It's official - We're no longer newbies!!!

[Spoomonkey 421]

In life, we all pass mile stones... Sometimes we stop and take a picture, sometimes we drive by, only realizing once we've passed it the significance of what we barely noticed.

 

One such mile stone was passed this Friday night - and it is only now that we realize what it meant.

 

We went to the club, expecting to hook up with a couple that we had met a few weekes before, but they didn't show... But, it was a fun crowd and a fun night, so that didn't bother us at all. We stayed, played pool, and as the night went on met this other couple who completely took our mind off being "stood up".

 

The wife flirted with me, I flirted with the wife and at some point, I leaned over to her and said, "let's just cut through the crap. You beat us at this game of pool and you get whatever you want - winner take all."

 

I gotta tell ya, for a lady who was only playing her third pool game, she played like a person possessed. And - as happens often to us - we lost the game. And to the winner went the spoils.

 

It was a good time - and the four of us made plenty of noise. I'll spare you the details...

 

Mrs Spoomonkey and I got home - had some late night Taco Bell (God bless Taco Bell) - and then made neighbor waking monkey love, as is our ritual. And then, in the after glow, Mrs Spoomonkey asks me, "What were their names?"

 

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"I don't know..." I said somewhat surprised.

 

I can tell you the name of every person we have played with since getting into the lifestyle over two years ago. And that is no small feat! But I couldn't tell you the name of this couple to save my life - and to be honest, I really don't think names were ever mentioned by anyone. They are simply "that one couple" and no further clarification could be given. I could tell you what she was wearing as I memorized it stitch by stitch as she took it off - I can tell you how her hair looked when she told me to "get naked" and "get on the bed, bitch!" - and I can tell you, with a large hand gestures, exactly what her boobs looked like, swinging in my face like they did...

 

But a name?

 

I didn't bother to get that...

 

We have evolved, brethren. We are no longer newbies.

[Guest Mr&Mrs-naughty]

Welcome brother, we have been waiting for you.

 

We have done the same and didn't realize that we didn't even know his name. (I would bring up the event, but it seems to be a touchy subject in another thread )

But it was the next day when Mrs Naughty asked me "What was his name again?" I said "I don't know, I thought you knew."

 

It is kind of crazy sometimes, isn't it?

[TNT 1,155]

Spoomonkey said:

We have evolved, brethren. We are no longer newbies.

 

Welcome to the club

[Chicup 41]

 

We almost never know last names, but Mrs. Chicup always remembers the first ones. Next time I'll tell her not to ask so we can join the club too

[bear_and_babe 68]

Bear and I were at the club one night, and we were in a room with the door open. We NEVER do that. As it happens this guy was standing at the door watching, and I asked him to come in. We have a great 3some, and he left. The next day I was updating our "Contact List" when I asked Bear what the guy's name was. I am not sure either one of us asked!

 

So, I guess I am a member of the club!

[Sweet_Candy 54]

We're still newbs! Guess we have to keep trying. Sounds like our kind of club. facelick

[EvilMJ 65]

Hey guys, good going. I have no idea where I am in the grand scheme of newbieness. Probably becuase the swinger community around here is very small we tend to know each other very well. Most of the time I know their first name (even before I have met them).

 

Every Friday night we have a get together at a vanilla bar, a bunch of swingers all go out for fun (usually it is very vanilla and tame). HOwever, I ended up making out (among other things that I hope their security cameras did not catch ) with a guy who I only knew in passing (still don't know his last name). My friend commented at the end of the night that she had no idea that I knew him so well, to which i responded "I don't". I would have had no problem getting together with them that night if hubby had been there, but alas he was home. (not that we won't in future...man i love those tall men!!)

 

I guess we are not newbies .....I wonder if there is a scale out there..

[playmatesinpgh 18]

Congats Mr. and Mrs. Spoomonkey.... Let the good times continue... facelick... Sometimes those,,,Let's see, what should we call them??? Zippless f@#ks maybe... Are just the best!!!

[ALilOEverything 901]

Wow! I guess you aren't newbies anymore, seems like there should be some kind of ceremony for that

 

I guess we're still mostly newbies as there is only one couple I don't know their last name!

[eager4more 15]

In life, we all pass mile stones... Sometimes we stop and take a picture, sometimes we drive by, only realizing once we've passed it the significance of what we barely noticed.

 

So didya take a picture? Share share!

[good times 991]

Congrats Spoo's,

 

I guess we are still newbies then because the closest we can come to that is one couple we played with that told us their names at the time but neither of us can remember what their names were now.

[northindycpl 32]

Yes... it is an odd thing, as Mr. Indy puts it - He know exactly what she sounds like when she cums, but for the life of him, can't remember anything else.

[iowancouple96 15]

Congratulations! We hope to join the same club someday. All in good time

[Pepper & Drew 384]

Funny you should mention it, because we had a similar situation recently. We played with a couple after talking to them all night at a social, then it took me until about 11 am the next day to remember what his name was. We did remember their SLS username, so it was all good because we definitely wanted to see them again. So, I guess we're in the club too!

 

Pepper

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

Which begs the question just what does distinguish a newbie from an experienced swinger? It seems in your case it was jumping from the "getting to know you" to the "hey lets fuck" form of introduction. But, I'd say having read your posts, having met you a couple of times, I can't remember the time when I would have considered you guys newbies...lol... I remember (when I think about it) when you were... but damn that just seems so long ago!

[beaverz 18]

Newbies, who are you kidding, that’s like saying Mrs. Beaverz was a virgin when we started dating (which wasn’t a bad thing ).

 

You two may have entered another phase of swinging, but I wouldn’t have considered the Spoomonkeys as newbies.

 

I’m not sure what phase that would be (5 or 6), I’m not good with phases.

 

However congratulations on moving to the next level/ phase/stage/chapter (whatever its called)!!

[Guest Pinmonkey]

I'm not sure what the big deal is. Sometimes after a big night of drinking and love making, I'm not even sure what my name is. lol. j/k.

 

Good story Monkeyman.

[mrbandsatl 18]

Congrats on your fun night Spoo - great story. It also reminds me of why we like this lifestyle - it's just a hell of a lot of fun!

[JustAskJulie 2,595]

Hey at least you asked each other what their names were and not them. LOL. now, that could have been an awkward moment.

[cplnuswing 4,713]

I would say we stopped being newbies when we hit a level of total comfort...one of those know it when you feel it levels of comfort. That's not to say we have that same comfort with everyone now, but when you find a couple you really hit it off with and connect with, and for us that took a couple of play dates for that to totally evolve, then you're like "aaah, I get it now" and then that feeling becomes part of your overall swinging mindset.

[padoc 1,703]

This has happened to us more than once at a club (mostly TPA but once or twice at Trap). We'll meet and play with a couple and sometime the next day Mrs Doc will ask, "what were their names"? My response is often, "damned if I know. I think their screen name is ………". If I have the screen name right, I'll check SLS or SDC or when we lived in Pa, APG. If I find them, we'll send a thank you email with our first names. Invariably, we'll get a response with theirs so question answered. Please understand, we're not total sluts, we've been doing this since 2003 and its maybe happened 4-5 times over 14 years. The 1st time it happened we were embarrassed, now if it does, we're barely chagrined. We are definitely NOT newbies!!!