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From foreplay to dress, how long is your typical sexual encounter when swinging?  

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  1. 1. From foreplay to dress, how long is your typical sexual encounter when swinging?

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1 hour ago, bbarnsworth said:

the average act of sex itself lasts less than 4 minutes

That's about the minimum for me, provided I'm already excited and wet.

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4 hours ago, bbarnsworth said:

I just found this article which notes that the average act of sex itself lasts less than 4 minutes (* not valid in Australia, where it's 4 minutes and a precious 2 seconds).

 

Me thinks I've been doing it wrong.

 

https://gizmodo.com/map-shows-which-country-has-the-most-sex-and-which-has-1564046033

It's weird how it's so variable.  I've seen my GF make guys cum in a matter of seconds and others pound her holes for hours.  She obviously prefers the latter.

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I voted 30-45 minutes but that is about the time I would like to spend with a partner at our Club's hotel parties. I like to connect intimately with as many of my old friends as possible but make some new ones as well. The get naked to get dressed time will usually be 3 to 4 hours sometimes longer.

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I voted 30-45 minutes but that is about the time I would like to spend with a partner at our Club's hotel parties. I like to connect manually and orally with as many of my old friends as possible but make some new ones as well. The get naked to get dressed time will usually be 3 to 4 hours sometimes longer, sometimes I get a fuck or two in, sometimes it's all oral.

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I guess 30-60 minutes. I will say my wife and I get bored by marathon sessions. If I am on Vitamin V, I can reload remarkably quickly, so if a partner wants to go for round 2, I am impressed that I can do it. 

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I can't believe I haven't added to this conversation!

 

For me the answer is: It Depends. There is no 'usual' or 'average'; the encounters are too diverse.

 

If Mary and I pick up someone at the club and it's just a one-night stand, it is almost always at least thirty minutes long, almost never more than an hour.

 

If Mary and I have another couple that we really like over to our house (or at theirs,) we usually have our first session (which is never hurried,) then into a hiatus where we all sit around and enjoy ourselves, then usually a second round, and even, perhaps a third round. Rarely less than an hour and a half, four hours isn't out of the question.

 

Mary's MFMs follow the above patterns fairly closely.

 

And, if we're with one of the couples and they sleep over, me with the wife, Mary with the husband, there's always the chance for morning sex. So, does that eight or ten hours count?

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3 1/2 hours, with breaks.  We generally arrive at the club just before midnight, be naked by 12:30 and before you know it, it's 4am closing time and we're planning out a big finish.

 

Then, like teenagers, we go eat.

 

???

 

 

 

 

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4 hours ago, Sunday said:

3 1/2 hours, with breaks.  We generally arrive at the club just before midnight, be naked by 12:30 and before you know it, it's 4am closing time and we're planning out a big finish.

 

Then, like teenagers, we go eat.

 

???

 

 

this up here GIF by Chord Overstreet

This is the reason my wife doesn't like to go to clubs. She's half asleep by midnight and by 12:30 she's catatonic. By the time the action gets going, she's ready to sleep. :/

 

 

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2 hours ago, bbarnsworth said:

 

this up here GIF by Chord Overstreet

This is the reason my wife doesn't like to go to clubs. She's half asleep by midnight and by 12:30 she's catatonic. By the time the action gets going, she's ready to sleep. ?

 

 

Here's how you do it - a lot of daytime activity, keep her going physically from early am, light dinner around 6pm and get right into bed.  Sleep until 11, take a shower and head to the club.  She'll need more time to get ready so she will likely get up a little earlier than you.

 

Works every time.

 

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Working double time
On the seduction line
She was one of a kind, she's just mine all mine
Wanted no applause
Just another course
Made a meal out of me and came back for more
Had to cool me down
To take another round
Now I'm back in the ring to take another swing
'Cause the walls were shaking
The earth was quaking
My mind was aching
And we were making it and you
Shook me all night long
Yeah you shook me all night long
 

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