How often are you naked before swinging sex begins?

[autumnayr 15]

Being 5'8 and 214 lbs I am a little uncomfortable about just walking around naked or in a t-shirt. I feel sexier in bra and panties. I mean I still have nice DD tits but being almost 49 they feel perkier in my bras But the tummy, well it has seen younger/firmer days

 

So, how often do you become fully naked before sex? Is it something that happens all the time? I don't mind being naked once we are in bed but... This is something I'm sure I will overcome, but being new to this, it will take some time...

 

Thanks.

[velbuzz 17]

Ah, the joys of gravity.

 

We are past the 1/2 century point on the calendar and things aren't as firm as they were , we would like and maybe even as they should be (if you pay close attention to the recommended weight charts). But we also know we are not alone.

 

We just try and keep in as good a shape as possible. We don't mind being naked in front of others because that is the way we are. At that point the personality attractiveness will outweigh the imperfect bodies.

 

Most important to feel comfortable with yourself.

[Spoomonkey 421]

Mrs Spoomonkey is a closet nudist... Only because I've never taken her to a nudist camp/beach/pizza joint.

 

She walks around/sit around naked all the time at the house. She has talked me into joining her once or twice, but I make it maybe five minutes before I have to get something on.

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

I enjoy getting naked as we get into bed. I don't mind running around naked so much once things have gotten started. Once they've seen it, they've seen it. Then again there are times where I just don't mind running around naked!

[EvilMJ 65]

I don't enjoy being naked for no reason...too selfconsious.

 

I do have a habit of flashing people....can't help that it's fun.

 

I don't really mind being naked before bed, during sex, after sex....especially with those who are appreciative of it. Usually I just end up having so much fun I don't care.

 

Did I mention I like to flash people....he he...sorry....but sometimes the twins have a mind of their own.

[BradAndJanet 70]

I'd be naked all the time if I could. Really.

 

We used to shed our clothes the minute we got in the door, but now we have kids - and they're more prudish about it than we are, although Girl has lately taken to yelling, "Don't look!" and running nude from the bathroom to her bedroom after showering. The boy, at 13, is still pretty shy these days.

 

I could see myself enjoying a nudist resort; public nudity doesn't bother me. I know what I've got isn't all that fit at the moment, but I guess I've just learned to accept myself as I am.

[BiNWAR 15]

I haven't seen myself naked since I was 23 and firm.

 

Actually, I wondered that same thing, I'm not comfy getting naked at home in the dark, under the covers, why would I be comfy with someone else in the room? I had thought of maybe getting a sexy outfit that would help hide the scary parts of the body. Truthfully, my insecurities with my body is what is keeping us from enjoying ourselves.

[Sweet_Candy 54]

Too many years being naked in front of guys in the army cured any sense of shyness I might have had...I still have to remind myself and Candy to put undies on around the boys they are at that age (4-7) that everything is ewwww. No bra for her is allowed. We guys in the house don't wear one why should she?

[BiDrywallChick 18]

lol we are for the most part a nude house... My youngest was outside climbing trees naked the other day. I would be naked all the time if I could, gravity be damned. To me.. it's all flesh... we all have it... some of us have more than others... and like me... some of us have boobs that look like oranges in a tube sock.

 

I have never seen "the perfect" body on a real person. I just go with what is comfortable for those I care about.

 

The girls are less modest than my son. He has to have his boxers... The girls... they could care less and will moon anyone. I have no idea where they learned that from. Must be Mr. BID

[eager4more 15]

Too many years being naked in front of guys in the army cured any sense of shyness I might have had...

 

Yes, it is a matter of exposure ( ). As a teen I lived for a year in a country where most households did not have private showers at the time, so everyone used the public bathhouse. Boy did it take awhile for me to get comfortable being naked in front of all those people, even though they were all female! and during busy hours it was CROWDED . But that experience definitely cured me of shyness about nudity!

[curious1103 16]

Just like the Spoos, my wife, though not completely naked, runs around the house in nothing but a tee shirt, nothing else. Big, baggy tee shirts, sometimes not so big or so baggy. We have no kids, just dogs and cats. There've been times when she's greeted the pizza delivery guy in just her tee shirt and a smile. We'd have a laugh afterwards while stuffing our faces and figure out if he saw anything and what he'd be telling the guys back at the pizza joint.

 

I'm a little bit more prudish and need to wear at least soccer or running shorts. Just a little concerned and protective of the crown jewels just hanging all exposed like that.

[good times 991]

I'm allergic to the sun so you won't see me naked outside in the daytime, I can get sunburned at midnight with a full moon.

 

Because of lack of experiance getting naked in front of strangers I am a little shy about it. On the other hand, my skin is so bright white that it tends to blind any onlookers, so even if I am naked nobody really see's me.

 

Just the other night, we were at a house party in the play room and some of the couples were having trouble seeing each other because the lighting was a little low. I got undressed and brightened the room right up, and I didn't even have any afterglow going yet.

[Tom & Bonnie 99]

Matter of fact... I'm nekid right now!

 

I work in the yard naked all the time. I really enjoy it. Course we do have 7 acres and live at the end of a cul de sac so it's easier for us.

 

Bonnie will get naked sometimes at the pool but not when all three boys are home. We both enjoy nude resorts and naked pool parties with other adults...

[WesternSwing 504]

You know, I guess it just depends on where you are naked. I personally have no qualms about it in most situations. Mrs. WS has had two kids and she is a little self-concious about her tummy and such, but it hasn't stopped her from being naked in a swinging situation. I remember one occasion where we were in a hot tub with two other couples, one woman said she needed another drink or something, but she was too self-concious to get out and get it. Now mind you, she definitely had the best body in the hot tub. A great body by anybody's standards. But she wouldn't get out. Mrs. WS got out and got it for her.

 

On the other hand we were at an event a couple of weeks ago where nudity was allowed, but both of us kept our clothes on in the public areas. So again, it goes back to where we are determining how comfortable we are being naked. More intimate settings are much more comfortable then a club or party.

[autumnayr 15]

So I guess most people have some sort of shyness about "naked" to some degree! That's nice to hear! I guess once we have our first experience, I will know what to expect. I just hope I have someone as nice as all of you to experience it with, to make me feel that comfortable.

So I take it, with my description, you would not jump up and run if you saw my body coming towards you

 

thanks again........you guys are great !

[cjlondonuk 15]

I've not got the most perfect body, but I've never really been that self-conscious and I enjoy being naked whenever I can. I enjoy going to mixed saunas and in the summer I'll head off to the coast and go to the beaches that allow nude sunbathing. There's nothing like the feeling of a sea breeze on your skin to make you feel alive and as for swimming in the sea - wonderful.

 

These visits though are only for a few hours and I always wondered how I'd handle being at a naturist resort for a few days. So a couple of years ago I did exactly that and booked 7 days at a hotel in Vera Playa, southern Spain. After the initial odd feeling of being able to wander naked anywhere around the hotel, I soon relaxed and had a marvellous time. It was the most liberating experience of my life and by the end of the week it was really depressing having to revert back to textile life again. I haven't been back since but I'm busy saving up to go again next year - this thread has got me yearning again.

[xxoticangel 99]

Nudity is the rule rather than the exception in our house when the kids are gone. During the summer, when the kids are away at some event/camp more than they are home, we are usually nude within minutes of getting home and stay that way until time to leave the house again. We also vacation at a lifestyle friendly nude resort at least once a year. The worst part about being nude for a week is remembering to put clothes on when we walk outside once we get home.

[EternallySingle 32]

I'm a nudist at heart. I truly believe the only reason clothes exist in moderate climates only as a way to instantly relate your social status, interests, income level, and group affiliations to others. Ever look at winter clothes? No matter how much they cost, the only thing that seperates a $40.00 winter parka from a $4000.00 parka is the label. The same with bathing suits. Unless you look at the label, you can hardly tell a suit from Max 10 from a suit from a top fashion designer. Well, at least not a suit that is actually meant to touch the water.

 

Nudity is the great equalizer. Without clothes, we would actually have to talk to people to learn about their socio-economic background, and by the time we did, we would probably like the person too much to care.

[highlander 21]

I'm a nudist at heart. I truly believe the only reason clothes exist in moderate climates only as a way to instantly relate your social status, interests, income level, and group affiliations to others

 

I think that social status issues are a part of clothing. The other issue though: clothing can desexualize a culture/community. I'm not terribly keen personally on nudity in situations in which there isn't a bit of community-or a serious mutual commitment to creating such a community.

[tryit2? 15]

Interesting question. With summertime heat, less clothing is better. Mrs. likes less than me, but is self concious about a scar around other people. Just the 2 of us and she sheds pretty fast. Now myself on the other hand, I like minimal covering around the house, but regular jeans and such outside, just because of the work I do. (Try welding nekkid sometime, LOL) (hoo boy, even with clothes those little sparks can make you move!)

 

Another reason for the clothes for me, not self consious about size/weight, but I am Hairy! I am semi self-concious about that. All the ads we see are for the smooth bodies. That is not me! I have more hair on my butt than most people our age have on their heads! I tryed shaving one time only, and the wife would have none of it again. Wouldn't touch me for about 2 weeks until it grew out more, No sex with a cactus for her! LOL And trying to explain to DR. with a straight face about all those ingrown hairs!!! (and yes,it really is that bad) I just had to throw in my odd humor, thanks.

[reed&diana 17]

We have been nudists for over 15 years. It is a very liberating thing to do. The first thing that we do when we get home form work is to take our clothes off. Everyone should spend a day at a nudist club. After a couple hours there, it will seem so natural. It's hard to understand why people wear clothes even when alone. It's you, who you are.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

so, how often do you become fully naked before sex? Is it something that happens all the time? I don't mind being naked once we are in bed but...

 

We usually wouldn't be naked before the foreplay and sex starts. Exceptions to that have been if there was a hot tub or pool involved, then yes.

 

Taking that further to after sex (and this is assuming we are with a familiar couple at their house or something, not a club setting), then Mrs cplnuswing will usually get at least partially dressed, like just putting on a t-shirt and nothing else, or maybe panties and t-shirt. I'm more prone to stay naked a little longer, but won't spend the whole evening that way.

 

Same pattern more or less holds true at home. I'll get up from having slept naked, have morning coffee on the back deck naked, and won't get dressed until I've showered and ready for the day. She'll usually have at least something on. Come the weekend though, she has no problem spending all afternoon naked out by the pool and will just stay that way if she comes in for a little while to some chores or something. I like those times

[adamgunn 1,460]

Before foreplay starts, we've rarely been naked. Of course if we've been in a hot tub or swimming pool, people have seen us au natural.

 

After sex, particularly at our our someone else's home, the wife and I like to hang out naked with them and converse. Often, the looks over cherry pie start the second round . . .

 

Just to chime in, I'm a nudist by choice, the wife tends to wear nighties to bed.

[Guest]

Most of the time, we don’t start out naked. I mean a lot of our MFM start at a bar. I’m dressed a bit on the sexy side, may undo a few buttons once the flirt talk starts but deinitly dressed. Even at a couples club, we start out dressed, again, a bit more sexy or slutty then the norm. The exceptions are places like nudist colonies, resorts like Desires. There, you’re naked all day but many times, the party doesn’t get going until late night in the “night club” where the ladies are dressed by sexually.

[TricianMike 775]

It depends on the circumstances and where we are. If we are meeting a new man Mike and I like to start with all of us dressed. Part of our fun is the undressing. If we are meeting a new couple of just a random man I enjoy going a little slow and Michael enjoys watching. Possibly a little kissing, I normally will give a little touch below, a tease, some men will be hard before the real fun begins. I usually remain dressed as I slowly open his pants. I try to stay dressed and then let the person undress me. It’s fun, it’s sensual and Michael likes to watch. Each encounter is different and the speed to nakedness can vary.