Ladies, do you like it when the cock is LARGE?

[mfbmfantasycple 15]

My wife has the most awesome orgasms when I gradually slide her xlarge (8in) vibrating dildo into her wet and waiting pussy. Soon she gets on top and takes it all the way while giving me oral. After many yrs of this, we are in the planning stage for our first MFM experience - set for May/June.

 

My question, if other factors are generally equal, does bigger get you wild like it does her??

[Vespertine 31]

In my opinion, bigger does not equate better.

 

It's not the size of your rod, it's how you wiggle your worm.

 

[TNT 1,155]

In my opinion, bigger does not equate better.

 

It's not the size of your rod, it's how you wiggle your worm.

 

 

Dito...I have had some awesome times with men who were less than well endowed.

 

Teresa

[CLITFRIEND 15]

Considering that the average sizes are generally between 5-7 inches---isnt it a little difficult to find that elusive "Well hung" Individual anyhow?

 

By the way--I really consider myself to be well hung--since it been hanging pretty well from the moment I was conceived!!!

[traceywitney 15]

I also say it’s not the size that matters, but the ability to use it.

Personally I only dealt with the average size so far and find those good. However a friend of mine was seeing someone who had a big one and she told me he was no good.

After she broke it off (not because of his inability to perform, but because of other things) she had a 1-night stand with this guy with the small one and she told me the encounter was fantastic!

Our Russian Empress Catherine the great was also a very sexually active lady till her last days and had lots of encounters. There is a legend going in Russia that 1 day she Ordered her servants to bring her a man with the biggest organ. The biggest they could find.

He was found and was brought over to the Empress

He ended up not satisfying her and was ordered to be executed.

I don’t know if it was an actual historical fact or just the legend, but there you go.

Maria.

[JacobSky 17]

Considering that the average sizes are generally between 5-7 inches---isnt it a little difficult to find that elusive "Well hung" Individual anyhow?

 

!

 

I would have also guessed that larger than average cocks would have been harder to come by, but that does not seem to be the case. While 8" + guys are trully the minority in the whole worlds population, there many times more single males with swingers ads than couples or single women. So, there is a larger pool of men to search through.

 

Size is a variable that makes up lots of fantasies, so it give some people great pleasure to experience it in real life. What turns a person on is what matters most. Size is just one of those things. Apparently it is not the most important, or important at all to some couples.

 

It is a big factor in my fantatsies. I love to watch.

[JacobSky 17]

I guess that I love to watch to watch because it is my own personal belief that size can make a difference. It is the fit that matters (in my own view) and not necessarily just bigger is always better. Every woman prefers a different amount of pressure or friction, and every woman is built differently.

 

That ends up equating to many many different combinations and matches.

 

Regardless of the physical things, most of the thrill is mental.

[Mrs Spoomonkey 118]

In my opinion, bigger does not equate better.

 

It's not the size of your rod, it's how you wiggle your worm.

 

 

I agree Ves. I've been with some while fairly well endowed men who didn't do a thing for me because they weren't very good at how to use it or do much of anything else either (i.e. oral). There are many talents that can compensate for the size of the penis whether it's large or small. Bottom line if you don't know what your doing the dimensions don't matter.

 

Mrs Spoomonkey

[JacobSky 17]

Bottom line if you don't know what your doing the dimensions don't matter.

 

Mrs Spoomonkey

 

I fully agree with that Mrs. Spoomonkey. Other things are more important than size.

 

One good analogy that I read once went something like this.

 

Given the choice between a goofy lover with an 8" penis or a handsome suave lover with a 5" penis, most women would opt for the 5 incher. Yet, if both men were handsome and equally talented lovers, the majority would opt for the 8 incher.

 

That is a more accurate portrayal of the size importance situation when the women can comfortably accomodate either size.

 

Size is just another variable, but it sure turns me on.

[JacobSky 17]

I'm kinda feeling like I didn't read the question well for this thread. I'm sorry for saying so much. You were asking women, and not some guy. Excuse me.

[BaronBgDk 15]

Ms. Spoomonkey, you hit it on the head..........I have a larger than average rod but it took me years to master gspot stimulation and oral technique!

[willyoats 324]

I can speak for my wife. She does not like it long. Six inches is more than enough. But the best times have been with "Thick" ones. It's hard to give a numerical figure to thickness. but you know it when you see it. I saw one guy in the hot tube at the club, and after one look at his meat, I knew she would like it. SHE DID!!!

[couplers 4,654]

My number of sex partners is limited to three, but I do have an opinion, actually several. Comparing my two long-term, on-going guys, hubby David and Red have almost exactly the same length dicks - the width of my hand plus three fingers from the base of their dicks to just under the head. I would guess slightly over 6 inches. David is much thicker, however. While I can easily get my hand around Red, I can't even come close to touching my thumb to finger when I wrap my hand around David's dick. David is harder to work into my pussy, but I would say he feels better once he is in me. But both can really give me good sex - great orgasms - so size doesn't make that much of a difference, it's everything else from the foreplay to the motion to the dirty talking.

 

 

Where it does make a big difference is in anal. Red likes to, so I let him put it in my bum on occasion; it's a long, slow go with lots of lube to make it work. Then for me it is just OK, I can't come that way. But hubby hasn't asked and I would never let him try anal with me anyway, he is just too big around. So the closest he gets is the front end of DP, which is really good for me.

 

 

[bTW - My third sex partner, which I never mention since it was pretty bad, was about the same length and the same thickness as Red, but just terrible at sex for other reasons, mostly attitude.]

 

 

P.S. - The other girls that hubby has played with (and I have discussed it with each of them and sometimes watched the experience), have all commented that they like his girth.

[Trace Ekies 186]

Mrs. Ekies found a single male who is fairly large...8 x 6.5...and she really enjoys it.

 

He's not a really good lover but he'll lay still and let her mount up and grind for as long as she likes.

 

Give a man like me or some of our "friends" an opportunity to fuck her with that thing and I swear she'd never be the same.

 

As with most of the ladies who've weighed-in here, she just likes to have sex with men and women who are fun and giving.

 

Trace

[exploringRM 305]

...After she broke it off (not because of his inability to perform, ...

Maria.

 

broke it off??? ouch!!!!

[Devil 18]

My wife likes 'em big. She prefers girth to length. I am about 7.5 inches and have to be careful not to penetrate her too deeply, or I hurt her. However, I have seen her penetrated my a man who was about twice as thick as me (I'm not thin) and she felt no discomfort at all.

 

She had one partner who was about 10 inches and very thick, who was very good in bed. He would get a nice rhythm, only inserting a little more than about half way, and every now and then, he would slowly but firmly push all the way into her. He drove her crazy.

 

She does actively seek out bigger men too. Her first was when she was a young teenager. She was seduced by a married man she was babysitting for. (Yes, somewhere out there there is a guy with a true "babysitter" story) Whether it was his size or his experience, she attributed the amazing sex to his size. Because of this, she had several one night stands with black guys, based on the stereotype, but that did not work out.

 

As far as were to find the really huge guys, it's mostly statistics. She has had sex with a lot of men. Even posting here, I don't want to say how many. Several, she encountered by chance, some she guessed right based on their proportions (tall, long legged, big hands and feet) some she went after based on reputation or what other women told her, and some advertised. (You can't always believe the internet though.

[asncpl 729]

Mrs. A here. I am a very petite woman (size 0) and I can tell you I had times when it hurt to have sex with a guy that's too big. I guess a porn career for me is out of the question. And if you are big, you can forget about anal sex with me. I had great orgasms with men with average size, and as the gals said here, it's how you use it.

[GoNatural 104]

I'm dating a married woman. I'm one of her 3 partners. Her hubby is similar to me, but more experienced. Her other boyfriend is very well endowed.

 

She does have good orgasms with me, and great sex overall. Still, she does like that her other boyfriend is well endowed. Shen enjoys the extra pressure in her vagina during penetration. All things aren't equal either. Both her other boyfriend, and her husband have more experience than me. They can get her off orally too, and I can't.

 

I'm younger, and I'm more physically fit. Other than that, we have sex because we really like each other, and we are happy to be in a relationship together.

 

I've wanted to watch them so badly, but he has not been comfortable with that yet.

 

You will not get a straight answer when you ask a group of women this question. You would have to word it more like, "does being penetrated by a larger penis feel more intense to you"? You will typically get a yes. It is also true that some women have smaller vaginas and also don't like the extra pressure that a big penis delivers.

[MrsHidalgo 25]

In my opinion, bigger does not equate better.

 

It's not the size of your rod, it's how you wiggle your worm.

 

 

Typically, that's very correct.

 

However, I am one of those gals who truly enjoys a "larger than average" guy. You can always tell him (or show him ) what/how you like things done. Mr. H. is not overly long, but he's very thick. I like the "fullness" that I feel when he's inside of me. We have a local couple that we regularly play with, and the guy in that pair is also thick, and is a couple of inches longer than my DH. Honestly, the length can be a hindrance at times. I like the feel of the guy's crotch pressed against mine, and if the length is so long that it "hits bottom" it can be painful as well as stop the contact that I like to have.

 

The drawbacks to size, at least for me, is that it limits other things. BJs are much harder to do "correctly" if your mouth is stretched to the limit, and anal is usually out of the question.

 

But big ones are ALWAYS fun to handle and look at though.

[ItTakes3 19]

My wife has claimed for years that size doesn't matter, but I learned that she's been fibbing.

 

Last summer, with my blessing, she has been actively searching the online dating sites for much younger men to both date and to have sex with. The first thing she looks for in their profile is "long and thick". She finally admitted that she loves the feeling of being filled, and that since she is only seeking part time playmates, not someone to share her life with, she is going to find the ones that give her physical pleasure.

 

So far, so good.

[GoNatural 104]

ItTakes3 is exactly right. The more character traits and personality matter, the less importance a physical quality matters. This goes for seeking female partners too.

 

So, if they don't have to be an excellent match in other ways, people can be more picky about size and shapes.

[Guest rdy46227]

Is it volume (being filled), or thickness (being stretched)?

 

 

(Don't cop-out and choose both. Rank one over the other, please!)

[MrsHidalgo 25]

Is it volume (being filled), or thickness (being stretched)?

 

 

(Don't cop-out and choose both. Rank one over the other, please!)

 

Being stretched ... Definitely.

 

Of course, along with that comes the "being filled" that you are referring to. It's not a "cop-out" to choose both. They are similar feelings, IMO.

[Miss Sunshine 29]

I enjoy all cocks no matter what size, but I do like to have a huge one every so often because I enjoy playing with it. Hold it in my hands, suck on it, lick it, and then have it slowly enter me and slide in and out, mmmmm

[AskMeOk 148]

Mrs. A here. I am a very petite woman (size 0) and I can tell you I had times when it hurt to have sex with a guy that's too big. I guess a porn career for me is out of the question. And if you are big, you can forget about anal sex with me. I had great orgasms with men with average size, and as the gals said here, it's how you use it.

 

As a listener of Playboy Radio, I can report that, from what they say, even most porn actresses are not Size Queens and prefer more average size men.

[David Lovell 160]

My wife einjoys her regular lover's 8 inch cock, she lets him go bareback. I have a good 6 inches, but the extra length seems to do a lot for her. She also made love with my friend who has 9 inches, but did not express the same degree if enthusiasm that she has for the 8 inch cock. My conclusion is that its not just the length, but how the partner uses it.

[Bluespruce1 706]

Although I really like the look of a smaller cock with nice balls and a nice trimmed bush, occasionally I do crave a well hung guy. My husband is a bit below average so I sometimes want the increased friction and pressure of a nice big cock to experience a different type of orgasm.

[Guest]

I didn’t run into a really big one until we started swinging, MFM, so it was probably our 5th MFM, maybe 12th or so guy I had been with. We had seen him naked before and his dick really didn’t look any larger then other guys there; it was a nudity place. But, when he joined us for MFM, the more I sucked it the more it grew and so I kept sucking and looking at it. I mean, I did find its size exciting. Well, eventually we got to intercourse, it took a bit of work on his part to get it in but after a few gasps on my part, I have to confess that it really rang my bell. I thought about my reaction and it was the first time since our first MFM that I worried about whether I had responded in such a way that hubby would be jealous. He wasn’t. Also, it was the first time that I suggested the next that we go back to the same place in hopes that we could go again with him. Also again the next weekend. So, for me, it was more exciting and I can never use the phrase "size doesn’t matter" again.

[Guest]

I like the variety and I always get off. I was recently treated to a Asian teenager. He had a little 4" dark purple penis and little tight balls. I was able to sit comfortable on the arm of a chair and offer my pussy while he stood. I could watch closely as he pumped the cute thing in and out of me. I held his little ass and he was able to stick his balls up in me and his hard little dick was poking at my uterus. I got off from it! Size makes no difference to me.

[Bluespruce1 706]

So true - one of my favorite partners is a fit younger guy. His cock is about 4” rock hard with tight little balls. It is perfectly shaped and he looks amazing. He is super attentive and always finds just the right spot to make me cum every time.

[Ems1485 37]

Some women have large vagina's too.

When I was 24 I went to a sexual health clinic as I thought I probably caught chlamydia (which I hadn't) and they wanted to test for something else, I've always remembered when the nurse was looking for my cervix she just casually mentioned to me "you have an unusually long vagina". At first I felt bad about it as I'd often had men say how tight my vagina is. Then I realised why I usually orgasm easier/faster with big cocks. So yes I like them big lol, sweet spot I think is 8-9" and thick.

I've had a 10" he was nice, we just about got it fully in, and I'm sure it got bigger right before he came in me it was so painful but I was real close to an orgasm so I didn't know what to say to him to either stop or go faster lol.

 

I find it next to impossible to orgasm if they're smaller than 4". I've had a guy in his 60's with a 2.5" or 3" and it did nothing for me, though he did have an amazing tongue!

 

My husband is 5.5" and kind of thick it works very well for me He has seen me with lots of men but the biggest I think he saw me take was easily a 8 or 9", he wasn't jealous exactly he was more amazed/entertained as he'd never seen one that big before and the comparison difference of when I had both my hands around his cock while I was giving him a blowjob as compared to one of my hands on my husbands cock.

[Bluespruce1 706]

Sometimes it's just what's needed. A few weeks ago we were playing with some friends and my pussy simply dilated a bit - not sure why. My partner was on the smaller side and it got to the point where neither of us was getting what we needed. He switched with another guy that was thicker and longer. He lubed his cock and was able to fill me in the way I needed. I'm usually fine with any sized cock.

[Ems1485 37]

My partner was on the smaller side and it got to the point where neither of us was getting what we needed. He switched with another guy that was thicker and longer. He lubed his cock and was able to fill me in the way I needed. I'm usually fine with any sized cock.

Thicker is definitely where its at.

Even if he doesn't know what he's doing then just let me get on top of him for 5 minutes that's all the time I need lol,

[Wifeenjoysbigge 22]

My husband is 5 3/4” long and 5” around I had dated guys before we got married similarly in size some a bit bigger and some a bit smaller. I’m the rare girl I’ve never had a lover I didn’t enjoy, my husband wanted to watch me enjoy his best friend who’s cock is 9 1/2” long and 6 3/4” thick around. While I was nervous about risking our marriage over a fantasy for my husband. I made sure he was sure about it I was actually excited the more we talked about doing it. It was a few weeks before I actually thought it thru and agreed. It was amazing for one I was attracted to his friend and comfortable and trusted him. I couldn’t and wouldn’t had done it ever if it was a stranger I’m not like that. I think being attracted with his friend made it much better and more pleasure. I will say the thickness was the best part and yes a very thick and long cocks going to fill you up allot more I love it. I think everyone is different on what they like and are going to enjoy and admit on here.

[Alura 2,774]

The man of a couple we swapped with claimed 9.5 inches. My wife measured it with her hands. In college she and her roommate had measured their hands across the knuckles. It was four inches. She wrapped both hands around it and "still had about an inch and a half in my mouth." His claim was accurate, she decided.

 

His wife and I watched one of the most amazing sights I've ever witnessed! Laura, on her back, her legs spread wide, used both hands to guide that monster where she wanted it, saying, "Look Darling, I'm gonna get fucked by the biggest cock I've even seen!"

 

Once she had it started, she reached for his ass and pulled him into her as smoothly as she'd ever done with me. She pointed her toes at the ceiling and moaned and gurgled deep in her throat. The sight of that thing sliding in and out of my beloved wife's pussy was as amazing as her appreciative sounds.

 

Unfortunately, his wife decided Laura had enjoyed her husband far too much and refused to let it happen again. A few days later he stopped by to explain and asked if he could fuck Laura from time to time without telling his wife.

 

Laura showed him to the door and we never saw him (or a cock that big) again.

[myrealname 15]

The man of a couple we swapped with claimed 9.5 inches. My wife measured it with her hands. In college she and her roommate had measured their hands across the knuckles. It was four inches. She wrapped both hands around it and "still had about an inch and a half in my mouth." His claim was accurate, she decided.

 

His wife and I watched one of the most amazing sights I've ever witnessed! Laura, on her back, her legs spread wide, used both hands to guide that monster where she wanted it, saying, "Look Darling, I'm gonna get fucked by the biggest cock I've even seen!"

 

Once she had it started, she reached for his ass and pulled him into her as smoothly as she'd ever done with me. She pointed her toes at the ceiling and moaned and gurgled deep in her throat. The sight of that thing sliding in and out of my beloved wife's pussy was as amazing as her appreciative sounds.

 

Unfortunately, his wife decided Laura had enjoyed her husband far too much and refused to let it happen again. A few days later he stopped by to explain and asked if he could fuck Laura from time to time without telling his wife.

 

Laura showed him to the door and we never saw him (or a cock that big) again.

 

 

How was the husband behaving? I'm asking because the fact that he went so far as to show up at your door with that offer makes me think the wife picked up on how much HE enjoyed it.

 

I've heard a lot about people getting that kind of attitude because they feel like their spouse enjoyed the experience too much. I understand that because they're most likely thinking hey, you don't express that much enjoyment with me. I can't think of any examples I've heard where they refused to repeat because someone from the OTHER couple enjoyed the experience "too much" except in cases where it's a swap and they feel as though it wasn't a fair exchange i.e. that they didn't enjoy the experience with the swap partner as much as the other swap partner enjoyed their spouse.

[Guest]

We had 8 or so MFM and a similar number of swaps after we started swinging and before we ran into that really large one. Obviously I had dated men when I was single so it does take a while before a girl comes up against that really big one. I have to admit that when I finally did, I enjoyed it a great deal more than I had ever expected.

[Bluespruce1 706]

It's the never ending question isn't it? Based on a recent experience I will say that a well hung guy who really knows how to use it it tough to beat. Unfortunately, not.many do. This guy teased me endlessly. He used the head to play with my pussy and kept laying it on top of me and asking me look how long it was and how far inside he would be able to go. We played for about 30 minutes before he finally put it in me. By then I was soaked and ready for him to go balls deep. Being fully stimulated and then penetrated by a big cock is amazing.

[JessicaJamison 862]

Fuck yes I do!  Especially if it is thick, we have a couple we swap with a lot, and he has a solid 10 inches and is thick.  I absolutely adore that dick.  

[Playman64 205]

Back in my active days some women would say  I’m big for them some would say I was small, nevertheless we had fun. I would especially enjoy sliding into a new woman for the first time.  Butt none of them would complain when we did anal. 

[findinganswers 369]

This forum makes me feel so inadequate, so many posters love 10 inch and bigger, and they are always thick and those same women love to get it hard. So here I am, nowhere near 10 inches and enjoy normal sex that’s fun. Should I also feel my ejaculations, which are quart size, are not enough to satisfy?

[JessicaJamison 862]

58 minutes ago, findinganswers said:

This forum makes me feel so inadequate, so many posters love 10 inch and bigger, and they are always thick and those same women love to get it hard. So here I am, nowhere near 10 inches and enjoy normal sex that’s fun. Should I also feel my ejaculations, which are quart size, are not enough to satisfy?

Ok so the question was do we like Big dicks, and the answer is honestly yes, but that doesn't mean we snub anything below a certain size. I could flip this around by asking you if you like big boobs, and I'd bet your answer is yes, but if I have small boobs are you going to snub me?  I would hope not, but some guys do, people have preferences, and that question is built for size queens.  If you want an accurate assessment, you don't want to know if women like big dicks you want to know if they like your dick.  So ask that and you'll probably feel less hurt.  Sex is a mental game, I love a big dick but I get interested in a guy when he is flirting with me in an effective manner, not when he let's me measure his dick.  By the time I see his dick I've already made the decision to fuck him, size is just a bonus.  

[Anon321 523]

Does my GF like a big dick?  Definitely.  She has had great sex with all different types of dicks but if you put a big dick and a small dick in front of her to choose she will pick the big one.  However there is such thing as too big.  It's very uncommon but there are some that are so big they can make certain activities uncomfortable for her.

[findinganswers 369]

1 hour ago, JessicaJamison said:

I could flip this around by asking you if you like big boobs, and I'd bet your answer is yes,

Why should I like big boobs? To answer you, no I have no attraction to them. I don’t seek them out and don’t know how they would enhance my experience. 

My wife is intrigued by an endowed partner, not infatuated by the size. 

[herpob 564]

I love small cock anally, medium in pussy, either of those orally, and in dp small one anally and medium vaginally. I like the feel in my hands of large cocks and after dp I can usually take large cocks anally, I do like seeing a large cock f*** anally and love how full they feel but I most definitely have to be well done prior to.  I have to say though, I was able to get my husband to finally take this gorgeous hunk of man meat anally recently. It is a couple we trust and know are very safe, no one has been able to take him except his wife, and now my husband. I am so proud of him, it is without a doubt the hottest thing I have ever been a part of 8 x 6.5 a total f*** down. His wife was so impressed they want us to go on an extended trip with them to a hendo spot. She says the guys would be the hit of the parties. So YES I love LARGE Cocks especially anally. Now I have a favorite of all my favorites. 

Edited January 11, 2021 by herpob

[MidwestHoneys 359]

On 11/17/2020 at 3:52 PM, findinganswers said:

This forum makes me feel so inadequate, so many posters love 10 inch and bigger, and they are always thick and those same women love to get it hard. So here I am, nowhere near 10 inches and enjoy normal sex that’s fun. Should I also feel my ejaculations, which are quart size, are not enough to satisfy?

I wonder about these types of posts too. I feel so inadequate that I’m statistically average and my cum is closer to a tablespoon not a quart. My wife has never asked for bigger cocks and never mentioned someone being to small. 

I realize I am new on here and maybe I’m going to be thrown off for saying I think much of what I read on these answers are fiction. I’m not going to call specific posters out but some read like bad erotica. 

I apologize if I am off base. 

[EastInWest 1,524]

4 hours ago, MidwestHoneys said:

I wonder about these types of posts too. I feel so inadequate that I’m statistically average and my cum is closer to a tablespoon not a quart. My wife has never asked for bigger cocks and never mentioned someone being to small. 

I realize I am new on here and maybe I’m going to be thrown off for saying I think much of what I read on these answers are fiction. I’m not going to call specific posters out but some read like bad erotica. 

I apologize if I am off base. 

 

There are a few genres of slightly-obsessive fiction that are recurring themes on here. My favorite is always "my wife got pregnant (by a black guy)". Part of human nature, I suppose.

 

As for cum, biologically, a teaspoon is a pretty good load - and a real, measured teaspoon is actually pretty close to what most people imagine a tablespoon is in their mind. If you've ever cooked sticky Chinese sauces with cornstarch, you know a little goes a lot further than you expect.

 

 

[Anon321 523]

5 hours ago, MidwestHoneys said:

I wonder about these types of posts too. I feel so inadequate that I’m statistically average and my cum is closer to a tablespoon not a quart. My wife has never asked for bigger cocks and never mentioned someone being to small. 

I realize I am new on here and maybe I’m going to be thrown off for saying I think much of what I read on these answers are fiction. I’m not going to call specific posters out but some read like bad erotica. 

I apologize if I am off base. 

You are going to find a lot of fake stuff on a forum like this.  I don't think that's surprising.  Seems like you have a normal dick and amount of cum.  Although I do believe size matters I don't think I've ever heard a woman tell me that load size matters.  I think guys care much more about the amount they cum than women.  I have a friend that shoots a massive load and while I always enjoy watching him shoot it all over my GF's face every time she has never said that the size of a guys load has ever done anything for her.

[couplers 4,654]

On 2/9/2005 at 10:38 PM, mfbmfantasycple said:

Ladies, do you like it when the cock is LARGE?

Below a certain size it isn't good, and beyond a certain point it isn't better, but I can deal with it.

 

On 2/13/2010 at 8:23 AM, couplers said:

My number of sex partners is limited to three,

I first replied to this thread eleven years ago.  My number has now increased to... five (men, more women).  But four of them have kept very active.