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Married males - What's your swinging status?

By JustAskJulie, in Polls & Never-Ending Threads

Married Male Ratio  

919 members have voted

  1. 1. Married Male Ratio

    • Married Male- my wife and I swing together
      529
    • Married Male - I am cheating on my wife
      34
    • Married Male - I am still trying to figure out how to bring up the topic to my wife - I'm here to learn
      86
    • Married Male - I've brought up the topic, still trying to get her to go for it though
      229
    • This poll does not apply to me
      86

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Chitowndk4u    32

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My wife says that we need more friends that are couples, but we don't meet them wherte we live because none of our couple friends have schedules that match ours or they just have totally different lives that we just aren't a part of.

 

I mentioned to her that the one thing we did do in the subject we can't speak about was meet couples and could've struck up a good friendship with them.

 

She didn't see what I was saying, of course.

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DiscreetRayJay    15

DiscreetRayJay
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I am just curious to know how many married males we have around these parts who aren't actively swinging yet but hoping to use what they learn here as a springboard to either figure out how to bring it up to their partner, or have brought it up and are still trying to figure out how to get their wives to go for the idea.

Julie, you hit the nail right on the head with me. I'm not married, but she and I will be someday. It's complicated right now... I digress.

 

We've agreed to go to our local on-premise club (tomorrow night in fact), but how far we're willing to go will be entirely up to her. If she's not into it, I'm not going to pressure her, but I would like tomorrow's trip to open the doors to conversation in any event. Before I met my girl I had a profile on SLS and played just once or twice. Once I met her, I cancelled my membership and will only go back to that site if she and I do it together. I'm here tonight because

 

a. I'm super excited about our first vist

b. I'm constantly browsing the site looking for advice.

 

Hopefully I can add

 

c. Meet locals to have fun with

 

in the future!

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