Women's experiences with BBC, and a Black man's perspective.

[Jonna84 15]

Hi everyone!

 

I was thinking today black guys (or dreaming ). I've heard people saying that black guys would have bigger "gear" than their white (or any other color) fellows. I haven't had a chance to make a proper research myself, if you know what I mean... So, does anybody have a real life experience on that? Is it true? Are they better lovers than others?

 

My friend was on a holiday once in Jamaica and caught a local man there. She really was all smile two or three weeks after that and didn't talk about anything else. I really wouldn't have wanted to hear all the details she told. Okay it did make my imagination to fly...

 

What do you think, was she just lucky to meet a "good" guy or are all the black men that good? I know generalization shouldn't be made but...

[sam+steve 16]

I met a black, German guy in Corfu. My husband and I got very friendly with him. I eventually slept with him all night. I was amazed with his size (10") and stamina. My husband couldn't wait for the details in the morning, so yes, black guys are better...

[Zoe&Wash 93]

I've got to say most of the ones I've been with were pretty much average (though it's not like I've been with hundreds or anything like that )

 

One fella was exceptionally large; another was exceptional small....and the small guy sure as heck didn't know what he was doing -- not at all!!!

 

Overall, IMHO, they're no different than white guys. Some are smaller. Some are bigger. Some are really good lovers, and others not so much.

 

Personally, I can't help but wonder how these rumors get started.

[dave110256 21]

Isn't it racist to say any race is better than the others, at anything?...talk about stereotyping.

[Spoomonkey 421]

Isn't it racist to say any race is better than the others, at anything?...talk about stereotyping.

 

It could be viewed that way - but I like to consider these people's opinions. And like all opinions, they have root in experience, but not general fact. And with such opinions - The mind that is bothered by it is even smaller than the mind that believes it.

 

My opinion (there's that word again) is just let people live and play according to their preferences and not get bent out of shape about it. You make a very good point, Dave. And it certainly is sad that folks would objectify black men the way that is done in the lifestyle. But - they share those opinions for one of two reasons - an honesty about how they feel - or an attempt to get a rise from a group of folks.

 

Their honest opinion? I can respect that.

 

Getting a rise? Let's just not bite...

[intuition897 2,179]

I hope this isn't going to get me labeled as racist, because I really could care less what someone's ethnic background is. Just as long as we find them physically attractive and as long as they have an attractive personality, sure, we'll play with them, NP.

 

So here's my controversial statement. I have yet to have sex with someone who is black, so I can't really speak from experience (I love the idea of it though, just for the visual contrast in skin tones). But I really don't think there's anything racist in saying that there ARE differences between races. Recognizing those differences, appreciating them, and perhaps having a preference for them isn't racist. Generalizing and stereotyping, using words like all, none, always and never are racist. Do races have tendencies? Sure they do. Tendencies to have light or dark skin, tendencies to have a particular kind of bone structure, tendencies to achieve a certain height, tendencies to develop certain diseases or immunities to diseases, lifespan tendencies, vocal tendencies, even personality tendencies... And since genetics play such a huge part in racial identity, doesn't it make sense that talents or adeptness at certain things, certain skills, would perhaps favour one race or another? That's not to say that one race or another is better...just that, while it has yet to be proven, if research dared to venture into such controversial territory, they'd likely find that there were differences in abilities between races. Just as some people need to really work at something, while other people just take to it like a duck to water, why is recognition of that racist? It's not a racial slur, it's just common sense.

[Jonna84 15]

It's too bad that this discussion headed to racism. It was not the point. Of course there are differences between races. That's why there are races. If everybody had the same qualities, they would belong to the same race, right?

That said, I totally agree with intuition897.

 

I realize that there are different kind of individuals. I was asking your own experiences. As I've experienced that white people have more often blonde hair than black people, I'm asking whether you have experienced black people having bigger you know what.

 

Sorry if someone understood there to be something racist. There's not!

[Alura 2,775]

One must keep in mind that the black people in the United States are not typical of the black people in Africa, but history is the cause of this, not racial differences.

 

When people were being kidnapped in Africa to be sold as slaves in the Americas, the slave traders chose the young, healthy, big and strong and left the elderly, infirm and little people alone. Simply put, the big, healthy people survived the horrendous conditions on the slave ships better and brought bigger prices on the auction block.

 

Today, American black people are descendants of the slaves brought here. It's my opinion that is why blacks excel in sports and make up a disproportionate number of professional athletes. They are descended from the "cream of the crop."

 

If the Europeans had not invaded and Native Americans had been trading buffalo hides for six-foot, six-inch slaves from the Scandinavian countries, today's athletes in America would be mostly blond-haired and blue-eyed. Cherokee girls would be gossiping about how hung white guys are.

 

Barry Switzer, former Head Coach of the Oklahoma Sooners, made a similar statement at one time and was severely criticized as being "racist." I expect the same for this post. (I don't think Barry said anything about cock size and I have no knowledge of the subject.)

 

Personal research is probably the best answer if one is curious.

[Vespertine 31]

I don't think your post is racial at all, Al.

 

I think it makes perfect sense. I never thought of it that way.

[BradAndJanet 70]

I've often speculated about the same thing, Al, and I believe you may be right.

[sam+steve 16]

My question wasn't racially motivated at all, it's just I find the color difference so exciting. Does it mean men who prefer blondes are taking a biased view? No, just different people find different things attractive.

[intuition897 2,179]

My question wasn't racially motivated at all, it's just I find the color difference so exciting. Does it mean men who prefer blondes are taking a biased view? No, just different people find different things attractive.

 

My long-winded response was to dave110256's comment that we were stereotyping. The original question was quite clear. But now that we've kinda cleared the air about everyone's feelings on the matter...I have no idea! Like I said, I've never had sex with a black man OR woman, but I'd certainly be interested in giving it a go A little hands-on research...

[themonster 15]

If you trust Oprah Winfrey, she said on one of her shows that it is FACTUAL, not a myth, that black guys are hung more so than white guys, and white guys more so than Asians. Now with that being said it doesn't mean that a larger white guy isn't bigger than an average black guy...so choose wisely.

[EvilMJ 65]

My personal opinon is that I take everyone as an individual and do not judge by sterotypes.

 

If I were to base it on experience...I have had three different men...and they were the same as white men...all various sizes and shapes.

 

Like it was said earlier, I think this is something you would have to research yourself to get the answer you want.

[invisibletouch 15]

I've had the pleasure of playing with some great black guys. I didn't get a sneak preview so had no idea what kind of package I would be enjoying. Of the 7 I've enjoyed spending time with the smallest was 8.5"!!

 

Coincidence maybe, lucky definitely!

[PiNKFLoYD 16]

When people were being kidnapped in Africa to be sold as slaves in the Americas, the slave traders chose the young, healthy, big and strong and left the elderly, infirm and little people alone. Simply put, the big, healthy people survived the horrendous conditions on the slave ships better and brought bigger prices on the auction block.

In reality, there was very, very little "kidnapping" of Africans for the slave trade. That is a modern day historical myth. The vast majority of them were actually sold into slavery by their African kings, not kidnapped.

[Alura 2,775]

You may be right, Pink Floyd; I've not done a lot of research.

 

Now, the article I read (It may have been in National Geographic, but I don't remember for sure.) told an extensive story about military units operating out of the huge slave-prisons that were established on Africa's west coast.

 

Those guys were mostly Arabs who trapped Africans in one way or another. I remember that they referred to their prey as "the enemy." They often bludgeoned them and hoped they survived but didn't regain conscious until they were "secured." Large groups of "the enemy" were marched in irons to the prisons where they were held until a slave ship came. Then they were chained in the holds of the ships and not released until they arrived at a major slave-trading operation (most on the Caribbean islands) where the survivors were auctioned off.

 

It seems reasonable that some African kings could have sold their subjects into slavery. I have no idea which method procured more slaves.

[viper31631 15]

Playboy actually did a study on this. I can't remember the exact lengths but if I can remember correctly the average length for a black man was 0.1 inches larger than that of a white man. Essentially there was no difference however the average Asian was 0.5 inch smaller than a Caucasian.

[PiNKFLoYD 16]

I dated a black woman for several years. I found the contrast in skin tones very erotic, and she was a very sweet person, and a skilled and passionate lover.

 

She said that the whole thing about black guys was a myth. Some are well hung and some are not.

[FlaPlaya561 48]

I would really enjoy sucking a huge big back cock ....esp in front of a female helping me and cheering me on! I guess since ive downloaded so many pictures like that on here. If anyone wants to see my fav pics let me know

[sexy3 15]

In my experience MOST black men are larger than white men. Yes, some black men are VERY small and some are too LARGE. But MOST are great lovers!

[jenniferblue 16]

Hi all . Ok, I do have experience in this. My ex-husband was black (married 12 years) and I have dated 6 or 7 black guys. It's actually pretty evenly divided down the middle as far as the # of black guys I've been with v/s the number of white guys lol. NONE of the black guys were well endowed (one was a little better than average). All of the guys were 6 ft plus, athletic types.....but their package certainly wasn't anything to brag about. Whether they were good lovers or not, mostly no with the surprising occasional exception. The biggest guys that I've ever been with were tall, skinny, white guys (all of them seem to be well endowed ) so that's my favorite type of guy...think Tommy Lee...need I say more?

[LIZA 20]

I've been intimate with 3 or 4 black men, but probably seen a dozen or more nude.

 

I would say in my experience that they were all above average to just HUGE.

 

Not better or worse at sex than other races, it's really more an individual thing.

 

Sure, once in awhile you run across a very large white man, but with black it seems to be the rule rather than the exception.

[bunnyrabbits 17]

Check out the data in the Definitive Penis Size Survey. They have even broken down the results by race.

 

Definitive Penis Size Survey Results

[My77038 15]

Well there aren't very many black people here I take It. Not that it matters. Now the question kept as it was, was not offensive at all until some just took the question waaay left. We( me )being a black woman have been with many black men and other races as well in my experiences( which is what the what question was asking I thought) It's about even I think between black white and latino. in my experiences). I have found that a lot of the black men that I have been with have been very thick and wide not so much long. But good question any way. It's an age old question.

[Pepper & Drew 384]

Well there aren't very many black people here I take It. Not that it matters. Now the question kept as it was, was not offensive at all until some just took the question waaay left. We( me )being a black woman have been with many black men and other races as well in my experiences( which is what the what question was asking I thought) It's about even I think between black white and latino. (in my experiences). I have found that a lot of the black men that I have been with have been very thick and wide not so much long. But good question any way. It's an age old question.

 

I second that! The myth that black men are bigger, longer, harder, better than other men is just that...a myth. I've had some great times with black men and some really bad, can't we just forget it ever happened times with black men. But, it's all about what's between your ears instead of what's between your legs. If you think that black men are better in bed, and then you "hook up" with a black man, it's going to be better because you've anticipated that it will be. That's my theory anyway...

[hotchocolate 15]

Forget race, men vary in dick size across the board. Yes, my hubby is black and he has a nice package, but I have seen other well sized packages on different races.

[daisy girl 34]

Been with different races. There are small and big men of all races. Don't fall for the stereotypes.

[havefuninsun 122]

I hate hate HATE stereo-typing of any sort. All skin color is is nothing more than what kind of wrapping paper the present is being given in. Unwrap the present to see what's inside. (BTW, I love all kinds of wrapping paper ... )

[JDApopka 54]

I (Deb) have enjoyed 3 black guys so far, all were very nice and respectful and were most definitely above average in size

[sereneiders 263]

I've read some members say "there's no difference" and others go for "they're big to huge", which is something interesting by itself and make me wonder a couple of things.

 

1) One thing is the measure, another is the perception of the measure. If you shave or trim your pubic hair, your cock will look bigger. The perception of size have to do with comparing something with it surroundings: a fat man, even when well endowed, may be seen a carrying a little package just because we see it next to his belly. So I wonder if there could be a visual effect by means of which a black cock of the same size than a white one could be perceived as being bigger.

 

2) I wonder how badly affects this stereotype of "big black cocks" to the black guys. I mean, let suppose a black guy with an average cock, given this stereotype, he may perceive himself as being "tinny" (just because it's supposed he'd be hung), and this may affect him in such a way that he would avoid showing it off. So, I wonder if there could be a trend set, so that the average or less than average black guy could feel more ashamed than the average or less than average Caucasian, to the point that there are more well endowed black guys showing off, while Caucasians, caring less about the size (since they don't have an expectation to fulfill) show off disregarding more the size, and as a result, what's being SEEN is that "most" black guys are well endowed.

 

Well... it's just a thought.

[deusex 15]

I read somewhere that simply black men seem bigger pre-erection. While whites do shrink more and thus seem smaller until the hour that counts.

 

Now that may differ of course...

 

In any case without having any experience neither of us), I think they're probably the same with whites.

[jj06 15]

I think they black guys and white guys are about the same. Some are big, some are small.

 

Soph has had a black guy who was 6", and a white guy that was 11".

 

I read somewhere that back in the old days of Africa and even still today, they stretch their dick's so they're bigger, and apparently because they all go round with 12" penises, people tend to think all black guys will be big.

[willyoats 324]

Our experience with black men is limited to maybe 6 or 7, a pretty small sample to draw firm conclusions from. Anecdotally, however we both think the biggest cock, by far, that my wife ever had was attached to a big black man.

 

The flaccid length is bigger in black guys than white, which may lead to the perception that they are better hung. But then that means that the amount they change from flaccid to erect is less. Generally, the erect size is not much different Also, a smaller percentage got really hard during intercourse than white guys.

 

On the other hand, they were almost always more sensual than white guys. (The one exception was the guy with the giant cock.) It was as though they were really enjoying pleasuring a woman instead of just getting their rocks off. That was a big plus.

[ShellyM 0]

Hi everyone!

 

I was thinking today black guys (or dreaming ). I've heard people saying that black guys would have bigger "gear" than their white (or any other color) fellows.

I haven't had a chance to make a proper research myself, if you know what I mean... So, does anybody have a real life experience on that? Is it true? Are they better lovers than others?

 

My friend was on a holiday once in Jamaica and caught a local man there. She really was all smile two or three weeks after that and didn't talk about anything else. I really wouldn't have wanted to hear all the details she told. Okay it did make my imagination to fly...

 

What do you think, was she just lucky to meet a "good" guy or are all the black men that good? I know generalization shouldn't be made but...

 

Now, I have no personal experience with black men....but I have lots of friends who do lol. They have told me that black men are very well endowed. I don't care, I prefer white bread lol.

[Guest Woodpecker]

I've been with many black gentlemen over the years and it's my favorite thing to do. This question is funny since we only get together with black men who are above average in size. And we haven't had any trouble finding them. I've seen some appendages that made my jaw drop and my pussy and butt sore for a couple of days afterwards. I really like black men and they are great at making love, in my opinion.

[Rockme 15]

This is 100% my opinion based on what my wife and I have found. We have been with a few black guys in our time. Yes, we have found a couple to have HUGE packages! Rather they were great lovers or not, that is open for discussion. We have also been with some white guys who have had HUGE packages! Rather they were any better of a lover, again open for question. The biggest guy either of us has ever been with was a white guy. The smallest guy either of us can remember being with was a black guy. Sorry if that spoils the party a little. I think rather it is TV, movies or just plain rumors, America has become fascinated by black guys and what they are packing. It is like anything else in life, if you go looking for something you will find it. So, if you want a black guy with a huge package, I bet you will find one. For us, the wife and I, it does not matter. We have had good and bad in both.

 

I have talked about this before on another post called “racial mix.” This statement is not meant as a racist remark. I am speaking from 100% my opinion and actual people we have dealt with. A few, not all, of the black guys we dealt with tend to get into an ego thing. My wife and I are white. Some have gotten a kick out of “giving it to them good” to a race there past relatives would not have been aloud to do! When something like that has happened it kills the mood. But then again, it is like anything else in life. You have to watch out for the players who have a motive.

[SuAndBud 23]

Hi. Bud here coz I can't resist this subject.

 

I remember when I was about 20 or 21 and a woman (not a girl - a woman) came briefly into my life. She was 33 (I remember that), she looked so old to me, yet had such an air of confident sexuality about her.

 

I was working behind the bar in a hotel and she was a guest on her own. On her second night when she was sat alone at the bar, the hotel manager - being aware she was travelling solo and being closer to her age than I was as well as being my boss thought he'd make a play for her, even though we were having a laugh together. She firmly but gently let him know he wasn't getting anywhere by saying "I've a guest staying over tonight" and winking at yours truly so he couldn't see. I at that stage was a young guy with the world at my feet. I had guaranteed sex every night (if I could be bothered) as in addition to other, more general conquests, I had a situation whereby three of the waitresses at the hotel (we were all "living-in" at the hotel) used to come and ask for the key to my room and I used to either give it over to the first or lie and say "Melanie's/Trisha's/Linda's already there". No problem (this was pre-AIDS days).

 

Anyway, Sophie (the "older" lady) waited for the boss to go chat to another guest and took her leave with a "G'nite. Hope to see you later".

 

I was intrigued but repelled same time. This is like wanting your mum to me at 20/21. 33 years old was, umm, old. After an hour I closed the bar and was half way to my room where I knew Linda was waiting and would be watching TV, but thought to myself "ahhh you're only here once". I checked the register and found Sophie's room number after which I made my way to her door.

 

Knock-knock. I was crapping myself. This was a sackable offense - to bother a guest after they've retired to their bed (especially one who's given the boss the knock-back - lol). An age passed but just as I was ready to run, I heard a fumble at the door. Far from being asleep, she had been in the bath and was dressed in two towels, only. One around the waist and another around her boobs. "Hello" she said. "What brings you here?" (full of confidence). "I...erm...We were...I mean, I was enjoying our chat when you left so I thought I'd...". "You want to come in for a chat?" she laughed. A long pause ensued and I was on the point of bidding goodnight. "You'd better come in then" she said.

 

I entered and sat down on the bed while she finished her bath. While I was there I moved to various sitting positions on the bed - trying to strike the best pose of sophisticated nonchelance for when she returned to the room. At one point I noticed a magazine just under the bedspread. I dug it out expecting a Cosmopolitan or whatever. I think it was actually called "Black Studs" or something similar and was filled with pictures of well-hung gentleman of Afro-Carribean extraction. "At least she likes cock" I can remember thinking. I replaced it and waited for her to finish her bath.

 

She eventually did so and we were finally on the bed together. We talked awhile and I moved (imperceptibly, I thought) towards a more prone position facing her own. "Oh, now we get to the 'let's get laid down on the bed together' part of the routine" she observed.

 

That was it for me. My head said "Fuck this and fuck you, who do you think you are". My mouth was about to say. "Maybe I should go now, sorry to keep you up and it was nice talking with you".

 

Sophie beat me to it. "Tell you what would be better? It'd be better if you took your clothes off and got in here with me". What's a young boy to do? lol.

 

She knew more about sex than any of the girls my own age. She introduced me to menthol-infused baby oil penis and pussy enhanced stimulation, for one thing - wow.

 

After we'd had full sex the first time she said "That was so good. For a while I closed my eyes and thought you were black".

 

So it's true about black guys, I surmised. Being young foolish and like a bull in a China Shop I asked her if she'd had sex with a lot of black guys. "I tend to go for black guys mainly" she said. "Do most of 'em have big cocks" I asked. "Truth?! - No" she confided. "But unlike the average white male, black guys have a 'big-cock' attitude" she continued. "They're more confident in bed and are very good at giving pleasure - or at least make a damn good effort to give pleasure to a woman - you're a refreshing exception, but you are young".

 

So that's it. Black guys are no bigger in the size department.

 

I know this, too, as Su and I are a mixed race couple. Su's seen more than the average share of black (and other coloured) willies and confirms they're no larger nor smaller than white ones.

[SuAndBud 23]

By the way, Su says this is the first time she's ever felt herself to be classed as a "fetish" strictly because of her race per se.

[JacobSky 17]

One must keep in mind that the black people in the United States are not typical of the black people in Africa, but history is the cause of this, not racial differences.

 

When people were being kidnapped in Africa to be sold as slaves in the Americas, the slave traders chose the young, healthy, big and strong and left the elderly, infirm and little people alone. Simply put, the big, healthy people survived the horrendous conditions on the slave ships better and brought bigger prices on the auction block.

 

Today, American black people are descendants of the slaves brought here. It's my opinion that is why blacks excel in sports and make up a disportionate number of professional athletes. They are descended from the "cream of the crop."

 

If the Europeans had not invaded and Native Americans had been trading buffalo hides for six-foot, six-inch slaves from the Scandanavian countries, today's athletes in America would be mostly blond-haired and blue-eyed. Cherokee girls would be gossiping about how hung white guys are.

 

Barry Switzer, former Head Coach of the Oklahoma Sooners, made a similar statement at one time and was severely criticized as being "racist." I expect the same for this post. (I don't think Barry said anything about cock size and I have no knowledge of the subject.)

 

Personal research is probably the best answer if one is curious.

 

Mr. Alura

 

Mr. Alura, I agree with you.

 

I was surprised a couple of years ago when my 74 year old aunt told me that black men had larger penises because the slave owners used to buy them at auction while they were naked and would choose the largest framed and largest endowed male for better work performance and breeding success. The then white plantation owner's ego probably indirectly played a role in purchasing the largest African. I can only imagine what went on. Then some sexual couplings were planned between slaves to continue producing strong offspring.

 

This is an extremely harsh description, but this is what my 74 year old aunt told me. In fact, I think sports brought it up, but I can't remember clearly. Maybe it wasn't some old fashioned disapproval she had about interracial relationships. I cannot remember.

[JacobSky 17]

If you trust Oprah Winfrey, she said on one of her shows that it is FACTUAL, not a myth, that black guys are hung more so than white guys, and white guys more so than Asians. Now with that being said it doesn't mean that a larger white guy isn't bigger than an average black guy....so choose wisely.

 

I have read many penis size studies and facts about penis size in the last 10 years. Many studies show that the average black male is about .5" larger than the average white male. Also, the average Asian is about 1" shorter than white men. Studies also show that black men's flaccid penises hand longer when flaccid due to their race evolving in a warm climate. This is an example of micro evolution, not macro evolution such as one species changing into another. All of the limbs of the Africans tend to be longer. The longer limbs act like radiators keeping the body cooler more easily. On the opposite end of the scale, the Inuit or Eskimos have larger midsections or trunks and shorter limbs. This enables the body to stay warmer in cold climates. I learned about this in a cultural anthropology class. There is a specific name for this limb size micro evolution. Longer limbs make for better athletes also. Faster ones usually due to added mobility. The penis experts claim this is the case for the black man's flaccid penis which is usually always that of a "shower" as opposed to being a "grower". They have a lower coefficient of expansion, as Gary Griffin, the author Penis Enlargement Facts and Phallacies would put it. They may easily be an inch longer while flaccid, but their average erect size is just above the average white man's penis size. One study showed most of the mid range and small endowed guys of all races to be similarly endowed, yet the black had four 9" + penises per hundred and the white had one 9" plus per hundred participants. The rest of the average guys were all about the same regardless of race, in that study.

[Mr. Hump alot 15]

Hey jonna84, being a black man myself I did not find your question racial at all. I take pride in pleasing my wife or the partner I'm with to make sure that they are enjoying themselves. I pay close attention to what makes them happy

[ShellyM 0]

I do not have any personal experience with African American men. However, I have lots of friends that absolutely love being with them. And I will tell you what. Almost every one of them told me that it is not the size of the man's penis that makes them go wow! It is the fact that they were very sensual and attentive to the woman's needs. She walked away feeling like a star, and that is what they remember and appreciated the most.

[nikki77 15]

Hi. No doubt that the black guys have big cocks and they know how to use it, they know well about the all buttons of women.

[cona2k 15]

only one way to find out

[beachguyz 25]

Dude, explore your fantasies.

[lovers 25]

I'm a married Black male. Some observations:

 

- I'm not the biggest guy around. I'm about 8" long and thick enough to stretch a woman but not enough to hurt if you catch my drift. (To put that in perspective, My wife has a Italian/Spanish "boyfriend" who my length but is beer can thick. So that IMHO shoots down that whole size thing)

 

- I'm always amazed by white women who say that I am huge when I'm inside them considering that I know that they've been with guys who are bigger than I. It makes me think that some of this "size" thing is psychological.

 

- I generally get sought out at parties and clubs by (mostly) white husbands and (sometimes) white wives for some "fun" with the common themes being "I want a Black experience." However, I've also heard from a couple of women who are "black only" even to the exclusion of their husbands.

 

- The most outrageous thing that I've heard is the whole "Black breeding" angle. I've received e-mails asking if I would be willing to participate in "Breeding gang bangs" with other Black males and to go one-on-one with their wives and "breed" them. Granted that all of that is talk, but my best guess is that it adds to the excitement of the encounter.

 

- Some other Black guys in the lifestyle have heard of rape fantasies as well. Not something that I've experienced myself though.

 

- I'm normally a very caring and considerate lover, but that's not some White women want. They want the "thug" type of black male that you often see in those "gangsta" porn videos. I guess it's part of the fantasy for them.

 

I guess the bottom line is that IMHO, it's more than just simply dick size. It's about a bunch of (for lack of a better description) perceptions about black males (that have likely been around for a few centuries and have come from some unfortunate periods in Western civilization) that White women or couples want to experience. Is some of this potentially racist or stereotypical? Perhaps. But, if that's what floats their boat, then it's okay as long as it isn't taken too far IMHO.

 

I hope that provides some perspective to this conversation.

[Guest screaminggood]

I must agree there is truth to the rumor. The black men I've been with have been both big and fantastic lovers. If it makes me racist, then I'm racist, but I definitely want more of them...no apologies, and no cares if it's politically incorrect!

[Vjklander 138]

From our experience which granted isn't a huge sample size, race is not an indicator of penis size. All races have big, small, and in-between. I think a lot of the 'myth' occurs because if someone is LOOKING for a black guy with a huge cock, well, they will FIND a black man with a large cock. Also, if someone is looking for a fun, adventurous, passionate, respectful male of any race, well, THAT is what they will find too.

[spellbound2010 15]

I'm black and didn't find the op question racist. I think I'm average, 7inches, but my wife loves it and that's all I care about. I hear the stereotypes, but have seen white guys with bigger penises than mine. Just my .02