How bi are you?

[adventureUS2 25]

A lot of women and some men that swing claim to be bisexual. The question is how bisexual are they.

 

My wife is very bi she could love a man or a women on the same level. Her bisexuality is not only for the purpose of having sex with another women. Given the hypothetical situation of me not being in the picture she could be happy with a man or a women for her next partner.

 

Me on the other hand call myself a situational bisexual, for lack of a better term. Men do not turn me on, but my wife's enthusiasm to see two men having oral sex does turn me on. I have been known to receive the oral pleasure (from a man) and the reaction from my wife really gets me off.

 

So the question is how bisexual are you? Is it just for sex, could it be more emotional, or is it for the people around you to enjoy?

[northindycpl 32]

I am situationally bi. It is fun to play with a girl, on occasion and while swinging, but I want a man. I would desperately miss all that men offer. I have had just FF experiences, and honestly, the lack of penis presence bothered me and made me long for it!

 

I could not see any type of emotional attachment (like partnering with) a woman, beyond that of considerate friendship.

[biblonde 22]

I consider myself bi to very bi although I would never consider having a woman as a "partner" so to speak. I enjoy women very much...not just the sex but to look at and admire. I find the woman body very sexy and sexually attractive. I really love going to the mall and picking out the sexy ladies for each other to stare at and flirt with and tease. I really love the attention from the ladies also. I think I pick up on more women than hubby does and flirt with them when he isn't around so I am not doing this just to turn him on although that is an extra benefit!! As much as I love playing with women though, I NEED a man. I am not satisfied with just women. They are fun to get things going but when it comes down to it I need a man to get me over the edge!!

[Guest smileytattoo]

I consider myself Bi. I enjoy being with a woman, touching her, sucking her nipples, etc. But I do not like to lick pussy. And I very much enjoy cock. So that's that.

[Spoomonkey 421]

I am not bi...

 

Or should I say I am "over my dead body" bi...

 

 

My wife is playfully bi - or adaptively playful. She will play with a woman, but only in a group situation. She doesn't have any interest in playing with just a woman.

 

But - she is really good at keeping the entire room entertained

[hfire269 16]

I am very bi. I love being with a women or a man. Being that I was in love with a women when my hubby and I got together I could definitely be with a women emotionally too. I love the taste of a women. The softness. I also love the taste and the strength of a man. Although as of lately I've been way more interested in women then men. I have one man don't think I could put up with another. lol

[two4youinswva 3,068]

Mrs two4you enjoys bi-play, but still has a stronger love of MF play.

 

Mr two4you enjoys watching the GG action, but has no desire for MM activities.

[looking2swing 17]

I would consider myself bi. I love to touch a woman and have one touch me. But man do I love the cock!

[xxoticangel 99]

My wife is very bi in a swinging situation, loves the touch and taste of another woman and has had bi experiences with no males present but would never consider another woman for a long term emotional relationship. I am situationally bi and will trade oral with another male while swinging with my wife but would never consider a one-on-one with another guy.

[jrw 18]

I am sexually bi-sexual but have no desire for an emotional connection with a man.

 

I deeply enjoy the deep emotional connection I experience with my wife but have no desire or inclination to seek such a connection with another man or woman, and should she pass before me I will probably connect with another woman.

[24play 15]

Interesting thread.

 

Here in South Africa, when advertising on personal sites, one would easily classify the woman of the couple as being bi-curious, meaning, that she is bi in the swinging scene, not in her total personal sexual orientation (as in she could marry a male or a female).

 

So, if you call yourself totally bi - in our terms it means that you most probably have had a relationship with another of the same sex.

 

Therefore, I would classify myself as Bi-Curious, as I enjoy the ladies interaction but only when we are swinging and would never be able to have a relationship with a woman.

[confunktion 20]

The Mrs. is right-down-the-middle bi. Loves me, wants to be with me forever (although I still can't figure out why...), but needs to have equal doses of feminine fun. If that satisfies her needs and desires and makes her happy, I'm all for it.

[DBL D 120]

Fem D is only with women in swinging situations so far but I wouldn't have a problem with her being more bi in the real world; as in commenting on how another lady might be in the sack. She just isn't comfy with that aspect yet, if she ever will be.

 

When I see her interact with another woman I know she is doing it out of genuine desire. It makes me feel good to know that she can and will do that. I know that she will always have a big need for me in her life and all I can do is be as supportive of her curiosity as possible.

[cplapsry 18]

I'm the male partner of this couple and think I could be a situational bisexual. Men don't turn me on but I have fantasized about helping her suck a guy . I also would love to feel a man cum in me, like my wife, the only way would be anal so that is how it would have to be. How I would feel afterwards is a good question, I know AFTER a fantasized masturbation I am not as turned on with this scenario as with others. :rollseyes:

[Plumeria 15]

Interesting question. I've never thought about trying to "break it down" before.

 

I would say I'm sexually bi-sexual, in that I could be equally as sexual with a woman as with a man. Also, I could be sexual with a woman, without a man present, but I would only want a long-term, emotional relationship with a man. However, in a three-some type situation, having the men interact with each other (kissing, touching, etc.) would be a total turn-off for me. In fact, as far as a threesomes goes, I'd prefer MFF over MMF for that reason, I suppose.

[gsu22 187]

Like cplapsry said...same with me. I've wanted to give oral to another guy with his wife and have masturbated to this many times, however, afterwards I'm not nearly as turned on...

[CliffandKeira 15]

I'm very much bi, hubby is "over my dead body bi". I agree with our South Africa friend (sorry forgot to quote you) when it comes to the meaning of being bi-sexual. My high school sweetheart was a girl...we were together 3 out of the 4 years we were in high school.

[SnozzberryBlu 83]

I am a real bi...sex, emotion, etc. and can fall in love either way... head to toe, women are incredibly beautiful to me.

 

Yet, I need that extra touch from a man. We have no problem being with couples where the woman is not interested in me. Now if we only wanted one set of swinging friends, that would be a problem lol, but I do like the guys very much! And, once I have been with a woman I have a very deep need to be with a man. I just want it all I guess lol!

[JacobSky 17]

I am situationally bi. Another term that I have found on the net concerning bisexual categorizing is "hedonistic bisexual". Basically, I am by far predominantly attracted to women. I have had a couple of experiences with males with no women present. I do not intend to do that again. I am not emotionally attracted to males. I do find it easier to talk to males because I am not intimidated by them, and some women do intimidate me.

 

I have been debating on whether to openly state this or not. I do believe that there are lots of couples out there that I would click with that would not swing with a bi male, even though I'd only desire contact with the wife. It could make things tougher for me by mentioning such things, but I'm all about honesty. I could be in completely straight situations without making anyone feel uncomfortable.

 

Bi women really turn me on. Girl-Girl action is so sexy. I do feel that a bi fem would make the best LTR partner for me, but I'll just have to wait and see.

[fantazielvr 16]

I saw a listing somewhere on the net for 'hedonistic bi-sexual'. It's definition was that the bi-sex was erotic and enjoyable to the participant(s) but not a total lifestyle regimen. That is what I call myself. I love to watch hubby with another woman and just want to jump in and have some fun. When not in a swinging situation, I don't think that much about being with a woman by myself unless it's the fantasy to surprise hubby when he gets home.

[tweedle 16]

Just have to stick my two-pence worth in...

 

I often wrestled with this question... Having enjoyed the heightened excitement stage in which nearly anything goes anywhere...

 

Bottom line. I have zero desire to kiss a guy. Period.

 

Isn't if funny that one could actually enjoy sucking another penis, yet find smooching somewhat repugnant !!!

 

Now, there's no end to the oral contact I enjoy with women (from head to toe)...

 

So, it's situational. I guess. At least in my case.

 

That's kind of how I figured I'm not what one might call "gay".

[lonesomedove341 15]

My wife is very bi she could love a man or a women on the same level. Her bi sexuality is not only for the purpose of having sex with another women. Given the hypothetical situation of me not being in the picture she could be happy with a man or a women for her next partner.

 

So the question is How bi sexual are you? Is it just for sex, could it be more emotional, or is it for the people around you to enjoy?

 

 

I would have to say that I the female am totally bi. I have had relationships with both males and females. And I would have to say that it is the female that turns me on more than the male. Although don't get me wrong I like the guys too.

[CuriousInOregon 16]

I consider myself to be Bi-curious, I know that term is used very loosely most of the time, But my reasons are this..... If watching an adult movie I can get turned on and very wet very quick by watching a Girl Girl scene opposed to a Girl Guy scene, I find Women very beautiful and erotic, The thought of kissing and intimate touch is an erotic thing beyond what most men can do for me. But the reason I do not classify myself as Bi but Bi-curious is because I have not actually been with a woman. A little kissing and groping is as far as it has ever went. I am not opposed to intimate contact with a woman I would accept a womans affections towards me 100% but I am not sure If I would return the favors other than Soft play. This sounds very selfish I know but that is why I have been up front with anyone that there has ever been a possibility with. So does that clear it up?

[jon&roberta 18]

I am a straight male; however, during one foursome the other male and I were sitting next to each other watching our ladies doing a 69. We both were very hard at that sight and we started stroking each other. Before too long he was on his knees giving me a blow job. I wanted to do him, but I just couldn't get myself to do it.

 

So maybe I'm Bi - because I enjoyed him doing me.

[Pillowtalk215 16]

Both of us enjoy giving and receiving oral with members of the same sex -- but only with the other present. And neither one of us is interested in kissing someone of the same sex. What that makes us, that's who we are!

[starryeyes 23]

She is situationally bi... meaning that if she gets caught up in the moment, look out!! Definitely prefers men to the ladies and knows that it totally turns him on when she is with the ladies! She would not be the lead but would really follow along!!

He is situationally straight, totally straight, and unless has gone to the happy hunting grounds, he would still be straight. Definitely prefers ladies and is turned on by the play of ladies with ladies.

[ALilOEverything 901]

I'm very bi though I do enjoy men more than women. I've several times enjoyed women one on one but I'm not totally bi because I could never be in a relationship with a woman.

[meandher2go 17]

ME= 0% BI

 

HER= 50% BI, she will play with a girl but not go down on one. She loves boobs, kissing, rubbing, etc.....but not licking.

[parcarcaliente 15]

She: Bi Curious, like to caress, touch and have fun with a girl, especially if she has the looks for her, but it won't get her off outside a sexual encounter.

 

He: Would manage some degree of it, wouldn't have a problem, stroking other guy or even doing a blow job, but that's it, won't like kissing, caressing, or even talking about penetration :P

[bransoncouple 20]

Truly bi. Love men and women equally.

[Lascivious L&L 866]

I like the term omnisexual. Enjoying the full geography of sex, not merely one half or the other. I could not imagine going through life never having enjoyed fully one half of the sexual possibilities, or actually more than half. Think of full threesomes, all the way foursomes and moresomes. Being completely hetero or homo misses so very much!

 

Oh yes, I'm the male of our couple writing this. Romantically I'm stuck on females, well actually my wife. I've experienced one previous marriage and one very serious relationship that would never have been marriage even as it was as serious as my marriages, and I've experienced several other serious but not to that level relationships. Also experienced ten years living by myself, sometimes within relationships, sometimes not.

 

I much prefer living with a woman. Could I have a serious relationship with a man? All I can say is that I haven't and I've been in more than a few relationships with women.

[Learning 160]

Mr. Learning is straight. I used to think I was potentially bi but after an experience with a true bi female there's no way in hell I am bi. She was way too experienced for me and she was way too over the top with me. It was extremely uncomfortable and I hurt for days so there is no way I can say I am bi now. That whole situation really has turned me off to females as that was one of the last experiences I had with a female before retiring. If we ever get back in, I think I would set some guidelines such as please don't try to pull my uterus out please.

[Playful1 434]

I'm extremely bi. I have often been teased about practically being lesbian. I am equal opportunity when it comes to emotional involvement. My issue is most of the women in swinging that I have met are only bi sexually, not emotionally.

[mcrider 15]

I would fall into the situationally bi category with some limitations. Kissing and penetration are out. But I could stroke a guy or give him a blowjob, if it turned her on. Licking her while he was doing her would be a turn-on too.

[MechanicalAngel 15]

I am sexually bi-sexual but have no desire for an emotional connection with a man.

 

The exact same for me, except I'm a woman. I just don't get a deep emotional connection with men.

[km34 672]

I am bi - usually equally into men and women (both emotionally and sexually), although lately more into women and at times it has been much more into men. It varies, but usually it's pretty much equal.

[rng 37]

We do not know if we are bi or bi-curious or not. My husband would love to see a cock fucking my pussy while he is sucking my clit and I think he would suck the guy's cock if he slid out of my pussy and into his mouth, and I know he likes the taste of his cum because he always cleans me up after he cums (I think he likes the taste of his cum better then I do). And for me, I do love the taste of my pussy juice a lot. Whenever my husband fingers me he always feeds me my juice from his dripping fingers. I will also make him put his cock in my soaking wet pussy and then suck my juice off of his cock. I just love the taste (I am getting so wet now). I really never had the desire to lick another woman's pussy or suck on her nipples, but we both love watching group sex porn.

 

Another fantasy of my husband's is to have one guy in my ass, one guy in my pussy, and a woman licking my clit. Now I really like the thought of that too except for the thought of her pussy in my face. Would it be rude not to return the favor?

[mauijanedoe 1,414]

I figured out I was bisexual when I was 16; the first person I fell in love with was a woman. I'm still more strongly attracted to women than men, sexually and emotionally, but I have much better taste in men so those relationships have been more enduring. I wouldn't want to give up men or women, though.

[NakedInSeattle 159]

I would consider myself bi. I love to touch a woman and have one touch me. But man do I love the cock!

 

I'm the male of this couple and this quote could have been written by me!

[ViSexual 1,008]

I'm the male of this couple and this quote could have been written by me!

 

You know, I went back through the posts to see if 'looking2swing's post was written by the wife or the husband. Then it occurred to me that it didn't matter. The nice thing about being bi is that you can find pleasure even if you're not with your gender of choice. You just need to be with a like-minded person.

[NakedInSeattle 159]

A friend told me - "Being bi means that you can put your hand down someone's pants and be happy with whatever you find there."

[Casurina 28]

I'm always happy! We like to play with either.

[sparkstar 128]

Him: very straight

Me: bi or bi-curious?

 

If I find her attractive then I do like a nice kiss with her. If she has boobs then I do enjoy licking/sucking her nipples. I don't mind using my fingers to pleasure between her legs, but I just can't bring myself to go down on her.

 

When I was younger I couldn't have a FMF threesome as I was so put off with the idea of him going in me while his dick was wet from the other girl's vagina. It really turned me off at the time. As I've gotten older, from having so many MFM threesomes and my husband enjoying sloppy seconds, I've found I really don't mind playing with a dick freshly wet from another girl's vagina as long as it goes in my vagina. I'm still put off by the thought of oral sex with other women.

 

So I don't know which level of bi I am. I'm almost full on bi I suppose. I just can't give oral to another woman. I've had oral from women which I'm beginning to like more as I'm getting older. If my husband has been fucking her I just can't give him a blowjob.

[Baron-n-kitty 104]

Don't know how bi I would be but I couldn't ever be romantically involved with another dude. Everything else sexually speaking would be good to go tho. Top, bottom, doesn't matter. Just throw everyone in a pile and dive in!

 

So, I'm guessing I'd be an 8 out of 10?

[RyJ 21]

I would say that my wife and I are both bisexual. I wouldn't want a relationship with another man, but I do love the sex and sucking cock!! My wife is very passionate with other women and it's a huge turn-on for me, but she also wouldn't want a relationship with one. So not sure what you would consider that but we just say we're bisexual.

[1644 17]

A lot of women and some men that swing claim to be bisexual. The question is how bisexual are they.

 

My wife is very bi she could love a man or a women on the same level. Her bisexuality is not only for the purpose of having sex with another women. Given the hypothetical situation of me not being in the picture she could be happy with a man or a women for her next partner.

 

Me on the other hand, I call myself a situational bisexual, for lack of a better term. Men do not turn me on, but my wife's enthusiasm to see two men having oral sex does turn me on. I have been known to receive the oral pleasure (from a man) and the reaction from my wife really gets me off.

 

So the question is how bisexual are you? Is it just for sex, could it be more emotional, or is it for the people around you to enjoy?

 

Sir...if you will take it out I'll show you.

[Frojoe 40]

Me: bi.

Her: bi.

 

We've both been in same sex relationships and hetero relationships. We both enjoy sex with both genders. It's a trip.

[yorktownvaguy 76]

Fascinating thread! I'm a bi guy. While I can absolutely melt when I see a woman walking in the street, I am not physically attracted to a (dressed) guy. But ... A nude guy I have no problem with. I' m open to a lot of experimenting with guys and don't mind kissing and hugging, although I can do without as well. Actually a very interesting dichotomy. But being with a woman? Nothing better!

[Lascivious L&L 866]

Sexually I find I am fully sexual, meaning sexual with either gender. Emotionally I've only been hetero, though I don't see why that means I couldn't be omni. Just have never met the man who could stir my heart. Doesn't mean it's impossible.

 

But sexually I'm not hetero or homo, I'm just sexual.

[HappyCpl 89]

Possibly orally but not interested in anal, with either sex.