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First meeting for MFM threesome...

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Believe this or not, in almost 5 years of swinging, we've only been with other couples. We have never had a 3some with either a guy or a girl. But we've been wanting to for a while now, and guess what? We've got a big date tonight! I got thinking about it, and the reason that we've never had any single guy horror stories is because we've never gotten any further than email with them! I guess maybe we're a little over-cautious, but we were always happy meeting with couples so the supposed extra risk of meeting singles didn't appeal to us much. I'm sure there are some on the board (for example, the Naughties) who would disagree that singles are riskier than couples, but the lifestyle is different for different couples.

 

So. Here I am, shaving my legs and curling my hair, picking out something to wear, packing our bag (yet another 3-hour drive), and more nervous now than I was before meeting couples. Why you ask? Good question. Maybe it has something to do with me feeling like I'm in the spotlight up on a stage or something. Mr. intuition is straight as an arrow, and has no interest in changing his mind. So this show's all about me. I just don't know how to be comfortable being the centre of attention!

 

I guess I just wanted to vent, guys. I'm feeling a bit like a cat clinging to the ceiling by the claws right now (you know, like Sylvester the cat in the episode where he and Porky went to the haunted hotel?). *sigh* Somebody talk me down! :lol: Nothing may happen at all tonight; it's supposed to be just meet & greet. But we are staying over, so you never know how things will go. Anybody have any advice? Is there anything we should know or think ahead about that would be different from swinging with couples? We have experience with swinging...just not with singles.

 

Thanks everybody! :kissface:

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Sounds like something you've been looking forward to...so enjoy what may happen...there's always tomorrow. Have a great time, a MFM is about you the female being the center of attention...enjoy it.

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Just be yourself. Simple if not easy. Do the same things you would meeting a couple. Although it is all about you, if the single guy isn't comfortable with Mr. Intuition or vice versa it ain't gonna fly. If he appears to be doing this begrudingly, or he and the guy have a personality conflict or one of them has a trust issue with the other, then it's a no go. So both of you just be yourselves as you would when meeting a couple and see how it goes.

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Thanks everyone. Curiousagain, I especially appreciate your input, seeing as how you're a single yourself. I don't think there will be any issue between Mr. intuition and our new friend as he seems to be serious, is "single and loving it" and has no intentions of changing his marital status anytime soon, and has asked for a face pic of the two of us together before meeting us. That impressed us. Nah, I'm just nervous. It's a new thing, and anything new rattles our nerves a bit. Ok, just my nerves. Mr. read my post here and has tried to reassure me. He's cool as a cucumber about it all. We'll be leaving shortly, but I'll check back in once more before we leave. Thanks again everybody! :kissface:

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Good luck, have fun.

Remember, it is about you!! I hear some women talk about a MFM strained them because they felt like they were responsible for pleaseing two men.

nay nay nay nay, a MFM is about the one in the middle. Just enjoy it and show your husband how much you appreciate it. :)

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curiousagain said:
Just be yourself.

Excellent advice! That's what one of A's other suitors told her shortly before our first MFM. She worked hard at just being natural — just doing whatever felt right at that instant, without worrying about the why's and wherefore's. And, despite her initial nervousness, we had a fan-fucking-tastic time! :fun:

 

Since then we've had a total of four great MFM's with three different guys. And, as A has learned more and more to simply relax and enjoy it, she's been climbing to ever higher levels of excitement and pleasure in our encounters.

 

So just relax, do whatever feels comfortable, and remember that you're the Queen — enjoy it to the max!

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UPDATE: Ok, tell me what you all think of this.

 

We drive 1 3/4 hours to meet at a hotel lounge at 9:00 pm. Everyone seemed to be on schedule. He calls the cell phone to let us know he would be about 1/2 hour late ("9:30 at the absolute latest"). We said fine, that gives us a little extra time to get checked in and settled. So at 9:15 we go to the lounge to wait. 9:40 we get another call saying he's in Scarborough in traffic (approximately 10-20 minutes away). Hmm. Well, ok, that's fine. 10:40 pm, we've asked for our bill and head back up to our room as the lounge closes at 11:00. I said to Mr., what do you suppose the odds are he'll show up at 5 minutes to 11:00?! Lo and behold, 10 minutes to 11:00 pm, another call saying he's 2 minutes away. Mr. informed him that we've turned in for the night and sorry but it's just not going to work out. The guy didn't start with an apology or anything, just informed us that he was nearly there and I guess expected us to be waiting outside the closed lounge (that we were all supposed to meet at nearly 2 hours ago) to immediately invite him up to our room. So we never did actually meet face to face. Apparently he was upset that he drove the 1 hour to get to our meeting place with nothing to show for it. Mr. said, yeah we were sorry that we all had to travel so far for absolutely nothing. We didn't mention that it cost us nearly $200 to boot.

 

But seeing as how it's our anniversary today (11 years! Yay!), we didn't let it spoil a good night at a hotel, eating take-out and having lots of good hot raunchy sex...even if we didn't have a third. We just wanted to see whether everyone thought that was unreasonable of us to send the guy packing?

 

Thanks for all the feedback!

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I think more than reasonable, intuition. Two hours late? There is no excuse for that. None. You were right to send him packing for being so inconsiderate. It's situations like this that make me wonder if they are married and just had a hard time getting out of the house. :( Even if he is single, he obviously has no respect for your time. What else will he not respect? Good move on your part.

 

Mr. WS

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Happy Anniversary to the both of you! Nah it wasn't unreasonable to send him packing. You all planned a time to meet and it wasn't fulfilled. Now mind you I understand that stuff happens and there are things that are just out of our hands, he was curteous at least and did call you to update you but after awhile you get to the point that with all of this happening it just isn't worth it and maybe should reschedule for another time. Glad that you and Mr. Intuition had a very enjoyable evening together. D and S

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Congratulations on your anniversary :claps:

 

I think you gave the guy more chances than most would have. I believe you did the right thing. Write'm off. It may have been a case of the road totally blocked, who knows. But, stuff often happens for a reason.

 

At least it wasn't a totally wasted trip for y'all.

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I would be a little ticked too. However, I took a look at your SLS profile and wow! This guy is a moron! All he had to travel was an hour? Heck I would travel from Austin! :)

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However, I took a look at your SLS profile and wow! This guy is a moron! All he had to travel was an hour?

Dito

 

There is no doubt about it.... the Intuitions are a beautiful couple. I think I'd be two hours early to a meeting with them if I were that guy.

 

You did the right thing sending him packing. Don't feel bad about it and don't give him another thought.

 

Happy Anniversary!

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Vespertine said:
There is no doubt about it.... the Intuitions are a beautiful couple. I think I'd be two hours early to a meeting with them if I were that guy.

 

You did the right thing sending him packing. Don't feel bad about it and don't give him another thought.

 

As a single guy I have to say thinking about this guy's actions and Intuitions profile and post, the word idiot keeps popping up. :D

 

Nobody plans to fail but lots of people fail to plan.

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Glad you made something out of it still, and happy anniversary! You absolutely did all the right things, even more than your share. And the guy is absolutely an idiot, was probably kicking himself in the ass all the way home!

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Congrats on your anniversary. Being a punctual person living in a large metropolitan area I understand traffic issues arise however 2 hrs late. You did the right thing sending him packing. Someone mentioned he might have no been what he pretended to be ... this could be likely. I love your attitude about taking a lemon and making lemonade, it’s so nice to hear others seeing the glass half full instead of half empty. Good luck on your next endeavor.

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Thanks for all your anniversary wishes and compliments!! On a side note, we just went to Mr.'s cousin's wedding yesterday and our 11-year-old daughter just surprised us by getting the M.C. to let her stand up during the dinner and make a speech. She wanted to wish us a happy anniversary and the new couple a good wedding day, and hoped that the kind of love that her parents have is the kind of love that they will have too. Wow. I don't think there was a dry eye in the house. I was so proud of her! We were very touched.

 

Anyway, back to the issue at hand. I'm glad to hear that we were being realistic. It's true; the guy might've been legitimately late, but when someone is an hour and fifty minutes late, the least one should expect is an apology! There was none. AND I expect a pretty good damn excuse. Traffic just won't cut it. I understand that traffic can cause up to about an hour delay, but it's after 10 pm on a Saturday night...not exactly rush hour...and we were watching the traffic reports on the lounge TV! There was nothing about congested traffic in the area he was supposedly in. We figured he was buying himself time. When he said he was just getting in the shower, he was likely just leaving his soccer game, and when he was actually just getting in the shower is likely when he said he was 10 minutes away in Scarborough.

 

We spent over two hundred bucks this weekend that we didn't really need to spend (we would've had just as good a time at home), and because of Mr.'s work schedule, we only two weekends a month off together. Our liesure time is very valuable to us! It really pissed us off when it was wasted waiting for someone who had absolutely no respect for that. Well, lesson learned. We'll be changing our profiles on the two or three sites that we're on to reflect that our time is precious, and if you feel you can't manage your time within about 1/2 an hour, don't bother contacting us. The only way this guy's behaviour could've been excused is if he showed up in the back of an ambulance, or was shouting into the cell phone over the sound of the jaws-of-life cutting him out of his mangled car. Ok, that's a bit extreme. But really, would HE have waited around that long? From the sound of it, his own time was his priority, so likely not.

 

Thanks for all your posts!! :kissface:

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Totally agree with you intuition. Time is the most precious of all and anybody wasting your time is somebody you don't want to fool with in the future.

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Whaddya know?! He wrote back. Said it was really mean of us to ditch him like that, there was an accident, yada yada yada... Yeah, well you know what they say about excuses, don'tcha?

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Sounds like the old deny everything, admit nothing, make counter accusations technique.

 

I still didn't hear anything about an apology. I would avoid him like the plague. Something is definitely not kosher there.

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Okay,

Here is my take on this....

 

(I am going to buck conventional wisdom here...a little)

 

If we were meeting local (meaning close to home) we definately would not have waited that long, but....

 

If you both traveled at least an hour to meet I would probably have given him a little more time. You are already there, you paid for the room, and he kept calling to say he was 10 minutes out...5 minutes out...2 minutes out.

 

It is possible he wasn't coming at all and was trying to see how long he could string you along, but with the last call saying he was 2 minutes out...I would have waited, more out of curiosity than anything else.

 

Any Play would have been unlikely at this point but a face to face meeting to see if he was for real and to judge the sincerity of his excuse would have been in order, for us anyway.

 

Sometimes shit happens and things fall behind. Maybe he was really stuck in traffic or maybe he was at the soccer game. It could have ran late, beyond his control. I don't think he could just walk off the field, maybe he told a little white lie to avoid making you think the soccer game was more important.

 

 

If he took the time to actualy show up, albeit late, I would have stuck around another 10 minutes after the 2 minute warning.

 

We would give him the chance to "make up" for being late and make him earn his way back to some play time.

 

If his being late was an actual trait of his arrogance it would show through in his personality once you met.

 

So bottom line for us,

 

We PROBABLY would have waited. Mainly for 2 reasons:

 

1)He ALSO traveled to meet.

 

2) He was calling every few minutes to update you.

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Sounds like the old deny everything, admit nothing, make counter accusations technique.

 

I still didn't hear anything about an apology. I would avoid him like the plague. Something is definitely not kosher there.

 

I'm inclined to agree with you curiousagain. And no, there was no apology. It really sucks that he was a jerk because he was really cute! :sad: We just don't know whether to try getting right back on the horse or if we should just leave it be for now.

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Okay,

Here is my take on this....

 

(I am going to buck conventional wisdom here...a little)

 

If we were meeting local (meaning close to home) we definately would not have waited that long, but....

 

If you both traveled at least an hour to meet I would probably have given him a little more time. You are already there, you paid for the room, and he kept calling to say he was 10 minutes out...5 minutes out...2 minutes out.

Trouble with waiting for him was...wait where? The lounge was closing in 15 minutes. We had hoped to chat for a while and by 11 we'd know whether we were turning in for the night or if we'd invite him up with us. He just left us in a very awkward spot. We were not going to go out scouting for another decent bar to visit at; we had to leave early the next morning, so unless we were all going to be involved in some actual playtime, we didn't want to be up too late just chatting.

 

It is possible he wasn't coming at all and was trying to see how long he could string you along, but with the last call saying he was 2 minutes out...I would have waited, more out of curiosity than anything else.

 

Any Play would have been unlikely at this point but a face to face meeting to see if he was for real and to judge the sincerity of his excuse would have been in order, for us anyway.

Oh, I'm sure he was there. He was pretty ticked off. Then again so were we. The fact that he kept calling with updates didn't really make us feel warm and fuzzy or anything. We just felt like he was stringing us along. Bottom line, we felt manipulated.

 

Sometimes shit happens and things fall behind. Maybe he was really stuck in traffic or maybe he was at the soccer game. It could have ran late, beyond his control. I don't think he could just walk off the field, maybe he told a little white lie to avoid making you think the soccer game was more important.

If that's the case, then yeah, we do feel a little bad about it. But one of the hazards of playing in the lifestyle is dealing with suspicion and we're no exception. In order to keep from being taken advantage of, we all protect ourselves to some degree by remaining skeptical and taking what others say with a grain of salt. We do, others do it, and if you think about, you've all likely done it yourselves. We don't like it. We wish there was some way for everyone to just know the truth, but there isn't. So we have to determine whether people are actually telling us the truth or not. It's sad but true. We would've appreciated his honesty more.

 

If he took the time to actualy show up, albeit late, I would have stuck around another 10 minutes after the 2 minute warning.

 

We would give him the chance to "make up" for being late and make him earn his way back to some play time.

 

If his being late was an actual trait of his arrogance it would show through in his personality once you met.

 

So bottom line for us,

 

We PROBABLY would have waited. Mainly for 2 reasons:

 

1)He ALSO traveled to meet.

 

2) He was calling every few minutes to update you.

 

We wanted to avoid making a scene, so we left before he showed up. Someone in the hotel actually called 911 and there were police crawling all over the place trying to figure who it was that called. If they were looking for something to do, we sure as hell didn't want to volunteer. Maybe we should've waited...but we didn't. I doubt we'll drive up there to meet him again. If he happens to be in the Kingston area sometime and asks to meet, we'd probably give him another chance, but otherwise, it's unlikely.

 

Thanks for your input Naughties! *Sigh* why aren't things ever simple?

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I've got to hand it to you, we wouldn't have waited that long :rolleyes:

 

An hour away and he's almost 2 hours late....... :nono: Heck, we drive an hour most of the Saturday nites we go out to party and we've NEVER been 2 hours late....and that's in the Motor City :lol:

 

You guys did the right thing. No apology and he gets upset too.....that alone speaks volumes about the guy.

 

Better luck next time ;)

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I can't believe the guy didn't apologize?! What's wrong with him? And if he was lying makes you wonder what else he could be lying about? IMO his crediblity was just shot to hell.

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intuition897 said:
We had hoped to chat for a while and by 11 we'd know whether we were turning in for the night or if we'd invite him up with us.

 

I think this is the key for me. You wanted to have the time to get to know him. There can be a serious difference between what you meet on the internet and what you meet in person. Him getting their right before "lights out" wouldn't work for us either.

 

You didn't owe him anything and you have to go with your gut. Sometimes, you'll never find out just how right a thing listening to the gut is - but I'm convinced it always is.

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      After she finished asking everything she had concerns about I answered all her questions and we talked about the rules/boundaries we would have in place to keep it fun and exciting without any reservations or guilt. This was to make sure she fully understood my concerns and alleviate all of hers as well. It seemed she came to a decision at which point she smiled and enthusiastically said yes, she'd do it! Did I have someone special in mind she wondered? She said she had to agree to my choices for her sexual escapades or it wasn't gonna happen.
       
       I then informed her I was thinking of Bruce. Beth squealed with glee, she admitted she has had fantasies about Bruce for some time now and I couldn't have picked a better choice for her first time. She would absolutely love to fuck Bruce. She said she was getting wet thinking about sex with him.
       
      A few days later I met up with Bruce for an after work drink. As we enjoyed several drinks we talked a lot. Soon I steered the conversation towards my wife Beth. I asked  Bruce to be honest and tell me what he thought about Beth. He admitted he thought Beth was smokin' hot. She had a killer body and was just gorgeous, always was friendly, and liked flirting with him when they were together. I asked him if he' ever had the chance would he consider having sex with her? He looked a bit concerned by my question but answered yes, he wouldn't hesitate to take advantage of such an opportunity. So I told him that Beth really wanted to have sex with him, and that I was okay with them hooking up. I explained that was my kink watching her get fucked by other men, it really turned me on. Bruce considered it for several minutes then said okay sure, he'd love to fuck Beth. Just give him the details when we're ready to make it happen.
       
      When I got home I told Beth about my conversation with Bruce and what he said. She looked startled and said she couldn't believe I did that. So I asked her if what I did was so wrong and did she still want to go through with it? She excitedly said Oh hell yes she did, and no I wasn't wrong! So we made plans and set a date for Beth's first cock. 
       
      The night arrived finding Beth both excited and hot with anticipation. She was dressed to kill showing off her sexy body wearing no underwear. When Bruce knocked on the door I answered it and escorted him into our house. Beth entered the living room and gave Bruce a big hug pressing her chest and pelvis into him and then kissed him on the lips. Bruce kissed her back and he sat down pulling her on to his lap. Nether one of them wasted any time, tongues going everywhere, hands exploring and groping each other, clothes coming off. Soon they were both naked and Beth got a pleasant surprise, Bruce was very well hung. She giggled with delight.
       
      Beth took Bruce's hand and led him to our bed. She pushed him down on the bed and went to work on Bruce's big cock giving him an enthusiastic blow job. After a while Bruce flipped Beth on her back and went to work on her pussy and clit. Beth orgasmed in minutes, fully enjoying Bruce's skilled tongue. I stood in the background watching the show.
       
      Soon Bruce moved into position between Beth's legs. As he rubbed his cock against Beth's open pussy and clit she responded with loud moans and started pressing her pussy against Bruce's cock. As he slid his huge cock into Beth's pussy she had a big climax. As he went deeper he increased his speed and Beth climaxed again. She was enthralled with his big cock pumping her pussy, she was moving her hips and swearing, telling him his cock felt so good. She looked over at me and said she loved how good his big cock felt inside her. She told Bruce to stretch her pussy good, to fuck her hard. She was in sexual ecstasy, a place she'd never been before. Her facial expressions showed pure bliss and the sounds she was making were hot as hell. I never seen her so turned on, she must of had a dozen orgasms, many of which were huge.
       
      They fucked each other hard for a good twenty minutes then Bruce erupted into Beth's pussy, filling her with his cum. This gave Beth another climax. Afterwards he laid on Beth for a minute then rolled off her. He'd destroyed her pussy, it gaped open with his cum dripping out of her. They kissed and he got up to dress while Beth laid there spent. She looked at me and smiled big time. She said, "Your turn!", so I took sloppy seconds and enjoyed it beyond belief. Bruce watched us have sex then commented that watching real sex was so much hotter than any porno ever could be. He understood my enjoyment of watching my wife fuck other men. He said he'd like to do it again and Beth was all for it. So they made plans to hook up again. Then Bruce left.
       
      Beth and I talked about how well things went, and how she wasn't prepared for how much she enjoyed his big cock. It was mind boggling! She thanked me profusely for asking her to do this, the opportunity to experience such awesome sex. She says she'll never be the same again and is looking forward to more big cock sex. So our new lifestyle began.
    • By Falcon88
      My wife and I have been together for almost 25 years. Through out the years sex has been fantastic. No complaints on either side. We are very faithful and never cheated on each other.
       
      Then one day two years ago we were having a few drinks and watching porn. We watch all kinds of porn. That night we were watching some really good gangbangs. Curiously, I turn to my wife and asked her if she ever thought about swinging and group sex. If it ever crossed her mind. Surprisingly, she looked at me and said she’s been thinking about it for while. So we ended up talking about swinging and group sex for hours. We got online and read stories on experiences about swinging and group sex. The pros and cons. It turned me on taking about it but at the same time I got a crazy feeling in my stomach. Nerves I guess.
       
      So to make a very long story short we ended up having an open marriage and took up swinging. We both decided to have (safe) sex with other people until we felt comfortable on having our first group sex. All this took very long planning and preparing, especially mentally.
       
      Finally last November we planned out her first group sex. We carefully selected three familiar friends to join in the fun. Of course they decided to do it and agreed on our rules.
       
      So, it finally happened that November night. I really enjoyed watching my wife get screwed by more than one man. She had the time of her life. She had multiple orgasms one after another. The crazy feeling never left my stomach but I really enjoyed watching though. After the guys left we kicked back and talked about our experience. Then we go back about agreeing on what we’re doing and never to do it without the other knowing. We keep an oath of trust. Every time we have a date with someone we let each other know. It’s always planned out days in advance so it will never interfere with our personal lives. We have a great understanding.
       
      Since last November she’s been involved in several group sex averaging 3-4 guys each time. Of course I joined in most of the time. Lots of lube is needed. But now she wants to go a little further. She wants to do a gangbang of 6-8 guys. Seriously.
       
      Lately she’s been playing with large toys to get her vagina ready. She wants to try double-vaginal penetration. I’ve been preparing her by inserting a dildo in her while I’m inside. Very carefully with lots of lube. We practice every time we have sex. She even carefully inserts a large thick toy in her vagina while watching a movie and keeps it in there. Yes, our sexual curiosities has increased tremendously. My wife wants to explore even more and I’m all in.
       
      Well the day we both have been looking forward too occurred this past weekend. We managed to round up 7 guys for an all night gangbang. It involved a lot of planning and phone calls. We’ve noticed that guys will be all in at first then drop out later. But eventually we got things going. That night when everyone arrived she was kinda nervous but excited to have that many cocks at once. Most of all, she finally had double penetration in her vagina from two guys for the first time. The strange thing I seemed more nervous than her. Lol But she absolutely enjoyed it as much as I enjoyed watching her. She came hard many times. She doesn’t like anal so that wasn’t attempted.
       
      So after joining in all the fun and after almost two hours of great sex we had the grand finale. My sexy wife knelt down and we all gave her an awesome bukkake. Her face was drenched with cum. It was one heck of a hot night. After everyone left we took a long shower and stayed up almost all night talking about it. We were both so turned on that we were already making plans for the next one. But we are gonna take a break for about three weeks. It’s just going to be me and her for now.
       
      Yesterday she mentioned about having a messy cum sex in the near future after watching a great creampie movie. I was like, a messy cum sex? She asked me what I would think about her having a messy gooey bukkake and creampie night. Having about 4 guys cum all over her face while 4 guys cum inside her. Then rubbing the cum all over her breasts. Man, just listening to her drove me crazy. My wife was willing to be explosive. But that would take lots of planning because we are very cautious. My wife cannot get pregnant anymore so that’s really something we don’t have to worry about. It’s about the unprotected sex. We do know many cool friends well enough that we can trust but still we must remain careful. Yet, I’m sure it’s gonna happen very soon.
       
      I’ve been asked if we have taken it too far. If there’s actually any sign of regrets. Some close friends wonder about my wife wanting too much now. Our answer is no because we enjoy it and have a deep understanding and trust. We are responsible adults and are having fun. We first talk about what we’re going to do and have to both agree 100%. Any sign of doubt from either side we will not do it. We are friends with our sex partners but no feelings are involved or ever shared. We have proven that to ourselves already.
    • By AdamGunn2
      It was a fairly typical night at D.J.s Island, an early autumn evening. Mary and I hadn’t set anything up in advance, we’d decided to go almost at the last moment. From the second we entered the door our radar was beaming across the club, searching for a couple that might be searching for what we were also interested in - an enjoyable tryst.
       
      Mary took a few minutes to change into what she called a ‘trolling outfit.’ As I remember, that night it was a black babydoll with a loose bodice, thong, low heels. Many men admired her legs as I checked the forty or so women, many as scantily clad as my wife. None of our regular playmates seemed to be in attendance that evening, but we had our customs, we weren’t concerned. Perhaps an hour and a half later, I sat at a table next to the dance floor, Mary was on her feet, on the parquet, moving her body, seeing if anyone would move in. A slow sequence of men approached her, danced with her. Some would take liberties such as moving their hands under her garment, feeling the small of her back, perhaps place their palm on the roundness of her ass.
       
      I’d seen this many times before, I waited for one of two reactions.
       
      The first was that she’d spin away from the man; it signified she wasn’t interested in what he had to offer.
       
      The second was that she’d get closer, I’d watch her whisper in his ear. I knew the question, “Where’s your wife?” Some of them would shake their heads, they were attending as one of the few single men the club allowed, and when they received Mary’s response, they’d move away - that’s not what we were looking for at the moment.
       
      But the man might indicate where his wife was dancing a few feet away. When this kind of thing happened, Mary would glance to me and give our special signal - she’d put one hand on the back of her head, one on her stomach. When I got the cue, I’d come out, we’d dance as a foursome.
       
      As I approached, a man grasped the elbow of a tall attractive lady who was more modestly dressed, at least for the club. There was no conversation on the dance floor, the heavy volume of music and the thumping of the bass wouldn’t allow for speech. But I could tell the woman was interested in me, the four of us paired off and I often found myself facing this vixen. It was obvious they were as interested in us as I was in them, I could tell by the way Mary was rubbing against the man that she felt the same.
       
      After a couple of songs, Mary led the way off the floor, holding his hand, leading us off into a corner away from the speakers. As we sat, the man said, “I’m Ed, this is my wife, Marilyn.”
       
      Marilyn and I softly shook hands, I believe she raised the hem of her skirt to give me a view of her upper thighs. Ed had no problem seeing Mary’s legs, or where they met - she was sitting so that the babydoll was gathered to her side, leaning forward so her globes were exposed to his view.
       
      “Do you come here often?” Ed asked.
       
      “Every few weeks,” I responded, “you?”
       
      “This is our first time here.” Mary gave him a look that asked for further info. “We’re just starting this,” he admitted.
       
      Marilyn picked it up. “We’ve only had one time with a couple of friends. We liked it, heard about this place, decided to see if we could get into more trouble.”
       
      “Trouble’s our middle name,” I joked.
       
      Our conversation continued, where do you live, what movies have you seen lately, etc. It was a screen, of course, we were all calculating if the four of us would be pleasurable bedmates. I paid my attention to Marilyn, my wife had told me numerous times not to worry about her, she can take care of herself. My hand found Marilyn’s knee, she smiled at me, encouraged me to reach a tad higher. We bent towards each other, our mouths met.
       
      Marilyn opened her lips to me, the kiss was ardent, her mouth moist. She licked at my upper lip, her hand fondled the back of my neck. Our tongues clashed, promising cupidity, mimicking what I presumed our bodies might be doing in a few scant moments.
       
      We broke for a moment, Marilyn invited, “Would you guys want to go to one of the rooms?”
       
      I, of course, was all for it, but then I heard Mary. “Uh, not right now. But thanks.”
       
      We’ve always had the guideline that if one person doesn’t want to do something, she speaks for both of us. Regretfully, I pecked at Marilyn’s lips a last time, we stood, went separate ways.
       
      “You’re not upset, are you?” Mary asked me.
       
      “Of course not, not at all. You’re not in the mood?”
       
      “Oh, I’m in the mood all right, just not with Ed.”
       
      “Something wrong with him?” I asked.
       
      “I tried to get him interested,” Mary revealed, “but his kiss was a little cold, indifferent. I put my hand on his leg, he was too busy watching you and Marilyn, he never responded. My guess is that if we went into a room, he’d be watching you two, I’m not even sure he’d get hard for me.” It was a reasonable thought, it had happened to us a couple times before. “Hope you don’t mind, bet she’d have been a firecracker.”
       
      “Maybe. But you’re a firecracker too.”
       
      We headed back to the dance floor, in search of another couple.
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