OMG -- It's REALLY gonna happen!!!

[SBcpl 16]

Background - We're a mature couple (50 & 60 yo) who've been married and monogamous for over 20 years. I've lurked on the Our HotWives Forum site forever and ever. She has enjoyed my MFM fantasies when we're in the throes of wild, animalistic passion, but after it's over she's always said that I was all she needed, fucking someone she wasn't in love with just didn't turn her on, etc., etc.

 

What's Changed - Over the last couple of years she's been reading some books -- The Ethical Slut, For Women Only, For Yourself: The Fulfillment of Female Sexuality -- that have made her curious and more adventurous about exploring the limits of her own sexuality. And she's discovering that those limits are much broader than she'd ever been giving herself credit for. So that now when we're in the throes of wild, animalistic passion, SHE's the one who tells me she can't wait to experience some other guy's cock in her pussy!

 

What's Happened - We put an ad in SLS looking for single guys. Because she's really cute and looks 10 to 15 years younger than she is (you can verify that yourself by checking out our SLS profile under SBcpl) we've gotten lots of responses. We've tried to prioritize the guys she likes in a way that we hope will ease her into The Lifestyle as quickly and pleasantly as possible while minimizing the risk of a bad experience. Our first choice for her first fuck buddy is a guy her age who, after ending a long marriage, has been very active in The Lifestyle for the better part of a decade. We've exchanged e-mails with him, had some on-line chats, and spoke with him on the phone a couple of times. He seems pleasant, easy going, and patient besides being very experienced.

 

What's Happening - We live in a smaller community some 100 miles north of LA, and most responses have been from guys close to LA or beyond, including the guy who's our first choice. We're scheduled to meet him in a town part way between our homes on Saturday, 25 March. We've made hotel reservations, and last weekend we drove down there, checked out the hotel -- got to see one of the rooms -- found a restaurant that would be a good place to meet, and stopped at a couple of lingerie shops and bought her a bunch of new slut wear for the occasion. Then we came back home and fucked like a couple of teenagers! Boy, have we been hot and horny ever since we started acting on this for real! More hot, steamy sex than we've had in ages. And without Viagra even!

 

What's Next - We're gonna meet the guy on Saturday the 25th in the late afternoon. Probably have a light dinner and spend some time chatting and getting to know him better. Then, assuming he doesn't have three heads or something, we'll adjourn to the hotel and let the fun begin. I've told him and my wife that the primary purpose of this meeting is for him and her to have as much hot sex together as possible -- I'll take photos while they're going at it, then after he shoots his load I'll get to fuck my wife. After she sucks us hard again we'll probably do some 2-on-1 stuff that she wants to experience, and then we'll just play it by ear. We've joined the hotel's preferred customer club, so we don't have to check out until 2pm on Sunday -- we'd better make sure he has lots of condoms! I figure I want him to use her and pleasure her as much as possible with me just watching and playing a supporting role because this meeting will be their only chance to fuck each other silly, whereas I get to go home and fuck my honey's brains out night after night after night -- Whew! Don't know if I can take all that. Surrender

 

What's to Cum - If all goes well on the 25th, probably we'll try and hook up with another mature experienced guy for her second lover. Then maybe we'll try a couple of mature guys who are less experienced but who live closer to our home. By then she should be ready to take on a few hot young stallions that she's been drooling over. All plans are subject to change depending on our experiences, but they'll hopefully just get hotter and hotter.

 

Anyhow, wish us luck, because I think it's finally, really and truly, gonna happen!!!

 

~ SBcpl ~

 

MFM... watching... doing... taking turns...

 

~

[Alura 2,774]

That's great to hear, SBCpl! We can't wait to hear about the meeting!

[Guest Mr&Mrs-naughty]

Sounds like a BLAST!!!!

 

It sounds a lot like our MFMs! facelick

 

You guys have a great time!!!

[Everlearning 48]

Make sure you have your blood pressure under control going in because from the sounds of things it could get raised!!! Good luck

[SBcpl 16]

Mr&Mrs-Naughty...

 

Thank you for your words of encouragement. In the backs of our minds we've been a little concerned about whether we're going about this in a sensible way. Are we rushing too fast? Are we likely to run into some unanticipated problems? Is there some disaster lurking around the corner?

 

But if you guys approve of our approach, then we've gotta be doin' somethin' right! Since we joined this site, you guys have become our role models.

 

~ Mr. SBcpl ~

 

MFM... watching... doing... taking turns...

~

[Atilla 16]

You've got this planned right down to the T, don't you? lol. I hope all goes well and am looking forward to hearing the news of the meeting.

 

Good luck and have a whole lot of fun.

[Guest Mr&Mrs-naughty]

Mr&Mrs-Naughty...

 

Thank you for your words of encouragement. In the backs of our minds we've been a little concerned about whether we're going about this in a sensible way. Are we rushing too fast? Are we likely to run into some unanticipated problems? Is there some disaster lurking around the corner?

 

But if you guys approve of our approach, then we've gotta be doin' somethin' right! Since we joined this site, you guys have become our role models.

 

~ Mr. SBcpl ~

 

MFM... watching... doing... taking turns...

~

 

Thanks for the kind words.

 

I think the key is the two of you are going into this completely together. No one is pushing anyone and you are both equally excited.

 

When we had our first planned MFM we did it pretty much the same as the two of you are planning.

We met through SLS, did some chatting, met for dinner and a few drinks. Mrs Naughty liked him and I got good vibes, so off to the motel we went.

 

It was an absolutely fantastic time and it went off with out a hitch. We both enjoyed ourselves immensly.

 

That being said however,

Reality and fantasy do not always mix well afterwards for everyone.

For me, The reality of having two of us pleasure mrs naughty was actualy better than fantasy.

 

Some couples have issues afterwards. Feelings creep in about feeling "less than" because of the amount of enjoyment the woman will (or can) recieve from the other man.

It's a sexual release and I find it to be EXTREMELY Hot and fortunately for me so does Mrs naughty. facelick

 

But not all who try the MFM come away with the same feelings.

 

So, keep talking and make sure this continues to be something you both want. Make sure it stays 100% between the both of you. Make sure you understand beforehand that once it is done, it's done. There is no taking it back.

 

If the two of you follow through and there are any feelings of hurt or jealousy afterwards remember this is something you chose to do TOGETHER. You can not hold any negative feelings against someone for something you encouraged them to try.

 

It sounds like you two are on the right track. I Hope this works out for you guys as well as it has worked out for Mrs Naughty and myself!!

 

Good Luck & Have Fun!!!!

[lovefest04 700]

Hello SBcpl,

 

We started in much the same way as you are. We talked and finally met a man in SF and the rest is history. We had some issues with jealously, but quickly resolved those and have never looked back. Well except to discuss the great times we've enjoyed with others. facelick

 

All I can tell you is to remember that you're in this together and that no matter what, you are still a team. Nobody can penetrate our relationship, just our bodies. Remembering that has helped us and now we have sooo much fun swinging. I often think, why didn't we do this years ago? Obviously, we weren't ready and now we are.

 

By the way, I checked out your SLS ad. Sign us up anytime. Your wife looks incredible. My favoriate is the black bikini shot and running a close second is her rear pic, but I'm definetly an ass man.

 

Have a great time and please let us all know how it went.

 

Peace

 

S&A

[SBcpl 16]

Atilla said:

You've got this planned right down to the T, don't you? lol.

 

Well, at least we hope we have the mundane details planned out.

 

There are two main reasons we've gone to extra pains to plan out our first meeting. First, we've never done this before, so we don't have any established routine that we can fall back on. Therefore, we're trying to think of any little nuisance things that could possibly distract us from our main pleasures and then do what we can to avoid them, so that, once we retire to our hotel room, we can indulge in a free-spirited, uninhibited, unscripted and unrehearsed sexual free-for-all without any annoyances to intrude on our fun.

 

The second reason for our extra planning is that neither we nor he spend any time in the town where we're gonna meet, so we're not really familiar with where the good meeting or eating spots are. In fact, when we first noodled around the Internet we thought we'd identified a good potential meeting place, but after going there in person we found a couple of other places that are much better choices.

 

So we're not really trying to over-plan our weekend -- we're just trying to make sure that no mundane stuff will interfere with our spontaneous, unplanned fun.

 

~ Mr. SB ~

 

MFM... watching... doing... taking turns...

 

~

[SexhoundDog 18]

I guess I'd best be getting my wife one or more of those books! May your evening turn out as super as your plans, and may you and your wife have even greater times when she starts chewing up those young studs! I'm envious

[Buck 17]

SexhoundDog said:

I guess I'd best be getting my wife one or more of those books! May your evening turn out as super as your plans, and may you and your wife have even greater times when she starts chewing up those young studs! I'm envious

 

Me too! Good luck with your new adventure.

[SBcpl 16]

By the way, I checked out your SLS ad. Sign us up anytime. Your wife looks incredible. My favoriate is the black bikini shot and running a close second is her rear pic, but I'm definetly an ass man.

She not only looks incredible, she is incredible!

 

Thanks for the very nice comments. She once was a very modest young lady, just like her Mommy taught her to be. But in recent years, thanks to compliments and flattery from complete strangers like yourself, she's grown less and less self conscious and become more and more of an exhibitionist. Ain't it just wonderful?!?

 

~ Mr. SB ~

 

MFM... watching... doing... taking turns...

 

~

[SBcpl 16]

I think the key is the two of you are going into this completely together. No one is pushing anyone and you are both equally excited.

You betcha! She's come to embrace this idea far more enthusiastically than I would ever have imagined. And, since we actually placed an ad and have gotten a bunch of responses, we've had lengthy (often hot) discussions almost every single day about what's happening and how we both feel about it. What's really neat is that we've gotten so we can have these intimate discussions even while we're slurping down our coffee, hurrying to get ready for work -- not just when we're all hot and bothered in the bedroom.

 

~ Mr. SB ~

 

MFM... watching... doing... taking turns...

 

~

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

SBcpl -

 

How could I not have seen your thread until now!

 

This is such a hot story unfolding. I'm so excited for you and Mrs SB.

 

Particularly because Mr LM and I are your ages and because someday I hope to find a single male for us.

 

I'll be checking in on you.

 

Best of everything for you on the big night!

[SBcpl 16]

LikeMinds321 said:

Best of everything for on the big night!

 

My sweet lady's DRIPPING with anticipation and I can HARDly wait!

 

~ Mr. SB ~

[DBL D 120]

The Mrs. looks fine! Now, how about a photo you on the ad too?

 

Hope it all goes well for everyone...but if things go different then planned, hang in there.

 

Male D

[SBcpl 16]

The Mrs. looks fine! Now, how about a photo you on the ad too?

Boy, what a scary idea! She's beautiful, but I'm ugly, smelly and older'n dirt. And besides, I hope any guys that contact us are interested in having sex with her and not with me.

 

Actually, our privates pics have photos of both of us, so anybody we get serious with will in fact get to see me and verify that I don't have three heads or any other major deformities. We made them private because they show both our faces much too clearly, so we don't want them too easily accessible to the general public.

[Guest Mr&Mrs-naughty]

Oh, yeah... and, if y'all don't mind, we'll be talking about it here... 'cause all of our friends who we'd normally share our excitement with are plain vanilla and wouldn't quite understand.

 

Our anticipation is mindboggling! And, sorry, we don't have time to think -- we're too busy licking and lusting and fucking... and flirting with her soon-to-be fuck buddy. My sweet, demure wife has turned into one helluva cyber cock tease -- and I'm just loving it!

 

Hell no we don't mind!!!

 

We can hardly wait!

[curiousagain 326]

Mr&Mrs-naughty said:

Hell no we don't mind!!!

 

We can hardly wait!

 

Ditto

Actually, we would be pretty darn disappointed if you didn't update us afterwards.

[SBcpl 16]

Reality and fantasy do not always mix well afterwards for everyone. ...

 

Some couples have issues afterwards. Feelings creep in about feeling "less than" because of the amount of enjoyment the woman will (or can) receive from the other man. ...

 

Make sure you understand beforehand that once it is done, it's done. There is no taking it back.

 

If ... there are any feelings of hurt or jealousy afterwards remember this is something you chose to do TOGETHER. You can not hold any negative feelings against someone for something you encouraged them to try.

Having read a bunch of posts, on this board and others, from people who have experienced bad aftereffects, I've tried to think through pretty thoroughly about how I'm likely to react. I know it's gonna be a wild emotional roller coaster ride, and I'll need to control the fear and jealousy and rage while I ride out the big wave of unbelievably intense sexual excitement.

 

In our first phone conversation my wife's fuck-buddy-to-be asked me several questions, including how did I think I could handle the Green Monster? I wrote a long letter in response (I'd consider posting it here, but it might be too long -- about four printed pages -- what is the length limit for posting here?) and, in writing it, it forced me to think through some heavy issues. One of the issues I thought about most was what kind of limits should we impose on the relationship between him and my wife. I ultimately decided that as long as my wife is enjoying it, there should be no limits at all!

 

I know that opens the door wide to all sorts of things including, for example, my wife telling him, right in front of me, how much better his cock feels inside her than mine does. But that's OK, because why are we bringing an outside stunt cock into our relationship if not to make my lady feel better and more satisfied than she ever has before. I'd be disappointed if he wasn't bigger, harder, and longer lasting than me. I'd be disappointed if he didn't know a bunch of new sexual tricks that will send my wife into complete ecstasy. I mean, if he can't satisfy her more than I do, then what's the point? I figure the hotter and more intense her experience with him is, the hotter and more intense our own lovemaking will be for the coming weeks and months -- and how can I not love that thought.

 

Do these thoughts make sense to other people?

 

Does anybody want me to try posting that long letter?

[LikeMinds321 1,527]

SBcpl said:

I know that opens the door wide to all sorts of things including, for example, my wife telling him, right in front of me, how much better his cock feels inside her than mine does. But that's OK, because why are we bringing an outside stunt cock into our relationship if not to make my lady feel better and more satisfied than she ever has before. I'd be disappointed if he wasn't bigger, harder, and longer lasting than me. I'd be disappointed if he didn't know a bunch of new sexual tricks that will send my wife into complete ecstasy. I mean, if he can't satisfy her more than I do, then what's the point?

From what you describe above, I think you are very focused on the physical aspects of the experience and how his attributes and talents will satisfy your wife. But have you thought about the emotional--call it psychological even--pleasure your wife may receive?

 

This is what takes a "stunt cock" and turns him into a human being, and not just an object, which you describe him as in the paragragh above. I'm not implying you're being cold or impersonal, I'm trying to point out that the closeness of the event may be on a level you haven't yet acknowledged.

 

This deeper, emotional level, can occur and you should be prepared for it. It is the reason that I think many swingers warn against spending too much time on the phone or in chats with a swing partner. A bond can develop that could interfere with you and your wife's relationship.

 

Something to think about.

 

I feel your interest in seeing your wife made happy is overflowing from within you. But don't ever feel the sole point of swinging is to find guys who can give your wife more than you do. It will be something different, but not always more or better.

[SBcpl 16]

... I think you are very focused on the physical aspects of the experience.... But have you thought about the emotional ... pleasure your wife may receive?

 

...I'm trying to point out that the closeness of the event may be on a level you haven't yet acknowledged.

 

This deeper, emotional level, can occur and you should be prepared for it. ... A bond can develop that could interfere with you and your wife's relationship.

 

...don't ever feel the sole point of swinging is to find guys who can give your wife more than you do. It will be something different, but not always more or better.

Thanks for the insightful comments and, yes, we have thought through those emotional involvements. In fact, a couple of years ago one of my wife's business associates started to establish just such a relationship with her. It resulted in a small speed bump in our own relationship, but we both quickly recognized it and nipped it in the bud. It caused some emotional turmoil for maybe a week or less, but we are now both keenly aware of how those relationships can develop and how to deal with them when they do.

 

I realize that there will be -- indeed, must be -- some emotional involvement with any guy she's having sex with in order for her to fully enjoy the experience. We both know this and have discussed it at considerable length. We hope to avoid the harmful side effects by establishing relationships with several guys, so there won't be an opportunity for any one guy to dominate her time, and by agreeing that all communications involve both of us and not just her alone. In fact, so far the only one-on-one communication has been between me and her prospective new partner when he phoned a little while ago while she was out. We had a very pleasant guy-to-guy conversation, and I now feel even more comfortable with him than I already did.

 

My use of the term "stunt cock" and my insistence that he be better than me were somewhat flippant exagerations that perhaps detracted from my main point. My sarcastic humor sometimes gets in the way of my message. I recognize that some of my wife's sex partners may well be better endowed, longer lasting, or more talented and experienced than I am. I'm OK, but basically pretty average when it comes to sexual performance. So when we run across a partner who can outperform me in bed, I'm not going to get uptight about it or start feeling "less than" as Mr. Naughty put it. Instead I expect to revel in watching her enjoy her new partner's expertise. And I want her to be able to be uninhibited and form whatever immediate emotional and physical bonds heighten her pleasure. We'll have plenty of time after it's all over to go home, discuss all aspects of our experience, and reaffirm our love for each other as we cuddle and make sweet, tender love to one another ... and discuss who she'd like for her next boy-toy. Oh, sheeeit! There goes that damn sarcastic humor again.

[Buck 17]

She once was a very modest young lady, just like her Mommy taught her to be. But in recent years, thanks to compliments and flattery from complete strangers like yourself, she's grown less and less self conscious and become more and more of an exhibitionist.

 

~ Mr. SB ~

 

This is great Mr. SB. Tell us, how did Mrs. SB move from very modest to sex goddess? Just what was the process? I suppose it was from encouragement from you, but just how did it happen? My wife is curious but just doesn't have the self confidence or whatever to make the move. All my efforts to boost her self image seem fruitless. What was the key for Mrs. SB?

[SBcpl 16]

... how did Mrs. SB move from very modest to sex goddess? Just what was the process? ... just how did it happen? ... What was the key for Mrs. SB?

Hi Buck,

 

This is Mrs. SB for a change of pace.

 

It was not an overnight -- presto here I am, a Sex Goddess -- changed from little missy girl scout. Besides all the love and encouragement from the light in my life, my own light within me started burning brighter and brighter through the years. My own self fullfillment and self-confidence had to come first. I also am lucky that my physical appearance got better -- I let the silver gray hair grow in peace and have had an inordinate number of people -- young, old, men, women -- wanting to touch it and raving about it. I think the smoldering light inside started to ooze out and it was like men and women could smell it and I have been getting all kinds of compliments, smiles, flirting eyes and out and out propositions, including one guy who told me he had been burning for me and wanted to bury his head in my bush. Maybe my heat was turned up to high.

 

One way that I became more fullfilled over the years was to have an open mind, watch different shows about sex, read about what men want, and by being very curious. Also I read the books listed below and more. Some of the books are more 'clinical' and others more erotic. By reading them I found I was not the only woman who had the feelings that I was experiencing. The realizations made me more self-confident and wanting to play more and more. You know, I needed the practice to 'get it right' so I could guide my lover to take me places I had not been before. I love the erotic and the mind trip. The mind being the sex organ can be mind blowing!

 

Here's a few of the books...

 

"Pleasures: Women Write Erotica" by Lonnie Barbach (great author to start with)

"For Yourself" by L. Barbach

"For Women Only: A Revolutionary Guide to Reclaiming your Sex Life" by Jennifer and Laura Berman

"The Ethical Slut" by Dossie Easton and Catherine Liszt

Any book by Nancy Friday...love these books such as 'My Secret Garden", "Women on Top"

"Delta of Venus: Erotica by Anais Nin" and anythiing else she wrote...she was Henry Millers real lover and featured in the movie 'Henry and June'

"Female ejaculation & the G-spot: not your mother's orgasm book!" by Deborah Sundahl

[lovefest04 700]

Buck,

 

I think there are many ways to bring out the goddess in our women.

 

First and foremost is for every man to truly and deeply realize just how wonderful our partners are. Understand it and then live it. Remember to use compliments, attention, kisses for no reason, staying right next to them all night at a "vanilla" party to show your love and admiration. Don't miss an opportunity to show your wife/partner that you love them, that you need them, that you lust after them.

 

For many men, this means turning down the old ego a bit and not being so selfish. (don't spam me, its just my opinion) Men need to understand how great life can be as partners. We do not loose face by being caring and deeply loving human beings. If you don't believe me, just do it for yourself, in my humble experience women will positively react to loving attention, it a win win.

 

Personally, we moved into swinging over a year or so, I did as I say above and then enjoyed the results. Then I set up opportunities for her to begin a conversation with other men that was very safe. We started with phone sex, and it worked. Receiving attention from not only me, but a total stranger got her very excited. The phone also allowed her to be in total control (we called him, we blocked our number, we never gave out last name etc) Then she began to wonder about the possibilities on her own.

 

Bottomline, I was a catalyst. I led her to the water and then she began to drink on her own. We took it at her pace etc. Many many others have spoken about the rest. Communication, slow pace, etc.

 

The books are a great idea Ms. SB, I also think reading erotica together can help to stimulate the imagination.

 

Finally, if she is self conscious about her appearance. Look through the SLS ads with pics to get an idea of the range of body types or take a peak at https://www.voyeurweb.com/ (this is a site where people post pics of themselves in various stages of undress or more) to get a better idea of the sexyness of all women.

 

Good luck.

[Buck 17]

Hi Buck,

 

This is Mrs. SB for a change of pace.

Besides all the love and encouragement from the light in my life, my own light within me started burning brighter and brighter through the years. My own self fullfillment and self-confidence had to come first. I also am lucky that my physical appearance got better

 

 

Thanks, Mrs. SB for your response. We're about the same ages as you and Mr. SB. As the years have gone by, my wife and I have gotten much, much, closer, especially since we both retired and can spend more time together. In my opinion she is better looking than ever but I can't convince her of that. She worries about the crow's feet wrinkles etc. I call her greying hair a natural frost, that she doesn't have to pay for now. She was very skinny until about ten years ago when she put on a few age pounds like most of us do, but me and even some of my guy friends thinks it has been for the better: no hip bones protruding, and fuller, more pronounced breasts. I compliment her and like I said, from time to time a couple of our close guy friends do to. However; I don't think she is convinced she's "still" attractive. She is a prolific reader so maybe I can get her to read some of those books you have suggested. We do watch pornos together occasionally and she really gets turned on by those and we have good lovemaking sessions afterward. Years ago I bought her a vibrator, and it took a while for her to use it in front of me, now she does all the time. Its like I have been the one to lead her to the water, and when she eventually drinks, she likes it. I thinks she knows such things as MFM's would turn her on but she is afraid to admit it. She has looked at the Swingersboard a couple of time with me, but usually declines when I suggest it together. Anyway, I think you get the picture. I'll keep hoping someday she will want to move into another aspect of her ("our") sexuality. By the way, you are a "knockout" in your avatar.

[Buck 17]

lovefest04 said:

Buck,

 

I think there are many ways to bring out the goddess in our women.

 

First and foremost is for every man to truly and deeply realize just how wonderful our partners are. Understand it and then live it. Remember to use compliments, attention, kisses for no reason, staying right next to them all night at a "vanilla" party to show your love and admiration. Don't miss an opportunity to show your wife/partner that you love them, that you need them, that you lust after them.

 

Lovefest04, thanks for your response too. I promise you what you suggested is what I do. I never let an opportunity to pass that I can compliment her. Convincing her is another matter. In the almost 30 years I've known her, she seems to be right on the edge of being shy little small town girl but can't break through to unleashing her sexuality to include anyone other than me. I suppose there are millions of men who would trade places with me in that respect, however, my whole focus when it comes to sex is her....I don't want to swing to be able to experience other women, I just want to share her and focus on her pleasure....that's my main turn on.

I appreciate your thoughtful response, and maybe someday our time will come.

[Buck 17]

SBcpl said:

What's Happening - We live in a smaller community some 100 miles north of LA, and most responses have been from guys close to LA or beyond, including the guy who's our first choice. We're scheduled to meet him in a town part way between our homes on Saturday, 25 March. We've made hotel reservations, and last weekend we drove down there, checked out the hotel -- got to see one of the rooms -- found a restaurant that would be a good place to meet, and stopped at a couple of lingerie shops and bought her a bunch of new slut wear for the occasion. .

 

Anyhow, wish us luck, because I think it's finally, really and truly, gonna happen!!!

 

~ SBcpl ~

 

MFM... watching... doing... taking turns...

 

~

 

SBcpl, if tomorrow's "date" is still on, good luck to both of you as you venture into this new erotic experience in life.

[SBcpl 16]

SBcpl, if tomorrow's "date" is still on, good luck to both of you as you venture into this new erotic experience in life.

Oh my, oh my, is it ever ON!

 

Thanks for the good wishes, Buck. But it's Saturday the 26th -- in my original post the Saturday part was correct, the 25th part was a typo -- guess I was a little overeager.

 

And the anticipation has gotten really intense around here. Although we've never met C in person, we've been exchanging emails with him steadily for about three weeks, chatted with him once or twice over the Internet, and spoke with him on the phone three or four times. He's a mature, experienced guy -- 50-ish like A, active in the Lifestyle for almost a decade after a long marriage broke up. He seems to be very open and honest, is patient and articulate, and has a good sense of humor. We think he's a real nice, ordinary guy who'll probably be a lot of fun to be around. Oh, yeah ... he'll probably be pretty good in bed too.

 

Two weeks ago we spent a Saturday afternoon checking out the hotel where we're gonna meet and buying a bunch of new slutwear for A's first-ever Hot Wife date. That got A's and my hormones really churning. Last weekend we took some hot pics of A in and out of her new duds and also of me ravishing her. Then we sent C a really flirty email. He replied in kind, and our daily email exchange has continued all week, getting hotter and more intense every day. So hot that, when we meet him in just 48 hours from now, it wouldn't surprise me if he and my lovely wife jump each other's bones right there in the hotel lobby. I'd just better make sure I have the camera charged up and ready when it happens.

[lovefest04 700]

SBcpl

 

The suspense is killing me, we can only imagine how excited you two are.

 

Have a wonderful weekend, make it fun for you two no matter what happens and don't forget to share with all of us on, is Saturday at 3am to early, ok ok we can wait until Sunday evening.

 

Love and joy to you both.

[SBcpl 16]

Lovefest...

 

Thanks for the good wishes. No, no, it's not exciting -- as our meeting time rapidly approaches, it's become totally, unbelievably mindboggling!

 

One minute an erotic, sexual high as a piece of the fantasy flashes through my mind, then a gut wrenching feeling as the realization that this time it's REALLY for real -- it IS really gonna happen -- my loving, faithful wife of 22 years is really gonna spread her legs and let some stranger's hard, swollen cock penetrate her sweet, tender pussy lips!?!?! It's like this CAN'T be for real, but it is, it is! The emotional rollercoaster ride has begun!

 

Besides the highly sex-charged emails we've been exchanging with C, I've been helping A prepare herself for her hot date. Picking which sexy clothing she should wear, helping her arrange for a couple of manicures and pedicures so she'll look especially good for him -- she never ever gets manicures or pedicures just for herself or for me, so getting them now emphasizes in both our minds just how unusual and special this occasion is.

 

She does trim her pubic hair, but only with a razor, and not too near her pussie's tender folds -- neither of us cares to spend the $ or to have her suffer the pain of a wax job, and there's no way that I'm gonna let myself get anywhere near that treasure with a razor in my hands. BUT just last week I bought her a Body Bare shaver and we've been performing a daily morning ritual in which the shaver and I get up close and personal with her pussy until now she's totally bare and smooth as a baby's butt. And while I'm doing this for her each day, we talk about how much C will like it and about how she's gonna feel when he first slips his fingers inside her with me sitting right there.

 

Yeah, it's mindblowing alright -- but we're both getting tremendous highs in between moments of sheer panic.

 

Only 26 hours now until we meet him...

[SBcpl 16]

TONIGHT's the NIGHT!!!

 

And we are so HOT and READY! We've never packed like this for an overnight before. Usually we pack at most some AstroGlide and some Viagra. This time we also have extra condoms, her new slutwear, our Hitachi Magic Wand, several 'Passion' aroma candles, extra towels, and our Liberator wedge and ramp. Not to mention a digital camera, tripod and a remote.

 

This morning I did a final touch-up on A's pussy using her new Body Bare shaver. Oops! Every now and then my hand would 'accidentally' brush against her clit, and she'd get a little involuntary pussy twitch. We haven't had any sex since last Sunday, so her frustration is starting to manifest itself. I kissed her pussy and told her, "For the last 23 years this treasure has belonged to only me, but tonight it will belong to C."

 

Right now she's out getting a final manicure and pedicure. She's also going to pick up a can of RediWhip and some fresh strawberries from a local farm stand -- in some of her emails this past week she teased C about her being his strawberry shortcake, so we figure we should follow up with that. Besides, we're spending all night and all morning together, so we may need a little real food for sustenance.

 

Well, gotta go take a cold shower and clean up before A gets back home. We'll be heading out midafternoon and he's supposed to meet us at about 4:30 -- then let the fun begin!

 

~ B ~

[WesternSwing 504]

Okay, now you have to let us know... Too much anticipation even for an innocent bystander like myself!

[SBcpl 16]

Okay, now you have to let us know...

Absolutely!

 

After all, we're complete newbies -- total virgins to the Lifestyle -- so all our friends are vanilla (as far as we know), and we're not about to surprise them with our exciting news. In fact, we've already had a couple of awkward moments when friends asked us if we were doing anything fun or interesting this weekend. So we're glad that there are folks on this board who are interested and with whom we can share our excitement.

 

~ A & B ~

[Guest Mr&Mrs-naughty]

We are all anxiously awaiting the review!!! If it doesn't turn out as good as you hoped, Lie!!!

 

Good Luck, have Fun!!!!!!!!

[DBL D 120]

They must still be asleep!

[funseekers45 15]

Well, if they're not asleep, they are still playing themselves.

[curiousagain 326]

I wonder how many views this thread has now???

Surely they will post soon.

[DBL D 120]

Maybe they had a Dildo Fire!

[Dynamar 246]

...Still waiting, huh?

[SBcpl 16]

We're back home from our very first MFM and it was...

 

~~~~~~~~~~ FAN-FUCKING-TASTIC ~~~~~~~~~~

 

Don't have time right now for a full report (because we're literally too fucking tired:)). We'll write one later this week, but for right now, here's a top level overview of some of the highlights of our weekend...

 

My sweet, nervous, anxious wife turned into a hot, insatiable sex machine (if you're skeptical about this, check out the Certification our newfound friend gave us on SLS on our SBcpl profile).

 

We enjoyed five consecutive, uninterrupted hours of totally uninhibited sex on Saturday night, then another three hours Sunday morning. :fun:

 

A's final treat before C left on Sunday morning was that he gave her a professional and thorough ass-fucking - the first real one she's ever had - and she was just out of her mind with pleasure.

 

C and I were both totally exhausted and A's pussy is still all swollen and throbbing -- but she sure is smiling a lot.

 

I kept my emotions under good control, in part by snapping almost 400 pictures, especially during the most intense and erotic moments of A's and C's lovemaking. (Aren't digital cameras great? Thank God for my 1GB CF card.)

 

A and I are more in love than ever -- she did everything I encouraged her to do (plus maybe a little bit more), and I loved every frigging minute of it.

 

Time for us to go drop in an exhausted heap -- will write a lot more later.

 

~ B ~

[SBcpl 16]

PS to Mr. Naughty...

 

No lies necessary, just fact... ain't it wonderful?

 

~ B ~

[Dynamar 246]

Yayayayay! Great news... congrats to you three! Gives hope to all us newbies, I'm sure. Looking forward to the full report.

 

ETA: Guess you'll have to change your tagline from 'MFM wannabes'... eh?

[Guest Mr&Mrs-naughty]

SBcpl said:

~~~~~~~~~~ FAN-FUCKING-TASTIC ~~~~~~~~~~

 

 

ABSOLUTELY!!!!!!

 

Welcome to the club!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Aint it GREAT!! facelick

 

Glad you had such a great time!!!!!!

[Guest Mr&Mrs-naughty]

PS to Mr. Naughty...

 

... ain't it wonderful?

 

~ B ~

 

In a word.... Wait a minute, I haven't found one to explain it yet!!

[curiousagain 326]

Welcome to the swinging world.

Congratulations, we will be waiting for the full story. Get some rest.

[two4youinswva 3,068]

In a word.... Wait a minute, I haven't found one to explain it yet!!

"The indescribable moments of your life"

 

---Smashing Pumpkins -"Tonight"

[Illicitlovers 17]

great to hear you all had an awesome time.........can't wait to read all the heated details.

[WesternSwing 504]

Wow! Just the Reader's Digest version was hot! Congrats on your first wonderful experience.

[DBL D 120]

Ab-sa-fuk-ing-un-believe-able!!!

 

I am very happy for you guys!

 

Male D