danc694u 19 Posted December 14, 2001 Has anyone here tried Ecstasy in a group sexual setting? If so, how was it? Would you do it again? We admit to trying it twice over the past 2 years, in the privacy of our home...alone. But, I'm (David) curious about a group (3 or more) setting. We're both well aware of the dangers involved in this. Quote Share this post Link to post
SJDUO 15 Posted December 14, 2001 We've never tried it but would love to just for the experience. Have no idea how to even get it in our area. Does it make the sex better? If you do try it with more people let us know how it goes. Quote Share this post Link to post
danc694u 19 Posted December 14, 2001 If there's ANYTHING that you & your spouse are hiding from each other. DON'T DO IT! Here's a link that will answer your basic questions. http://ecstasy.org/qanda/index.html Quote Share this post Link to post
Stratecpl 19 Posted December 14, 2001 nope never tried it...don't drink or smoke either..haha we're a couple of those annoying health and fitness nuts.. Our only indulgence is excessive fucking..haha Quote Share this post Link to post
danc694u 19 Posted December 14, 2001 Originally posted by Stratecpl: Our only indulgence is excessive fucking...haha Excessive?? You mean ya'll do it more than 6 times a day? I'm tired already LOL Quote Share this post Link to post
NorthernILCouple 15 Posted December 18, 2001 I too would be really curious if any groups have tried this. I can just imagine the feeling of more people...probably would pass out! Quote Share this post Link to post
walrus0115 15 Posted December 18, 2001 I've tried it in a group setting back in college. This wasn't what you would call a swinging situation. Hell, we didn't even know about the swinging world then. We were just a bunch of college kids who did drugs together and sometimes had sex with each other. The X just got us all naked faster, and much hornier. It was a fabulous experience but I think that the people involved made all the difference. We had done similar parties on LSD and had similar experiences. The ecstasy simply amplified the physical factor. However, as someone who took a great deal of acid in college, I wouldn't recommend doing X in a situation where you're going to meet a lot of new people or where most of the group has never taken major hallucinogens. Even though it's X you're still tripping. The emotional aspect of the drug is very powerful also. Make sure that everyone involved is very trusting of each other. That and that alone can make or break your trip. Good luck though. I can tell you that if everyone is comfortable with it, the drug will add to an already erotic and fulfilling experience. Quote Share this post Link to post
danc694u 19 Posted December 18, 2001 Originally posted by walrus0115: I wouldn't recommend doing X in a situation where you're going to meet a lot of new people or where most of the group has never taken major hallucinogens. Hallucinate? Sounds like someone bought the loaded kind. We know that some people lace it with acid or LSD. We've never gotten any that was though. Thank God. It goes back to being sure of what you're getting. True X, does not produce hallucinations. It only stimulates the serotonin uptake, which is common in most anti-depressants. Although, it is much more effective at the job. Quote Share this post Link to post
AtlantaCouple 15 Posted December 18, 2001 Regardless if the X is pure Walrus is right that this is not something that you want to do if you are meeting new people or if you are going to be around people who are not on it, if you have not done X a lot. I have seen several people freak out (if only for a short time) on X and it usually happens when the person A) takes too much at one time (or too powerful of a hit) B) are surrounded by too many people who they do not know well and thus feel they cannot talk or interact with them or C) tries to hide the fact that they are on X. All I am saying is choose carefully who you try this with. If you take X and then try to swing with someone you don't know well, that don't know your on X, or someone taking X for the first time then it could lead to disaster of an evening. Not trying to worry or discourage you but your reactions to others (and other's reaction to you) is different when on X (or any mind altering drug for that matter) than sober. I have had good friends that I wouldn't want to hang out with when they or I was on X because they bothered me when on X but I liked them alot when we were sober or drinking. That is my take on the matter, hope you choose partners wisely and have a great experience. Quote Share this post Link to post
danc694u 19 Posted December 18, 2001 Originally posted by AtlantaCouple: have had good friends that I wouldn't want to hang out with when they or I was on X because they bothered me when on X but I liked them a lot when we were sober or drinking. Good points, all around. Your post states our concerns almost to a T. We're just curious as to whether anyone has tried it in a "swing" setting. And if so, what was it like? The people you are with, will have a direct impact on the "trip". Doing X in a club setting, straight or swing, is bordering on insane IMO. Quote Share this post Link to post
AtlantaCouple 15 Posted December 19, 2001 Doing X in a club setting, straight or swing, is bordering on insane IMO I agree and disagree. I used to enjoy it in a dance club setting where I really did not plan on meeting and talking to a lot of people nor did I really care what anyone there thought of me. But in a swing club, I think it would be rather unnerving. New people trying to talk to you and judging you (like it or not everyone looking to swing in a swing club is judging you... whether you are attractive or interesting enough to begin a relationship or just have fun with). I would not recommend it in a swing club unless you are not planning on looking for someone(s) to hook up with, or you (both)are really good at "handling your drugs". I think it could be fun in a swinging situation at a comfortable location with people you have comfortable with who preferably have done it (or similar drugs) before or low dosages to someone who has never done it. I have found that will lower dosages of X you can frequently get the increased sensitivity and the intoxicating feeling without the brain-f*ck that can typically accompany your "trip". If you know any experienced swinger that do drugs or used to and might be into it, then I think it could be very fun. It all comes down to the same basically the same risks always associated with swinging. And like the rest of swinging, how the experience turns out will simply come down to who, when, where, and how much. Who you choose to do this with, when you do it, where to do it (can be very big in this situation), and how much X everyone does relative to their tolerance of it. If you find the right balance with this issues, I sure it would be wonderful but if you get the wrong combinations it can make for a horrible night. Quote Share this post Link to post
danc694u 19 Posted December 19, 2001 Originally posted by AtlantaCouple: I think it could be fun in a swinging situation at a comfortable location with people you have comfortable with who preferably have done it That's the only way we would even consider doing it. In our home or theirs. No club for sure. I have a problem with large crowds (panic attacks...sometimes) So the club setting and total strangers are definitely out of the question. Before you ask, the panic attacks are rare, and are generally relieved with a couple of quick shots of Tequilla Quote Share this post Link to post
AtlantaCouple 15 Posted December 19, 2001 I guess there is not much left to be said except good luck. Also, after my last reply, it did occur to me that you and your gf/wife could take X with a couple that is not on X if the other couple is cool with it and you are comfortable with them. No one ever said everyone had to be on X. Just another thought. Good luck with it.. Hope it works out and hope you will report the results of your "experiment" if you go through with it. Quote Share this post Link to post
bicpl4u2pa 15 Posted January 30, 2002 Hey its your decision..BUTT.....MTV did a special on a young girl (late teens) who did X.......Her MRI brain scan was the same as a 75 year old woman with alzheimers....total areas black(DEAD!!!)....... Quote Share this post Link to post
danc694u 19 Posted January 31, 2002 Well, based on MTV's current marketing and ratings strategy. This doesn't come as a surprise to us. $hit for brains people should not be allowed to use anything sharper than a bowling ball. There are test kits available. And anyone using unknown X without one really needs their head examined. Mainly, due to assholes that claim to sell X, when they are actually selling something else. Like LSD, Speed, Cocaine.... Current medical testing does not show permanent damage from a once or twice use. Unless of course, it's not real X. Quote Share this post Link to post
Flori_DAMAN 26 Posted February 2, 2002 Originally posted by danc694u: Current medical testing does not show permanent damage from a once or twice use. Unless of course, it's not real X 30 years ago the debate was painfully similar but the topic was cocaine. It was "proven" that cocaine was not addictive and had very few negative effects. The jail, hospitals and morgues are packed with the results of the long term study. Quote Share this post Link to post
LIZA 20 Posted February 2, 2002 MOST drugs will not do long term damage if taken only very occasionally. The problem is that a lot of drugs are very enjoyable and it can be hard to use them only very occasionally! That being said, I personally have not done X and would love to try it. Quote Share this post Link to post
Flori_DAMAN 26 Posted February 2, 2002 It doesn't sound as if people really know what they are dealing with here. Ecstasy is a schedule 1 classified drug. That puts it right up there with LSD and heroin. Possesing 1 gram of MDMA is (in the eyes of the law) equivalent to possessing half a kilogram of marijuana. Ecstasy causes brain damage even in small dosages. The following quote is from a renowned drug rehab center called narcanon. "Recent research findings also link MDMA use to long-term damage to those parts of the brain critical to thought and memory. It is thought that the drug causes damage to the neurons that use the chemical serotonin to communicate with other neurons. In monkeys, exposure to MDMA for four days caused brain damage that was evident six to seven years later. This study provides further evidence that people who take MDMA may be risking permanent brain damage." I also understand that internet drug enforcement detectives are on the prowl and if you request a schedule 1 narcotic online you are relieving the dept. of any problems concerning entrapment. Ecstasy is not a glorified pep pill by any means. Be careful people. Your health and freedom are not worth it. I am not judging anyone but hope you know the facts before you get in deep shit. Quote Share this post Link to post
LIZA 20 Posted February 3, 2002 I understand what it is and have been offered it from what I consider a "questionable" source and at those times turned it down. I consider this to be a friendly place and honestly probably LESS anonymous for me because I let a lot of people from here know who I am via my Yahoo clubs. I guess I am just someone who says and does what I want and not so much ignores that there may be consequences, but doesn't fear too many consequences. Something you probably all see from some of my more charming posts :p Quote Share this post Link to post
Irishanasian 15 Posted January 31, 2020 We have done it.more open non judgemental conversations about anything.hidden feelings are out in open.you still have control over yourself and things you do,more expressive and walls come down,wonderful feeling.couples together no ice to be broken.conversations fly and its more of an unmentioned bond between everyone,always test what you have,they are available online.rollsafe.you will know if its legit. Its an experience unlike any other in that situation.inhibitions are nil.to repeat you have control of yourself to say yes or no. Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest Posted February 1, 2020 I haven’t done drugs and sex since college, smoking mj. I do remember being naked in front of my bf’s house mates more than one. We should probably try that again now that its legal in our state. Quote Share this post Link to post
enhancer 1,586 Posted February 4, 2020 The only drug either of partake in is pot! To many risks in any of the harder drugs and everything seems to laced with fentenal these days so not going to happen for us! If others want to we have no problem with that though. Their risk not ours. We do however enjoy sex more when high on weed though! Can honestly say the best experiences we have had with others over the years is with others that also do it as well. Unfortunately many in the lifestyle still seem to have their heads up their ass in regards to what it is and what it does to you. Lumping it in with harder drugs which it should not be. Meanwhile alcohol which is worse in every way is acceptable by most. Quote Share this post Link to post
Guest Posted March 20, 2020 I have known people take drugs during sex, however I'd strongly advise against using any powerful drugs with things like Viagra or other ED drugs, that would be really bad! Quote Share this post Link to post
padoc 1,704 Posted March 20, 2020 We tried it once in our home with a VERY trusted couple. I really enjoyed it and it enhanced what was normally really good sex with the other wife. Mrs Doc was nervous taking it, didn't much like how she felt on it and thought the husband was more fun when he wasn't on it. Since Mrs Doc has veto power over all of our swinging activities, I doubt I'll ever try it again, but I would if she was on board. Quote Share this post Link to post