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I've been noticing something new at the club lately - husbands who come to the club, drink, play pool, hang out, whatever - while their wives sneak upstairs to play with other women, single men, or whatever strikes their fancy. More often than not, the husband is in a foul mood while this is going on...

 

I know that for some couples this is cool - and the husbands don't really care. But most of the husbands do seem to care. In fact, they seem downright agitated.

 

One wife we knew would sneak upstairs with single men while her husband basically had his back turned... He'd notice she was gone and go barging into play rooms until he found her... And a fight would ensue...

 

Not hot...

 

The other couples we've seen seem to be in agreement with it, but at the same time, the husband looks rejected when the wife is off doing her thing.

 

We're more comfortable in the club environment now, so we see more than we used to. We're more aware, I guess, and this "phenomenon" is a bit surprising to us. It seems awfully common... In fact, the more I think of it, the more examples of it that I can come up with.

 

Is this inevitable "dark side" of the old saying "the husband gets them in, the wife keeps them in"? Is this a Pandora's box that some couples open; one that is ultimately not a very healthy thing? Does swinging start out for the couple - only to end up being about one partner's kink?

 

For us - we will only and always play together... Or not at all...

 

The funny thing is - some of these couples we've played with... And when we talked to them the first time, they each one (without exception) agreed with us that they only play together. But - the next time we see them, wifey is sneaking upstairs by herself with a playmate.

 

How common is this? Do you guys see it at your clubs or is this something unique here in Columbus?

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Spoo -

 

We have been to two different off-premise clubs, once each. And even with that little experience with clubs, we felt this phenomenon present. Maybe it is one reason we haven't felt really comfy with the club scene.

 

The women move around, dance, prance, smile, flirt. Most husbands stay seated, or stand in place, unless they are brave enough to ask a woman to dance.

 

The couple we went to the club to meet had almost nothing to do with each other at the club--even though they sat next to each other at the table with us.

 

We saw little evidence of couples being affectionate with each other or playing together with others.

 

Most everyone seemed to be bouncing around with different people, one-on-one, packed into the same hotel suite.

 

This isn't true for everyone, I'm sure, but it seemed the norm the times we attended our local clubs.

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It seems way more common at the clubs we go to than I would have ever thought. I don't know why it happens but I agree with you that it seems like it is pretty common.

 

We are the same as you guys, no play unless we both play.

 

Most of these couples seem like they thrive on drama or something. At the very least they seem to have issues that make them unatractive to us.

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Most of these couples seem like they thrive on drama or something.

They must if they continue to come back and do it all over again the next week.

 

We haven't been to the clubs yet, I'll be curious to see how they're down here.

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looking2swing said:
Dito I also think that kind of behavior is unacceptable. It falls more into the cheating category than swinging for us.

 

It certainly does especially if the husband is walking around wondering where his wife went. It's one thing to agree to play separate, those couples usually disappear about the same time and are playing but in separate rooms. But to leave your spouse (husband or wife) with no clue as to where you are or who your with :confused: your not swinging your cheating.

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Mrs Spoomonkey said:
It certainly does especially if the husband is walking around wondering where his wife went.

 

Agreed...

 

But - here's my thing - one guy specifically (and you know who I mean, Mrs Spoo) is a really nice guy who rarely gets to play... His wife is more into other women (which is fine) and, unfortunately, that leaves him looking glum and playing pool by himself.

 

He knows what she is doing, but he gets the short end. He tries to put on a smile and act positive, but you can tell it really bothers him... I don't know... I like the guy, so I feel pretty bad for him.

 

I wonder if it is a case of husbands biting off more than they can chew...

 

You know?

 

One day they're trying to "convince" their reluctant wife, the next they're all sitting at the bar together, alone, drinking beer, watching porn and waiting for wifey to get done so he can go home...

 

If that happened to me, I'd definitely be wondering why I ever brought it up in the first place.

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Spoomonkey said:
If that happened to me, I'd definitely be wondering why I ever brought it up in the first place.

 

Good thing is . . . . it will never happen to you :kissface:

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You're sweet Mrs. Spoo. I have noticed the same thing with some couples. Some people may even think the same thing about us because I prefer to just sit and talk to a few people while Teresa likes to flit about like a butterfly and meet everyone there. She drops by for a kiss and a cuddle, maybe a dance and she's gone again. However, I'm not frowning or lonely. I hate it when people bring their drama into my funtime and don't like to see someone not enjoying themselves. Too many people don't need to be in this lifestyle yet insist on showing up. I don't know the answer.

 

Ted

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Spoomonkey said:

But - here's my thing - one guy specifically (and you know who I mean, Mrs Spoo) is a really nice guy who rarely gets to play... His wife is more into other women (which is fine) and, unfortunately, that leaves him looking glum and playing pool by himself.

 

He knows what she is doing, but he gets the short end. He tries to put on a smile and act positive, but you can tell it really bothers him... I don't know... I like the guy, so I feel pretty bad for him.

 

Wow, I think I know this couple, or one just like them. I always feel sad for the guy too.

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I know what you are talking about Spoomonkey, we have seen it happen more than once! I really feel bad for the guys.

 

My big question is though, What is the deal with the women changing their outfits throughout the night? Is there some secret meaning to this? I have noticed this at 104 more than any other club we have visited.

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freakykitten said:
I know what you are talking about Spoomonkey, we have seen it happen more than once! I really feel bad for the guys.

 

My big question is though, What is the deal with the women changing their outfits throughout the night? Is there some secret meaning to this? I have noticed this at 104 more than any other club we have visited.

 

Hmmmm, maybe that's the only way they can get attention. :eek: Ouch! That was mean . . sorry :rolleyes: Seriously we have noticed that too. I really have no idea why they do that. We haven't been to too many other clubs to compare it but it does seem to happen a lot at 104.

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HA! Finally a question I have the answer to. The women change because they have more outfits than they have nights out to wear them in. Teresa has year old dresses that have never been worn due to the fact that panhandle Floridians would burn her at the stake if she went out in them. Social time is time to show them off.

 

Ted

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TNT said:
HA! Finally a question I have the answer to. The women change because they have more outfits than they have nights out to wear them in. Teresa has year old dresses that have never been worn due to the fact that panhandle Floridians would burn her at the stake if she went out in them. Social time is time to show them off.

Ted

 

:lol:

I say just go to the club more . . . makes for a good excuse, "Gee, honey I have 52 outfits I can't wear in public . . .we'll have to go to the club at least every other week or one Friday and Saturday night" :rolleyes:

 

:D

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I have a different take on this, so I will offer it.

 

Mrs naughty and I are strictly MFMers.

 

So when we are at clubs, or whatever, mrs naughty goes and flirts about. Meeting, kissing and just being generaly naughty.

 

I do not have a problem with this at all, in fact I LOVE it!! facelick

 

The way I look at it is when WE play together it is a mrs Naughty sandwhich. When we played with other couples it felt like WE weren't playing together even if we were in the same room.

 

Now Granted, she doesn't go off to another room with a single guy by herself when we are at a club . If she meets someone she likes she will introduce him to me.

 

If we are hanging out with someone we have already played with and she wants to take him to the other room to tear one off, I say By all means!!! But be sure an MFM is in her future before nights end! facelick

 

My whole fantasy that got us into swinging in the first place was to double mrs naughty's pleasure with a stunt cock.

 

When we did the "Couple thing" it took away from the expereince in a BIG way.

We came to a point where we really weren't having as much fun as we use to.

 

It was adding couples into the mix that was taking away from our fun.

 

Of course that puts out of the "Norm" for swinging couples but that is where we fit in and where we both get the most satisfaction.

 

Now, I am sure there are women out there who are dragging their husbands along the swinging road so they can get what they want, and screw what their husbands think.

 

But we are living proof that is not always the case.

 

As a matter of fact I am always the one egging Mrs naughty on for that next MFM. They are just AWESOME!! facelick

 

So, Next time you are at a club and you see a husband playing pool or just hanging out shooting the shit with others while his wife flirts about, it doesn't necessarily mean they have issues.

 

It just may be their thang. ;)

 

I know it's ours. :)

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As open and honest and - well - blunt as we all claim to be, there are a few things we are reluctant to admit. For example, male homophobia (let's tackle that one in another post...), 'no pressure', and reverse sexism. 'The men get things going, the women keep things going' they say. While that is often true, and women in the vanilla world often get the short end of the stick, here in Swingersville it's the men who end up being put at a distinct disadvantage. For a woman who feels she's been done wrong by men in general, it's a prime opportunity for her to repay her poor male partner for the past wrongs done by him and his kind, whether real or imagined. This is certainly not always the case, and more of an exception to the rule. But just because we all like to live by a different set of social rules doesn't mean we don't fall victim to weaknesses of character or the tragic flaws that define us as human. Swinging has certainly had a positive impact on our marriage, but it has by no means perfected it!

 

I guess all I'm saying is that in a club, it's an environment that is very woman-oriented. She is given absolute freedom and veto-power. However, while we profess that it's about absolutely equal partnership, the power scale tips ever so slightly in the woman's favour. Enough so that if the woman says "No way!", it's the end of the conversation. No questions asked. But if it's the man putting limits on play... Well suddenly that opens up a whole new can of worms doesn't it?

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Mrs Spoomonkey said:

:lol:

I say just go to the club more . . . makes for a good excuse, "Gee, honey I have 52 outfits I can't wear in public . . .we'll have to go to the club at least every other week or one Friday and Saturday night" :rolleyes:

 

:D

 

That would work Mrs. Spoo if there were any clubs close enough for us to attend every Friday and Saturday night. Unfortunately, the closest club is over two hours away so we have to make do with Socials, which only happen once a month.

 

Of course it would also help if Ted would stop buying me all those damn dresses...I seriously can make every social and the occasional club visit and never wear the same dress twice in a year's time.

 

Teresa

 

P.S. Don't tell him I said that :lol:...I really like him buying me new dresses.

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We've seen the same at the club we go to - ladies wandering off while their men sit around in the social area. I can't say I have ever seen it lead to problems or fights though. Everyone seems happy with it. One time Red did the same with one guy who particularly attracted her attention that night, though that isn't how we usually do things though. It certainly wasn't a problem. We like to stay flexible :)

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I guess all I'm saying is that in a club, it's an environment that is very woman-oriented. She is given absolute freedom and veto-power. However, while we profess that it's about absolutely equal partnership, the power scale tips ever so slightly in the woman's favour. Enough so that if the woman says "No way!", it's the end of the conversation. No questions asked. But if it's the man putting limits on play... Well suddenly that opens up a whole new can of worms doesn't it?

We've only been to one club, although we've been many times. We haven't witnessed this "power scale" to any significant degree. We certainly aren't a part of it! We've been in situations in which one of us was uncomfortable, unattracted, or just didn't want to continue for various reasons. Saying no, or stop, meant just that. It didn't mean maybe, it didn't mean let's talk about it, it didn't mean when you are finished, it meant stop, and we stopped. Hasn't ever mattered if it was Mr. or Mrs. JC saying stop, or no. The end result is the same. We would think that any individual (male or female) that doesn't have the love and respect for their spouse to stop or not do something when asked, shouldn't be involved in swinging.

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jcbicouple said:
We would think that any individual (male or female) that doesn't have the love and respect for their spouse to stop or not do something when asked, shouldn't be involved in swinging.

 

Dito

 

I also want to point out that I'm not talking about "social butterflies". I am talking about couples who seem to be there just for her - even when he is pretty miserable. That's what I mean.

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I don't think badly about you - I have bad thoughts ;)

 

Spoomonkey

 

OH MY :eek: Words I have been dying to hear :lol:

 

Teresa :kissface:

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jcbicouple said:
We've only been to one club, although we've been many times. We haven't witnessed this "power scale" to any significant degree. We certainly aren't a part of it! We've been in situations in which one of us was uncomfortable, unattracted, or just didn't want to continue for various reasons. Saying no, or stop, meant just that. It didn't mean maybe, it didn't mean let's talk about it, it didn't mean when you are finished, it meant stop, and we stopped. Hasn't ever mattered if it was Mr. or Mrs. JC saying stop, or no. The end result is the same. We would think that any individual (male or female) that doesn't have the love and respect for their spouse to stop or not do something when asked, shouldn't be involved in swinging.

 

Notice I mentioned the scales tipped "ever so slightly" in the woman's favour. For the record, we heartily agree that there should be equality, and it's a rule we live by. I can't imagine either of us disappearing on the other...especially deliberately trying to be sneaky about it! Why should we, when we're both free to do as we please without the deception?

 

I was just pointing out that as free and liberal as we all profess to be, the reality is people are just people. There is no swingers Utopia. I was trying to emphasize the unfairness of the situation. We've only been to a few clubs ourselves, and none on premises, but the concept is the same. We've seen some obviously misplaced couples walk through the club doors, immediately break contact with one another and not speak a word to each other the whole night. Maybe this is ok for some folks, but certainly not for us. We do this as a shared activity, not to get away from each other.

 

We've also seen couples that were mismatched, where one was much more attractive than the other, or where one was plainly not enjoying the evening as much as the other. This just ruins the fun for everyone. Why do they even bother?

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I the male half here. I'd like to take a shot at this one.

 

I'd be willing to bet my bottom dollar that in more situations then not, this is "the scorned" woman. They either agree with hubby to swing or get him into it, then its about "pay back" due to something he may have done in the past....like cheating on her.

 

Very possible. It just a sneaky way of doing it.

 

Cheers.

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Perhaps it's the water in North Texas, but like the naughtys, MFM's are our preference. When she is flitting and flirting, that's part of the hunt and I'm not lonely or morose sitting at the bar, I'm aroused and privately contemplating the possibilities. If she is indulging in a little one-on-one, it's merely priming the pump for later and she's doing it with my knowledge and encouragement.

 

We have discovered that finding a compatible couple is just too difficult and we are not into taking one for the flag. We are a mis-matched pair and while both men and women are attracted to her beauty and personality, I'm not the type of guy who lights fires quickly. She doesn't go for pretty boys, so finding a matching couple is a lost cause.

 

We have experienced a few FMF playtimes, but they are not our favorite. While it's the dream of every man, nature has not prepared the male body to perform to the degree expected, so even with FF activity, there is something lacking. The MFM combination is perfect for her pleasure and despite being totally straight, I enjoy it also.

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Hey HeAndD,

 

Maybe we should start a support group or even better, open our own club!! :lol:

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Hey HeAndD,

 

Maybe we should start a support group or even better, open our own club!! :lol:

 

We might have to....it appears we are a distinct minority. It would be fun to have a group of very select, closely screened men for the ladies to choose from. God knows, a lot of single guys are singing the blues about being unwelcome to the sport.

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Anything can and everything does happen at clubs and that is what makes it so great. My wife is a total flirt, we have our circle of friends we meet at the club, if we separate or loose contact in the course of the night, it’s OK, the place gets crowded on weekends, women constantly are going to the bathrooms, if she meets someone on the dance floor or along the way and finds herself in a play area without telling me first, it’s fine with me, she finds me eventually to make her introduction(s), and the night continues. This happens more often when we’re with our crowd of friends and knows that I’m in good hands for that stretch of time.

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      At this particular time I was under a lot of stress with my work and hadn't been up for as much sex as Sue wanted...and it became an issue of me trying to explain that it had nothing to do with her and that I still found her very attractive. This went on for a couple of months.  Eventually she told me that she felt the Director that mentioned the fashion show was starting to flirt a bit.  They had sat together a few times in the cafe for lunch and he was starting to make some suggestive comments.  I told her that if she wanted to she could encourage it and see where it took them as it would also  take some pressure off of me. 
       
      Within a week Sue came home from work and said that the Director (John) called her in his office and shut the door.  He started with, "I want to be very careful of what I'm going to say because I don't want to lose my job if I offend you about something." 
       
      Sue interrupted him and said,  "I know what you are talking about.  We've been having discussions that probably cross the line, and we are both guilty of that.  So say what you want to say, and I won't be offended." 
       
      John then told her that she's been driving him crazy and that he constantly thinks about her.  He also said, "Even right now with you in my office I want to bend you over my desk and have sex with you." 
       
      Sue then looked at him and said, "John, I've known we were heading to this based upon our conversations, and I didn't want to stop it.  Obviously, we can't do anything in your office, but all you need to do is invite me to your house."   And then she said, "And to be honest about it, my husband knows and is ok with it." 
       
      John was a divorced man so he lived alone and didn't have to worry about sneaking around.  And with that, Sue came home after work and told me that that Friday she would be leaving work right at 5 pm and going to John's house.
       
      I made arrangements with my best friend to go out to a sports bar for the night, to help me keep my mind off things to help the time go by quicker.  I got home at 10 p.m. wondering if Sue would be home.....and I waited and watched as the clock hit 11 p.m., midnight, and then I finally called her at 12:30 in the morning and she answered her  phone stating she was on her way and would be home by 1 a.m.  John lived 25 minutes in the other direction from work so he lived about one hour from our house. 
       
      As soon as Sue got home she looked at me and all she said was "I don't care how tired  you are, you need to take me to bed to re-claim me."  I asked her how it went and she said she'd tell me when we got to bed.  I was surprised she spent so much time with him.  Apparently John came inside her three times, telling her that he "was inspired" by her.  Sue told me that even after cumming in her, that he'd leave his cock in her pussy because he wanted to take advantage of every minute he had with her.  And they would either spoon after cumming or they would be facing each other with his cock still in her and they'd just talk....and they did that all three times he came. 
       
      The next morning was Saturday and it looked like she was getting dressed for work.  I asked her what she was doing and she said she had to go back into work as they were working on a major project with pressing deadlines.  For the 1st time in all these years of being open minded it really bothered me knowing she would be with him again after just getting fucked by him about 10 hours earlier.  I didn't like it because I felt their relationship was getting more "personal", rather than just about the sex. Little did I know what would happen later. 
       
      About 2-3 years later we were in our bedroom getting ready to call it a night and Sue looked up at me and said, "I have to tell you something and I'm worried about you getting mad but I can't live like this, keeping a secret from you."  I asked her what she was talking about and I never even thought of John being brought up.  She then proceeded to tell me that after that first night with John that she saw him a couple more times.  That three times she went to his house when she told me she was going shopping and that one time he was out sick and he had called her at work, and that during lunch she went to his house to visit him because when he called her he jokingly said, "I'm in the mood for a blowjob right now, can you come over at lunch time"...and that's what she did. 
       
      I went silent when she told me this and all I said was, "leave the room, I need time to think through this."  I didn't speak to her that night and didn't respond to her trying to bring up conversation for the next couple of days.  Finally she came to me and said, "All right, I understand you're angry but can you please speak to me.  I don't know what I can do other than keep apologizing to you."  She said that she would be willing to do "anything to earn back your trust." 
       
      I looked at her and told her that she was right about me being angry and that I felt betrayed and I didn't know how long it would take me to get over that feeling.  I also told her that I couldn't get it out of my mind that she had made arrangements with another man, to fuck him, and she kept it from me.  We had always been open with each other about this.  I mentioned how hurt I was by the deceit rather than the physical act of having sex and developing a friendship with John but that at the same time I felt myself being turned on by it. 
       
      I then asked her if she was serious about doing "anything" to earn back my trust?  She said "yes", and I said, "you might not like what I'm about to say." She said it didn't matter if she liked it or not, she just wanted to earn back my trust.  I proceeded to tell her that I would be going on Adult Friend Finder and that I would find a guy that she would have to start fucking. 
       
      So I eventually found another person named John and met up with him.  He was a divorced guy who owned his own small construction company that included two different crews.  They would build homes, and do high end renovations.  He lived alone, and his schedule was fairly flexible.  All John asked of me was to bring pictures of Sue as I told him I needed to meet him alone first as I knew the type of guy Sue would be interested in. 
       
      I told Sue what I was doing.  She said she understood.  I told her I needed to take a few pictures of her in fairness to John to see if he would be interested.  Sue again understood. 
       
      I met with John and he was absolutely interested in Sue based upon the pictures and I could tell he had a personality that would go well with Sue's.  When I came home after meeting John I told Sue about meeting John and felt that he would work out well.  I also told Sue, that if things went well after the three of us getting together the first time that "earning my trust" would require a longer term Friends with Benefits situation, until I got the previous situation out of my system  Again, Sue said she understood.  
       
      We met at John's house and got pizza delivered to help start the relationship and eventually I just said, "Are both of you comfortable"?  They both said yes, and with that John took Sue into his bedroom and they fucked each other.  When they were done, they both came out of the bedroom fully dressed.  I then told Sue to take off her shirt and pants as I wanted her to just be standing in front of John and me with her sheer green bra and matching sheer green panties.  She gave me this look, and I just shrugged and said, "you know why." 
       
      She did what she was asked and we visited for about another 20 minutes, giving John the opportunity to stare at Sue's totally sheer bra, still exposing her tits and nipples the entire time...and left for home.  On the drive, Sue did say that John was a very friendly person.  I told her that John and I would be talking the next day to get his feelings but that she needed to be prepared for anything because of her prior indiscretion with the previous John.  All she replied with was "OK, I understand."
       
      John and I had our conversation and he said the night couldn't have gone better and that he was very attracted to Sue, and that he also just had a very good feeling of a relationship between the three of us.  I told him I agreed. 
       
      When I got home, Sue asked how my conversation with John went.  I told her that he was attracted to her and he enjoyed the sex with her.  I asked Sue if she would be upset if I told her that he was the one I was going to pick for her to start fucking on a regular basis and she said if that is what she needed to do to regain trust that she could do it as she also felt they were compatible in bed, and she also liked the conversation the three of us had and felt we all could be friends. 
       
      But Sue didn't know what would be happening next.  I told Sue that John and I discussed how "moving forward" would look like and that we both were in agreement.  I then gave Sue John's phone number and told her he was expecting her call.  That from now on the two of them would communicate with each other but Sue, unlike with the previous John, needed to tell me every time she and John would be getting together. Again, Sue understood and said she promised to be totally honest with me about anything to do with John and she was willing to do whatever I wanted her to do, given what had previously happened. 
       
      I then looked at Sue and told her to call John, and I wanted her to be "forward" with him on the phone and that she first needed to ask him if he felt comfortable after meeting the two of us (I already knew how he was going to answer).  I then instructed Sue to specifically say on the phone that she was "also very comfortable both in conversation, as well as being in bed with him."  Sue then stated, at my request, "I'm interested in seeing you on a regular basis if you are.  And if you can commit to not dating any women on the side, I'll commit to having sex with you, pretty much whenever you want.  And, one more thing, if you are ok with it, I'd rather you no longer wear a condom." 
       
      And that started what turned out to be about a 15 year relationship where we are all still friends today. About two months after they started seeing each other, John called me and asked about the possibility of Sue working for him part time.  He was thinking about her going to his house two days a week, just half days.  One day would be to work on calling back customers who call to set up an appointment with him, and another half day to take care of sending out the bills, and making bill payments to suppliers, etc. 
       
      I had an idea pop into my head because I was still of the mindset of "punishing" Sue for cheating on me earlier.  John really liked my idea and now I was going to tell Sue.  When I told Sue what John had asked and what he and I decided she initially thought it was asking too much...but I reminded her about how hurtful her cheating had been and that I really needed her to do this. 
       
      Sue was a teacher and was about to have almost three full months off.  I told her that John would be paying her to work part time out of his house for two days a week.  She needed to be at his house around 7:30 in the morning to review his schedule so she could set up appointments for him to meet with people calling asking for a quote of construction work, and then on the second day she would handle all the billing that needed to be either paid, or invoiced. 
       
      She looked at me perplexed as if to say, "Ok, what's the big deal?" I then told her that EVERY day she went to his house to work that she was not allowed to wear a bra, and had to wear a top that was revealing either because of sheerness or being low cut. 
       
      After her saying, "Are your serious?", I responded, "You are damn right I'm serious, and frankly it's all because you were fucking the other John without telling me.  Now I'll know for the next three months what you'll be doing, and the plan is that you and John will be fucking each other each day, and sometimes 2X a day (when you first get there, and when he comes home for lunch). 
       
      She said, "Ok, I get it, but I hope this is coming to the end of it."  I then had her call John and had her say the following to him, "I hear  you have a job opening for me, can you confirm the dress code and expectations that I just heard from my husband."  She listened to his response and said "When do you want me to start?.  And for the next three months she arrived at John's house, always with a sweater on in case she got stopped by a police officer or if something weird happened on her way "to work." And the first thing she did when she got in the house was take her sweater off. 
       
      The very first time she was to go to work she came downstairs and took her sweater off and said, "Does this meet  your approval?"  She was obviously braless, wearing a thin, low cut tank top with low arm holes exposing plenty of side boob, and you could make out the color of her nipples through the top.  I told Sue I couldn't have picked out better work attire and then she went to work. 
       
      During the three months doing this I had to go on a business trip for a few days so I called John and told him to call Sue and ask her out to dinner and make plans to spend some time at his house.  I also told John I wanted "photo proof of him fucking her so I know she went."  This was also going to be a test to see if Sue would be honest about telling me what she was going to do. 
       
      About 30 minutes after talking with John, Sue called me.  She told me that John had asked her out to dinner and wanted to make sure I was ok with that?  She said it felt like she was going "on a date" rather than just being a friend with benefits.  I told her it felt the same way to me, and considering that she pretty much "went on dates" with the previous John without my knowledge, that she now needed to realize that she was about to start dating John WITH my knowledge.  She asked how much longer she needed to go through with this and I told her I hadn't even started to think about that yet because I had been hurt so much. 
       
      So Sue and John had their first "date" while I was away on business.  John sent me an email that included an attachment.  He laughingly wrote: "As you requested, my first date with your wife happened.  I also told her that you asked me to inform her that you wanted her to agree to start "dating me" rather than just me fucking her.  And she agreed to it, so once she's back teaching and can't come over during the summer anymore, she is going to start seeing me for longer periods of time rather than coming over for an hour to fuck each other, we'll grab dinner or take a drive somewhere."
       
      John also told me to watch the attachment as he sent "more than a photo".  I opened the attachment and saw two things: a photo of my wife's face with his cock in her mouth, pressing her cheek from the inside so I could see his cock bump pushing out her cheek. And he also sent me a video that lasted a few minutes of him fucking her.  He told me not to worry, that he'd delete both the photo and video, but I told him I wanted him to keep it so he'd always be able to look back on how they looked fucking each other. 
       
      And that relationship lasted around 15 years.  After fucking John about 10 times Sue told me that she noticed something different and wanted to be honest with me.  I asked her what she was talking about.  She said it felt like John was "fucking" her at times like he was paying for it but other times it was more emotional, it was starting to feel like he was "making love" to her. I told her I guess that would be normal after seeing someone consistently that you liked.  I told her I was ok with that. 
       
      She then said she was starting to feel like she was making love to him at times, that it was emotional for her as well feeling like she was giving her body to someone she cared about as a friend.  She wasn't having any feelings of being in love with him, but she was getting some emotional connection where she wanted to give herself to him when they saw each other.  It turned me on. The frequency of sex got less over the last couple of years but he and I estimated, that not counting the three months she worked for him and they fucked anywhere from 2-4 times a week, that he had fucked her somewhere between 50-100 times. 
       
      And to this day, years later, the thought that she's been fucked so much by the same guy is a turn-on.  We all still remain friends today.  I thought that would be the end of our openess in our marriage but there would be two other men that would enter our lives, both of which got substantial time with my hotwife.  And she wanted it. 
       
      If you'd like to read about it, let me know and I'll write it up.
    • By MenPoundMyWife
      My wife and I have been married for over 10 years. She is 5'4, about 130lbs, 34F, and very fit. 
       
      We dated for couple of years before getting married. From the very beginning, she was the most sexual woman I had ever met. Soon after we started dating, she started to push me to talk about her former lovers. Slowly, I started to get turned on by the stories and became more and more curious about her past sexual experiences with boyfriends before me. Eventually, we got married, and few years later, she started to throw hints of wanting to raise her score. I quickly got on board and we started to regularly talk about how other men would fuck her and so forth.
       
      Finally, during a trip to Vegas, we decided to visit a sex club and she was very excited, although a little nervous. She wore a new tight black dress with red lingerie underneath. We got to the club and just hung out. She was very uneasy and she said she had never been to a place like this. About 30 minutes in, we were starting to talk about leaving, she suddenly pointed at a slightly older guy and said: "Go bring him here." My dick was hard as a rock. I walked up to the guy and asked if he is interested in my wife, he had been staring at her the entire time. He quickly smiled and said, "Oh yes, let's go."
       
      They shook hands, introduced themselves and we all decided to find the area with beds and more privacy (so to speak). We found a room downstairs that was only enclosed by a curtain. She told me to go and get condoms so she can get to know the guy for a few minutes. When I came back, they were just talking, slowly, she walked up to me and started kissing me. Once I let go, I gestured to the guy to go ahead; he quickly moved in on her. They started making out, he started kissing her all over the place, slowly, she dropped backwards on bed and pulled him on top of herself. 
       
      He lowered her dress and started sucking her big tits. She asked me to join in. We each had a tit in our mouth and we were both fingering her pussy at the same time. Slowly, I moved down and started eating her pussy. She is always fully waxed like a porn star. As soon as I stopped eating her pussy as she came, he went down and started eating it. Slowly, I moved back up and she took my dick in her mouth. 
       
      To our surprise, a crowd gathered and four other men wanted to fuck her. She shook her head but they all watched her get pounded. 
       
      The guy that went in there with us, quickly got naked and tugged at her red thong. She took it off and handed it to me. This whole time, she was playing with my dick, it's about 5.5". The guy was much larger, about 7". She looked at it and winked at me. She told him she likes it rough.
       
      He had it fully up and moved close to her pussy. She stared into my eyes, grabbed his dick and guided it to rub her pussy. He took his clue and shoved it in. She reminded him to not be gentle. He obliged and fucked her like a whore. She begged for more by saying, "Oh yeah, fuck me, fuck me hard...look babe, he is fucking me so good, he is so big, look, he is fucking your wife right in front of you....oh yeah, fuck me." About four other guys and a couple were now watching her get fucked. I asked her if I should tell them to leave, she said no, she likes it. She slowly turned to them so they can get the full view of a dick in her pussy while she was playing with mine. 
       
      Once the guy got done, she said, "Okay honey, this was awesome," and kissed me multiple times thanking me for a great experience. She said she wanted to stay for a few before we walked out. She wanted to walk around and be noticed as the woman who had just been fucked, since rest of the crowd was just hanging out.
       
      We cannot wait to do it again.  
       
    • By Wendans
      My fantasy has always been to watch my wife get fucked by another man. We have been with another woman before which is a whole story in itself that I’ll tell you about later.
       
      One night several years ago my wife and I had gone to a club. Not your ordinary club, but a good club for swingers and singles. The night had started out rather slow and we were not finding any action that I had hoped. My wife knows what she wants and that is what we go with. And that night we found what she wanted and it was such a great experience she knew she wanted to do it again. She had gotten fucked by a black guy and she had enjoyed it. So, when we got the chance, she wanted to try it again.
       
      Being at a swinger’s club isn’t really her thing, but fucking in front of people or listening to them fuck is a big turn-on for her. Since we don’t live close to any swingers’ clubs or anything of that nature, we don’t get many opportunities to do anything like this.
       
      A couple of years ago we got a chance to go to another club. Yes, one of those clubs. We were looking for a little fun and hoping to find something as good as the last time we were out. We talked to many people as the night went on and my wife was trying to figure out what we were going to be doing to have fun that night. There was a hot blonde that was interested in us and kept on grabbing my cock which my wife was loving because this was getting her going. My wife and I decided that this was not what we had in mind for tonight, so we just kind of let that slide and we went on to pursue something else. She said she would know it when she saw it.
       
      My wife had put a couple of drinks down and was feeling pretty good now. She was a little more daring and said she wanted to go change outfits like she did when we had been to a club previously. We had brought the very same sexy outfit that was see through, so she went and changed into it. When she came back out, there was not one guy's eyes on anyone but her. Even the women were looking on in awe. She is a beautiful woman that knows how to control a room.
       
      One guy came up to me and told me he was jealous. He said he would do anything to get to fuck my wife, but she just didn’t feel right with him, I guess. As we were standing around, in came this well-built younger black guy and I think she almost came right there. The look on her face was almost mind blowing. She got this horny grin and told me she was ready to start our night. As he walked by her, she gave him this dirty smile and took her hand and rubbed down by her cunt. He stopped walking and came over to her and asked if he could help her with anything. She just smiled and said that I think you already know what you can do. They danced around a little bit, but I could tell she couldn’t take it anymore, so she quickly unzipped his pants and took out his cock and grabbed it and lead him into another room like a dog on a leash.
       
      I stayed back a couple of minutes to give them some time to get to know each other. When I did finally get to the other room, they had already undressed and she was sucking his cock. It was larger than mine. Not much longer, but thicker. I could tell she liked it.
       
      My wife had picked a room where people would be able to watch if they wanted to. I stayed back in the wings and was kind of hidden so she really didn’t know I was even there.  As I watched my wife in action, I could tell she was enjoying every second of this guy’s cock. She was sucking it like there was no tomorrow.
       
      Now it was his turn to return the favor. He got his face down to her pussy and started licking like it was candy. She was turning red and I could tell she was already about to cum. She was squirming and shaking and he was getting her cunt all ready for his big shaft. But before he fucked her, he now spread her legs out and started fingering her pussy to the point that she started squirting fluids all over the sheet they were laying on. It was like the flood gates had opened up and all the juices were flowing.
       
      She finally had all she could take because I’m sure she had cum multiple times already and I could tell she just wanted to have him inside her. I heard her say to give me your big, black cock. He asked her if she wanted him to put on a condom and she told him no, she wanted to feel him inside her cunt.
       
      He took her and spread her legs wide and slowly inserted his bbc into her tight cunt. She told him to go slowly because she said it was so big that she needed to get used to it. After several minutes of the slow movement, she said she needed him to fuck her harder so he started to go full penetration into her dripping wet cunt. She was telling him how good his cock felt, and how she loved fucking him.
       
      They switched positions multiple times with her sitting on top of his cock and riding him like she has never ridden before. My wife took his whole cock inside of her as deeply as she could, rubbing back and forth and cumming time and time again.
       
      They finally switched back to missionary style and were fucking hard when I heard her say to him, she wanted him to cum in her pussy. She said she wanted to feel his cum drip out of her pussy all night long. When he heard her say that, he started to pick up the pace and finally started moaning and said he was about to cum. My wife was now cumming herself and as he shot his load inside of her, she started squirming and shaking with every pulse of his exploding cock. Her body was red from all of her orgasms, and I could tell she was getting worn out. They had gone for almost 40 minutes of nonstop action. Not to mention that all the other people that had gathered around to watch started going to other parts of the place as they had gotten a show that they would remember forever.
       
      When he pulled his now soft cock out of my wife, I could see the cum dripping down her ass. She was getting what she wanted, I guess. She would be able to feel his cum dripping out of her the rest of the night. But I didn’t realize that she was not done yet. She wanted more. My wife took his cock and started sucking on it again. I guess he was young enough that almost instantly he got hard and she took his cock and guided it into her cunt and said she needed more of his cum. He fucked her for another 10 minutes until he exploded with more cum inside my wife’s pussy again. Again, as I watched the cum drip down her ass, she was getting what she wanted. She was going to feel this the rest of the night.
       
      They both started cleaning up a little and I slowly came out of the crowd that had gathered. She saw me and gave me that dirty little smile she sometimes gets. My wife asked me if I had enjoyed her show. She said she needed to have a little more cum in her pussy tonight and she now wanted mine. Her new little friend just kind of sat back in the corner and decided to watch us.
       
      I knew I wouldn’t last long because I had almost cum multiple times just watching her. With some of the crowd still watching I got undressed, and slid my wet with pre-cum cock into my wife’s cum-loaded pussy. I fucked her until she started cumming. Her cunt convulsed so hard that it squeezed my cock and made me start to cum. I came in her pussy, mixing my cum with my wife’s new fuck buddies cum. I pulled my cock out and watched it all slowly slide down her ass. She got up and went over to our young fuck buddy and she gave him a long passionate kiss and said thank you for such a great time. He gave her one last little finger fucking and handed her a card of his if we were ever in the area again.
       
      He left after he got dressed and we got cleaned up and went out to the main room. I had multiple people including women and even the bartender say that my wife was one of the women they would like to fuck if they ever got a chance after seeing her in action. I guess I’m the lucky one here.
       
      Later that night when we were driving to our resort, she slipped her hand down pants and put her fingers in her pussy. She brought them out and rubbed them on my face. She smiled and said we gotta do this again sometime as we pulled into the parking lot to call it a night.
       
      And what a night it was.
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