Anyone tried cialis or levitra?

[dazedandconfuse 15]

My wife and I have been swinging for about 3 years. Lately we havent been to active, but still keep on the look out for a little fun when we get the chance. I have used viagra in the past to help with stage fright or what ever you want to call it, and the results have been good. I was just wondering if anyone has tried cialis or levitra. The quicker response and longer lasting effects might be a good thing at times. Just curious.

 

Kev

[cajun_cpl_la 15]

Well Kev ... this is from patients experiences .... (been nursing for 7 years)... they work but not as good as viagra ... with these other medications it does take longer to have a second erection ... the turn over time for viagra is shorter ... the lasting effects of the others are longer .. so they both have there pros and cons ... most doctors can give you a sample to try before purchasing them .. the never drugs are a bit more expensive .... Happy swinging

The Mrs.

[Spoomonkey 421]

Hey cajun...

 

I am curious - with viagra would a guy maintain his erection after orgasm? And then move straight towards orgasm number two? Does it improve refraction time?

 

I've never used any of these, but am just curious about how they work...

 

Thanks!

 

Spoomonkey

[cajun_cpl_la 15]

LOL hey Monkey .... I have always wanted to say that

A guy usually doesnt maintain a straight orgasm .... you do have to restimulate the penis to achieve an adequate erection ... and it does cut down on refraction time enormously ....

[Fred&Wilma 15]

LOL hey Monkey .... I have always wanted to say that

A guy usually doesnt maintain a straight orgasm .... you do have to restimulate the penis to achieve an adequate erection ... and it does cut down on refraction time enormously ....

 

Spoomonkey

Ditto and then some.

Remember when you were a teenager with a hard-on and you thought if you turned around too fast you might knock over a lamp or break a window. flamethrow That is the effect of Viagra! It does not create a boner that will not go away, but when given incentive, your manhood arises to a glorious full blown teenager level. It also allows for repeat performances within a certain time frame. The time frame can vary from person to person. For anyone thinking about using Viagra as an enhancement, the concerns are whether you are on any other medication (does not go well with heart drugs) and whether you have a heart condition. Levitra & Cialis are more a time released enhancement if you want to get your whistle dipped within the next 36 hours, the effect will kick in when the incentive is there. With Viagra they state to take about two hours before your anticipated event, which can take the fun out of spontaneous screwing. (Look honey, a photo booth in the mall, let rip one off in there). However Viagra can still kick in up to 12 hours later. Further, it has been found that the trigger mechanism that Viagra sets off will start to perform better even you have not taken Viagra for the next time. Kind of like excercising to keep things fit.

 

Sometime within the next couple of years, there is going to be a female version. Several pharmaceutical companies are in human trials at this time. I wonder if any of them will have the guts market it as "Spanish Fly".

 

Take care.

 

Fred

[xxoticangel 99]

Got a couple of sample packs of Levitra from my MD during my last physical. So far I've used it four times with awesome results but haven't tried the others. Using it is like being 18 again. I had 7 orgasms in 11 hours and was still able to perform for 3 more the next day. Recovery time was reduced to almost nothing, and I maintained a "chubby" even after orgasm. Even on my birthday and quite intoxicated I was able to achieve and maintain an erection and orgasm 3 times where as I am usally unable to perform when I drink.

[good times 991]

I've used both Viagra and Levitra, Viagra works much better, in my opinion. My doctor won't perscribe Cialis as he thinks the long term side effects haven't been studied enough yet to satisfy him. I won't go into the details here because his explaination took about 15 minutes but he just doesnt' feel comfortable enough with it yet.

 

Spoomonkey,

 

I don't know that it works the same for everybody, but for me, if I take viagra I can maintain an erection for as long as I keep up the stimulation, even after orgasm. Great for the women that take even longer than me to finish (rare, I have never been accused of being a minute man).

[Spoomonkey 421]

Huh...

 

Thanks for the answers guys. I have a lot of stamina and a low refractory time, but I've always wondered if there was any benefit... It sounds like it, actually...

 

It sure gives a guy something to think about...

 

We had a recent experience that made me ask - I suspect that I have seen one of these pills in action and if so... Damn...

 

Spoomonkey

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

I have to say that I am very surprised that the most prominent and successful swinging men on this board use erection enhancing drugs as casually as condoms.

 

Where is the pressure to use this coming from? Do women really expect you guys to keep it up for long periods of time? Is it a cumming twice in an hour goal that can be achieved with this drug? Or is it just a confidence builder for you at a new meet? Do you use it every time you play with the same people?

 

Frankly, I'm really puzzled and astounded by how common this drug is used by swinging men. Mr LM hasn't read the posts about viagra use, but once he does I think it could cause him to feel insecure about heading out the door to a playdate without the drug.

 

Should I be telling Mr LM to head to the doctor and get his prescription for Viagra?

 

LM

[curiousagain 326]

I tried cialis once and if you don't need it, don't use it. At least for me, it didn't increase my horniness, didn't reduce my refractory time much, etc. But, as exxoticangel said, it's like being 18 again in that everytime you think of sex you start getting an erection. And you know how often we think of sex??? I took it on a Friday afternoon after planning a "big" weekend. I met different people on Fri, Sat, and Sun and had several uh, copulations each time, not that unusual. The problem was when I went back to work and was surrounded by women, inappropriate boners were popping up right and left and straight, until about Wed afternoon. Everytime I smelled perfume, someone brushed by me, and a few times, someone just bent over, there it was. I had to spend a large part of each day getting away from everybody. It was an experiment, and I learned something, but I don't intend on taking it again until such time as I need it. I think for those that need it, these meds are good, but just for recreational use?? That's a judgement call you'll have to make on your own. And, as has been mentioned, only take them if your Doc OKs it. There are too many possible side effects and bad drug interactions possible.

[dazedandconfuse 15]

 

Where is the pressure to use this coming from? Do women really expect you guys to keep it up for long periods of time? Is it a cumming twice in an hour goal that can be achieved with this drug? Or is it just a confidence builder for you at a new meet? Do you use it every time you play with the same people?

 

I'm not sure that you would call it pressure. I started using viagra because I had SPS(shy penis syndrom) :rollseyes on a couple first time meets and it was really an ego killer. Sometimes the mind is willing but the body just wont cooperate. I'm not worried about cumming more than once in a session, I dont have a problem with control, it was just the fact of making things work when you wanted them too. How much of it is the actual drug, and how much of it is mental, i'm not sure, but it seems to work.

[good times 991]

Where is the pressure to use this coming from? Do women really expect you guys to keep it up for long periods of time? Is it a cumming twice in an hour goal that can be achieved with this drug? Or is it just a confidence builder for you at a new meet? Do you use it every time you play with the same people?

 

Should I be telling Mr LM to head to the doctor and get his prescription for Viagra?

 

If a guy isn't having any erection problems I wouldn't see any reason to use it. Like dazedandconfuse I had some problems getting and maintaining an erection when we started in the lifestyle. It was mainly that I wasn't used to so much going on around me during sex before, and the distractions had a detrimental effect on my performance. After having a couple of experiences were I couldn't perform in a satisfactory way, it made me self conscious, which made the problem worse. It actually got to the point were I was reevaluating whether I wanted to swing at all. After I started taking the Viagra (which I already had been prescribed for a previous problem that isn't really relevant here) I was able to overcome the "shy penis syndrome" I had been experiencing, my confidence returned, and now while I don't always take it, I definitely always have it with me. It actually works almost as good in my pocket as sort of a security blanket type effect as it does if I actually take it now. I will admit though, that if I do take it I have at least twice the stamina than I normally do and I get an erection like I used to get in my teens, which gives me about an extra inch over what is a normal erection for me now days. And Mrs. GT definitely likes that.

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

...I will admit though, that if I do take it I have at least twice the stamina than I normally do and I get an erection like I used to get in my teens, which gives me about an extra inch over what is a normal erection for me now days. And Mrs. GT definitely likes that.

So it can even extend the length of an erection by an inch...wow. That I didn't know.

 

Thank you for explaining more about how Viagra has been helpful to you, good times.

 

I think we'll probably make an appointment with the doctor to discuss a trial sample.

 

LM

[good times 991]

So it can even extend the length of an erection by an inch...wow. That I didn't know.

 

I don't know how often that happens with others, but it does for me. I have to say that now that I'm in my mid 40's I don't get those "axe handle" hard erections I did when I was in my teens and 20's. But Viagra is like the fountain of youth in that regard. I don't mean to imply that I don't get hard without it, it's just different, you would have to see it to know what I mean, it’s a subtle thing that’s hard to explain. I actually read somewhere that men with a longer than average penis often observe this effect, and I kind of liked the way that sounds so I'm going to stick with that story. I would be interested in knowing if anyone else has noticed this. I've only met one other person who said he experienced this effect and we are pretty much the same in age and penis length. (picture two guys sitting at the bar with their pants down and the wives saying "look at that, you guys are almost identical" as you might have guessed the two guys replied "that’s nice , can we get back to the blow jobs now" or something like that, the exact details didn't seem that important to remember at the time.)

[hotboringcpl 15]

ok, my first ever post anywhere so bare with me.

We are a 30 year old couple that has had a couple of experiences. There have been occasions where things weren't up to the calling. How do you go to your doctor to get a prescription for any of the above mentioned. "uh doc, we were with another couple and the wife was hot but I couldn't get it up! Do you think I need viagra?"? Or is there a more subtle way of asking for a sample. Like asking him for a little blue pill wait for his reaction and say no wait I mean little purple pill I have an upset stomach. Just curious, I wouldn't mind having a sample to try out. Might be fun, might kill me, but it might be fun also.

[curiousagain 326]

ok, my first ever post anywhere so bare with me.

We are a 30 year old couple that has had a couple of experiences. There have been occasions where things weren't up to the calling. How do you go to your doctor to get a prescription for any of the above mentioned. "uh doc, we were with another couple and the wife was hot but I couldn't get it up! Do you think I need viagra?"? Or is there a more subtle way of asking for a sample. Like asking him for a little blue pill wait for his reaction and say no wait I mean little purple pill I have an upset stomach. Just curious, I wouldn't mind having a sample to try out. Might be fun, might kill me, but it might be fun also.

 

I just went to my Primary care physician, said "Hey, I've got a biiiiig weekend planned out of town. I was wondering, you have any cialis samples you wouldn't care to part with?" He checked my chart to see my history and meds and said sure! Gave me a three pack, I still have the other two. He asked me later how it went and I told him, he asked about side effects told him the only one was it lasted too long. He suggested taking only half a tablet next time. I told him they would be out of date hopefully before I felt like I needed them. But, I didn't throw them away.... hmmmm

 

No need to tell them what the biiiiig weekend entails. Of course if he's a decent doc he will want to know why at your age you feel you need it, but you could tell him you and the hunny are only gonna have a couple of days to live out some fantasies, etc......

[SexhoundDog 18]

I get an erection like I used to get in my teens, which gives me about an extra inch over what is a normal erection for me now days. And Mrs. GT definitely likes that.

 

What more needs be said? Mrs. SexhoundDog probably likes the Viagra nearly as well as I do. It's just nice having things stay nice and hard consistently, and I could just be imagining things, but I think her oral is even better than it was before. The extra moaning on her behalf is so nice, and Mr. SexhoundDog definitely likes that!

[scoobyandme 16]

I've tried both Levitra and Cialis. It seemed that the Cialis lasted for almost two days. Any stimulation at all provided a rock hard erection unlike the Levitra which only lasted a few hours and didn't even work with the "sps" you talked about. The Cialis did seem to take longer to start working but i haven't tested it under the "sps" yet. I think Viagra might be the way to go.

[the 2 of us 15]

Cialis works great and I don't feel it like Viagra. Viagra makes me feel like my Blood Pressure is up or something.

Cialis last for a few days and gives me a great hard0on.

It does make it harder to cum - this is good sometimes but not always.

[willseestuie 15]

I have used viagra and cialis and think cialis is the better one of them. When i use cialis i am up all night with my sweety.

[BloomoCoupleFun 15]

ok, my first ever post anywhere so bare with me.

We are a 30 year old couple that has had a couple of experiences. There have been occasions where things weren't up to the calling. How do you go to your doctor to get a prescription for any of the above mentioned. "uh doc, we were with another couple and the wife was hot but I couldn't get it up! Do you think I need viagra?"? Or is there a more subtle way of asking for a sample. Like asking him for a little blue pill wait for his reaction and say no wait I mean little purple pill I have an upset stomach. Just curious, I wouldn't mind having a sample to try out. Might be fun, might kill me, but it might be fun also.

 

We have 2 primary care docs. I made the mistake of alluding to multiple partners and needing 'help'. He launched into a safe-sex diatribe and social judgements. So I went to the other one and just pointed to my crotch, smiled and said "It goes down when it shouldn't". He smiled, glanced at my chart and offered a script for V.

 

Bottom-line is behing completely honest might prove to be a liability, being partially honest was more succcessful for us. No compentant doc would write you a script because you want to try a drug "for fun". But most will not have any problem helping you with a problem you have explained. Just tell him "IT don't stay hard" and he will figure out the rest.

[intuition897 2,179]

I have to say that I am very surprised that the most prominent and successful swinging men on this board use erection enhancing drugs as casually as condoms.

 

Where is the pressure to use this coming from? Do women really expect you guys to keep it up for long periods of time? Is it a cumming twice in an hour goal that can be achieved with this drug? Or is it just a confidence builder for you at a new meet? Do you use it every time you play with the same people?

 

Frankly, I'm really puzzled and astounded by how common this drug is used by swinging men. Mr LM hasn't read the posts about viagra use, but once he does I think it could cause him to feel insecure about heading out the door to a playdate without the drug.

 

Should I be telling Mr LM to head to the doctor and get his prescription for Viagra?

 

LM

 

LM, I've been wondering the very same thing. Unless you really NEED it, why take a prescription drug with possible side effects??

 

I don't like to use drugs unless there's no other alternative. I like using natural remedies first for things, and if that doesn't work, then we take advantage of modern medicine. Mr. has never used Viagra, Cialis or Levitra. Good God, I'd be a wreck if he did. The only time he's ever had a performance problem was when we first tried swinging. Stage fright. Once he got relaxed with the idea that I was truly ok with it and that he wasn't hurting my feelings by being attracted to other women, it was like turning a switch to on. He's got amazing stamina (I think the record is 8 times in a 6 hour period).

 

Something he did do is 1) quit smoking, 2) started lifting weights, and 3) started running (heavy duty aerobic activity). It was the same as if he'd popped a pack of viagra. And unless we've been having a marathon sex weekend, the effect is long-term. Huge erections and virtually zero recovery time. He cums and he's still solid as a rock. This is something we've noticed before. He was in this healthy mode some time ago, ended up smoking again, and now back to living healthy. His enhanced libido and stamina correspond to these changes: Sedentary smoker with an average sex drive; Active weightlifting non-smoker with vase-shattering boners...all the time. I'm starting to see a pattern here...

[Miss_Piggy 98]

Something he did do is 1) quit smoking, 2) started lifting weights, and 3) started running (heavy duty aerobic activity). It was the same as if he'd popped a pack of viagra.

 

That's awesome! What a great motivation for staying active and healthy.