Are you intimidated by income differences?
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By Roundstic
We've met a man on SLS and hope to do a MFM we plan on meeting at a bar then if all is well get a room. Who pays for the room, him or us or do we split it?? Is there a proper way that this should be done?
Thanks.
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By calicpl2002
We have had several mfm threesomes with a friend of hubby's and we have always paid for the hotel room.
Then one day hubby says do you think since he is having as much fun as we are that he should help in the cost of the encounters (at least pay for every other room rental)? I thought that sounds like a reasonable request.
So hubby poses the question to our friend and he says ok at first. Then when it was time for him to pay for the room on the next encounter, he says, well why do we even rent a room? You guys have a house and so do I. If you guys don't want to do it at your house we can do it at mine.
I have a problem with that because I feel more comfortable at a hotel room were both parties can leave at any given time after the encounter (plus it makes me feel more naughty).
Then he goes on to say that he didn't know at the start of this that he was going to have to pay for it (implying paying for the pussy) and that if he invited us to dinner he would pay. Therefore, since it is us that is inviting him to play, that we should pay for the room. Yet it is also him that calls my hubby and asks question like - When do I get to taste that sweet wife of yours again?
We aren't really sure who this falls on. I guess we feel since he is also having fun that why not share the costs? What do you guys think? Are we wrong in asking this?
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By lou lou
We have meet a couple one time at a bar/hotel and they paid for the room.
We are hoping to meet the same couple again at the same place and want to make sure we pay this time.
Is this something We should bring up before ? Or do we go ahead and get the room like they did last time. Just want to be fair but not end up with two rooms LOL
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By SnSnLex
Heres the story...
We were invited to a party not long ago, it was to be 20 couples or so aging in range from mid 20's to mid 40's. The hosts are early 30's. Sounded like our crowd, so we RSVP.
It gets to be a couple days before the party and we hear from the hosts (had been chatting regularly the 2 weeks prior also) that they decided to cancel the party because everyone who were invited had backed out except us and one other couple. We were shocked to say the least.
Being the person I am(MR.) I had to ask why. Well it turns out that when everyone asked about sleeping arrangements (we hadn't, since we only live 15 minutes away) they were told space wasn't a problem due to them having a 25 room house and 14 of those were bedrooms:eek: The whole time we had chatted, they never once led us to believe that they were that well to do. We thought of them as just another very nice couple, and still do.
After a bit of chatting we just figured that people felt intimidated or outclassed, or I'm sure someone here might have a better word to describe it.
What do you all think? Would you like to know ahead of time about these things? How would of you felt if you didn't know and showed up to see a 13,000 square foot house?
After me and the Mrs. talked about it, we decided that if we knew ahead of time that we might of declined the invite.
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