Ladies, Can you have a vaginal orgasm without the help of toys, fingers, etc.?

[Mr. Mac 15]

Ok, I have seen the post about a great number of orgasms in one night, day, or whatever....I know that there are some women who are not able to orgasm through some medical reason.

 

I really wonder about this though...have they just not found that right person, or position. I have seen specials on Discovery Health, etc.

 

My question is this how many of you women are able to have an orgasm through intercourse with a man and a man only...no help from toys, fingers, etc.?

 

The poll is limited to two answers, but feel free to elaborate in your post.

 

Thanks!

[Mrs Spoomonkey 118]

I didn't answer the poll because it's not very definitive. I guess I could vote yes but it is only in certain circumstances and only with Mr Spoo. Usually if he goes down on me and then f*** me (taking in to account right position to hit my G spot) I can orgasm through intercourse. We have gotten quite good at knowing and hitting all my buttons so there isn't much we can't accomplish. Anymore we are so wound up (always together and flirting) that he has just grabbed me and went right to intercourse and I've been able to orgasm.

 

Okay, I'll go vote yes . . . . but it is only Mr Spoo who can do it to me

[Mr. Mac 15]

That is the kind of response I expected. Like I said I have seen so much information on the number of women who are unable to orgasam.

 

Keeping in mind that those shows always seem limited to the participants involved. It left me wondering. But I am sure that if I were to put another poll up with more options I would have more definitive answers.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

I need a yes and no option. I can have an orgasm without the use of toys or fingers but only in certain positions that allow stimulation of my clit. So I guess that would probably fall under "no" in your poll - in that I can't have a strictly vaginal orgasm.

[Mr. Mac 15]

I got that impression from Mrs. Spoo as well, I just didn't have enough options

 

I am new you guys gotta give me some slack Surrender

 

I tell ya this site is the best...Thank You Julie!!! And to everyone else regulars or not

[JennyMac 15]

Well, since it was my darling husband who posted this question....

Men and their curiosities right?

 

He already knows my answer, but I'll add it for the world while I"m loitering around in here.

 

YES! I can have multiple orgasms with absolutely nothing but vaginal intercourse. Hallelujah, Praise God, Pass the rolls! Without oral, without fingers, without toys!

 

What can I say ladies? He's gooooooood!

[Vespertine 31]

YES! I can have multiple orgasms with absolutely nothing but vaginal intercourse. Hallelujah, Praise God, Pass the rolls! Without oral, without fingers, without toys!

 

What can I say ladies? He's gooooooood!

Forget passing the rolls, Jenn. Pass Mr. Mac around to us ladies instead!

 

I'm stradling the fence of this poll too.

 

I have had a few orgasms from just intercourse alone, but it's been a random thing, nothing that I can repeat at will.

[DandS 15]

I'm stradling the fence of this poll too.

 

I have had a few orgasms from just intercourse alone, but it's been a random thing, nothing that I can repeat at will.

 

Me too! For years I thought there was something wrong with me...its nice to know there are other women out there who are similar

[akamgaxoxo 25]

Yes, I can also have an orgasm with just vaginal stimulation as well...(oh that sounds sooo medical term-ish) LOL but seriously, I actually prefer that to having my clit over stimulated and rubbed too much as it can be painful for me. My guess is that he just hits in the G spot and away I go to happy land?!! facelick

[freaky_couple 15]

Maybe it's just me, but I can orgasm just simply doing kegals...don't even have to have the man...but having the man is, of course, always much better!

[vysper 17]

I cannot orgasm from mere sexual intercourse alone. However, we are working on this and getting to know me better I am very much enjoying the research my husband is doing lately.

[Ssugarlips 16]

Female orgasm all in the genes

 

I don't know whether to be grateful I enjoy multiple orgasms or worried that I might be one of those women who may be more likely to be satisfied with poor quality men.

 

Since I've been married for 30 years to the best man I know, I think I'll go with grateful for good genes and easy orgasms.

[macleods727 15]

Definately can have an orgasam with out..extras. I have actually had an orgasam from my husband playing with my nipples and just kissing me. Now that I said that I feel kind of ...different. Oh well!

[Chip_n_Muffy 16]

Orgasms without stimulus take intense concentration for me. I have to be focused on Chip and reaching ultimate pleasure. When that happens, I find the orgasms to be so intense, that I am crying. This kind of orgasm is most often achieved when we are home alone, a quiet afternoon before us and the telephone off the hook (and not in our teenager's hands)

 

Oh yeah!

[wolfnblu 15]

Ditto to Muffy's answer. But except I would have to add in there that I have to have the "on top" position. You might think that by my being on top that I am able to rub my clitoris on him, just without using hands, but really that is not it. A vaginal orgasm is so totally different....more enveloping, more intense, more thorough, I can feel it througout my entire pelvic region. And yes, I usually do cry from the intense emotional release. And then I giggle because the crying part was so silly. LOL

[Paphian 16]

I'm gonna go out on what's probably a very slender, very dangerous, probably mostly-sawed-through-already limb (hey, what the hell, I like to live dangerously )...

 

I think that there are quite a number of women who think clitoral stimulation is the only way to an orgasm because there's a significant amount of (IMO, horribly incorrect) literature out there that strongly suggests that's so.

 

It's been years since I paid much real attention to that sort of thing (the books! I mean the books!), but I remember there were a fair number of women's sexuality advocates in the past who seemed to be always saying "if you can't come, it's because your clitoris isn't getting enough/the right attention".

 

I'm not saying they're wrong about clits deserving more attention. We all know the benefits of that (and if you don't, gentlemen, you've no idea what you're missing).

 

I just think it's potentially a disservice to many women to place quite as much emphasis on clitoral stimulation being the primary/only/best way to get there. I do know from personal experience that, for some women, achieving vaginal orgasms is a matter of understanding how those feel different than the clitoral sort (at least, that's what they told me the difference was) and having a partner willing to help them experiment and learn.

 

Ok, I've gotta be down to nothing but bark holding that limb up, at least in the eyes of some. Your turn, ladies.

[Paphian 16]

Definately can have an orgasam with out..extras. I have actually had an orgasam from my husband playing with my nipples and just kissing me. Now that I said that I feel kind of ...different. Oh well!

 

More like blessed. And, in some circles, in hot demand.

[valley 25]

I have no problem having orgasms from intercourse only.....BUT is it ever plain ...'in and out'?...no.Kissing,fondling and other things are as much a part of intercourse as that.

 

In fact ,if I am highly aroused and mind ready,I have no trouble having an orgasm just being penetrated.I dont know how many other women enjoy that,but its not unusual for me to reach an orgasm within moments,and its nothing to do with size.

 

Of course there are times when nothing happens,try what you will.

[twoferfun69 15]

I'll have to check with Mrs Twofer tomorrow (poor thing's dead tired from all the holiday this weekend) but, I think she has had some with me that did not include outside stimuli. However, there was this one time (at band camp, oops sorry, had to put that in there ), anyway, it was a situation similar to what Muffy describes. Very intense lovemaking session, and I told her she had to come with no touching, no intercourse, nothing except my voice describing things and giving her verbal commands (apparently I can be very convincing?). She succeeded, but it was very exhausting for her. We've not been able to repeat that since, but, now ya'll got me thinkin'.........

[Rosegin 15]

All the research I have done says that only about 30% of women can orgasm through vaginal intercourse alone. I am not one of those women.

[lovedoctor 15]

YES! I can have multiple orgasms with absolutely nothing but vaginal intercourse. Jenn

 

I've heard of this happening. However, it seems to be widely held in medical literature, that the clitoris is the female analog of the penis. Most of the time it is thought that a vaginal orgasm occurs in positions where the clitoris is also being stimulated - just because of the proximity (it's all about the motion! )

[lovedoctor 15]

Definately can have an orgasam with out..extras. I have actually had an orgasam from my husband playing with my nipples and just kissing me. Now that I said that I feel kind of ...different. Oh well!

 

Oxytocin, released from stimulation of the nipples (and other sites) causes contractions of the uterus. That is why nipple stimulation and having a climax will often bring on labor with a pregnant female at term.

[just1gurl 15]

Yeah, that's what my doctor kept telling me, but I'm still quite certain he was just getting his.

 

 

dudes, if your thinking of your women like machines with buttons, you are so missing the point. No wonder there are no answers.... a terrible waste and shame

[Paphian 16]

dudes, if your thinking of your women like machines with buttons, you are so missing the point.

 

I think it's more like this :

[sereneiders 263]

I never had a vaginal orgasm in my entire life. But I guess this doesn't account for the pool.

[just1gurl 15]

I think it's more like this

 

delightful!!! I'll smile all night.

 

Sereneiders, your not trying hard enough.

[Paphian 16]

delightful!!! I'll smile all night.

 

That's a worthwhile pair of objectives ("smiling" and "all night" that is).

 

I like women just the way they are. Most of the fun is in finding all the "controls" and then playing with them until the desired results are acheived.

[sereneiders 263]

It's fun to read all the theoretical explanations for the orgasms.

 

"The vagina is closer to the clit, and the clit is "analogous" to the penis?" Isn't this a little chauvinist, as if the women bodies should have to be necessarily "mapped" over the male's one to find out pleasure correlations? What if the opposite is true, and that male body is the one "mapped" to the women's one, but the only wire still working for us is the one correlating the penis with the clit or whatever.

 

"The nipple stimulation produces contractions in the uterus?" (one close enough to the clit as to lead to an orgasm, I guess, so her anatomy is a vulva, a clit over a 1/2 inch long vagina, then the cervix and the uterus). I guess tickling in a women bellybutton may lead her to contract her uterus but hardly to have an orgasm.

 

It's interesting to see how this sort of "knowledge" that comes from the XIX and early XX centuries, after the success of the positivism to explain certain facts, keep hitting our beliefs, even when the positivism proven at last not being that successful, and ignoring that it evolved during the Victorian times, where the women orgasms was being seen as an illness or, in the best case, as a temporal treatment against the hysteria. These are the guys (always males) who wired women bodies trying to correlate "unusual" facts with the orgasm. Later on, still under the positivism umbrella, began the statistics kingdom, let's take thousands of people to make experiments allowing us to conclude and generalize facts. Of course, we'll ignore these experiments can be biased towards a set of beliefs that are culturally dependents and ultimately came from the knowledge gathered during the XIX century... by guys trying to explain some women misbehavior.

 

We think we know a lot and we know nothing of it. And we, males, know even less about this. The fact is, each women is the only able to know what works for her, and that we know the brain is the one that, ultimately, will trigger an orgasm or forbid any pleasure, both for males and females, and we still didn't figured out the complete map as to explain the entire process.

 

"Touching the proper buttons and dials" then makes more sense, even when being told as a joke. And it seems we guys also have our set of controls... some women may cum a lot of times in a row, most of us just once or twice. It seems to have many control is better than having just an "on-off" switch.

[JaneAndJohnDoe 17]

Before I met John, I was never able to have a completely vaginal orgasm. I thought they were a myth, if truth be told. I had also heard about G-Spot Ejaculations, but thought they were a myth too.

 

But wow, did my opinion ever change when John and I got together. The very first time we had sex, I experienced my first fully vaginal orgasm, and I was floored at how different it was!

 

The most amazing part was that I reached a vaginal orgasm strictly with intercourse. I guess it was the way he moved, or the way I felt with him (completely let go all my former inhibitions), or maybe it was because I'd been celibate for so long prior to meeting him, but whatever it was, I was absolutely stunned.

 

Then, a few months into our relationship, I experienced my first G-Spot ejaculation, and I was, again, utterly amazed! Actually, I was quite shocked and initially embarassed at how much fluid had soaked the sheets. But when he reacted without disgust, and in fact, was turned on by it, I relaxed and read up on it. Since then, I've had quite a few "soakers" and have found that vaginal orgasms are now more intense than before.

 

It's been an amazing journey of self-discovery to learn what my body can do, not that I'm with someone I completely trust and let go with.

[SUNKISTSEXY 15]

Hmmm...well ive several with penetration alone...but will say it takes a lot of work...im not sure if clitoral stimulation is involved...or not...but whatever it is...its good...lol...but im usually very exausted after the fact

[OurMrsReynolds 16]

I can definitely have vaginal orgasms sans hands or toys! They do not happen every single time, but they happen a large enough percentage for me to call the future hubby a sex god

 

I am *very* orgasmic. A good portion of the time I can have a vaginal orgasm with no source of physical stimulation; it shocks the hell out of my friends, and the mister. I've had vaginal orgasms just from watching porn, looking at the mister or simply from fantasizing. Quite frequently I also have them when we are doing a lot of breast play.

 

I am one lucky woman and I am very thankful for it.

[sereneiders 263]

I can have an orgasm without clitoral stimulation

 

Moreover, I can have an orgasm without her clitoral stimulation

[cj22s 15]

I guess I am one of those lucky girls who almost always orgasms, quiet often multiple times. I have never needed anything other than a well worked cock. Every thing else is for fun not necessity. As a matter of fact I have had orgasms from nipple play alone.

[MassAss 15]

I have has vaginal O's with just penis but it is rare and only a few select people have been able to do it. As part of this only one man as ever made me squirt out cum and I havent higured out how he does it.

[ShellyM 0]

I have orgasms just through vag intercourse. Now given, the more foreplay I have the stronger the orgasm. But yes, I can.

[ShellyM 0]

I can definitely have vaginal orgasms sans hands or toys! They do not happen every single time, but they happen a large enough percentage for me to call the future hubby a sex god

 

I am *very* orgasmic. A good portion of the time I can have a vaginal orgasm with no source of physical stimulation; it shocks the hell out of my friends, and the mister. I've had vaginal orgasms just from watching porn, looking at the mister or simply from fantasizing. Quite frequently I also have them when we are doing a lot of breast play.

 

I am one lucky woman and I am very thankful for it.

 

You ARE a lucky woman lol. May I ask, do you have a clitoral pin? Lots of women I have talked to love them, and say they really help with multiple orgasms. I am orgasmic, but I don't have multiple orgasms. Can I ask how you do it? I mean, were you born that way so to speak, or did you teach yourself?

[athena2910 17]

maybe it's just me, but I can orgasm just simply doing kegals...don't even have to have the man....] but having the man is, of course, always much better!

 

Nope, it's not just you. I've been having orgasms ever since childhood, doing nothing except pressing my thighs together (and now that I'm all grown up, I realize I was doing kegels, too.)

 

Of course, this actually worked against me, later on, because I had to re-teach myself to climax with my legs open! ha ha! But it's great to be able to orgasm whenever I want with no toys or fingers or anything needed, except my imagination. (Of course, I prefer a man, too!)

 

Athena

[daisy girl 34]

Yes. I can have an orgasm just by intercourse alone. Usually when I am on top...but I can also have one with him on top. I am very lucky in that I can have multiple orgasms but they feel different. Some are absolutely earth shattering and others aren't as intense., good but not as intense.

[uksexymona 15]

It is hard to enjoy vaginal penetration without rubbing my clit.Of course all woman can have vagianal intercourse but do they enjoy it without fingers or toys..........I doubt that!!

[prettylady 221]

 

"The nipple stimulation produces contractions in the uterus?" (one close enough to the clit as to lead to an orgasm, I guess, so her anatomy is a vulva, a clit over a 1/2 inch long vagina, then the cervix and the uterus). I guess tickling in a women bellybutton may lead her to contract her uterus but hardly to have an orgasm.

 

Try and tickle my belly button and I just might pee on you.

 

Not too sexy in my book.

 

Can't help it, poking my belly button really makes me need to pee. that is a no sex zone.

 

Sorry I know that wasn't your point, didn't really need to tell you my belly button issues either. But there you have it.

 

Your friend,

Prettylady

[NJCouple 16]

I have many vaginal orgasms with intercourse alone. I also have clitoral orgasms and g-spot orgasms. They can be very different. I get more aftershocks and repetitive orgasms from straight intercourse. I think part of the trick is tightening the vaginal muscles and holding them tight at the right time. I'm more likely to have very strong orgasms from clitoral stimlation especially when orgasm is delayed. I don't always have squirting orgasms, but they are most likely to occur with g-spot stimulation and occasionally through intercourse. I definately orgasm with nipple stimulation and from giving oral. I find that I tighten my vaginal muscles with the rythm of oral sex, hence the orgasms. I can also orgasm with anal sex. I don't know that I was born this way, I think my husband has helped me to discover and develop this skill over the years. There have been times when I have orgasmed so many times and so hard that the next morning I am sore from head to toe. A good sore I assure you. I do have to be very turned on to orgasm, but as long as I am the partner does not matter, nor are there any limits on the number and types of orgasms I will have.

[Boudicca 15]

I'm kind of a weirdo, too - I can orgasm by vaginal penetration only. As a matter of fact, sometimes I can't cum if I DON'T have vaginal penetration. G-spot stimulation is really important for me.

 

Sometimes, though, all it takes is nipple play, or a nibble on the neck, or a piece of really good cheesecake. I've been known to cum from bellybutton licking And talking dirty will do it, too.

 

I think for me orgasms are much more of a psychological thing than a physical thing. Sometimes I think I'm polymorphously perverse, but then if I'm not in the right headspace, sometimes I can't get my groove on at all.

[stu 25]

The 'G' Spot...have still to locate...Can any one help me out as to where exactly it is located. Thanks....June of stujune

[ShellyM 0]

I'm kind of a weirdo, too - I can orgasm by vaginal penetration only. As a matter of fact, sometimes I can't cum if I DON'T have vaginal penetration. G-spot stimulation is really important for me.

Sometimes, though, all it takes is nipple play, or a nibble on the neck, or a piece of really good cheesecake. I've been known to cum from bellybutton licking And talking dirty will do it, too.

I think for me orgasms are much more of a psychological thing than a physical thing. Sometimes I think I'm polymorphously perverse, but then if I'm not in the right headspace, sometimes I can't get my groove on at all.

 

I hope you aren't complaining lol

[Boudicca 15]

certainly NOT. I do wish all those methods were a little more reliable, though...I'm kinda moody in the bedroom, and it really depends on the day. I have to find the one right thing at that particular moment, or I can't find my O at all

[Spika 15]

I can orgasm without any other sort of stimulation other than penetration, but orgasms tend to be a lot stronger with with some other sort of stimulation.

[athena.53 15]

Since I was a child, I could orgasm simply by pressing my legs together: I didn't have to touch myself at all. Luckily, I still can do this at will: makes those long plane rides a lot more entertaining! (It goes without saying I can be perfectly still and quiet while climaxing).

[Lovers4U 15]

Anatomically and physiologically there is a significant number of women who cannot orgasm with penetration. Perhaps it's the position they use for intercourse or some other reason. My wife cannot and with another man she just enjoys the fullness and variety. Afterwards she uses a vibrator and when well rested she has orgasmed more than 35 times. I very much enjoy lying next to her while she brings herself to orgasm as I am just as pleased when she does.

[Imagination 16]

I was not able to when I was younger. Then I was single in my late 30's and needed something. So, I practiced for a long time with a dildo that I could mount. I took my hands out of the equation and worked it until I came. With time and practice I can now orgasim with ease. I almost always have multiples with the dildo, but then I'm done...and tired! With my man they are usually singles and I don't feel "finished"...I need more until I get "the one" and "the one" is multiple...then I'm tired! So, my answer is yes. But, it took work.

[jgal 15]

I am a very lucky woman, I can have an orgasm almost on contact. My husband will simply enter me and I am right there! Iam multi-orgasmic and and also a squirter (although this does not happen all the time, it is quite frequent). I am sorry for those that can't have an orgasm every time! Jenn