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The club we frequent became the topic of much discussion in the newspaper and on the news. City officials are trying to shut it down, and in general a bunch of holy-rollers are threatening to cause issues.

 

I am trying to decide if we should go or not? What would you do?

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I am trying to decide if we should go or not? What would you do?

You know, it's real easy for us to sit here, 500+ miles away, and say, "Hell yeah, you should go, and show those people what classy people swingers are!".

 

But, if it happened here to our club? I don't know. It would be a very tough decision for us. :(

 

We would want to go and "stand up for what we believe in". But, our one drawback is our careers. We can't afford to be outed. We both make good money doing what we do, and it would not be easy to find another job that could support our lifestyle (swinging and otherwise).

 

I know that's not the "cool" thing to do. I feel like a jackass for even thinking that way. But it's the dilemma we would face, and I don't know what the outcome would be. I would like to think we would stand up and fight the power, but if push came to shove, there would be some tough decisions to make.

 

I didn't help a damn bit did I? :o

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You have my same thoughts.... it would be nice to go and put ourselves out there in support of what we belive. Things have gotten really shakey lately. 2 clubs have closed and now our favorite club is under attack.

 

What is the deal? It has me somewhat troubled.

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Ideally I'd like to stand up for my rights. Realistically speaking, I wouldn't want to risk losing my job or hurting my children. I probably would not attend until the bad press cooled.

 

I'd write an anonymous letter of support for the club to the editor of my paper and give a monetary gift to the club owners to help pay for legal representation.

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That's a great idea Ves!

 

I will give them some money, and I have written a letter to the Newscaster that reported on the story and also to the editor. I have been watching the newspaper's discussion forum, too.

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northindycpl said:
Things have gotten really shakey lately. 2 clubs have closed and now our favorite club is under attack.

What is the deal? It has me somewhat troubled.

 

Indycpl..... DO NOT take this personal.

 

The problem is that the people that want the clubs gone are more than willing to stand up in public and say what they believe in.

 

Many people in the Lifestyle for their own reasons can not/will not do the same. That is why clubs all over the country are under fire right now and closing their doors. Your willingness to give money to the owner if they are willing to take on the legal battle is much more then many/most do so I can respect that.

 

Most all the clubs in AZ. ended up locking their doors for the same reason. The city made new laws and out of five clubs one stood and fought. Most of the members of the clubs ran for the closet but a few of them did chip in some money for the fight.

 

You can not blame city leaders for closing the clubs. They have people willing to stand up in front of them and say just how bad our clubs are, how bad us people that go to them are and only a couple of people standing on the other side letting them see we are just regular folk that like to get naked with our friends and have sex. :D

 

I am not pointing fingers anywhere here. I am just pointing out why the clubs are being closed down at a rapid pace these last couple of years.

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We're members of the club that is under attack. We haven't been going much lately, and have to admit that all of the publicity may influence our decision to go any time soon. We have the same concerns that others have mentioned. Kids, career, etc. The club is a couple of hours from us, and that may play a part in our decision as well. If it were local, we'd have to say that as much as we would like to stand up to the press, our incomes and the comforts associated with those wouldn't be worth risking. Nor would our childrens social life, or the potential hassle they may have to deal with. Sex can be found anywhere. The atmosphere at the club is great but everyone has to determine where their priorities fall, and the potential consequences involved, when they make decisions like this.

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After thinking about it for all of 5 minutes, I think I would go, I really do. (I don't know about J; I haven't asked her.) I'm not the kind of person who likes to be pushed around by a bunch of ignorant bigots. I don't think I would really get fired for it and since I'm leaving town for a much more liberal part of the country in six months anyway, I'd just collect the unemployment while I looked for a new job. If I don't stand up for my right to free association, who's going to?

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I hate the feeling that we are cowards for doing so, but if it were us - to be perfectly honest - we wouldn't go until things cooled down. Jobs. Kids. Family. Friends. We just want to do what we do and have the rest of the world just leave us alone about it if they can't get over it.

 

Lee, we all wish we could stand out front the way you do. Maybe it is possible, but we just have no desire to disrupt our lives to such a degree. Yeah, I feel like a coward, because we're not doing the right thing. But my conscience will have to take a backseat to my kids' needs for a 'normal' childhood. These supposedly holier-than-thou do-gooders are the very ones who would think nothing of smearing our photos all over the paper, branding us as freaks, and otherwise dragging us through the mud...all the while saying it's OUR fault that our children are scarred by the sudden exposure! That we are reaping what we have sown. And now thy children and thy children's children shall pay the price! Repent, Repent! Sorry if I'm hijacking the thread at all, but I just wanted to comment on these groups who target the 'sexually immoral'. It's the stupidest thing! It's like stealing someone's car to A) punish them for the sin of leaving their keys in the ignition and the doors unlocked, and B) to prove that leaving the keys in the ignition and the doors unlocked means that the car not only could be stolen, but should be stolen! And he or she is just the Holy Roller to do it.

 

I'll tell ya...if I didn't have kids or jobs to worry about, I'd make a point of showing up.

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intuition897 said:
I hate the feeling that we are cowards for doing so, but if it were us - to be perfectly honest - we wouldn't go until things cooled down. Jobs. Kids. Family. Friends. We just want to do what we do and have the rest of the world just leave us alone about it if they can't get over it.

 

Lee, we all wish we could stand out front the way you do. Maybe it is possible, but we just have no desire to disrupt our lives to such a degree. Yeah, I feel like a coward, because we're not doing the right thing. But my conscience will have to take a backseat to my kids' needs for a 'normal' childhood. These supposedly holier-than-thou do-gooders are the very ones who would think nothing of smearing our photos all over the paper, branding us as freaks, and otherwise dragging us through the mud...all the while saying it's OUR fault that our children are scarred by the sudden exposure! That we are reaping what we have sown. And now thy children and thy children's children shall pay the price! Repent, Repent! Sorry if I'm hijacking the thread at all, but I just wanted to comment on these groups who target the 'sexually immoral'. It's the stupidest thing! It's like stealing someone's car to A) punish them for the sin of leaving their keys in the ignition and the doors unlocked, and B) to prove that leaving the keys in the ignition and the doors unlocked means that the car not only could be stolen, but should be stolen! And he or she is just the Holy Roller to do it.

 

I'll tell ya...if I didn't have kids or jobs to worry about, I'd make a point of showing up.

Seems like there's always a group of people out there that think other people aren't smart enough to know what's good for themselves :mad: .They think they're the only ones right, everyone else is wrong (if you don't believe as they do), & they're gonna show you just how right & moral they are. I believe people like this have absolutely nothing else going on in there own lives, it's boring as hell, so they gotta do something to give their lives meaning. Of all the fine moral folk you see out in front of these clubs protesting, I wonder how many of them have cheated on their spouse? Or have daughters that got pregnant in their teens & had a week or 2 absence from school due to some personal & private health reasons that we dare not speak about? We have the same children / career / family issues that would keep us away until they found some other group to fuck with, but this type of shit's always frosted my balls. Anyway, we'd probably end up going elsewhere 'til the heat was off. So sad :( .

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intuition897,

 

Your not a coward, you are normal. (don't anyone ever call me that :lol: )

 

Many people feel they can not go public for their own reasons. Just the way life is.

 

Now as far as you being a freak, I sure hope so or why are you here? :D

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I hate the feeling that we are cowards for doing so, but if it were us - to be perfectly honest - we wouldn't go until things cooled down. Jobs. Kids. Family. Friends. We just want to do what we do and have the rest of the world just leave us alone about it if they can't get over it.

 

Lee, we all wish we could stand out front the way you do. Maybe it is possible, but we just have no desire to disrupt our lives to such a degree. Yeah, I feel like a coward, because we're not doing the right thing. But my conscience will have to take a backseat to my kids' needs for a 'normal' childhood. These supposedly holier-than-thou do-gooders are the very ones who would think nothing of smearing our photos all over the paper, branding us as freaks, and otherwise dragging us through the mud...all the while saying it's OUR fault that our children are scarred by the sudden exposure! That we are reaping what we have sown. And now thy children and thy children's children shall pay the price! Repent, Repent! Sorry if I'm hijacking the thread at all, but I just wanted to comment on these groups who target the 'sexually immoral'. It's the stupidest thing! It's like stealing someone's car to A) punish them for the sin of leaving their keys in the ignition and the doors unlocked, and B) to prove that leaving the keys in the ignition and the doors unlocked means that the car not only could be stolen, but should be stolen! And he or she is just the Holy Roller to do it.

 

I'll tell ya...if I didn't have kids or jobs to worry about, I'd make a point of showing up.

 

 

I was reading through the posts and when I got to Intuition's I just stopped reading further. (I'll keep reading though!)

 

Once again she has hit a home run (sorry for the Americanism, Intuition. :kissface: ) with her comments. ALL of us would like to stand up face to face with these fanatics. I definitely wish we could be more fanatical...but when you are about 2% of the total population, it's best to think twice. If it came down to me admitting I was a swinger and keeping my job in a private setting, I would probably admit to it and say the hell with everyone. My place of work has people who are in homosexual relationships working for them. There are homosexuals who have multiple partners just like swingers do. Are there lives invaded and subjected to public scrutiny? Not like a swinger's would be....

 

I am proud that there are folks like Vegas Lee who espouse our rights even if we can't be there arm and arm with him.

 

The public just doesn't understand...understand?

 

Male D

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I think that I would go...I can't speak for James, but I'd be there. To show my support for my lifestyle choice and the owners too. We are "out" to everyone that matters in our lives, and we really don't live in a small town where something like that would really matter. I'm like Brad - I can't stand having someone tell me what I can and can't do. Sorry NIC - I know I'm not much help here, just my 2 cents.

 

Jenn

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Welcome to the nanny police... :mad:

 

I am not sure about me...if I lived in say a big city I would most likely go...but since I am in a small town..I would have to say no sadly..I would be writing letters and support daily though...

 

Lately religion has sneaked into the email list of our club...i.e. the preaching started.

 

I suggested it be carried off the e-mail list.

 

You would not believe the way the one preaching reacted. :nono:

 

Exactly my reason for wanting it off the list.

 

The very mention of someone not believing as he did...well....the spit started flying.

 

It is making us seriously second guess going back to the club, since no one but one would stand up and voice her 2 cents worth with me.

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I definitely wish we could be more fanatical...but when you are about 2% of the total population, it's best to think twice.

 

Male D

 

Yup. Everyone loves the underdog...except, of course, for when the underdog stands for something that 98% of the North American populace has taken for granted all their lives as something that is just...wrong!

 

It's wierd. You know what they say about crazy people, don't you? That crazy people think everyone else is nuts? :lol: But although we are the vast minority, we're definitely not alone in our delusions. So we've pretty much joined the ranks of other conspiracy theorists that favour the existence of UFOs, little grey aliens, ghosts, and other supernatural phenomena. They swear they've been abducted and have the red, swollen asshole to prove it (probes, dontchaknow :D ) but no one believes them. So they find themselves a nice support group...oh, I don't know, maybe a message board somewhere ;) ...of like minded individuals who have photos of their own probe-reddened butts for comparison.

 

In conclusion, to borrow a phrase from Eddie Murphy, "If [swinging] is wrong-ah, ah don't wanna be right!"

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So they find themselves a nice support group...oh, I don't know, maybe a message board somewhere ;) ...of like minded individuals who have photos of their own probe-reddened butts for comparison.

 

Um, were we supposed to send in photos of our butts? I didn't see that in the FAQ...

 

:D

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Um, were we supposed to send in photos of our butts? I didn't see that in the FAQ...

 

:D

 

:lol: Sure you are! You didn't see that thread? ;) For crying out loud, I've got a picture of my own ass as my AVATAR! Of course you HAVE to!

 

 

Disclaimer: Sarcasm and/or smartass remarks may be less obvious than the poster intended. Viewer discretion is advised. :kissface:

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intuition897 said:
:lol: Sure you are! You didn't see that thread? ;) For crying out loud, I've got a picture of my own ass as my AVATAR! Of course you HAVE to!

:lol:

 

intuition897 said:

Disclaimer: Sarcasm and/or smartass remarks may be less obvious than the poster intended. Viewer discretion is advised. :kissface:

Not only is sarcasm quickly recognized in this house, it's highly appreciated! ;)

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intuition897 said:
...I've got a picture of my own ass as my AVATAR! Of course you HAVE to!

 

We're more topside at the moment...helps keep the lower forty-eight afloat, ya know? Gawd though...what a nice ass!

 

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It's a tough position you're in Ms Indy. Personally, Tammy would want no part of going to the club while the Holier Than Thou Do-Gooders are protesting outside. Me......fuck 'em, I'd go just to show my support But keep in mind, I'm in construction and make my living playing in the dirt.....not the most glamorous or high profile job :lol: I couldn't give a rats' ass what others would think of me :rolleyes: What ever happened to "Life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness"? :mad:

 

Donating money for the legal defense sounds like a great idea too.

 

Good luck in keeping the club open :kissface:

 

Brett (and Tammy)

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We'd go. If we were outed and friends found out, well o.k. we're swingers, that's what we are, if you can't handle it, well then, maybe the friendship isn't worth all that much anyway. Same with family, same with jobs. If our place of employments want to get rid of us for doing something that is not unlawful and has nothing to do with the job we do, well than we'll be glad to spend money on law suits against them if necessary. If we roll over and let these people take away our freedoms, we won't have any left and we'll have no one else to blame but ourselves.

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I read a local news article on the club and it really doesn't sound that bad. Plus there's a link at the bottom of the page where people can post their thoughts. 90% of the comments made from non swingers and swingers are written with intelligence and do not say anything bad about the club or the people going to it. Even most of those that disagree with swinging have been fairly positive in their comments. Most say leave them alone, and pay attention to crime and real social issues. Somewhat surprising and enlightening to read.

 

Also, Nice job by Northindycpl in presenting things from a swingers point of view. Very fact filled, articulate, and non-judgemental rebuttal from them.

 

We have a potential playdate this weekend, but maybe we'll head south next weekend after all. Sounds like the witch hunt will be short lived, if it even gets very far off the ground at all.

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jcbicouple said:

Also, Nice job by Northindycpl in presenting things from a swingers point of view. Very fact filled, articulate, and non-judgemental rebuttal from them.

 

Yup... It even made the Limbaugh hour and Inside Edition.

 

Thanks for the kind words of encouragement.

 

Hope to see you there!

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Northindycpl,

 

I read the complete thread. Very, very good job you did there. My hat is off to you for the way you handled the whole thing.

 

That "red" lady was kind of entertaining. You might suggest a link to a good online pharmacy, I do believe she is short on her pills. :lol:

 

Once again, great job. We need more like you that can handle theirself in a public non-swinger forum.

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Northindycpl,

 

That "red" lady was kind of entertaining. You might suggest a link to a good online pharmacy, I do believe she is short on her pills. :lol:

 

 

Aw thanks :kissface:

 

Red Rose is really something isn't she! She has really kept me entertained between the PM's and her thread posts. I think I see a lobotomy in her future :lol:

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I, too, read thru the entire Star post thread and agree with VegasLee......you represented yourself (and us swingers too) very well :claps: Keep up the good work Ms Indy.

 

Brett (and Tammy)

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Wow, I just spent forever reading the entire thread from the SP and holy cow!!! I am so glad to see that there were a diverse group of opinions on this topic...good, bad or indifferent. Funny how some choose not to see things from others points of view...However I would just like to say to Mrs. Indy; you did a fantastic job portraying your views in a non threatening manner and without making it sound like "recruiting"! I too would have HAD to mention the spell check, however!!! (Poor RedRose!) It was getting a little out of control and quite annoying.(I know it had nothing to do with the topic and does not indicate ignorance...just an opinion! lol ) Also I think it should be pointed out that most of those people who posted to the thread were extremely tolerant of this lifestyle (actually a surprising number, I thought ) with the "live and let live" attitude that I was personally raised with. There is hope yet for some of the "verticals"!!!! Again, babbling and off topic, sorry! You did a great job and if I could have added more to the thread that would have been beneficial, I definitely would have but you seemed to have it covered!!!! Thank you for standing up and congratulations to you for being a strong enough person to do so!!! Good luck and I hope all works out well for your club!!

~Mrs.Curiousduo30

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Thanks for all of your well wishes guys, It means the world to me and I am certain it will to the owners of the club as well.

 

 

Hi there Northindycpl,

 

Thanks for the "you guys rock!!" on that forum, but really it was our pleasure.

 

Good luck to ya' :kissface:

 

xoxoxo C

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Mr. & Mrs. Indy, you guys did a great job representing swingers!

 

I had to post there too, and I don't even live anywhere near there. Don't know if anyone's noticed or not, but I can't seem to resist taking the bait when someone dangles it in front of me. :hahaha:

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I am a member of the Klub... and have to agree that NIC did a wonderful job representing us! :claps:

 

I am going to be at the Klub both nights this week showing my support. My kids (except for my 12 year old) know I go and so do my parents. Anyone else can just bite me! lol.

 

I love the owners and members and won't let the holy rollers and curiosity seekers keep me from my weekend getaway. :nono:

 

I do understand NIC's dilemma. I sympathize. I will miss them this weekend, as they are an awesome couple! :kissface:

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Sorry I had to reply to this one, we are Laura and Bob the owners of this so called world famous club that is the talk of every town world wide, the only problem we have is the story only speaks of half truths!!!

 

1. It did use to be part of a school, they tore the school down, all we have is the gym, stage, kitchen and locker rooms.

 

2. The city is not trying to shut us down, if anyone watched the 6 o'clock news on channel 6 in our area, would have seen the interview they did with the building commissioners, and would have seen them state that we are zoned correct for a private club.

 

3. They would have seen the interview with the police, saying we are legal.

 

4. We were not cited by the city.

 

5. Yes the religious leaders did vow to shut us down, but it is not up to them, they cannot shut us down because they do not like what we do.

 

We had to clear up some of what was being said, and yes we are going to stay open, this is our home away from home.

 

The really funny thing is, people are bashing the paper that did the article, it was not news worthy, how foolish do they look..... :o:eek:

 

We are thankful for the free advertisement.... :kissface:

 

Laura and Bob

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phynexes2 said:
Sorry I had to reply to this one, we are Laura and Bob the owners of this so called world famous club that is the talk of every town world wide, the only problem we have is the story only speaks of half truths!!!

 

Laura and Bob

 

I am so glad you are here! I am so glad you posted!

 

Love to you both!

 

-Mrs. Indy :kissface:

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phynexes2 said:
Sorry I had to reply to this one, we are Laura and Bob the owners of this so called world famous club that is the talk of every town world wide: ...........................We are thankful for the free advertisement.... :kissface:

Laura and Bob

First of all, Welcome to the "kinda world famous" Swingersboard!

 

Like a lot of others on here, I read the story, and the forum thread. I was pleasantly surprised at the reaction of most of the posts. :)

Of course there were those posts that were neither pleasant or a surprise. Thankfully, they were limited to only a couple folks.

 

I guess you know what an incredible advocate you have in NorthIndyCouple. :)

 

Hey, you guys stick around and join in on all the forums. It's always great to hear opinions and thoughts from club owners!

 

The best of luck to you guys while dealing with this!

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Welcome phynexes2!! Great to have celebrities on the board.. lol

 

Seriously, as two4u said, it's great to have club owners here to voice their opinions and discuss their experiences. We do hope you stick around.

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Always a pleasure to have new members who are really "in-the-know"!

 

Hearty welcome and we wish you the best.

 

I was in an adult movie theater around 1981 in a large east bay city. One of the last big screens. During the intermission a guy stood up in the back of the theater and started to quote scripture, etc., etc. There was a bible store very nearby. There was a movement. The theater owners decided that the heat was too much and now the place is a giant bible store. What a loss.

 

Hang in there. Things will die down if you stand up to them.

 

Male D

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Welcome Laura and Bob! So glad you are here! You cleared that up quite nicely. If anyone would know... it's you!

 

As I've stated... I have NO qualms about coming out this weekend! :D I love you guys and I love the Klub! Hell, I'm even playing "Russian Roulette" with Sarah and the twins to come! LOL. I hope she waits now till next week to have them!

 

I know plenty will be there to show their support as well. Any of you from here that are close to Muncie... come on out!! :kissface: You'll love it! Best hosts... Best Klub!

 

NIC... hope to see you there at least for a bit.

 

Love ya's,

 

Krystal

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phynexes2 said:

2. The city is not trying to shut us down, if anyone watched the 6 o'clock news on channel 6 in our area, would have seen the interview they did with the building commissioners, and would have seen them state that we are zoned correct for a private club.

 

3. They would have seen the interview with the police, saying we are legal.

 

4. We were not cited by the city.

 

Laura and Bob

 

I really wanted to emphasize that, as Laura said, the city has had no complaint with the club.

 

Laura and Bob have always provided their members with the absolute best club they can. It is impeccably clean, safe and well run.

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Anyone recall the televangelist scandals of Jim Bakker, Jimmy Swaggart? Apparently they liked swinging, too - they just didn't tell their wives and supporters about it.

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I'd love to confront any protesters. Grab their sign and bash them over head with it. I remember years ago, going to a regular club in Pensacola Fl, there religious nuts out there protesting. Calling us sinners, repent, etc. My date had to restrain me from confronting them. Makes me so angry.

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Wow,

 

I just read the entire Swing Club in Muncie thread on the Muncie StarPress Forum. That was entertaining, why can’t they get the Presidential Debates that entertaining?

 

I was impressed with the number of posters that didn’t necessarily agree with swinging, but was on the side of the club and those that practices the lifestyle. That is a good sign on how swinging is becoming a little more accepted with the general public.

 

It was obvious that the ones that condemned the club and the lifestyle had some issues.

 

Here’s a quote:

 

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This swinger club...is sick. I believe you sharing is great but not your partners. That is not love and I believe it should be shut down burnt and those individuals involved should lose their children. They don't deserve children....raise them kids to screw all types...maybe they will all get AIDS and die but first they have to spread it around real good so it will end u p killing a bunch of innocent people sick perverts they should rot in the gates of hell and it should never have been put in the paper they dont deserve the attention they got.

It’s sad that there are those out there with so much hate and wish ill well on others.

 

Northindycouple and intuition897 you both did a great job of supporting the club as will as representing the Swinging Lifestyle. I thought you both were excellent explaining swinging and explaining that most swingers are not sick deviant people (I said most, there are a few on this board I would question, but I will save that for the Random Attack thread). Over all I think the thread was very educational to those that were not familiar with swingers.

 

Who knows you may have gotten a few interested in the lifestyle. Maybe you should invite Redshoes or Redrose (what ever her name was) to this forum for a better understanding of the swinging lifestyle, then again maybe not.

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I read that thread too, I couldn't believe all the gossip about that poor woman's personal life. It seemed that a lot of people on that thread knew about each other. I guess that's small town talk in the 21st century. Instead of going to the town grocery to gossip. They do it on small town internet forums.

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First post , but had to chime in and agree with everyone. MrsIndy HUGE props to you for staying unemotional, intelligent and sane!! Some of the things posted had my blood pressure boiling. Your calm, matter of fact replies just showed certain posters level of intelligence.

 

I believe overall, even non lifestyle people understand, this is a moral issue, not a legal one.

 

There is a club in Ft Lauderdale that went thru a nightmare raid, people had their names published, lost jobs , etc. The backlash was so harsh AGAINST the police and the raid, from the general public, all charges were dropped.

 

Best wishes to KlubLayden!!

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      They shook hands, introduced themselves and we all decided to find the area with beds and more privacy (so to speak). We found a room downstairs that was only enclosed by a curtain. She told me to go and get condoms so she can get to know the guy for a few minutes. When I came back, they were just talking, slowly, she walked up to me and started kissing me. Once I let go, I gestured to the guy to go ahead; he quickly moved in on her. They started making out, he started kissing her all over the place, slowly, she dropped backwards on bed and pulled him on top of herself. 
       
      He lowered her dress and started sucking her big tits. She asked me to join in. We each had a tit in our mouth and we were both fingering her pussy at the same time. Slowly, I moved down and started eating her pussy. She is always fully waxed like a porn star. As soon as I stopped eating her pussy as she came, he went down and started eating it. Slowly, I moved back up and she took my dick in her mouth. 
       
      To our surprise, a crowd gathered and four other men wanted to fuck her. She shook her head but they all watched her get pounded. 
       
      The guy that went in there with us, quickly got naked and tugged at her red thong. She took it off and handed it to me. This whole time, she was playing with my dick, it's about 5.5". The guy was much larger, about 7". She looked at it and winked at me. She told him she likes it rough.
       
      He had it fully up and moved close to her pussy. She stared into my eyes, grabbed his dick and guided it to rub her pussy. He took his clue and shoved it in. She reminded him to not be gentle. He obliged and fucked her like a whore. She begged for more by saying, "Oh yeah, fuck me, fuck me hard...look babe, he is fucking me so good, he is so big, look, he is fucking your wife right in front of you....oh yeah, fuck me." About four other guys and a couple were now watching her get fucked. I asked her if I should tell them to leave, she said no, she likes it. She slowly turned to them so they can get the full view of a dick in her pussy while she was playing with mine. 
       
      Once the guy got done, she said, "Okay honey, this was awesome," and kissed me multiple times thanking me for a great experience. She said she wanted to stay for a few before we walked out. She wanted to walk around and be noticed as the woman who had just been fucked, since rest of the crowd was just hanging out.
       
      We cannot wait to do it again.  
       
    • By Wendans
      My fantasy has always been to watch my wife get fucked by another man. We have been with another woman before which is a whole story in itself that I’ll tell you about later.
       
      One night several years ago my wife and I had gone to a club. Not your ordinary club, but a good club for swingers and singles. The night had started out rather slow and we were not finding any action that I had hoped. My wife knows what she wants and that is what we go with. And that night we found what she wanted and it was such a great experience she knew she wanted to do it again. She had gotten fucked by a black guy and she had enjoyed it. So, when we got the chance, she wanted to try it again.
       
      Being at a swinger’s club isn’t really her thing, but fucking in front of people or listening to them fuck is a big turn-on for her. Since we don’t live close to any swingers’ clubs or anything of that nature, we don’t get many opportunities to do anything like this.
       
      A couple of years ago we got a chance to go to another club. Yes, one of those clubs. We were looking for a little fun and hoping to find something as good as the last time we were out. We talked to many people as the night went on and my wife was trying to figure out what we were going to be doing to have fun that night. There was a hot blonde that was interested in us and kept on grabbing my cock which my wife was loving because this was getting her going. My wife and I decided that this was not what we had in mind for tonight, so we just kind of let that slide and we went on to pursue something else. She said she would know it when she saw it.
       
      My wife had put a couple of drinks down and was feeling pretty good now. She was a little more daring and said she wanted to go change outfits like she did when we had been to a club previously. We had brought the very same sexy outfit that was see through, so she went and changed into it. When she came back out, there was not one guy's eyes on anyone but her. Even the women were looking on in awe. She is a beautiful woman that knows how to control a room.
       
      One guy came up to me and told me he was jealous. He said he would do anything to get to fuck my wife, but she just didn’t feel right with him, I guess. As we were standing around, in came this well-built younger black guy and I think she almost came right there. The look on her face was almost mind blowing. She got this horny grin and told me she was ready to start our night. As he walked by her, she gave him this dirty smile and took her hand and rubbed down by her cunt. He stopped walking and came over to her and asked if he could help her with anything. She just smiled and said that I think you already know what you can do. They danced around a little bit, but I could tell she couldn’t take it anymore, so she quickly unzipped his pants and took out his cock and grabbed it and lead him into another room like a dog on a leash.
       
      I stayed back a couple of minutes to give them some time to get to know each other. When I did finally get to the other room, they had already undressed and she was sucking his cock. It was larger than mine. Not much longer, but thicker. I could tell she liked it.
       
      My wife had picked a room where people would be able to watch if they wanted to. I stayed back in the wings and was kind of hidden so she really didn’t know I was even there.  As I watched my wife in action, I could tell she was enjoying every second of this guy’s cock. She was sucking it like there was no tomorrow.
       
      Now it was his turn to return the favor. He got his face down to her pussy and started licking like it was candy. She was turning red and I could tell she was already about to cum. She was squirming and shaking and he was getting her cunt all ready for his big shaft. But before he fucked her, he now spread her legs out and started fingering her pussy to the point that she started squirting fluids all over the sheet they were laying on. It was like the flood gates had opened up and all the juices were flowing.
       
      She finally had all she could take because I’m sure she had cum multiple times already and I could tell she just wanted to have him inside her. I heard her say to give me your big, black cock. He asked her if she wanted him to put on a condom and she told him no, she wanted to feel him inside her cunt.
       
      He took her and spread her legs wide and slowly inserted his bbc into her tight cunt. She told him to go slowly because she said it was so big that she needed to get used to it. After several minutes of the slow movement, she said she needed him to fuck her harder so he started to go full penetration into her dripping wet cunt. She was telling him how good his cock felt, and how she loved fucking him.
       
      They switched positions multiple times with her sitting on top of his cock and riding him like she has never ridden before. My wife took his whole cock inside of her as deeply as she could, rubbing back and forth and cumming time and time again.
       
      They finally switched back to missionary style and were fucking hard when I heard her say to him, she wanted him to cum in her pussy. She said she wanted to feel his cum drip out of her pussy all night long. When he heard her say that, he started to pick up the pace and finally started moaning and said he was about to cum. My wife was now cumming herself and as he shot his load inside of her, she started squirming and shaking with every pulse of his exploding cock. Her body was red from all of her orgasms, and I could tell she was getting worn out. They had gone for almost 40 minutes of nonstop action. Not to mention that all the other people that had gathered around to watch started going to other parts of the place as they had gotten a show that they would remember forever.
       
      When he pulled his now soft cock out of my wife, I could see the cum dripping down her ass. She was getting what she wanted, I guess. She would be able to feel his cum dripping out of her the rest of the night. But I didn’t realize that she was not done yet. She wanted more. My wife took his cock and started sucking on it again. I guess he was young enough that almost instantly he got hard and she took his cock and guided it into her cunt and said she needed more of his cum. He fucked her for another 10 minutes until he exploded with more cum inside my wife’s pussy again. Again, as I watched the cum drip down her ass, she was getting what she wanted. She was going to feel this the rest of the night.
       
      They both started cleaning up a little and I slowly came out of the crowd that had gathered. She saw me and gave me that dirty little smile she sometimes gets. My wife asked me if I had enjoyed her show. She said she needed to have a little more cum in her pussy tonight and she now wanted mine. Her new little friend just kind of sat back in the corner and decided to watch us.
       
      I knew I wouldn’t last long because I had almost cum multiple times just watching her. With some of the crowd still watching I got undressed, and slid my wet with pre-cum cock into my wife’s cum-loaded pussy. I fucked her until she started cumming. Her cunt convulsed so hard that it squeezed my cock and made me start to cum. I came in her pussy, mixing my cum with my wife’s new fuck buddies cum. I pulled my cock out and watched it all slowly slide down her ass. She got up and went over to our young fuck buddy and she gave him a long passionate kiss and said thank you for such a great time. He gave her one last little finger fucking and handed her a card of his if we were ever in the area again.
       
      He left after he got dressed and we got cleaned up and went out to the main room. I had multiple people including women and even the bartender say that my wife was one of the women they would like to fuck if they ever got a chance after seeing her in action. I guess I’m the lucky one here.
       
      Later that night when we were driving to our resort, she slipped her hand down pants and put her fingers in her pussy. She brought them out and rubbed them on my face. She smiled and said we gotta do this again sometime as we pulled into the parking lot to call it a night.
       
      And what a night it was.
    • By SPaige24
      My husband and I have been together for almost 10 years. I have always been bi- curious, but kept it as secret until the last month. Little did I know that he had a small feeling (thanks to a few drunk nights with my friend). Our marriage is very strong, and we are very opened with each other. I told him that I wanted to have a have sexual encounter with another female. He is on board, and we even talked about a MFM threesome as well.
       
      Here is my issue... How do I find someone? That friend is no longer a friend, I can't do dating apps because of my job, and I personally don't want someone we know. I have looked into Swinger Clubs, and I realize that finding a bisexual/lesbian female who is single is hard. We are opened to a couple if need be. I just want my husband there and or involved.
       
      My question is... What is it like going to a swingers club? Will there be people our age (27-30), are "predators" real, and how do I find a club? We are located in Washington, PA.
    • By AdamGunn2
      It was a fairly typical night at D.J.s Island, an early autumn evening. Mary and I hadn’t set anything up in advance, we’d decided to go almost at the last moment. From the second we entered the door our radar was beaming across the club, searching for a couple that might be searching for what we were also interested in - an enjoyable tryst.
       
      Mary took a few minutes to change into what she called a ‘trolling outfit.’ As I remember, that night it was a black babydoll with a loose bodice, thong, low heels. Many men admired her legs as I checked the forty or so women, many as scantily clad as my wife. None of our regular playmates seemed to be in attendance that evening, but we had our customs, we weren’t concerned. Perhaps an hour and a half later, I sat at a table next to the dance floor, Mary was on her feet, on the parquet, moving her body, seeing if anyone would move in. A slow sequence of men approached her, danced with her. Some would take liberties such as moving their hands under her garment, feeling the small of her back, perhaps place their palm on the roundness of her ass.
       
      I’d seen this many times before, I waited for one of two reactions.
       
      The first was that she’d spin away from the man; it signified she wasn’t interested in what he had to offer.
       
      The second was that she’d get closer, I’d watch her whisper in his ear. I knew the question, “Where’s your wife?” Some of them would shake their heads, they were attending as one of the few single men the club allowed, and when they received Mary’s response, they’d move away - that’s not what we were looking for at the moment.
       
      But the man might indicate where his wife was dancing a few feet away. When this kind of thing happened, Mary would glance to me and give our special signal - she’d put one hand on the back of her head, one on her stomach. When I got the cue, I’d come out, we’d dance as a foursome.
       
      As I approached, a man grasped the elbow of a tall attractive lady who was more modestly dressed, at least for the club. There was no conversation on the dance floor, the heavy volume of music and the thumping of the bass wouldn’t allow for speech. But I could tell the woman was interested in me, the four of us paired off and I often found myself facing this vixen. It was obvious they were as interested in us as I was in them, I could tell by the way Mary was rubbing against the man that she felt the same.
       
      After a couple of songs, Mary led the way off the floor, holding his hand, leading us off into a corner away from the speakers. As we sat, the man said, “I’m Ed, this is my wife, Marilyn.”
       
      Marilyn and I softly shook hands, I believe she raised the hem of her skirt to give me a view of her upper thighs. Ed had no problem seeing Mary’s legs, or where they met - she was sitting so that the babydoll was gathered to her side, leaning forward so her globes were exposed to his view.
       
      “Do you come here often?” Ed asked.
       
      “Every few weeks,” I responded, “you?”
       
      “This is our first time here.” Mary gave him a look that asked for further info. “We’re just starting this,” he admitted.
       
      Marilyn picked it up. “We’ve only had one time with a couple of friends. We liked it, heard about this place, decided to see if we could get into more trouble.”
       
      “Trouble’s our middle name,” I joked.
       
      Our conversation continued, where do you live, what movies have you seen lately, etc. It was a screen, of course, we were all calculating if the four of us would be pleasurable bedmates. I paid my attention to Marilyn, my wife had told me numerous times not to worry about her, she can take care of herself. My hand found Marilyn’s knee, she smiled at me, encouraged me to reach a tad higher. We bent towards each other, our mouths met.
       
      Marilyn opened her lips to me, the kiss was ardent, her mouth moist. She licked at my upper lip, her hand fondled the back of my neck. Our tongues clashed, promising cupidity, mimicking what I presumed our bodies might be doing in a few scant moments.
       
      We broke for a moment, Marilyn invited, “Would you guys want to go to one of the rooms?”
       
      I, of course, was all for it, but then I heard Mary. “Uh, not right now. But thanks.”
       
      We’ve always had the guideline that if one person doesn’t want to do something, she speaks for both of us. Regretfully, I pecked at Marilyn’s lips a last time, we stood, went separate ways.
       
      “You’re not upset, are you?” Mary asked me.
       
      “Of course not, not at all. You’re not in the mood?”
       
      “Oh, I’m in the mood all right, just not with Ed.”
       
      “Something wrong with him?” I asked.
       
      “I tried to get him interested,” Mary revealed, “but his kiss was a little cold, indifferent. I put my hand on his leg, he was too busy watching you and Marilyn, he never responded. My guess is that if we went into a room, he’d be watching you two, I’m not even sure he’d get hard for me.” It was a reasonable thought, it had happened to us a couple times before. “Hope you don’t mind, bet she’d have been a firecracker.”
       
      “Maybe. But you’re a firecracker too.”
       
      We headed back to the dance floor, in search of another couple.
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