! I hope lots of folks read your comment and take it to heart.

 

The part of your comment I’ve quoted brings to mind a long ago incident with one of my grad-school classmates with whom I had a robust years-long FWB (mostly "benefits") relationship. We knew each other’s bodies and responses well. At that point in my life I could orgasm and not necessarily lose my erection immediately (and sometimes not at all). Once were doing doggie and I unexpectedly passed the point of stop-ability. With the usual moans, groans and other vocalizations I announced my orgasm. As I started to withdraw (I reckoned I could get her off orally) she screamed "Don’t stop now!!!" I pushed back in and within just a few strokes she was calling out her own orgasm. 

[PeterJ 977]

I’m in my mid-70s. From 1962, when I began having partnered sex through the early 70s I never pulled out of a woman’s pussy before ejaculation except for reasons of (pretty unreliable) contraception. I lived in a small town and I was afraid that if I’d bought condoms at either of the village’s pharmacies the pharmacist would have ratted me out to my parents.🙄

 

As It has in numerous ways, I think that with the release of "Deep Throat", "The Devil In Miss Jones" and other titles from the Golden Age of Porn, through first the proliferation of adult theaters and then video stores with adult sections, the visual representation of explicit sex became a widespread aspect of popular culture. (In the late ‘60s I recall going to a theater with my girlfriend and one of our friends to watch an non-explicit "educational" film, that featured a solemn "doctor" in white lab coat taking about stuff like sex positions — none my GF and I hadn’t already tried out😉 — which were then simulated by an almost nude couple (the guy was wearing white jockey shorts). 😆 

 

I believe that in the context of a time when there had previously been mostly simulated intercourse on screen, external ejaculation was proof that this sex was "real". ("It wasn’t an orgasm if I don’t see the jizz!") Then as now, folks get too little of their information about sex from truly informed sources. A lot comes from porn. By the time I was in my late 20s, as great as it felt to ejaculate in my partners’ pussies, sometimes, particularly if they’d already reached orgasm, I’d withdraw and maybe with a couple of strokes encourage a really full ejaculation. Was I thinking about porn? No. But having seen plenty of external ejaculations on film and/or video, this seemed like normal behavior. 
 

And some of my partners were enthusiastic for me to do that. Most were fastidious and would wipe up the puddle of semen with a tissue, but others liked to let it linger or join me in massaging it into their skin. (One woman in grad school who semi moved in, would sometimes have me jerk off on her boobs in the morning so she could take a bit of me off to class. Really.)

 

During the recently ended decade plus that I often attended sex parties organized by a late friend of mine in Florida, condoms were the general rule for intercourse. For some men, myself included, even an especially thin condom interferes with full orgasmic satisfaction. I sometimes would observe guys fuck for a long time and them pull out, tear off the condom and then get finished with a few strokes of their hand or a handjob or blowjob by their partner. 
 

At one of those parties I did observe a cautionary tale. I had played earlier one evening with a couple who had driven down from Cincinnati. Toward the end of the evening he was fucking her missionary while several of us watched their performance. He abruptly pulled out and in a few strokes produced for our edification an impressive arc of semen! Some of which landed in his wife’s eye. Apparently this wasn’t the first time something like this had occurred. She was pissed! She said that eye would be irritated all the way back to Ohio.

 

 

[MidwestHoneys 368]

21 hours ago, Half MT said:

I don’t like to complain about any of the men we met and played with so I will try to explain my preference. Every man takes a different amount of time to cum as do us women. Heck even I sometimes need more time while other times I can orgasm fast. If we are having sex and I let you in me I want to please you as much as I want to be pleased. Why why why would you stop to cum on my body before I would be ready. I’m learning not every man can hold back, please don’t pull out unless you are sure I was pleased. The worst thing is just stopping when I am seconds away myself. Men should think of their partner, we don’t get thrills of cum on our bellies or backs. Your orgasm in me can trigger my own orgasm while you pulling out just stops everything for me. 

One of the biggest pleasures of sex is having your partner cum while you are in her. The biggest is shooting a load into a pulsating pussy. Unfortunately I’m not always able to hold back so I always try to stay in after, hoping it helps her. Another problem I have is not knowing if she came. One partner once told me I was the first man to make her cum from fucking, she usually cums from oral and toys. I had no idea she came. 
I watched Honey with many men, I can tell when she orgasms or doesn’t. Some guys will pull out and yank out to shoot on her, why?  I know she hates when a guy cums on her face but pretends that it was great.  Yes she fakes it at times. 

[PeterJ 977]

3 hours ago, MidwestHoneys said:

I watched Honey with many men, I can tell when she orgasms or doesn’t. Some guys will pull out and yank out to shoot on her, why?  I know she hates when a guy cums on her face but pretends that it was great.  Yes she fakes it at times. 

I know people make choices about expressing their true emotional responses to events, particularly in the case of intimacies with strangers. But if I am candid, I find the phrase I highlighted above sort of sad and perhaps even a bit disturbing. For myself I would be appalled to learn that in my pursuit of my own gratification I had transgressed my partner’s comfort level.
 

This did to my knowledge happen to me once — and I suppose it may have happened other times and I never became aware — during a several-week fling with a work colleague. She loved to fuck, liked having a cock in her pussy, but found it impossible (with any partner) to achieve orgasm other than by masturbating herself with her hand. I experience a lot satisfaction from getting a partner off, but if that can’t/doesn’t happen I still enjoy the liaison. And I very much did with this woman. She liked doggie and we fucked that way frequently. Sometimes as my orgasm approached I would pull out and she would pivot 180° so I could ejaculate in her mouth. She always swallowed the whole load. I didn’t think much about it; it added a bit of variety to our frenzied coupling. (I would get a motel room. We would fuck after work and then meet up the next morning for another pre-work round. Yeah, mea culpa, classic cheater stuff.🙄)

 

The affair ran its course but we remained friendly. About a year later, after she had left the organization, we met for lunch. It was nice to catch up. Eventually the conversation turned to our affair and we were candid with one another about what it had meant to each of us, mostly at an emotional level. Then almost out of the blue she told me she really hadn’t liked it when I pulled out of her pussy and came in her mouth. I was chagrined. Eventually she married and we fell out of touch. I don’t beat myself up about that specific incident too much, but 35 years later when I think of her — as I am at this moment — I feel a twinge of regret, perhaps even of shame. And it might be why when I’m having partnered sex, particularly with a new partner, I do a lot of asking what they like and what they don’t. (I suspect sometimes a partner might find that annoying, and for sure it can fall by the wayside bin the middle of a group scene at an orgy.)

[couplers 4,799]

On 9/26/2005 at 10:00 AM, CuriousInOregon said:

I cant stand when I am standing there and GUSH my pants are wet (I am not a panty wearer so nothing extra to catch it)

I know what you mean, but I have mixed feelings about it.  I'm not a panty wearer and it's really a mess when I'm wearing a skirt or dress.  And if I get sexually excited my juices alone are enough to flow out down my leg.

 

On 9/26/2005 at 10:00 AM, CuriousInOregon said:

I have noticed that if I dont Shower or at least Douche afterwords I have the Smell of Sex all day long, Which is fine with me.... Reminds me of the fun I just had but I always wonder if anyone else can smell it and I am sure they wouldn't understand

It's subliminal, but my belief is that others, especially men, notice it and get subconsciously turned on.

 

 

Edited 16 hours ago by couplers