Party Games and Icebreakers - Sexy, fun ideas!

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

Here is a question I received a while back:

 

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We have been in the lifestyle for about 2.5 years. We have 2 couples whom we party with, separately though. We are thinking of having a party at our house and inviting those two couples. I have been searching for ideas on ice breakers. I guess we are looking for something a bit on the mature, erotic side and have not found anything. We were just wondering if you have any ideas or can point us in the right direction. Even some party themes would be a possibility.

Any thoughts for party games and icebreakers?

[JudeTx 15]

We have a game called "Intimate Commands" which can be as tame or wild as you and your friends are willing to let it me. It's a board game with a layout similar to Monopoly, with various "commands" given through the game. The best "commands" are the ones the players get to create themselves! We found it at a Lingerie type store that also has toys and games. Hope this helps.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

There are actually lots of really great board games out there aimed at couples.. and some at multiple couples. The ones aimed at couples, can be adapted so that more than one couple can play.. you just play as teams...

 

I would suggest to avoid the games with multiple spinners. Based on sexperience... by the time you finish getting all those spinner to actually land on something other than a line... you can lose the mood. One game on the list above that I have personally tried and would recommend is "Hearts Are Wild".

[TxCpl1972 15]

The Behind Closed Doors Party Game

By

Jack Handy

 

Items need for this game:

6 3 Dice of 3 different colors

7 3-4 players (maybe more)

8 What ever you like to drink

9 Open mind that is willing to have fun

 

How to get started

Each person needs to role a die to see who goes first, lowest number goes 1st Lowest role goes first and goes clock wise from there. The group playing the game will have to decide before the game starts what category each of the different colored dies will belong too. Before each role of the dice, you must take a drink for 5 seconds. Role dice at the same time (so no one can say that you planned the numbers that come up). At that time you will have to perform the act the 3 different numbers tell you to do, from the list below (you may add anything you like to the list, this could add more fun to the game). There is no time limit on how long the game will last (that will be up to the members playing the game), but there is one on the time you have to perform the act the numbers tell you to do. You have to start the act with 1 minute of rolling the dice, if you don't then you must drink for 8 seconds, and then perform the act (there is no getting out of the act, must be done). Each act has a minimum time of 1 minute and no less, more if you would like

 

Die One is for the Person for which the activity will include.

1 Person to Left

2 Person to Right

3 Person Across

4 Persons to L&R

5 Persons toLeft & Across

6 Persons to Right & Across

 

Die Two is for the Part of the Body to receive the action.

1 Face

2 Neck to Waist

3 Waist to Feet

4 Crotch area only

5 Butt area only

6 Your Choice

 

Die three is for the action.

1 Kiss

2 Caress

3 Lick

4 Rub & Kiss

5 Fuck

6 Your Choice

 

[LaylaSusanne 15]

Hey Everyone!

My hubby and I go to a club regularly that has fun and exciting "theme" nights and games to "break the ice"

 

One of our favorites was the "Everyone Gets Screwed" game.

 

You go to the hardware store, and buy a selection of Nuts and Bolts of various sizes.

 

You give each guy a Bolt, and each Girl a Nut. And you make a peice of paper with each person's name on it.

 

You then appoint one person the "Foreman"

 

The object is to walk around the club, and ask everyone if they "want to get screwed" You try to match up your Nut/Bolt with as many other Nuts/Bolts as you can. Every time you make a match, you both go to the "Foreman", who writes it down on their sheets. After an appropriate amount of time (this is a club game, so, say, from opening to about midnight, an hour or so in a house party) You then add up the totals.

The man and woman with the most totals win a prize...

For a house party, this could be to "get screwed"

 

Does anyone know where we can find more club games like this? Or do you have any you could post? We'd like to give the club some ideas for new and exciting games to play.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

For an on-premise club/ house party one game you could do (which I did recently at a party I was at) is to

 

have the guys line up in chairs, blindfolded and sitting on their hands. The girls go by and for a set amount time they are "naughty" to the guys.. doing whatever they want/ feel comfortable with... when the set time is up they move to the next guy until they have played with each of the guys. When it's over the guys have to vote on which girl is the "naughtiest" and try to pick out who she was from the line up. Definitely gets a party started... cuz by the time that's done everyone is ready to screw (no nuts or bolts needed..lol).

[TNT 1,155]

Sorry about the last post..was making sure I had the right password here.

 

Ted and I went to a new social in our area last night and the host and hostess had a great ice breaker game. Hopefully I can relay it correctly for everyone here.

 

At the beginning of the evening, when everyone is arriving, pass out "funny money" to everyone. This can be Monopoly money or just money that someone has made on a computer, in the amounts of 50s, 100s and 1000 dollar bills. Tell everyone that at the end of the evening there will be an auction and they can use their money to bid on certain items, toys, free passes, videos, whatever has been decided on before hand by the host and hostess or club owner. Tell them that they have the chance to earn extra money through the evening, or they can spend it, which ever they want.

 

The way you spend your money is simple...Say there is a man/women you are interested in meeting, you just go up to him/her and say..I will give you $50 for a kiss..this person can say yes or no, depending on what they want. Of course they are trying to earn money for the auction so they will probably say yes, or they might say it will cost you a $100. Depending on the "favor", the cost can go up or down. For instances..us women got together and decided that a kiss on the tit was a $50 charge, but if nipples were involved then it was $100. I have a well hidden tattoo and once people heard about it the cost of seeing that tattoo was $1000. In the case of the social we were at, it was the women that were making all the money as the women were the only ones that were allowed to bid in the auction at the end of the night. This worked out great for an ice breaker..everyone was making money and having a blast spending it. It gave you the confidence to go up to a stranger and say "HI", with no fear because it was a game that could or could not lead to other things depending on what you wanted.

 

I hope I have explained this properly, if not let me know and I will try and elaborate further.

[ken -N- lea 15]

we play strip poker with a twist.

each player gets $10.00 in chips to start

when a player losses all of his/her money they sell a piece of clothing for mor chips each piece is worth $5.00.

when a player is out of clothes then they trade favors for more money.

we do this as follows:

kiss 30 seconds $1.00

oral 1 minute $5.00

intercourse 1 minute $10.00

this is a great ice breaker for new friends and newbies as the favors can be with your spouse if they have the money.

we have used this many times with great results lots of conversation with little pressure. its worked so well that we don't go any where without chips and cards.

as a twist you can make up cards with directions on them ie. winner and losser cards that after each hand the winner and loser pick each card has a direction on it, such as :winner get 30 second message from player of your choice. losser remove one piece of clothing.

the cards can be as wild or mild as you want

[wayneNjeannie 15]

Here is one you can try in an on- and off-premises club. You will need a DJ for this one.

 

Get a banana, and with this you will play like musical chairs, but the banana will go between your legs. and you will pass it around boy, girl, boy girl, and so on. The one left with the banana when the music goes off is out. The last person with the banana is the WINNER. Remember it must be passed without touching it with your hands.

[Dukedoll 16]

My husband and I have made a fun night for us and our swing partners by having a Las Vegas Night. You have strip poker, of course, but you get a Roulette wheel that you can buy at most game stores, we got ours at a dart supply. You substitute the numbers on it with actions i.e. suck, lick, rub, or anything you want in random order. The RED sections are one minute and the BLACK are 30 seconds.

 

You tape the actions to these. Divide the board in 1/4th and on a different fourth you put My Choice,then Below the Waist, then Above the Waist, and finally BOTH. Now you roll a single die to see who you will do the action with. Even # is your partner and Odd # is of course someone else's. You can figure how to make it work if there are more than 2 couples. Have all the potential recipients of your actions draw for high card, and that is the one you do it to. Have a little timer for the time limit and it can be ONE HECK of a foreplay tool. I also have one space that gives a bonus "double the time of the specified color".

 

It is a lot of fun and gives you an ice breaker and something to do after you have played strip poker and are naked anyway.

 

The game continues till ALL have had 10 turns. Oh yes, I forgot to mention, there is one "SKIP" on the board, you really don't want to hit it, but it makes it a little more challenging. Try this, you might like it, we do.

[good_lover4_u2001 15]

A game we were introduced to is Onyx. It is an excellent swingers game of sexual exploration. You buy property and when players land on your property they pay rent or work it of. The game tells you what to do. Very erotic. It also sets up each player so if you are a str8 man you won't have to work it off if you land on a man's property. You choose the options. You can download the trial version and if you like it you can buy it. Highly recommended to play it, go to Symtoys - Index to get it.

[ssmacpl 15]

We bought Strip Bingo at an adult store for our playmates Christmas gift . We haven't played with it yet, we will let you know how it goes.

[activered863 15]

My girlfriend and I met these two couples that introduced us to this simple card game. Everyone is dealt three cards and the rest of the cards are placed in the center of the table and everyone can trade up to two cards from the pile in the center of the game. The goal here is to get 31, two face cards and one ace, before someone else does. Then, the person with 31 can knock the table and everyone must show their cards. The person with the lowest card count must remove one article of clothing. This way everyone does not have to remember how to play poker and which hand is worth more than the other. Some of us would cheat which is part of the fun. This game for us is a blast and simple and we would always add different rules to the game. A rule we had is when someone is naked with a loosing he/she must start doing favors for someone with the winning hand.

[naughty A 23]

wow - sounds like a great game and at a much faster speed than strip euchre.

[Mich149 16]

That is a good idea, we were trying to break the ice with a new couple with strip poker but they didn't know how to play that so we tried jin & that didn't work to well either. Ended up playing old maid, and even that kinda sucked.

 

We had to fall back on to Truth or dare.lol

[activered863 15]

It's a wonderful ice breaker. Everyone had a great time. It goes kinda slow which is cool everyone can check each other out. Plus, we always chatted and talked about life in general. The ladies always would make fun of us guys because we would not sit next to each other. The ladies always enjoyed each other but us guys were not into each other.

 

Have fun

[Blue4u 15]

Our first swing with another couple was a little awkward. The other couples suggested we play strip poker. We did and the ladies seemed to really get into it. The key difference was that the winning hand was the player that removed clothing from the loosing hand. Great fun, eased into the situation, and would recommend it to all.

[bbcpl4cpl 17]

How to 'Screw Your Neighbor'.

 

Start with an ordinary deck of playing cards. The game works best with four or more people, but I've done it with 3. Deal one card to each player. Each player looks at their card and decides whether or not they want to keep it. (Low card loses the hand.) If you want another card, trade with the player on your left. The next player can trade with the player on their left, and the dealer can draw from the deck. When the dealer has drawn (or not) the cards are revealed. The player holding the lowest card loses and must remove an article of clothing. Continue as above until everyone is naked.

 

If a player who is already naked loses the hand, then the player holding the highest card can decide what the lowest card has to do to another player, i.e. kissing, removing another players clothes, other sexual favors.... Eventually the game degenerates into, well, screwing your neighbor).

[Miss_Piggy 98]

Okay,

 

This game idea I think could work with almost any game.

 

We have added a twist to cranium. To clarify cranium is a game that involves a bunch of different games like charades and pictionary and trivia and other stuff.

 

 

So, what we did was add 1 rule.

 

If your team loses then the other team gets to ask you to do something (anything they can think up).

Needless to say, we all ended up naked pretty quickly (since the first few requests were for the removal of clothing)

 

Not only was naked charades a blast but the consequences for losing really got things moving.

 

So I was thinking that this would really work with any game.

Pick any game and when one person or team loses the other person or team gets to ask them to do something (remove clothing/perform/whatever).

 

(for those of you who are paying attention - this does mean that Kermit and I are getting the ball rolling with this swinging business )

[Miss_Piggy 98]

Most things are more fun naked, I've realised.

 

Things can be fun... but then they become slightly more fun when you are naked. Of course there are certain exceptions to this rule (shoveling snow is one).

[Brit_Pair 62]

Originally posted by gsu22

that sounds like a blast! I might have to suggest that at the next party...lol......right after naked twister:lol:

Naked Twister . . . one of mankind's finest achievements of the twentieth century.

 

[SluttyWife 17]

I was down at Barnes & Noble to pick up a copy of a "must have" book a couple of days ago and noticed a little book called "Outrageous Party Games" there. Looked a little dopey but there were TONS in there. A couple dressed in Flintstone outfits on the cover caught my attention. Have any of you read this one? I had a stack of four books and was little embarrassed to add another one and have Mike remind me what a spoiled brat I am.

 

Do you know of any others maybe?

 

"Outrageous Party Games" at Amazon

[rednwet 15]

Gang,

 

I cant say that this really qualifies for a “swinger game” but my wife is not interested in swinging but she is still a good sport from time to time..

 

Here is one for us swinging wantabes and maybe swingers too.

 

The other night I challenged my wife to a game of Strip Stop Light.

 

The rules:

 

1 You must pick a destination: This works best if your destination is home and you start from a restaurant or maybe the movies.

2 It must be through town (sorry if you do not live in town)

3 "Red Light" If the car has to come to a complete stop the passenger must remove one article of clothing.

4 You must drive the speed limit.. No speeding.

 

 

Its a lot of fun looking to see if that red light is going to stay red and you are going to see that lovely lady of yours getting naked next to you. Lots of fun..

 

 

O yea.. how did the game turn out? Well we had about 10 lights to pass through and she had on 4 articles of clothing.. needless to say she got lucky for about the first 5 lights and then her luck began to run out.. She was stripped down to nothing by the time we hit the driveway and looking quite sexy sitting there naked in the car.

Have fun

 

Mike

[Vespertine 31]

Wow Mike, this sounds like a fun game!

 

Hubby and I will have to play this evening. Thanks for the idea!

[Menage_a_Trois 182]

We have used the dice a lot with great success - we have had BJ contests (a lot of fun - women are very competitive creatures!). Whatever you do don't make it mandatory, just have fun with it. Strip poker, strip pool, strip darts all are fun as well. Chess with shot glasses...the options are unlimited.

[NandTfromCA 84]

We are throwing our first house party next month.

 

The day will start with 9 couples getting into a limo-bus and touring the wine country near our house. From there, we’ll return to our house for the “after party”.

 

Any ideas for games/ice breakers to play in the limo? As a note, it's big enough to where moving around shouldn't be too difficult.

 

We aren’t looking for games that make people get naked but rather just get to know each other more...conversation starters. Something that makes people rotate around and get to know everyone (even if they don't want to play with them) is what we have in mind. A vanilla game/activity might even work.

 

As an example, some friends of ours threw a party where the men had a slip of paper with a wine related word on it, and the women had one with a definition. The goal was to find your match.

 

So, help us newbie-party-throwers

[Additude 457]

How about something simple like everyone writes two 10 word or less personal descriptions of themselves, each on seperate pieces of paper and then they all get placed into a "Hat" and are shuffeled around. Each description folded in half twice so know one can identify by folds.

 

Everyone is required to take a drink at the time when they put their paper descriptions in the "Hat".

 

Then the host picks one out and reads it aloud.

 

Everyone gets a chance to guess at who wrote it. The votes are tallied keeping track of who voted for who.

 

The writer then identifies themselves after all votes and gives an explaination of the description and answers questions.

 

The people that did not guess the author of the description are required to take another drink. If their spouse did not guess correctly then the spouse is required to take two drinks.

 

Continue on until all descriptions have been read.

 

Anyway, you can use your own variations. Maybe one description needs to be sexual in nature and one needs to be non sexual.

 

Instead of taking a drink, then maybe some other action.

 

That should get everyone to know each other.

[fenriscpl 16]

While we haven't had a chance to play this as a party game, my wife and I love "Lover's Ecstasy" and look forward to playing this with other couples. Its a PC game that plays like Monopoly except that you can draw from a deck of actions instead of paying rent. Most other games we found are not worth downloading but this is the exception. Very customizable, plays well with couples as well as groups, able to set limits for each person and you decided on what level you want to finish the game (level 1 is nothing too wild thru level 4 which allows intercourse/full swing). Not sure if the game is still available but I would definitely recommend it and would love to hear from others who have.

[Tybee Swing 286]

Hi everybody,

 

Most clubs and many organized house parties do ice-breaker, fun and simple games to get people mixing, talking, and flirting.

 

We went to a house party recently where the host gave the men in the house a package of playing cards...I think about 20 cards each. The women attending had to try to earn cards by doing various things. It was fun, and people could "negotiate" on their own how many cards certain things were worth. As you can imagine, there was lots of flashing going on, some kissing, lapdancing, and more. It was a great game. The goal of the game was to get as many cards as you could, because there would be a drawing later and the holder of that certain card would win a nice doorprize.

 

Do any of you have favorite game ideas that you've seen or played, either in smaller gatherings or bigger ones?

 

Thanks!

[northindycpl 32]

The spoon dance seems to be really popular and a good ice breaker. Several women are given a wooden spoon to hold and everyone is invited to the dance floor to start dancing. When the music stops, the women with spoons has to find a new partner to dance with and cut-in giving the other woman a spoon, and then the new woman has to find a new partner to dance with.

 

It is a really good ice breaker... the only issue at our club is that before too long all the women love to dance together and all the men end up sitting down.

 

OH well... it is fun!

[curiousinNC 15]

More for a House Party, or smaller meet, is the game the Seven Deadly Sins. It is a mix of sinful trivia, and dares to commit a sin to get your tokens to win. Each team can have up to seven team members, and up to seven teams. So a lot of people can play at once. It is a great ice breaker, and can get the mood changing from initial meeting to more sexy atmosphere. We love the game as do those we have played it with. Check it out.

[Tybee Swing 286]

The spoon dance seems to be really popular and a good ice breaker. Several women are given a wooden spoon to hold and everyone is invited to the dance floor to start dancing. When the music stops, the women with spoons has to find a new partner to dance with and cut-in giving the other woman a spoon, and then the new woman has to find a new partner to dance with.

 

It is a really good ice breaker... the only issue at our club is that before too long all the women love to dance together and all the men end up sitting down.

 

OH well... it is fun!

 

Thanks Mrs. Indy! So, the main point is that by continually passing the spoons, and as each holder of the spoon finds a new dance partner, the goal is to get everyone in the room dancing with somebody different? If so, does it ever work out that way?

[Tybee Swing 286]

More for a House Party, or smaller meet, is the game the Seven Deadly Sins. It is a mix of sinful trivia, and dares to commit a sin to get your tokens to win. Each team can have up to seven team members, and up to seven teams. So alot of people can play at once. It is a great ice breaker, and can get the mood changing from initial meeting to more sexy atmosphere. We love the game as do those we have played it with. Check it out.

 

J & L

 

Thanks J & L! Is this a board game that you purchase?

[curiousinNC 15]

Tybee Swing said:

Thanks J & L! Is this a board game that you purchase?

It is, not sure what stores, but you can find it online. We bought ours brand new on EBAY for a good price. There are also great games for not only couples, but group/adult play on AreYouGame.com: Board Games, Jigsaw Puzzles, Puzzles, Kids Games, Adult Party Games in the adult section. We have a few in our cart we are eager to order soon.

[curiousinNC 15]

We just bought a new board game called Sexdrive Game.

 

About the game:

The hilarious pedal-to-the-metal, shift your gears, honk your horny game!

 

Sexdrive is the rollicking adult game that challenges sexual know-how, show-how, and tell-how. Players, starting out on the "Outer Course™", answers questions or perform "Body Shop" tasks to show what they know about sex. The goal is to obtain your Sex Driber's License™, move to the "Inner Course™" and win by collecting certificates of knowledge from all 8 categories. Some categories include women's issues (Keeping A-Breast™), men's issues (Getting A-Head™), sexual myths and fables (Trojan Horse Misconceptions™), true or false statements (True or Phallus™), and unusual or non-traditional practices (Pressed and Repressed™). Players landing in the "Body Shop™" will use hands-on skills to either sculpt, draw, or act out their sexual knowledge. So grab a hot rod, hit the road and prove how much you know about Sex Drive™.

 

Looks fun, we looked through the cards and can't wait to play. Will play 2-6 players, or 2-6 teams. Who's game?

[BobMcD 15]

I've been thinking about a "sexy Monopoly" game which would replace the Chance and Community Chest cards with sexy ones. One obvious card, at least in hindsight, is a Community Chest card called Community Chest, in which the female drawer of the card strips to the waist and allows each man in the room to explore her chest with their hands (and perhaps lips) as much as they please. If a man draws the card he may give it to the female of his choice, who must obey. If I implement this dream, I'll probably include a rule that if you land on "free parking", everyone ELSE must remove an item of clothing. Any other ideas? anyone? I know several neighbors who are must-invites for the game. Think about your friends and this game

[pagan-lovers 15]

BobMcD said:

I've been thinking about a "sexy Monopoly" game which would replace the Chance and Community Chest cards with sexy ones. One obvious card, at least in hindsight, is a Community Chest card called Community Chest, in which the female drawer of the card strips to the waist and allows each man in the room to explore her chest with their hands (and perhaps lips) as much as they please. If a man draws the card he may give it to the female of his choice, who must obey. If I implement this dream, I'll probably include a rule that if you land on "free parking", everyone ELSE must remove an item of clothing. Any other ideas? anyone? I know several neighbors who are must-invites for the game. Think about your friends and this game

I have a computer game like that called 4Play. But we have gotten more use out of good old fashioned 'truth or dare'. We actually found out some of our so called "vanilla" friends had been to a swing club with that one. They are now coming to a Meet n Greet with us.

[BobMcD 15]

I have a computer game like that called 4Play. But we have gotten more use out of good old fashioned 'truth or dare'.

great game! everyone should download it and play it!

[ITCHEF 15]

O.K. Here is one for you. You put everyones name in a jar and one is selected. That person stands in the center of the room and is covered with a bedsheet.

It is now explained that they are wearing something that they wear everyday but they don't need it...so take it off.

 

Usually the shoes are first, shirt, and so on. Usually they end up down to their underwear before they catch on. I have already seen people yell that they don't have anything else on except the sheet which is the correct answer - the sheet. While it may seem obvious, I have yet seen anyone realize the sheet before getting half naked.

[tndr_cpl 15]

We have had a lot of fun with an old "drinking game" called "I've never" It's very simple..each person take a turn by saying "I've never" then saying something they have never done. For example "I never jumped from an airplane. Anyone who HAS jumped from an airplane must take a drink. One of my favorite ones (I'm the hub) is.."I've never had sex with a person of the same sex".. Ya sure find out fast who the bi women are...lol

 

We progress from taking drinks to removing clothes..i.e. If you have done the "I've never" you remove and article of clothing.

 

Hope my explination of the game was clear enough..anyway..Have Fun!

[cataryna 70]

Make up a list of sexy things, one for the women and one for the men. Things such as

 

Piercings

Tattoos

Bald genital area

Hairy genital area

no tan lines

no panties

no underwear

 

These are just a few...my lists have 12 different sexual things. You can have as few as you want or as much as you want depending on the size of the party. Women have to find men who have the things on the men's list, and men have to find women who have the things on their list and they can't use the same person twice. It gets the people talking to each other and the naughtier you get with the items the hotter things get.

[exquisit1s 30]

ONe of the best "swinger games " we've played was strippopoly. I swear this game was built for swinging. Lots of player vs player interaction.

[zlynn 15]

We like Truth or Dare Online for smaller type parties. You can add your own truths/dares to a private list just for your party, or use the ones that pop up.

[lotsoffun201 175]

We were at a club during the summer which had a hot tub where everyone seemed to congregate at night. They had an interesting game where they threw ping pong balls into the tub with various "tasks" to perform. That was a great icebreaker, and cheap too!

 

I forgot to mention the "tasks" were written with a sharpie on the ping pong balls

[Chris&Amelia 253]

Okay, I'll be hosting a house party shortly. First once I've ever done, so I'm a slightly nervous.

 

Anyway, I'm trying to figure out some ice-breaker games and I've been trolling this section of SB. I've come across with some great ideas.

 

But I want to also use the ol' classic, "Truth of Dare". I've come across some threads with some suggestions, but I was wondering if anybody had any more. Do you have any ideas for either "Truths" or "Dares"? If so, please share them. I sure can use the help.

 

Thanks!

[havefuninsun 122]

We actually bought a naughty truth or dare game. The problem was, no one wanted to pick "truth" -- we played the game with a couple we'd already had been naked with in the past, so we kept just going for the "dare" cards.

 

LOL!!

[iapr 24]

Truth or Dare is actually a great ice breaker party game. It is good because it gives you quite a bit of control over what is taking place rather than many of the other games out there that tell you exactly what to do. If someone is comfortable and feeling bold and daring they can pick dares and if someone is still warming up they can pick truths.

 

How we do it is we deal out 1 playing card and whoever has the highest card wins and whoever has the lowest loses. Whoever has the highest card asked the person with the lowest card if they want to do a truth or a dare. That way it is randomized and everyone doesn't just pick on the hottest chick all the time.

 

If two people get the highest card then both people take turns doing a truth/dare with the lowest. And if two people get the same low card then the winner gets to pick on both of them. The joker can be a wild card and whoever gets that can do what they want with everyone or you can take the jokers out.

[iapr 24]

Sorry I misread your question the first time. As far as what to ask or dare we do have a little system (yes, we love Truth or Dare) 99% of the time people will pick truths the first several rounds before they warm up to dares. Use those truths as opportunities to find out what turns them on.

 

For instance ask questions about their preferences and fetishes etc etc. Ask them what their main erogenous zones are and what techniques and positions they like best. Then once they start picking dares, use that as an opportunity to employ those techniques to their erogenous zones.

 

We have rarely had a truth or dare game last more than 20 minutes or so before everyone says to heck with the game lets just get it on:)

[Guest ic7175]

Another option is to have each person write up a truth and a dare and put the truths in one bucket and the dares in another. On each person's turn they pick from one of the buckets.

 

After every round everyone writes up another truth and dare to add to the bucket. That way the game tends to get a little more risque as everyone gets comfortable. We started this when playing Truth or Dare Jenga because we didn't like the game's truth and dare cards, we just decided to make our own.

 

We always allowed people to ask for a pass in case a dare was too risque, if the group agreed we just had them pick again. This made the people who were more inhibited feel comfortable that they wouldn't have to do something they weren't ready to do.

[airbrushman 22]

We have been seeing this one couple and it has been great, and we love the sex games. The plinko game is great, but I think we have moved past it.

 

So here is a new idea and I just wanted to see whatcha think.....musical 3-somes. There are four of us, we each put our name in a hat and we draw straws to see who goes first. The first person draws two names out of the hat, and they can have 3-some action through one song (any song will do) and then the person who was left out draws a name and they take that person's place. At the end of each song you draw a name and rotate until you have had every possible 3-some, or until everybody just joins in.

 

Well what do you think...sound fun?